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Dr. Riichiro Miwa
Psychologist, PsyD, Life-, Coach
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612  (Online Only)
[現在若干の新規受付の空きが出来ました。] こんにちは! Dr.三羽理一郎といいます。私は、日本で生まれ育ち、東京の国際基督教大学(ICU)で学士号および修士号を取得。その後渡米し、ペパーダイン大学の博士課程にて博士号を取得し、現在はサイコロジストとして働いています。在学中よりさまざまな場所で教育およびトレーニングを受けており、現在はオレンジカウンティで個人開業のオフィスを持っています。日英両語でサービスを提供しており、重篤な精神疾患から、高機能のライフコーチングまで幅広くサポートさせていただいています。うつや不安、異文化にかかわる問題はもちろん、カップルセラピー、家族療法など、様々な必要に対応できるのが特色です。特には、感情面でのバランスの崩れや、人間関係の問題、理屈ではどうにも出来ないようなことの理解と解決を中心に扱っています。15分の、サービスに関する無料相談をうけたまわっていますので、私の直通番号(310) 933-6281まで遠慮なくご連絡ください。************** My information in English is also available. Please click "English" on top of this page to read my introduction in English if you'd like to.
[現在若干の新規受付の空きが出来ました。] こんにちは! Dr.三羽理一郎といいます。私は、日本で生まれ育ち、東京の国際基督教大学(ICU)で学士号および修士号を取得。その後渡米し、ペパーダイン大学の博士課程にて博士号を取得し、現在はサイコロジストとして働いています。在学中よりさまざまな場所で教育およびトレーニングを受けており、現在はオレンジカウンティで個人開業のオフィスを持っています。日英両語でサービスを提供しており、重篤な精神疾患から、高機能のライフコーチングまで幅広くサポートさせていただいています。うつや不安、異文化にかかわる問題はもちろん、カップルセラピー、家族療法など、様々な必要に対応できるのが特色です。特には、感情面でのバランスの崩れや、人間関係の問題、理屈ではどうにも出来ないようなことの理解と解決を中心に扱っています。15分の、サービスに関する無料相談をうけたまわっていますので、私の直通番号(310) 933-6281まで遠慮なくご連絡ください。************** My information in English is also available. Please click "English" on top of this page to read my introduction in English if you'd like to.
(310) 933-6281 View (310) 933-6281
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Hiroko Saeki
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, RDT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92602
はじめまして。私は、カリフォルニア州公認の結婚家族セラピスト、そして、北米ドラマセラピー学会公認のドラマセラピストでもあります。今まで、5歳から101歳まで、様々な悩みを抱えた方々のご相談に乗ってきました。特に、子どもの頃に虐待を受けた方など、これまで誰にも聞いてもらえなかったような心の声に耳を傾け、心の傷を癒すお手伝いをしています。
はじめまして。私は、カリフォルニア州公認の結婚家族セラピスト、そして、北米ドラマセラピー学会公認のドラマセラピストでもあります。今まで、5歳から101歳まで、様々な悩みを抱えた方々のご相談に乗ってきました。特に、子どもの頃に虐待を受けた方など、これまで誰にも聞いてもらえなかったような心の声に耳を傾け、心の傷を癒すお手伝いをしています。
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Christine Chae
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCSW
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Are you feeling helpless in dealing with your child/teen emotional and behavioral issues? Do you feel lost in connecting with your child/teen? You want to help them but don't know how? I have been working with children, adults, and families for over 15 years to bring out their potential in mindfulness, creativity and relationships through individual and family therapy. Through this process, clients get to know themselves better, in a safe and supportive environment. I develop a therapeutic relationship based on their needs and goals. My experience includes treating individuals with depression, anxiety, anger, and trauma.
Are you feeling helpless in dealing with your child/teen emotional and behavioral issues? Do you feel lost in connecting with your child/teen? You want to help them but don't know how? I have been working with children, adults, and families for over 15 years to bring out their potential in mindfulness, creativity and relationships through individual and family therapy. Through this process, clients get to know themselves better, in a safe and supportive environment. I develop a therapeutic relationship based on their needs and goals. My experience includes treating individuals with depression, anxiety, anger, and trauma.
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Crossroads Institute
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612
We are an organization of mental health professionals with a common goal of providing excellent and expert services in Los Angeles, Orange County, and San Diego counties. We are committed to providing the highest level of professional expertise and human compassion for issues and concerns that arise in the course of our lives. Crossroads Institute offers psychotherapy services for all ages, psychiatry, clinical, educational, and neuropsychological assessment, and brain training services, including qEEG based Neurofeedback and Biofeedback services.
We are an organization of mental health professionals with a common goal of providing excellent and expert services in Los Angeles, Orange County, and San Diego counties. We are committed to providing the highest level of professional expertise and human compassion for issues and concerns that arise in the course of our lives. Crossroads Institute offers psychotherapy services for all ages, psychiatry, clinical, educational, and neuropsychological assessment, and brain training services, including qEEG based Neurofeedback and Biofeedback services.
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Lea Reyes | Relationships
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, LPC, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92604  (Online Only)
Struggles in your relationship can be overwhelming and confusing where you're constantly arguing over small things and feel a growing distance as a couple. "How did things get to this point and how do I fix it?" I want you to know that I understand because I have been in your shoes. I know the pain and frustration that comes with feeling disconnected in a relationship
Struggles in your relationship can be overwhelming and confusing where you're constantly arguing over small things and feel a growing distance as a couple. "How did things get to this point and how do I fix it?" I want you to know that I understand because I have been in your shoes. I know the pain and frustration that comes with feeling disconnected in a relationship
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Euriah (Dong E.) Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist, MSMFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612  (Online Only)
We all know life can be stressful and filled with different challenges that overwhelm us. It is only natural that sometimes you may feel lost and helpless when you try to deal with these matters by yourself, including life transitions, work stress, relationship difficulties, cultural/racial problems and so on. I would like to assist you in navigating your path to better understand these issues, find best ways to manage them, and process your emotions in a safe place, so that you can better yourself and achieve your goals through that experience. In our work together, I will help you to live a more meaningful and joyful life.
We all know life can be stressful and filled with different challenges that overwhelm us. It is only natural that sometimes you may feel lost and helpless when you try to deal with these matters by yourself, including life transitions, work stress, relationship difficulties, cultural/racial problems and so on. I would like to assist you in navigating your path to better understand these issues, find best ways to manage them, and process your emotions in a safe place, so that you can better yourself and achieve your goals through that experience. In our work together, I will help you to live a more meaningful and joyful life.
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Junko Yamauchi
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
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Not accepting new clients
あなたはこれまで、あなたの話にじっと耳を傾け、急いで解決策を提供するでもなく、ただ心に寄り添ってもらったという経験はありますか?セラピー(カウンセリング)はそういう場所です。セラピーはあなたのための時間です。交代で相手の話を聞いてあげる必要はありません。家族や友人を心配させたくないから悩みを打ち明けられないとか、すでに周りの人に話しすぎてうんざりさせてしまった、という時はセラピストの出番です。また、セラピーは心の弱い人が行くところ、とか、重い精神病の人がかかるもの、との認識で二の足を踏んでしまうこともあるでしょう。自分や家族の問題を第三者になんて話せない、とも思うかもしれません。でも、第三者であるからこそ、気を遣わずにすむのです。セラピストには守秘義務があるので、あなたが話してくださることは他言しません。そういう意味で、セラピーは安全な場所だと感じていただけたら嬉しいです。なんとなくモヤモヤした気持ち、はっきり説明できないけれど満たせれない心、どこにもぶつけられない怒り。当てはまるものがあったら、ぜひご相談ください。
あなたはこれまで、あなたの話にじっと耳を傾け、急いで解決策を提供するでもなく、ただ心に寄り添ってもらったという経験はありますか?セラピー(カウンセリング)はそういう場所です。セラピーはあなたのための時間です。交代で相手の話を聞いてあげる必要はありません。家族や友人を心配させたくないから悩みを打ち明けられないとか、すでに周りの人に話しすぎてうんざりさせてしまった、という時はセラピストの出番です。また、セラピーは心の弱い人が行くところ、とか、重い精神病の人がかかるもの、との認識で二の足を踏んでしまうこともあるでしょう。自分や家族の問題を第三者になんて話せない、とも思うかもしれません。でも、第三者であるからこそ、気を遣わずにすむのです。セラピストには守秘義務があるので、あなたが話してくださることは他言しません。そういう意味で、セラピーは安全な場所だと感じていただけたら嬉しいです。なんとなくモヤモヤした気持ち、はっきり説明できないけれど満たせれない心、どこにもぶつけられない怒り。当てはまるものがあったら、ぜひご相談ください。
(408) 582-7011 View (408) 582-7011

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老若男女、今まで20年以上 0歳から110歳までの方たちと触れ合い働くことで、たくさんのことを学んできました。平日はお仕事でお忙しいでも気軽にセラピーを始められるよう、主に週末(土曜、日曜、稀に祝日)のみのスケジュールです。今のところ18歳以上のクライアントが対象です。
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日本とアメリカの文化の違い、仕事場でのストレス、家庭での問題などを相談してください。私は日本の大学を卒業後にカリフォルニアの大学院で心理学を学びました。大学院在住は私自身がクライアントとしてセラピーを受ける経験もあり、クライアントさんに寄り添ったセラピーを提供しています。
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Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.