Relationship Issues Therapists in La Costa, CA

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Jacqueline Rasmussen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
Do you feel uncertain of where to begin? If you want to transform your partnership, you have to implement new relationship habits.
Suddenly, it seems like you are not able to talk to your partner anymore. You experience long stretches of time passing where you are avoiding each other, or trying to communicate but keep ending up on separate pages. Are you frustrated with your relationship, but uninterested in talking about what is NOT working? Couples therapy is not just about discussing the problems, but about making things better. It is time to get past the blame, guilt and helplessness that has sucked all of the love out of your relationship. Instead, let us work together to build the partnership skills that will return you to love and intimacy.
Do you feel uncertain of where to begin? If you want to transform your partnership, you have to implement new relationship habits.
Suddenly, it seems like you are not able to talk to your partner anymore. You experience long stretches of time passing where you are avoiding each other, or trying to communicate but keep ending up on separate pages. Are you frustrated with your relationship, but uninterested in talking about what is NOT working? Couples therapy is not just about discussing the problems, but about making things better. It is time to get past the blame, guilt and helplessness that has sucked all of the love out of your relationship. Instead, let us work together to build the partnership skills that will return you to love and intimacy.
(619) 648-5483 View (619) 648-5483
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Jessica Cooper
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
When working with couples I take an eclectic approach combining EFT, Gottman, and Imago Relationship Therapy in order to rebuild the foundation, improve communication, promote intimacy, and strengthen the relationship.
Taking the steps to explore therapy can be vulnerable and intimidating. Finding a therapist you connect with is key. I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist in the Carlsbad area. My goal is to foster an open, trusting, non-judgmental, and collaborative environment in which clients can feel comfortable to express themselves. My passion is rooted in assisting clients through their journey to achieve goals, find fulfillment, and explore themselves in a safe and caring space. I have a client-centered and integrative approach to therapy, utilizing therapeutic modalities which best fit a client and their needs.
When working with couples I take an eclectic approach combining EFT, Gottman, and Imago Relationship Therapy in order to rebuild the foundation, improve communication, promote intimacy, and strengthen the relationship.
Taking the steps to explore therapy can be vulnerable and intimidating. Finding a therapist you connect with is key. I am an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist in the Carlsbad area. My goal is to foster an open, trusting, non-judgmental, and collaborative environment in which clients can feel comfortable to express themselves. My passion is rooted in assisting clients through their journey to achieve goals, find fulfillment, and explore themselves in a safe and caring space. I have a client-centered and integrative approach to therapy, utilizing therapeutic modalities which best fit a client and their needs.
(442) 239-6702 View (442) 239-6702
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Alicia Baird Fassardi
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
I am a clinical psychologist originally from Argentina. I work with adults of all backgrounds who look for support and strategies to create lasting changes in their lives and in their relationships. Many of my patients report symptoms of depression and anxiety related to relationship issues, life transitions, traumatic events, personal crisis or medical trauma. People who enjoy collaborative work grounded in dialogue, moments of insight and encouragement to experiment with new intentions and behaviors, typically tell me they find our sessions helpful and report lower stress and increased connection in relationships.
I am a clinical psychologist originally from Argentina. I work with adults of all backgrounds who look for support and strategies to create lasting changes in their lives and in their relationships. Many of my patients report symptoms of depression and anxiety related to relationship issues, life transitions, traumatic events, personal crisis or medical trauma. People who enjoy collaborative work grounded in dialogue, moments of insight and encouragement to experiment with new intentions and behaviors, typically tell me they find our sessions helpful and report lower stress and increased connection in relationships.
(760) 840-2085 View (760) 840-2085
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Dr. Hilary Stokes Brainspotting Therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW
Verified Verified
La Costa, CA 92009  (Online Only)
Whether you are dealing with an unexpected change, trauma, anxiety, health challenge, relationship stress, depression or other mental health issue, having a trusted guide on the path can make all the difference. Over the past 25 years I have found mind body therapies get to the root of where we get stuck and allow for positive change.
Whether you are dealing with an unexpected change, trauma, anxiety, health challenge, relationship stress, depression or other mental health issue, having a trusted guide on the path can make all the difference. Over the past 25 years I have found mind body therapies get to the root of where we get stuck and allow for positive change.
(619) 819-6841 View (619) 819-6841
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Haven for Change
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
I help clients with life transitions, disorders such as depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, parenting and relationship issues.
How's it going lately? Maybe not so well. I can imagine you're feeling a bit overwhelmed and you're trying to decide where to begin and how this all works. I would like to invite you to a safe haven for self-discovery and the opportunity to address the issues that have you seeking support. I provide a warm, welcoming and supportive environment for clients. I enjoy working collaboratively with individuals and families. Together we'll address the issues that brought you here, learn coping skills, identify and utilize resources to help you better manage the situation and reach your therapeutic goals.
I help clients with life transitions, disorders such as depression, anxiety, behavioral issues, parenting and relationship issues.
How's it going lately? Maybe not so well. I can imagine you're feeling a bit overwhelmed and you're trying to decide where to begin and how this all works. I would like to invite you to a safe haven for self-discovery and the opportunity to address the issues that have you seeking support. I provide a warm, welcoming and supportive environment for clients. I enjoy working collaboratively with individuals and families. Together we'll address the issues that brought you here, learn coping skills, identify and utilize resources to help you better manage the situation and reach your therapeutic goals.
(760) 573-2573 View (760) 573-2573
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Christina Payton
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA
Verified Verified
La Costa, CA 92009
I am now accepting NEW clients! I offer counseling to individuals and couples, providing assistance in navigating difficult life events, relationship challenges, mood-related disorders, and postpartum depression or anxiety. My background includes working with a diverse client population who present with wide-ranging diagnosis and clinical complexities. In addition to providing therapy to both adults and children, I have extensive experience working with co-occurring disorders in both outpatient and inpatient settings. I am dedicated to working with my clients on identifying and achieving their goals, whatever those may be!
I am now accepting NEW clients! I offer counseling to individuals and couples, providing assistance in navigating difficult life events, relationship challenges, mood-related disorders, and postpartum depression or anxiety. My background includes working with a diverse client population who present with wide-ranging diagnosis and clinical complexities. In addition to providing therapy to both adults and children, I have extensive experience working with co-occurring disorders in both outpatient and inpatient settings. I am dedicated to working with my clients on identifying and achieving their goals, whatever those may be!
(760) 642-1343 View (760) 642-1343
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Grayson Wallen
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC, CGT, NCC, BC-TMH
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
I help those in dull, difficult, and conflicted relationships. It’s grueling for anyone considering ending a relationship because they have lost their passion for their partner, are eternally conflicted, or feeling weighed down in their relationship. You might be worried about how your kids will take the news, if you can financially recover, or even second-guessing if divorce is the right move. I am a Certified Gottman Therapist and I use the Gottman’s relationship research to help couples develop friendship, manage conflict, and create a meaningful relationship that lasts a lifetime.
I help those in dull, difficult, and conflicted relationships. It’s grueling for anyone considering ending a relationship because they have lost their passion for their partner, are eternally conflicted, or feeling weighed down in their relationship. You might be worried about how your kids will take the news, if you can financially recover, or even second-guessing if divorce is the right move. I am a Certified Gottman Therapist and I use the Gottman’s relationship research to help couples develop friendship, manage conflict, and create a meaningful relationship that lasts a lifetime.
(619) 330-0442 View (619) 330-0442
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Amanda V. Nemeth
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92011
Waitlist for new clients
My approach to working with clients is holistic, creative, and grounded in the specific story of each client. Through empathy, authenticity, and curiosity I help create a new vision for hope as I journey with my clients on their path toward healing. I have experience working with individual adults of all ages, couples, and families.
My approach to working with clients is holistic, creative, and grounded in the specific story of each client. Through empathy, authenticity, and curiosity I help create a new vision for hope as I journey with my clients on their path toward healing. I have experience working with individual adults of all ages, couples, and families.
(208) 647-4328 View (208) 647-4328
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Sarah Vita
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92011
Taking the first step towards therapy can feel daunting, but know that you're not alone in this journey. As a holistic, EMDR-trained therapist who prioritizes the mind-body connection, I understand the complexities of your experiences and the profound impact they can have on your well-being. I want you to feel seen, heard and understood in our sessions. Together, we'll explore your thoughts, emotions, physical sensations, recognizing the interconnectedness between your mind and body. Together we will get to the roots of your experience to create sustainable change.
Taking the first step towards therapy can feel daunting, but know that you're not alone in this journey. As a holistic, EMDR-trained therapist who prioritizes the mind-body connection, I understand the complexities of your experiences and the profound impact they can have on your well-being. I want you to feel seen, heard and understood in our sessions. Together, we'll explore your thoughts, emotions, physical sensations, recognizing the interconnectedness between your mind and body. Together we will get to the roots of your experience to create sustainable change.
(760) 615-3376 View (760) 615-3376
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Emily Corner
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, PhD
Verified Verified
La Costa, CA 92009  (Online Only)
Hello and welcome! I appreciate you clicking on my page to learn more about my practice. I focus on helping adult individuals heal from all forms of trauma, including emotional, physical, sexual, and attachment injuries. I specialize in using EMDR and inner child work to help clients heal from their past traumatic experiences.
Hello and welcome! I appreciate you clicking on my page to learn more about my practice. I focus on helping adult individuals heal from all forms of trauma, including emotional, physical, sexual, and attachment injuries. I specialize in using EMDR and inner child work to help clients heal from their past traumatic experiences.
(760) 239-5387 View (760) 239-5387
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Michelle Bourgerie
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
I provide grief counseling to men and women that have a lot in common. Some of these common experiences are that others can't see how badly my clients are hurting on the inside. Does that sound familiar? You might walk through your days with a smile on your face, and achieve success at work or at home. People often even comment on how well you're doing. But no one understands what it's like to cry in private and grieve a loved one so desperately. Sometimes there are not tears to cry when you want to, because the grief stays hidden most days, not feeling free to grieve unless alone.
I provide grief counseling to men and women that have a lot in common. Some of these common experiences are that others can't see how badly my clients are hurting on the inside. Does that sound familiar? You might walk through your days with a smile on your face, and achieve success at work or at home. People often even comment on how well you're doing. But no one understands what it's like to cry in private and grieve a loved one so desperately. Sometimes there are not tears to cry when you want to, because the grief stays hidden most days, not feeling free to grieve unless alone.
(760) 417-6817 View (760) 417-6817
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Danielle Christine Hering
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
I believe a lot of us are carrying some degree of self-judgment, shame, or unresolved pain. Until those wounds are neutralized, nothing you do to try and change will work.The combination of therapies that I use are designed to release negative belief systems and painful emotions. To heal them at the core so that you are free from them completely. My years of experience have taught me how to identify the root of the problem and to know what will be most effective in healing what is keeping you stuck.
I believe a lot of us are carrying some degree of self-judgment, shame, or unresolved pain. Until those wounds are neutralized, nothing you do to try and change will work.The combination of therapies that I use are designed to release negative belief systems and painful emotions. To heal them at the core so that you are free from them completely. My years of experience have taught me how to identify the root of the problem and to know what will be most effective in healing what is keeping you stuck.
(760) 513-6126 View (760) 513-6126
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Kim Lottes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Costa, CA 92009  (Online Only)
I take people on a journey of initiation and reclamation to remember their true essence. My own path has involved listening within and following my heart's guidance. This allows me to offer a unique perspective aimed at healing and stepping into your wholeness. I received my master's degree in Counseling Psychology from University of San Francisco and have over ten years of experience working with anxiety, depression, trauma, substance abuse issues, and life transitions.
I take people on a journey of initiation and reclamation to remember their true essence. My own path has involved listening within and following my heart's guidance. This allows me to offer a unique perspective aimed at healing and stepping into your wholeness. I received my master's degree in Counseling Psychology from University of San Francisco and have over ten years of experience working with anxiety, depression, trauma, substance abuse issues, and life transitions.
(760) 993-3678 View (760) 993-3678
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Dr. Nastassia Riser
Psychologist, MS, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92009
Dr. Riser has over 10 years of experience providing Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and various other evidence-based approaches for the treatment of mood, anxiety, and personality disorders with special interest in emotion regulation, self-harm, and suicidality. Dr. Riser is an integrative psychologist, utilizing science-based interventions while also taking a holistic, mind + body, indivualized approach to treatment. Dr. Riser earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from The Chicago Medical School/RFUMS with a concentration in psychopathology.
Dr. Riser has over 10 years of experience providing Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and various other evidence-based approaches for the treatment of mood, anxiety, and personality disorders with special interest in emotion regulation, self-harm, and suicidality. Dr. Riser is an integrative psychologist, utilizing science-based interventions while also taking a holistic, mind + body, indivualized approach to treatment. Dr. Riser earned her PhD in Clinical Psychology from The Chicago Medical School/RFUMS with a concentration in psychopathology.
(760) 280-7340 View (760) 280-7340
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Chris Peterson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
La Costa, CA 92009
My clients are individuals who often carry with them unresolved feelings from either their past or present challenges. Viewing those issues from an objective and trusted practitioner is vital to the change process. Always viewing my clients with unconditional positive regard is essential to us being successful. Therapy can often be the first time someone gets to step out of the day to day of their lives. My hope is during this introspection, I can coach you in the direction you need to go, not where my training thinks you should go. While I may illuminate potential paths, you're taking the steps with me right behind you!
My clients are individuals who often carry with them unresolved feelings from either their past or present challenges. Viewing those issues from an objective and trusted practitioner is vital to the change process. Always viewing my clients with unconditional positive regard is essential to us being successful. Therapy can often be the first time someone gets to step out of the day to day of their lives. My hope is during this introspection, I can coach you in the direction you need to go, not where my training thinks you should go. While I may illuminate potential paths, you're taking the steps with me right behind you!
(760) 642-5557 View (760) 642-5557
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Tami Earnhart - Art Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, ATR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92011
You’re worried about your child. You wonder if they need therapy and it’s weighing on you. You’ve tried talking to them, reasoning why their fear doesn’t make sense, but it never seems to make a difference. I help anxious kids & worried parents feel safe and at ease. I get that you just want your child to feel more carefree and express themselves more confidently. Today, you’re searching for a child therapist because you know if you don’t get help, nothing is going to change for your child. And something has got to change. I understand.
You’re worried about your child. You wonder if they need therapy and it’s weighing on you. You’ve tried talking to them, reasoning why their fear doesn’t make sense, but it never seems to make a difference. I help anxious kids & worried parents feel safe and at ease. I get that you just want your child to feel more carefree and express themselves more confidently. Today, you’re searching for a child therapist because you know if you don’t get help, nothing is going to change for your child. And something has got to change. I understand.
(760) 840-5477 View (760) 840-5477
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Maha M Kabban-Moses
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
La Costa, CA 92011
We often lead busy lives and give low priority to self-care and stress management. As such, we allow depression, anxiety, traumas, dysfunctional relationships, and/or addictions to impact on us. Many issues can be avoided by checking in with how you think and feel, by resolving past traumas, and by developing new skills in dealing with life. Together, we will work to reconcile with memories, resolve traumas, and set meaningful goals for the future. We will work on improving relationships, addressing hurdles, and exploring new possibilities. You will discover your strength, uncover your courage and values, and find your voice.
We often lead busy lives and give low priority to self-care and stress management. As such, we allow depression, anxiety, traumas, dysfunctional relationships, and/or addictions to impact on us. Many issues can be avoided by checking in with how you think and feel, by resolving past traumas, and by developing new skills in dealing with life. Together, we will work to reconcile with memories, resolve traumas, and set meaningful goals for the future. We will work on improving relationships, addressing hurdles, and exploring new possibilities. You will discover your strength, uncover your courage and values, and find your voice.
(619) 489-2589 View (619) 489-2589
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Jamie Clear
MA
Verified Verified
La Costa, CA 92009
Not accepting new clients
The best way to create a meaningful counseling relationship is to start by calling a few counselors and trusting yourself to know what feels like a good fit.
Whether you are struggling in relationships, going through a season of transition or seeking a greater sense of purpose and meaning in your life, I would be honored to work with you. My intention as a counselor is to be a healing presence in the life of my clients by offering unconditional acceptance and holding the space for you to be your truest self. I believe that every challenge is an invitation to transformation, and together we will seek wisdom and reflect on the growth that longs to occur in your life.
The best way to create a meaningful counseling relationship is to start by calling a few counselors and trusting yourself to know what feels like a good fit.
Whether you are struggling in relationships, going through a season of transition or seeking a greater sense of purpose and meaning in your life, I would be honored to work with you. My intention as a counselor is to be a healing presence in the life of my clients by offering unconditional acceptance and holding the space for you to be your truest self. I believe that every challenge is an invitation to transformation, and together we will seek wisdom and reflect on the growth that longs to occur in your life.
(760) 957-0618 View (760) 957-0618
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Rhonda E. Allen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
La Costa, CA 92011
Not accepting new clients
Are you feeling sad, anxious, or just not yourself? Do you overthink the past? Worry too much about the future? Reach for quick fixes that don’t work, or do you ignore the problem and tell yourself that, eventually, things will change? Your sad thoughts and anxious feelings zap your energy, and the quick fixes only cause more painful struggles; distancing yourself from the problem only worsens things. There is a reason for your sadness, worry, dependency, and detachment. Reaching out for help is the courageous first step toward finding relief and a solution.
Are you feeling sad, anxious, or just not yourself? Do you overthink the past? Worry too much about the future? Reach for quick fixes that don’t work, or do you ignore the problem and tell yourself that, eventually, things will change? Your sad thoughts and anxious feelings zap your energy, and the quick fixes only cause more painful struggles; distancing yourself from the problem only worsens things. There is a reason for your sadness, worry, dependency, and detachment. Reaching out for help is the courageous first step toward finding relief and a solution.
(760) 465-0237 View (760) 465-0237

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Jason P Springsted
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
San Bernardino, CA 92401
This word can describe comforting, encouraging, and strengthening, and I strive to have that kind of relationship with my clients.
I am passionate about marriage and the family, and I believe that healthy and whole individuals make up the best families. Whether you see something seriously wrong in your life, believe your marriage could use a little fine tuning, or are worried about your adolescent slipping away, please understand that I would love to work with you on these challenges. I am thankful for those with whom I work, and I consider it a privilege to be trusted. As a Christ-follower, I am happy to incorporate faith, but only with those who so desire.
This word can describe comforting, encouraging, and strengthening, and I strive to have that kind of relationship with my clients.
I am passionate about marriage and the family, and I believe that healthy and whole individuals make up the best families. Whether you see something seriously wrong in your life, believe your marriage could use a little fine tuning, or are worried about your adolescent slipping away, please understand that I would love to work with you on these challenges. I am thankful for those with whom I work, and I consider it a privilege to be trusted. As a Christ-follower, I am happy to incorporate faith, but only with those who so desire.
(951) 291-9643 View (951) 291-9643

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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.