Sex Therapists in Loma Linda, CA

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Caroline Daravi
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Loma Linda, CA 92354
I have special interest in couple's therapy, which often includes sex therapy.
"Out beyond ideas of wrong doing and right doing there is a field. I'll meet you there." Rumi. The heart of my work is to assist you to live an emotionally authentic life in relationship to yourself and others. In the process of discovering your true self you will learn how certain emotions, behaviors and beliefs have affected your life and your relationships and you will become empowered to make important changes. My style is warm, and non-judgmental at the same time I am direct and confrontive.
I have special interest in couple's therapy, which often includes sex therapy.
"Out beyond ideas of wrong doing and right doing there is a field. I'll meet you there." Rumi. The heart of my work is to assist you to live an emotionally authentic life in relationship to yourself and others. In the process of discovering your true self you will learn how certain emotions, behaviors and beliefs have affected your life and your relationships and you will become empowered to make important changes. My style is warm, and non-judgmental at the same time I am direct and confrontive.
(909) 265-4906 View (909) 265-4906
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Dr. Thomas Luttrell
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, LCMFT
Verified Verified
Loma Linda, CA 92354
Tired of the status quo? Stuck in a rut in your relationships, wellness, business, intimacy, or spirituality? I help align all parts of your life with your true authentic self. Together, we’ll secure genuine change through acceptance first. I'm Dr. Tom, and I'm licensed for independent practice as a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist in California (LMFT 111604), the District of Columbia (LMFT200001211), and Maryland (LCMFT, LCM754), and am a professional coach across the U.S. I have provided therapy to individuals and families since 2007. I'm also happily married for over 15 years, and we have 2 young boys.
Tired of the status quo? Stuck in a rut in your relationships, wellness, business, intimacy, or spirituality? I help align all parts of your life with your true authentic self. Together, we’ll secure genuine change through acceptance first. I'm Dr. Tom, and I'm licensed for independent practice as a Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist in California (LMFT 111604), the District of Columbia (LMFT200001211), and Maryland (LCMFT, LCM754), and am a professional coach across the U.S. I have provided therapy to individuals and families since 2007. I'm also happily married for over 15 years, and we have 2 young boys.
(301) 945-7549 View (301) 945-7549
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Kisha Bashkiharatee
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, PhD, LPCC
Verified Verified
Loma Linda, CA 92354  (Online Only)
Sometimes in life it feels like we are heading to a destination, but we don’t have the whole road map. It can be scary, confusing, and lonely. I want to support individuals in finding the tools to help navigate, redirect, and reorient their lives. I approach mental health like it is physical health. We go to doctors when something is wrong, but we also go for wellness checks and do preventative care. Therapy should be no different. Do most people come to therapy when there is a problem? Sure. But I can help to show you ways to manage your mental health and check in regularly.
Sometimes in life it feels like we are heading to a destination, but we don’t have the whole road map. It can be scary, confusing, and lonely. I want to support individuals in finding the tools to help navigate, redirect, and reorient their lives. I approach mental health like it is physical health. We go to doctors when something is wrong, but we also go for wellness checks and do preventative care. Therapy should be no different. Do most people come to therapy when there is a problem? Sure. But I can help to show you ways to manage your mental health and check in regularly.
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Julie Estrella
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Loma Linda, CA 92354
Talk therapy isn't enough and you're having a tough time containing your feelings, thoughts, urges and physical sensations. It’s spilling out into your personal and professional relationships and moving you further away from the life you imagined. Panic, grief and shame have you holding back, making it impossible to risk or rest. You are willing to work, just don't know where to start. You're realizing you need experienced support to not only heal and accept your tender parts, but also real tools you can put into action to self-regulate, transform and be able to grow through this! You want to get better and you will.
Talk therapy isn't enough and you're having a tough time containing your feelings, thoughts, urges and physical sensations. It’s spilling out into your personal and professional relationships and moving you further away from the life you imagined. Panic, grief and shame have you holding back, making it impossible to risk or rest. You are willing to work, just don't know where to start. You're realizing you need experienced support to not only heal and accept your tender parts, but also real tools you can put into action to self-regulate, transform and be able to grow through this! You want to get better and you will.
(909) 546-4236 View (909) 546-4236

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Sex Addiction Sexual Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS , JSOC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
San Bernardino, CA 92410
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships.
(213) 319-5604 View (213) 319-5604
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Sexual Addiction Sex Misbehavior Infidelity Expert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, SOTS
Verified Verified
San Bernardino, CA 92408
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships.
My clients are high functioning successful men accustomed to superior services who want to stop the sexual addiction, infidelity / cheating , and paid sex behaviors.
I will help you protect the life you love from self destructive choices. Sexual addiction elite level expert 27 years + 45k hours sexual misbehavior specialist psychotherapy provided, Together we will use evidence based research oriented methods on your Infidelity / Cheating /Affairs, Prostitution Use, Seeking Arrangements, Sugar Daddy, Strip Clubs, Massage Parlors, Certified Specialist. I created government funded sexual misbehavior programs utilizing highly effective clinical models and now you and I will use the most up to date understandings to have you change your thinking, end these behaviors, and heal your relationships.
(562) 600-4018 View (562) 600-4018
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Scott Altamirano
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92506  (Online Only)
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
(707) 505-8736 View (707) 505-8736
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Scott D Altamirano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92506  (Online Only)
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
(661) 449-2936 View (661) 449-2936
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Collaborative Psychology Group, APC
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Riverside, CA 92507
Not accepting new clients
In addition to providing therapy, I supervise doctorate Interns for the County of Riverside and I teach the following doctorate level courses; Sex Therapy, Advanced Psychopathology, Human Developement, Alternative Family Therapy, and Ethics.
The core of my work is to help people operate from the best in themselves as an individual and in relationship with others. My work helps individuals develop a state of balance by increasing ones true, solid sense of self and the ability to take care of self while working through difficulties that life throws at you. Key tools in accomplishing this is by helping individuals self confront and self validate and stay true to ones' integrity.
In addition to providing therapy, I supervise doctorate Interns for the County of Riverside and I teach the following doctorate level courses; Sex Therapy, Advanced Psychopathology, Human Developement, Alternative Family Therapy, and Ethics.
The core of my work is to help people operate from the best in themselves as an individual and in relationship with others. My work helps individuals develop a state of balance by increasing ones true, solid sense of self and the ability to take care of self while working through difficulties that life throws at you. Key tools in accomplishing this is by helping individuals self confront and self validate and stay true to ones' integrity.
(951) 878-0665 View (951) 878-0665
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Scott D Altamirano
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92506  (Online Only)
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
(512) 641-9596 View (512) 641-9596
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Scott Altamirano
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92506  (Online Only)
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
To me, a large part of therapy is about grieving, acceptance, and peace within ourselves and others; I am particularly good at helping people get in touch with their feelings. I tend to work with the heavier side of therapy, that include drug/ alcohol /cannabis addiction, domestic violence, narcissism, borderline, sex/porn addiction, sex offense, sexual shame, couples working through sobriety-recovery dynamics, infidelity, poly relationships, court, and anger management. I tend to work really well with those who enjoy dark humor, who are avoidant by nature, and those who are seeking redemption from guilt/shame.
(619) 824-1786 View (619) 824-1786
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Truevolution Inc.
Marriage & Family Therapist, ASW, LCSW, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92501
Not accepting new clients
TruEvolution’s Behavioral Health team offers individual, couples, family, and group therapy to support your emotional and physical well-being. We are committed to providing services that are affirmative, sex-positive, culturally competent, and trauma-informed care to address the mental and emotional health needs of members of the community with a special emphasis of the needs and strengths of the LGBTQ+ community.
TruEvolution’s Behavioral Health team offers individual, couples, family, and group therapy to support your emotional and physical well-being. We are committed to providing services that are affirmative, sex-positive, culturally competent, and trauma-informed care to address the mental and emotional health needs of members of the community with a special emphasis of the needs and strengths of the LGBTQ+ community.
(951) 419-4164 x2 View (951) 419-4164 x2
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Elizabeth Pashanian
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
San Bernardino, CA 92406  (Online Only)
I treat all human beings with respect regardless of race, age, gender, sexuality, language, education, religion, socioeconomic status, ability, and much more.
Welcome! Anxiety disorders, depressive disorders, and trauma and stressor-related disorders can be a struggle and meddle with everyday functioning, especially if you do not have the coping tools to deal with life’s difficulties. If you would like to work on gaining more insight, enhancing coping skills, and challenging yourself, we can create and work on these goals together. You are not alone. I offer a personable, relatable, open-minded, and non-judgmental approach in therapy, from human to human.
I treat all human beings with respect regardless of race, age, gender, sexuality, language, education, religion, socioeconomic status, ability, and much more.
Welcome! Anxiety disorders, depressive disorders, and trauma and stressor-related disorders can be a struggle and meddle with everyday functioning, especially if you do not have the coping tools to deal with life’s difficulties. If you would like to work on gaining more insight, enhancing coping skills, and challenging yourself, we can create and work on these goals together. You are not alone. I offer a personable, relatable, open-minded, and non-judgmental approach in therapy, from human to human.
(323) 940-5680 View (323) 940-5680
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Nicole Mevs-Martin
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Riverside, CA 92506  (Online Only)
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life’s demands? Are you caught between your true self and the expectations of others? Through secure Telehealth sessions, I offer a safe, affirming space where you can explore your concerns and uncover your authentic self. Together, we can make positive changes and rediscover joy and fulfillment. I specialize in helping individuals navigate challenges related to Anxiety, ADHD/ASD, Sexuality, and Gender. My approach is intuitive and holistic, focusing on the mind-body connection to promote authenticity and wellness. My goal is to empower you to embrace who you truly are and live the life you want.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by life’s demands? Are you caught between your true self and the expectations of others? Through secure Telehealth sessions, I offer a safe, affirming space where you can explore your concerns and uncover your authentic self. Together, we can make positive changes and rediscover joy and fulfillment. I specialize in helping individuals navigate challenges related to Anxiety, ADHD/ASD, Sexuality, and Gender. My approach is intuitive and holistic, focusing on the mind-body connection to promote authenticity and wellness. My goal is to empower you to embrace who you truly are and live the life you want.
(951) 425-4567 View (951) 425-4567
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Andrea Stocker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92507
My name is Andrea Stocker and I am an LCSW. I focus on eating disorders, LGBTQIA+ population, and am sex-positive and kink-aligned. I am currently working towards becoming a certified sex therapist. I take a whole-person approach to therapy. I focus on systems theory, if something is wrong with the system as a whole, we have an increase in mental health symptoms. I also understand that as we move through various stages of life we can struggle to adjust and have an increase in symptoms.
My name is Andrea Stocker and I am an LCSW. I focus on eating disorders, LGBTQIA+ population, and am sex-positive and kink-aligned. I am currently working towards becoming a certified sex therapist. I take a whole-person approach to therapy. I focus on systems theory, if something is wrong with the system as a whole, we have an increase in mental health symptoms. I also understand that as we move through various stages of life we can struggle to adjust and have an increase in symptoms.
(747) 567-5885 View (747) 567-5885
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Samuel Jenkins
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92506
I am a licensed Clinical Social Worker and have provided therapy and clinical supervision for almost thirty years. I specialize in working with life transitions, anxiety, depression, grief, recent and past trauma, relationships (monogamous, same-sex, polyamorous, open, fetish, and non-traditional), coming out and transitional gender issues, and sexual health problems. I am not religious but very spiritual and enjoy discussing spiritual issues. I employ techniques from many modalities including CBT, art therapy, experiential therapy, humanistic therapy, and more.
I am a licensed Clinical Social Worker and have provided therapy and clinical supervision for almost thirty years. I specialize in working with life transitions, anxiety, depression, grief, recent and past trauma, relationships (monogamous, same-sex, polyamorous, open, fetish, and non-traditional), coming out and transitional gender issues, and sexual health problems. I am not religious but very spiritual and enjoy discussing spiritual issues. I employ techniques from many modalities including CBT, art therapy, experiential therapy, humanistic therapy, and more.
(909) 414-2271 View (909) 414-2271
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Sandra Banjoko
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, RD
Verified Verified
Redlands, CA 92373  (Online Only)
Life is full of complexities, "messiness," as well as beauty, in relationships with others and especially with ourselves. As a culturally conscious therapist, I strive to create safe spaces for people to learn and figure out who they are, what they want and explore who they could be. All of this is addressed, without judgment, regardless of faith, gender, weight, culture, or race. I am deeply committed to helping individuals, couples, families, systems and institutions. Together, we move toward an understanding of what drives us to do the things we do, who we are, and ways to live to our fullest potential, with self, and others
Life is full of complexities, "messiness," as well as beauty, in relationships with others and especially with ourselves. As a culturally conscious therapist, I strive to create safe spaces for people to learn and figure out who they are, what they want and explore who they could be. All of this is addressed, without judgment, regardless of faith, gender, weight, culture, or race. I am deeply committed to helping individuals, couples, families, systems and institutions. Together, we move toward an understanding of what drives us to do the things we do, who we are, and ways to live to our fullest potential, with self, and others
(909) 259-5854 View (909) 259-5854
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Ashley M Cortez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92506
I'm a licensed clinical therapist. But like you, I'm much more than a singular role. I'm a Chicana, friend, partner, mother, mom to a fur baby. I'm some who is passionate in all aspects of life. I believe in being my most genuine & authentic self in all avenues of life. I'm a late diagnosed AUHD (autistic and ADHD) woman. I'm a mother who lived through postpartum depression and anxiety. I'm a woman who has moved through professional burnout. I'm open about all this because I truly believe in therapy and the ability to heal ourselves and know it doesn't happen in isolation
I'm a licensed clinical therapist. But like you, I'm much more than a singular role. I'm a Chicana, friend, partner, mother, mom to a fur baby. I'm some who is passionate in all aspects of life. I believe in being my most genuine & authentic self in all avenues of life. I'm a late diagnosed AUHD (autistic and ADHD) woman. I'm a mother who lived through postpartum depression and anxiety. I'm a woman who has moved through professional burnout. I'm open about all this because I truly believe in therapy and the ability to heal ourselves and know it doesn't happen in isolation
(909) 497-5112 View (909) 497-5112
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Lacuesta Family Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Riverside, CA 92506  (Online Only)
I am a bilingual (English/Spanish) licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I understand the importance of beginning therapy by creating an atmosphere of warmth and trust. My approach is collaborative and my primary focus is to help you achieve your goals, discover your strengths and improve your relationships. I utilize different treatment modalities, including cognitive behavioral, solution focused and motivational interviewing. I'm passionate about working with individuals and excited to start working with you!
I am a bilingual (English/Spanish) licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. I understand the importance of beginning therapy by creating an atmosphere of warmth and trust. My approach is collaborative and my primary focus is to help you achieve your goals, discover your strengths and improve your relationships. I utilize different treatment modalities, including cognitive behavioral, solution focused and motivational interviewing. I'm passionate about working with individuals and excited to start working with you!
(951) 419-5738 View (951) 419-5738
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Renee Marriott
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rialto, CA 92376
Every hardship or life event shapes us to be who we are but does not define us. My passion is to learn about people and where they are in their current life journey. I hope to help empower them to overcome their present hardships. I specialize in working with the LGBTQA+ community, families, children, adolescents, and adults who struggle with relationship conflict, anxiety, depression, and bipolar mania/depression. I combine holistic, client-centered, and evidence-based interventions to assist with their concerns best.
Every hardship or life event shapes us to be who we are but does not define us. My passion is to learn about people and where they are in their current life journey. I hope to help empower them to overcome their present hardships. I specialize in working with the LGBTQA+ community, families, children, adolescents, and adults who struggle with relationship conflict, anxiety, depression, and bipolar mania/depression. I combine holistic, client-centered, and evidence-based interventions to assist with their concerns best.
(657) 317-7470 View (657) 317-7470

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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.