Anger Management Therapists in La Mesa, CA

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Veronica D Martin-Parris
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
Further, expertise includes psychotherapy, facilitation of education and therapeutic groups which address disease management, substance abuse, anger management, parenting and issues related to child and sexual abuse.
Veronica Martin-Parris has been a licensed clinical social worker since 2006 and has over 25 years of experience in psychotherapy. She has undergraduate degree in Health Science with an Emphasis in Community Health and a Minor in African American Studies. Mrs. Parris also has a Masters degree in Social Work with a concentration in Administration and Health from San Diego State University. Find more information about her at www.purposevisiontherapy.com
Further, expertise includes psychotherapy, facilitation of education and therapeutic groups which address disease management, substance abuse, anger management, parenting and issues related to child and sexual abuse.
Veronica Martin-Parris has been a licensed clinical social worker since 2006 and has over 25 years of experience in psychotherapy. She has undergraduate degree in Health Science with an Emphasis in Community Health and a Minor in African American Studies. Mrs. Parris also has a Masters degree in Social Work with a concentration in Administration and Health from San Diego State University. Find more information about her at www.purposevisiontherapy.com
(619) 345-5625 View (619) 345-5625
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Bannia Gomez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
My name is Bannia Gomez. I am a bilingual Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of California. Hablo Español. Individuals, Couples, and Family Therapy. Adults only. Experience in the areas of depression, PTSD, anxiety, cultural stressors, domestic violence, stress, anger management, and so many other mental health stressors. I use a narrative approach where the client is allowed to tell their stories without feeling ashamed or judge.
My name is Bannia Gomez. I am a bilingual Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the state of California. Hablo Español. Individuals, Couples, and Family Therapy. Adults only. Experience in the areas of depression, PTSD, anxiety, cultural stressors, domestic violence, stress, anger management, and so many other mental health stressors. I use a narrative approach where the client is allowed to tell their stories without feeling ashamed or judge.
(619) 966-4294 View (619) 966-4294
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Evone Zander
Psychological Associate, PsyD
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91941  (Online Only)
My areas of expertise also include anxiety, grief, anger, life transitions, race-based stress, and mood disorders.
Life can be challenging and go differently than we had planned. However, we have the potential to transform our lives to live a more fulfilling life. I provide a warm, safe space where we can collaboratively develop a personalized plan to address issues like depression, anxiety, and trauma. Using evidence-based and mindfulness approaches within a culturally sensitive framework, I offer strategies to shift your relationship with difficult feelings and guide you toward achieving your goals and lasting positive change. Together, we can navigate your challenges and work towards a meaningful, enriched life, even amidst adversity.
My areas of expertise also include anxiety, grief, anger, life transitions, race-based stress, and mood disorders.
Life can be challenging and go differently than we had planned. However, we have the potential to transform our lives to live a more fulfilling life. I provide a warm, safe space where we can collaboratively develop a personalized plan to address issues like depression, anxiety, and trauma. Using evidence-based and mindfulness approaches within a culturally sensitive framework, I offer strategies to shift your relationship with difficult feelings and guide you toward achieving your goals and lasting positive change. Together, we can navigate your challenges and work towards a meaningful, enriched life, even amidst adversity.
(510) 422-1026 View (510) 422-1026
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Darryl K Moore
Psychologist, PhD, CSAT, CMAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
I work with individuals and couples coping with sex addiction or the discovery of sex addiction in a partner. I also facilitate a recovery group for men dealing with sex addiction. The group is open to all men dealing with sex addiction. It is not required that you be a registered individual client. My practice has focused on men's issues with sexual and other addictions as well as anger and behavior management. Other areas of focus include relational issues and the associated problems of stress, anxiety, and depression and betrayal issues. Emphasis is on the Carns model using the texts Facing the Shadows and Facing Heartbreak.
I work with individuals and couples coping with sex addiction or the discovery of sex addiction in a partner. I also facilitate a recovery group for men dealing with sex addiction. The group is open to all men dealing with sex addiction. It is not required that you be a registered individual client. My practice has focused on men's issues with sexual and other addictions as well as anger and behavior management. Other areas of focus include relational issues and the associated problems of stress, anxiety, and depression and betrayal issues. Emphasis is on the Carns model using the texts Facing the Shadows and Facing Heartbreak.
(619) 457-6419 View (619) 457-6419
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Katherine Morrill
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91941
I have been a practicing clinician for over 20 years. I recently obtained a sport social work certification from University of Michigan and now specialize in working with high-school and collegiate student-athletes on sports performance. I have treated both youth and adults and work towards goals of healing, growth, and wellness. I provide individual and family therapy and have focused on clinical areas such as trauma, depression, anxiety, anger management, divorce and relationship conflict. I utilize a collaborative approach that is both strength-based and solution-focused.
I have been a practicing clinician for over 20 years. I recently obtained a sport social work certification from University of Michigan and now specialize in working with high-school and collegiate student-athletes on sports performance. I have treated both youth and adults and work towards goals of healing, growth, and wellness. I provide individual and family therapy and have focused on clinical areas such as trauma, depression, anxiety, anger management, divorce and relationship conflict. I utilize a collaborative approach that is both strength-based and solution-focused.
(978) 767-4916 View (978) 767-4916
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Michele Maxwell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
Michele is passionate, caring, empathetic, and supportive. She helps children, adolescents, and adults with anxiety, anger issues, ADHD, depression, grief, panic disorders, and PTSD. Michele also helps with assertiveness, co-dependency, boundary setting, parenting skills, and decision-making.
Michele is passionate, caring, empathetic, and supportive. She helps children, adolescents, and adults with anxiety, anger issues, ADHD, depression, grief, panic disorders, and PTSD. Michele also helps with assertiveness, co-dependency, boundary setting, parenting skills, and decision-making.
(619) 453-0114 View (619) 453-0114
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Debbie Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
I have worked with people suffering from problems related to anxiety, depression, anger, trauma, parenting, relational difficulties, eating disorders, self-harming urges, unresolved grief/loss, and more.
Life, given to us without choice, often delivers challenging experiences. Sometimes, these experiences cripple us by making us feel helpless. However, each of us is created with a remarkable design for renewal. If seeking change, regardless of circumstances, anyone can hope for a better tomorrow. This is my belief, and it guides my approach to every client I meet.
I have worked with people suffering from problems related to anxiety, depression, anger, trauma, parenting, relational difficulties, eating disorders, self-harming urges, unresolved grief/loss, and more.
Life, given to us without choice, often delivers challenging experiences. Sometimes, these experiences cripple us by making us feel helpless. However, each of us is created with a remarkable design for renewal. If seeking change, regardless of circumstances, anyone can hope for a better tomorrow. This is my belief, and it guides my approach to every client I meet.
(619) 202-8116 View (619) 202-8116
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Nancy Phung-Smith
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
I am a body-centered therapist who specializes in working with trauma and emotion instability/intensity—this includes interpersonal relationships, depression, anger & anxiety. With this approach, we can get to a deeper understanding of diagnosis like Bipolar, Borderline Personality Disorder, and adult ADHD. Therapy is a two-pong approach: the skills & tools to get you through the day-to-day; and psychodynamic work of getting to the root of the issues (trauma-informed lens). I combine DBT/CBT skills and tools, with EMDR and tenants of IFS to stabilize symptoms, make way for healing, and a deeper understanding & connection to self.
I am a body-centered therapist who specializes in working with trauma and emotion instability/intensity—this includes interpersonal relationships, depression, anger & anxiety. With this approach, we can get to a deeper understanding of diagnosis like Bipolar, Borderline Personality Disorder, and adult ADHD. Therapy is a two-pong approach: the skills & tools to get you through the day-to-day; and psychodynamic work of getting to the root of the issues (trauma-informed lens). I combine DBT/CBT skills and tools, with EMDR and tenants of IFS to stabilize symptoms, make way for healing, and a deeper understanding & connection to self.
(619) 413-9507 View (619) 413-9507
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Jennifer Kolbow
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
My name is Jennifer Kolbow, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Corona, CA, and providing telehealth to clients throughout California. I enjoy working with families, parents as well as children and teens individually, in order to reduce symptoms and improve relationships. My approach works well with children and teens struggling with anger and irritability, withdrawal and isolation, low self-esteem, and excessive worry. I also help adults struggling with all stages of parenting from infertility to postpartum to empty nesters, and all of the transitions in between.
My name is Jennifer Kolbow, and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist based in Corona, CA, and providing telehealth to clients throughout California. I enjoy working with families, parents as well as children and teens individually, in order to reduce symptoms and improve relationships. My approach works well with children and teens struggling with anger and irritability, withdrawal and isolation, low self-esteem, and excessive worry. I also help adults struggling with all stages of parenting from infertility to postpartum to empty nesters, and all of the transitions in between.
(747) 239-5468 View (747) 239-5468
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Accepting Me Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
The population I generally provide services for struggle with the following issues and symptoms: depression, anxiety, anger management, relationship issues/conflicts, social/peer challenges, parenting difficulties, LGBTQ challenges, trauma, parent-child conflicts, behavioral problems, adjustment issues, mood disregulation, grief & loss. Most clients, like everyone in life, are looking for relief from difficult situations and troubling symptoms, a sense of comfort within their own skin. They have the desire towards alleviating their distress and looking for professional help.
The population I generally provide services for struggle with the following issues and symptoms: depression, anxiety, anger management, relationship issues/conflicts, social/peer challenges, parenting difficulties, LGBTQ challenges, trauma, parent-child conflicts, behavioral problems, adjustment issues, mood disregulation, grief & loss. Most clients, like everyone in life, are looking for relief from difficult situations and troubling symptoms, a sense of comfort within their own skin. They have the desire towards alleviating their distress and looking for professional help.
(619) 305-0780 View (619) 305-0780
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Lynda Onyshko
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91941
This often takes the form of depression, anger, stress, self-harm, self-esteem issues, and anxiety.
Hi, my name is Lynda Onyshko, and I'm based in Ventura County and working with clients statewide via Telehealth. I work with adolescents, pre-teens, and adults and specialize in anxiety, stress, depression, grief and loss, anger management, and relationship issues. I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and Acceptance therapy to help my clients make the most progress, start feeling better, and start the road to recovery! I work to build a powerful relationship between us with active listening. Setting goals include building communication skills to interact with you in a positive way.
This often takes the form of depression, anger, stress, self-harm, self-esteem issues, and anxiety.
Hi, my name is Lynda Onyshko, and I'm based in Ventura County and working with clients statewide via Telehealth. I work with adolescents, pre-teens, and adults and specialize in anxiety, stress, depression, grief and loss, anger management, and relationship issues. I use Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, and Acceptance therapy to help my clients make the most progress, start feeling better, and start the road to recovery! I work to build a powerful relationship between us with active listening. Setting goals include building communication skills to interact with you in a positive way.
(661) 276-8053 View (661) 276-8053
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Mary Jerome
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942  (Online Only)
If you struggle with emotional problems like grief, anxiety and depression, or behavioral issues such as anger management, I can help you build the skills needed for you to overcome these challenges. You don't have to feel the way you do forever. I can teach you strategies to help you manage your stress, improve your moods and communicate effectively. You can take the steps to improve the quality of your life by allowing me to guide you through the process of change. I’ll help you find emotional freedom, think more positively, act more calmly, and enjoy the confidence that comes with learning how to master your emotions.
If you struggle with emotional problems like grief, anxiety and depression, or behavioral issues such as anger management, I can help you build the skills needed for you to overcome these challenges. You don't have to feel the way you do forever. I can teach you strategies to help you manage your stress, improve your moods and communicate effectively. You can take the steps to improve the quality of your life by allowing me to guide you through the process of change. I’ll help you find emotional freedom, think more positively, act more calmly, and enjoy the confidence that comes with learning how to master your emotions.
(619) 432-3537 View (619) 432-3537
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Natalie McCanelley-Boddie
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
My specialty areas include anxiety, coping skills, foster care issues, anger management.
My name is Natalie Boddie, I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and I received my master's degree, from Chapman University. I have extensive experience working in Community-Based Mental health, I have a passion for working with Adults and Married couples in assisting them in developing and utilizing the necessary coping skills to manage their life situations while addressing relational barriers and historical traumas.
My specialty areas include anxiety, coping skills, foster care issues, anger management.
My name is Natalie Boddie, I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), and I received my master's degree, from Chapman University. I have extensive experience working in Community-Based Mental health, I have a passion for working with Adults and Married couples in assisting them in developing and utilizing the necessary coping skills to manage their life situations while addressing relational barriers and historical traumas.
(925) 940-9226 View (925) 940-9226
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Esther Yi
PsyD
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942  (Online Only)
Life is sometimes unexpectedly difficult and suffering can be inevitable. However, how you respond to life circumstances can drastically change your ability to enjoy life. I have worked with those that believed in lies about themselves after a traumatic incident, childhood, or their own minds. These lies can be crippling and result in anxiety, depression, addictions, school related difficulties, stress, anger, parenting, communication difficulties, relational issues, family problems, job dissatisfaction and more. I provide different perspectives that encourage personal healing and relief. Change your mind change your life
Life is sometimes unexpectedly difficult and suffering can be inevitable. However, how you respond to life circumstances can drastically change your ability to enjoy life. I have worked with those that believed in lies about themselves after a traumatic incident, childhood, or their own minds. These lies can be crippling and result in anxiety, depression, addictions, school related difficulties, stress, anger, parenting, communication difficulties, relational issues, family problems, job dissatisfaction and more. I provide different perspectives that encourage personal healing and relief. Change your mind change your life
(619) 367-9154 View (619) 367-9154
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Craig Bowman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91941
I've been working with a diverse population across various roles in the helping profession for approximately 30 years. I value authentic human relationships and have considerable levels of compassion and empathy gained from experience and personal trials. While I draw from many types of psychological theory, I particularly like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive/Behavioral, and Transpersonal. I create a safe space by valuing clients unconditionally and by guiding them toward improved awareness, self-talk, and self-compassion.
I've been working with a diverse population across various roles in the helping profession for approximately 30 years. I value authentic human relationships and have considerable levels of compassion and empathy gained from experience and personal trials. While I draw from many types of psychological theory, I particularly like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive/Behavioral, and Transpersonal. I create a safe space by valuing clients unconditionally and by guiding them toward improved awareness, self-talk, and self-compassion.
(619) 815-3863 View (619) 815-3863
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Be Free with Nancy Ly
CHT, CDP
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
My ideal client has an awareness of their presenting problem (unproductive thought pattern, emotions or behavior), and is ready to release it. The client realizes something is not working and ready to breakthrough their current situation. Many have often tried other traditional therapy or personal development and may even have hit a mental health crisis (anxiety, suicidal thoughts, depression, rage, etc.) Some clients simply want to level-up their mindset to further their personal, relational or career goals. Many choose to work with me with issues of self-love/confidence, emotional/relational instability, or behavioral change.
My ideal client has an awareness of their presenting problem (unproductive thought pattern, emotions or behavior), and is ready to release it. The client realizes something is not working and ready to breakthrough their current situation. Many have often tried other traditional therapy or personal development and may even have hit a mental health crisis (anxiety, suicidal thoughts, depression, rage, etc.) Some clients simply want to level-up their mindset to further their personal, relational or career goals. Many choose to work with me with issues of self-love/confidence, emotional/relational instability, or behavioral change.
(760) 274-0658 View (760) 274-0658
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Balanced Life Therapy Center, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
Just being human can be hard, and with all that is expected of us in this life, it can seem almost impossible at times. The external world can feel overwhelming and unsafe and our internal world can feel chaotic and just as unsafe. At the heart of any therapeutic approach is the attempt to find peace within so we can learn to be at peace with what is beyond our control. At Balanced Life Therapy Center, our clinicians are trained, each in their own preferred approach to healing, to support the inner world of their clients and help them get connected to the power they hold to move towards the life they desire.
Just being human can be hard, and with all that is expected of us in this life, it can seem almost impossible at times. The external world can feel overwhelming and unsafe and our internal world can feel chaotic and just as unsafe. At the heart of any therapeutic approach is the attempt to find peace within so we can learn to be at peace with what is beyond our control. At Balanced Life Therapy Center, our clinicians are trained, each in their own preferred approach to healing, to support the inner world of their clients and help them get connected to the power they hold to move towards the life they desire.
(619) 382-2873 View (619) 382-2873
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Peggy Wilson-Jordan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91941
Hi there, I'm Peggy! I have been working with clients for many years. I have worked with trauma, substance abuse, and significant mental health disorders, including bipolar And schizophrenia. I primarily employ narrative, humanistic, DBT, and motivational interviewing modalities. I have managed group homes with foster and probation youth as well as ILP programs. For the last 16 years, I have worked with mail nonprofits with indigent and low-income clients.
Hi there, I'm Peggy! I have been working with clients for many years. I have worked with trauma, substance abuse, and significant mental health disorders, including bipolar And schizophrenia. I primarily employ narrative, humanistic, DBT, and motivational interviewing modalities. I have managed group homes with foster and probation youth as well as ILP programs. For the last 16 years, I have worked with mail nonprofits with indigent and low-income clients.
(661) 228-7757 View (661) 228-7757
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Dr. Tamara Marks
Psychological Associate, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Mesa, CA 91942
I am a compassionate and empathetic therapist who specializes in supporting your mental health and personal growth. My passion revolves around enhancing relationships, setting boundaries, and communication skills. I utilize my expertise to tailor therapy sessions to meet the unique needs of each client, providing them with effective tools and strategies to navigate their specific challenges.
I am a compassionate and empathetic therapist who specializes in supporting your mental health and personal growth. My passion revolves around enhancing relationships, setting boundaries, and communication skills. I utilize my expertise to tailor therapy sessions to meet the unique needs of each client, providing them with effective tools and strategies to navigate their specific challenges.
(619) 848-0118 View (619) 848-0118
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Gary D Hittle
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Mesa, CA 91942
I have been in private psychological practice for over 30 years specializing in Marital and Relational therapy, Family problem interventions, Adolescents, and in the treatment of Sexual and Substance Abuse, and family therapy related to these issues. I have a broad range of training and utilize multiple modalities in the course of assisting my clients toward growth and personal change. I also assist clients with value related questions and am helpful for those looking for a "Christian Therapist". Further, I have extensive experience in dealing with the issues of aging, serious health issue, terminal illness, and chronic pain.
I have been in private psychological practice for over 30 years specializing in Marital and Relational therapy, Family problem interventions, Adolescents, and in the treatment of Sexual and Substance Abuse, and family therapy related to these issues. I have a broad range of training and utilize multiple modalities in the course of assisting my clients toward growth and personal change. I also assist clients with value related questions and am helpful for those looking for a "Christian Therapist". Further, I have extensive experience in dealing with the issues of aging, serious health issue, terminal illness, and chronic pain.
(619) 377-3720 View (619) 377-3720
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Anger Management Therapists

How long does therapy take for anger management?

Treatment duration depends on the person’s specific challenges and circumstances. There are treatments for anger problems that are shorter and more goal-oriented, like Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), which can last weeks to months. Others, like Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) may last between six months and a year, while a more intensive treatment, like psychodynamic therapy, is open-ended, and clients may see their therapist for a year or longer.

How do you know if you need therapy for anger management?

Everyone gets mad from time to time. But when angry outbursts become frequent and cause damage to relationships, whether at home or in the office, it may be a good time to look into therapy. A therapist can assess where a client’s anger may be coming from, suggest strategies for averting angry outbursts, and help a client create a plan to become a calmer version of themselves.

Is there medication for anger management?

Medications do exist that help people mitigate the feeling of anger, but these are reserved for people with anger-related psychiatric disorders, such as intermittent explosive disorder, oppositional defiant disorder, or in some cases borderline personality disorder. In these cases, antidepressant medications may be prescribed to help with the client’s symptoms. In most cases of anger management, however, talk therapy is the recommended treatment, along with lifestyle changes where relevant.

What’s the best way to encourage someone to seek help for anger issues?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either themselves or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.