Relationship Issues Therapists in La Jolla, CA

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The Center for Couples Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, MFT
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
As a marriage and family psychotherapist for over 30 years, I am an experienced, eclectic clinician whose passion is helping couples become masters of their relationship and individuals become their best selves. Clients find me to be warm, active, engaged, and creative. I often use humor, metaphor, and therapeutic experiment to enliven sessions, and utilize tools for practice to support clients between sessions. I work to have each session build on the last and reach the client’s goals in timely and powerful ways. I am committed to having each person feel known, understood, supported and appreciated throughout the therapeutic process.
As a marriage and family psychotherapist for over 30 years, I am an experienced, eclectic clinician whose passion is helping couples become masters of their relationship and individuals become their best selves. Clients find me to be warm, active, engaged, and creative. I often use humor, metaphor, and therapeutic experiment to enliven sessions, and utilize tools for practice to support clients between sessions. I work to have each session build on the last and reach the client’s goals in timely and powerful ways. I am committed to having each person feel known, understood, supported and appreciated throughout the therapeutic process.
(858) 496-7681 x701 View (858) 496-7681 x701
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Dr. Josh Thomas
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Hello, I am a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise in substance addiction, trauma/PTSD, depression, anxiety, work stress, relationship problems, grief and loss, and chronic pain. With an emphasis in connecting to and living from personal values, my approach is highly compassionate, culturally sensitive, strengths-based, and evidenced-based. My treatment specialty includes Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help heal psychological wounds that are blocking you from living an enriched and empowered life.
Hello, I am a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise in substance addiction, trauma/PTSD, depression, anxiety, work stress, relationship problems, grief and loss, and chronic pain. With an emphasis in connecting to and living from personal values, my approach is highly compassionate, culturally sensitive, strengths-based, and evidenced-based. My treatment specialty includes Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to help heal psychological wounds that are blocking you from living an enriched and empowered life.
(858) 413-9160 View (858) 413-9160
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M. Gene Ondrusek
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Waitlist for new clients
After 35 years in the San Diego area, I feel particularly well suited to working with clients with a variety of "problems in living." Managing stress, lifestyle balance, coping with relationship issues, and workplace difficulties affect us all, and having professional support and input is now not only acceptable, but crucial. And, research has shown that of all the factors that are key in predicting a positive outcome in any form of therapy, the quality of the relationship with your therapist is the most important. And that is my focus!
After 35 years in the San Diego area, I feel particularly well suited to working with clients with a variety of "problems in living." Managing stress, lifestyle balance, coping with relationship issues, and workplace difficulties affect us all, and having professional support and input is now not only acceptable, but crucial. And, research has shown that of all the factors that are key in predicting a positive outcome in any form of therapy, the quality of the relationship with your therapist is the most important. And that is my focus!
(858) 215-1990 View (858) 215-1990
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Claudia Law-Greenberg, PhD
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
With this awareness, we can work together to gain better coping skills, resolve relationship tensions,improve communication, and work towards attaining satisfying life goals.
People seek a psychotherapist because they are experiencing emotional distress, often caused by issues related to relationships, family, marital problems, stress, and general dissatisfaction with one's life or work. My job as a psychologist is to find a path leading to both relief of these symptoms and to an understanding of oneself, which together provide for both short term and long term relief from these states. I do this by providing a non-judgmental and supportive therapeutic environment which promotes a deeper understanding and exploration of oneself, with the belief that this increased self-awareness ultimately leads to positive changes and better coping skills.
With this awareness, we can work together to gain better coping skills, resolve relationship tensions,improve communication, and work towards attaining satisfying life goals.
People seek a psychotherapist because they are experiencing emotional distress, often caused by issues related to relationships, family, marital problems, stress, and general dissatisfaction with one's life or work. My job as a psychologist is to find a path leading to both relief of these symptoms and to an understanding of oneself, which together provide for both short term and long term relief from these states. I do this by providing a non-judgmental and supportive therapeutic environment which promotes a deeper understanding and exploration of oneself, with the belief that this increased self-awareness ultimately leads to positive changes and better coping skills.
(858) 314-3574 View (858) 314-3574
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Elaine Dove
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037  (Online Only)
I specialize in anxiety, self-esteem and relationship difficulties.
Are you having a difficult time? I will help you. I will listen to your concerns and come to understand your core issues and what will be useful in helping you resolve your distress. The goal is to help you improve your self-esteem, reduce your anxiety, build confidence, resolve conflicts, reduce your symptoms and improve your relationships. I provide a compassionate, integrated and collaborative approach that makes working together a positive experience.
I specialize in anxiety, self-esteem and relationship difficulties.
Are you having a difficult time? I will help you. I will listen to your concerns and come to understand your core issues and what will be useful in helping you resolve your distress. The goal is to help you improve your self-esteem, reduce your anxiety, build confidence, resolve conflicts, reduce your symptoms and improve your relationships. I provide a compassionate, integrated and collaborative approach that makes working together a positive experience.
(858) 283-3965 View (858) 283-3965
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Christina Huang
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I utilize CBT tools, somatic therapy concepts including biofeedback, and Gottman relationship to tools help you cope with life.
Life is hard. Sometimes, life can seem unbearable, especially when difficult events like trauma, loss, or relationship conflicts happen and lead to depression and anxiety. During difficult times, you may believe that you have no choice but to suffer in secret, especially with the continuing stigma of mental health issues. However, I want you to know that you don't have to suffer on your own. Seeking therapy can be a daunting and scary process, and finding the right therapist for you can be difficult and confusing.
I utilize CBT tools, somatic therapy concepts including biofeedback, and Gottman relationship to tools help you cope with life.
Life is hard. Sometimes, life can seem unbearable, especially when difficult events like trauma, loss, or relationship conflicts happen and lead to depression and anxiety. During difficult times, you may believe that you have no choice but to suffer in secret, especially with the continuing stigma of mental health issues. However, I want you to know that you don't have to suffer on your own. Seeking therapy can be a daunting and scary process, and finding the right therapist for you can be difficult and confusing.
(858) 251-0915 View (858) 251-0915
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Joan Salat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037  (Online Only)
If you & your partner are willing to confront your part in the relationship dysfunction and desire an authentic, trusting and respectful partnership, then this deep repair work might be for you.
Do you ever ask yourself, "My partner and I are successful in so many ways, why does our relationship feel so painfully disconnected?" Allow me to guide you in restoring the connection you once enjoyed together. Damaged trust, anger, infidelity, money problems, lack of sex, intimacy and affection are among the problems that can erode a relationship. I will provide you with tools that will help you move towards rebuilding trust, closeness and integrity in the relationship. I will also teach you how to effectively get what you want from your partner and the relationship. About 50% of my practice is couples, 50% is individual therapy.
If you & your partner are willing to confront your part in the relationship dysfunction and desire an authentic, trusting and respectful partnership, then this deep repair work might be for you.
Do you ever ask yourself, "My partner and I are successful in so many ways, why does our relationship feel so painfully disconnected?" Allow me to guide you in restoring the connection you once enjoyed together. Damaged trust, anger, infidelity, money problems, lack of sex, intimacy and affection are among the problems that can erode a relationship. I will provide you with tools that will help you move towards rebuilding trust, closeness and integrity in the relationship. I will also teach you how to effectively get what you want from your partner and the relationship. About 50% of my practice is couples, 50% is individual therapy.
(858) 386-4822 View (858) 386-4822
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Nasim Bavar
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037  (Online Only)
My training and expertise in several therapeutic modalities such as EMDR, CBT, ACT, and Mindfulness allow me to teach tools for improved relationship with self and others.
As a licensed clinician, experienced in multiple therapeutic modalities, I specialize in helping my clients navigate relationship challenges while promoting personal growth. When facing communication problems, conflict, or difficulty balancing life stressors, I provide a supportive approach to address these concerns. Using practical, evidence-based approaches, I help my clients build healthier, more fulfilling connections. Together, we focus on developing skills that improve the quality of their relationships and enhance their overall well-being.
My training and expertise in several therapeutic modalities such as EMDR, CBT, ACT, and Mindfulness allow me to teach tools for improved relationship with self and others.
As a licensed clinician, experienced in multiple therapeutic modalities, I specialize in helping my clients navigate relationship challenges while promoting personal growth. When facing communication problems, conflict, or difficulty balancing life stressors, I provide a supportive approach to address these concerns. Using practical, evidence-based approaches, I help my clients build healthier, more fulfilling connections. Together, we focus on developing skills that improve the quality of their relationships and enhance their overall well-being.
(858) 444-7746 View (858) 444-7746
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Steven D Solomon
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
To help them, I established The Relationship Institute and wrote a book titled "Intimacy After Infidelity" with my partner, Dr.
For many years I worked almost exclusively with individuals, helping them overcome depression, anxiety and other issues and maladies that were ruining their lives. Then, about 25 years ago, after hearing so many horror stories from couples about their previous couples therapy experiences, I decided to specialize in working with couples and completed advanced couples therapy training. I help couples heal and rebuild their relationship, creating the intimate, loving and happy relationship that they have been yearning for but could not previously achieve, the relationship in which both partners feel safe, respected and fully loved.
To help them, I established The Relationship Institute and wrote a book titled "Intimacy After Infidelity" with my partner, Dr.
For many years I worked almost exclusively with individuals, helping them overcome depression, anxiety and other issues and maladies that were ruining their lives. Then, about 25 years ago, after hearing so many horror stories from couples about their previous couples therapy experiences, I decided to specialize in working with couples and completed advanced couples therapy training. I help couples heal and rebuild their relationship, creating the intimate, loving and happy relationship that they have been yearning for but could not previously achieve, the relationship in which both partners feel safe, respected and fully loved.
(619) 378-4225 View (619) 378-4225
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Dr. Mary Spease
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
15 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037  (Online Only)
I believe therapy can be a challenging and illuminating journey in which you have the chance to learn more about yourself, your approach/perspective on life, and the dynamics in important relationships. Throughout the therapy process, I view my clients through a lens of strength where common life dilemmas are seen as an opportunity to develop a stronger capacity for personal understanding and nurture deeper, more intimate relationships. Whether you are seeking support in response to relationship concerns, life transitions, addiction/recovery, or are the loved one of an addict, therapy can help identify & clarify underlying feelings & patterns of behavior.
I believe therapy can be a challenging and illuminating journey in which you have the chance to learn more about yourself, your approach/perspective on life, and the dynamics in important relationships. Throughout the therapy process, I view my clients through a lens of strength where common life dilemmas are seen as an opportunity to develop a stronger capacity for personal understanding and nurture deeper, more intimate relationships. Whether you are seeking support in response to relationship concerns, life transitions, addiction/recovery, or are the loved one of an addict, therapy can help identify & clarify underlying feelings & patterns of behavior.
(858) 888-3261 View (858) 888-3261
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Valerie Rock
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
I have extensive experience in treating depression, anxiety, relationship/family issues, and adolescent difficulties.
I believe in providing a collaborative and supportive environment to maximize the therapeutic experience. I help clients cope with negative thoughts and behaviors that may hinder relationships and overall quality of life. Therapy is focused on building and nurturing interpersonal relationships and decreasing daily stress, by assisting clients in capitalizing on strengths and defining goals.
I have extensive experience in treating depression, anxiety, relationship/family issues, and adolescent difficulties.
I believe in providing a collaborative and supportive environment to maximize the therapeutic experience. I help clients cope with negative thoughts and behaviors that may hinder relationships and overall quality of life. Therapy is focused on building and nurturing interpersonal relationships and decreasing daily stress, by assisting clients in capitalizing on strengths and defining goals.
(619) 405-9898 View (619) 405-9898
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Avery Morrison
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
My therapeutic approach has been enriched by previous clinical experiences in treatment facilities, such as, substance abuse residential facilities, vocational training schools, private practices, and completing my pre-doctoral internship at Johns Hopkins. I work with individuals who are experiencing mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, substance use concerns, relationship distress, PTSD, and perfectionism. I also work with clients who are navigating transitions in their lives, such as the start of a new job, going through a divorce/breakup or getting married, and transitioning out of college/the military.
My therapeutic approach has been enriched by previous clinical experiences in treatment facilities, such as, substance abuse residential facilities, vocational training schools, private practices, and completing my pre-doctoral internship at Johns Hopkins. I work with individuals who are experiencing mental health concerns, including anxiety, depression, substance use concerns, relationship distress, PTSD, and perfectionism. I also work with clients who are navigating transitions in their lives, such as the start of a new job, going through a divorce/breakup or getting married, and transitioning out of college/the military.
(858) 682-0143 View (858) 682-0143
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Marlane Y Agriesti
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Are you going through a major life transition? Have you been through emotional, physical, relationship or family trauma? Are you struggling with limiting or destructive relationship patterns, feeling anxious, experience panic, or struggle with self-esteem? Would you like to explore more creative approaches to the problems you face? I work especially well with people of all ages in search of healthier relationships, deep personal change and greater self-awareness. If you want to create a more balanced and fruitful life and claim your authentic voice and way in the world, I can help you navigate that journey with safety and trust.
Are you going through a major life transition? Have you been through emotional, physical, relationship or family trauma? Are you struggling with limiting or destructive relationship patterns, feeling anxious, experience panic, or struggle with self-esteem? Would you like to explore more creative approaches to the problems you face? I work especially well with people of all ages in search of healthier relationships, deep personal change and greater self-awareness. If you want to create a more balanced and fruitful life and claim your authentic voice and way in the world, I can help you navigate that journey with safety and trust.
(858) 358-7790 View (858) 358-7790
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Amy White
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
I have extensive training in treating those dealing with life transitions, grief, depression and anxiety, relationship difficulties, and self-esteem issues.
I specialize in treating individuals and couples seeking greater authenticity, meaning, and deeper connections in their lives. Together, we can work towards finding clarity in what you most want for yourself and exploring the patterns and strategies that tend to get in the way. I offer a safe space for you to try on new ways of relating to yourself and others.
I have extensive training in treating those dealing with life transitions, grief, depression and anxiety, relationship difficulties, and self-esteem issues.
I specialize in treating individuals and couples seeking greater authenticity, meaning, and deeper connections in their lives. Together, we can work towards finding clarity in what you most want for yourself and exploring the patterns and strategies that tend to get in the way. I offer a safe space for you to try on new ways of relating to yourself and others.
(619) 304-5517 View (619) 304-5517
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Sue De Santo
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
I specialize in treating relationship issues, addiction/substance abuse, depression, anxiety, job related issues, couples treatment and divorce recovery.
Have you ever felt like you were busy doing all the things you thought would bring you a happy life, yet felt alone and disconnected from yourself and others? These feelings are often when people turn to alcohol, drugs, food, shopping or relationships to try to create those feelings of happiness, contentment and joy. It can work for a short time however the key to moving forward is to understand the reasons we seek out these distractions.
I specialize in treating relationship issues, addiction/substance abuse, depression, anxiety, job related issues, couples treatment and divorce recovery.
Have you ever felt like you were busy doing all the things you thought would bring you a happy life, yet felt alone and disconnected from yourself and others? These feelings are often when people turn to alcohol, drugs, food, shopping or relationships to try to create those feelings of happiness, contentment and joy. It can work for a short time however the key to moving forward is to understand the reasons we seek out these distractions.
(442) 203-6695 View (442) 203-6695
Jeffrey Thomas
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CGP
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Are you looking for insight with something in your life that you are not satisfied with?Maybe I can help. I have worked with many different issues in the 20 years that I have been in practice. I hold a great deal of respect for those who are open to working on whatever problems bring them in. Whether it's depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, understanding yourself better, repetitive destructive patterns or addictions, I believe a supportive and empathic approach is crucial. I also believe that understanding what led us to our struggles is helpful in making the changes we want.
Are you looking for insight with something in your life that you are not satisfied with?Maybe I can help. I have worked with many different issues in the 20 years that I have been in practice. I hold a great deal of respect for those who are open to working on whatever problems bring them in. Whether it's depression, anxiety, relationship conflicts, understanding yourself better, repetitive destructive patterns or addictions, I believe a supportive and empathic approach is crucial. I also believe that understanding what led us to our struggles is helpful in making the changes we want.
(619) 717-8930 View (619) 717-8930
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Taylor Poppmeier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Therapy is about compassion, vulnerability, and connection; it can also be about pushing yourself toward growth, creating change, and evolving into who you want to be. I would love to work with you to identify areas of potential and develop a path to success. I use a direct approach to build a real relationship with you. I don't shy away from difficult topics. Making a big leap can be daunting but finding fulfillment is worth the jump. I focus on individuals facing big life changes. As a Tricare provider and the child of a retired service member, I understand the unique stressors faced by the military community and their families.
Therapy is about compassion, vulnerability, and connection; it can also be about pushing yourself toward growth, creating change, and evolving into who you want to be. I would love to work with you to identify areas of potential and develop a path to success. I use a direct approach to build a real relationship with you. I don't shy away from difficult topics. Making a big leap can be daunting but finding fulfillment is worth the jump. I focus on individuals facing big life changes. As a Tricare provider and the child of a retired service member, I understand the unique stressors faced by the military community and their families.
(858) 723-0473 View (858) 723-0473
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Patricia Ann Judd
Psychologist, PhD, MSW
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
After practicing, studying and teaching psychotherapy for 40 years at the UC San Diego Department of Psychiatry I have integrated many different approaches to helping my patients. The most important aspect of psychotherapy is the relationship formed through an empathic understanding of the core issues and what caused them followed by a plan of action. Therapy is a collaborative process of discovery. Change comes about through understanding oneself better, learning new skills and effective ways of communicating with others. Each person's journey is unique.
After practicing, studying and teaching psychotherapy for 40 years at the UC San Diego Department of Psychiatry I have integrated many different approaches to helping my patients. The most important aspect of psychotherapy is the relationship formed through an empathic understanding of the core issues and what caused them followed by a plan of action. Therapy is a collaborative process of discovery. Change comes about through understanding oneself better, learning new skills and effective ways of communicating with others. Each person's journey is unique.
(858) 500-3142 View (858) 500-3142
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Jonathan M Kramer
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Jolla, CA 92037
Practical Help. Results Oriented. I've had 30+ years of professional experience helping Couples and Individual Adults have the life they want. I've been married 30+ years and know how to help you have a successful relationship too. Stop repeating old patterns. Make changes for the better. Understand what's going wrong and know what to do about it - get control, communicate clearly, reignite the passion. Author, 'Why Men Don't Get Enough Sex & Women Don't Get Enough Love'; Editor 'Good Loving' (Men' Health). Results Oriented. Solution Focused. Email or Call Today for a Happier Tomorrow! I will help you have the life you want.
Practical Help. Results Oriented. I've had 30+ years of professional experience helping Couples and Individual Adults have the life they want. I've been married 30+ years and know how to help you have a successful relationship too. Stop repeating old patterns. Make changes for the better. Understand what's going wrong and know what to do about it - get control, communicate clearly, reignite the passion. Author, 'Why Men Don't Get Enough Sex & Women Don't Get Enough Love'; Editor 'Good Loving' (Men' Health). Results Oriented. Solution Focused. Email or Call Today for a Happier Tomorrow! I will help you have the life you want.
(858) 376-7948 View (858) 376-7948
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Charles Cutler, Ph.D.
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Jolla, CA 92037
Everyone has the capacity to grow and create a more meaningful and fulfilling life. All that is required is a willingness to try and some perseverance. My goal to is create a personalized experience for you. I am passionate about my work, well trained and very experienced. Working together we can make sense of things, lessen the pain you feel, overcome stuck places and find your way forward. Whether you're suffering from anxiety, depression, loneliness, relationship issues or low self-confidence, we will address these issues and begin to find answers.
Everyone has the capacity to grow and create a more meaningful and fulfilling life. All that is required is a willingness to try and some perseverance. My goal to is create a personalized experience for you. I am passionate about my work, well trained and very experienced. Working together we can make sense of things, lessen the pain you feel, overcome stuck places and find your way forward. Whether you're suffering from anxiety, depression, loneliness, relationship issues or low self-confidence, we will address these issues and begin to find answers.
(858) 521-9382 View (858) 521-9382
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.