Divorce Therapists in Irvine, CA
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Meghan Malloy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612
My name is Meghan and I am a therapist practicing in person out of Orange County and virtually throughout the state of California. My early familial experience with divorce has made me especially skilled at working with people in resolving relational conflicts and holding space for different perspectives. I love working with two or more people in the room, tackling issues related to parent-child relationships, couple relationships, and divorce & co-parenting. The core tenants of my work are non-judgement and positivity.
My name is Meghan and I am a therapist practicing in person out of Orange County and virtually throughout the state of California. My early familial experience with divorce has made me especially skilled at working with people in resolving relational conflicts and holding space for different perspectives. I love working with two or more people in the room, tackling issues related to parent-child relationships, couple relationships, and divorce & co-parenting. The core tenants of my work are non-judgement and positivity.
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If you have tried to resolve relationship issues or other life complications on your own and things still haven't changed, I can help get you to where you want to go. I specialize in working with adults (individuals & couples) regarding relationship conflicts, anxiety, depression, divorce, parenting problems and difficult life transitions. Every client is different and your treatment plan will be personalized to meet your needs. We will work together to develop the strategies that will be most effective for you.
If you have tried to resolve relationship issues or other life complications on your own and things still haven't changed, I can help get you to where you want to go. I specialize in working with adults (individuals & couples) regarding relationship conflicts, anxiety, depression, divorce, parenting problems and difficult life transitions. Every client is different and your treatment plan will be personalized to meet your needs. We will work together to develop the strategies that will be most effective for you.
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MARRIAGE ON THE BRINK? Discernment Counseling is a new and innovative short-term therapy (just 1-5 sessions) that is designed for couples who are not sure, or cannot agree, whether to work on their marriage or consider divorce. This is not traditional marriage counseling - my goal is to help you and your spouse gain clarity and confidence about a direction for your relationship in order to decide whether to recommit to marriage, move toward divorce, or maintain the status quo.
MARRIAGE ON THE BRINK? Discernment Counseling is a new and innovative short-term therapy (just 1-5 sessions) that is designed for couples who are not sure, or cannot agree, whether to work on their marriage or consider divorce. This is not traditional marriage counseling - my goal is to help you and your spouse gain clarity and confidence about a direction for your relationship in order to decide whether to recommit to marriage, move toward divorce, or maintain the status quo.
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Is your child experiencing the following symptoms as a result of parental divorce or separation? (sadness, anxiety, regression in sleeping, toilet training, thumb sucking, difficulty leaving primary caretaker, clinginess, crying, temper tantrums, feelings of guilt, loneliness, shame, anger, bedtime anxiety, loyalty conflict and physical complaints). If your child is experiencing the above mentioned symptoms, psychotherapy that helps the child and family feel safe and supported is essential to healing. I am a Board Certified licensed Clinical Psychologist with eight years of clinical experience and specialize in children ages 0-12 who are struggling as a result of parental divorce or separation.
Is your child experiencing the following symptoms as a result of parental divorce or separation? (sadness, anxiety, regression in sleeping, toilet training, thumb sucking, difficulty leaving primary caretaker, clinginess, crying, temper tantrums, feelings of guilt, loneliness, shame, anger, bedtime anxiety, loyalty conflict and physical complaints). If your child is experiencing the above mentioned symptoms, psychotherapy that helps the child and family feel safe and supported is essential to healing. I am a Board Certified licensed Clinical Psychologist with eight years of clinical experience and specialize in children ages 0-12 who are struggling as a result of parental divorce or separation.
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I specialize in working with adults who are struggling in their relationships, specifically divorce recovery.
I believe therapy can be a powerful tool to overcome life's obstacles. My clients want to learn how to approach these obstacles and apply their new skills as problems arise; this allows my clients to feel confident in making positive, lasting changes in their lives. I often work with individuals, both adults and adolescents, who want to learn how to be more mindful in their lives and want help "getting out of their heads so to speak." My clients often want to re-establish their inner strength and learn how to better problem-solve in order to improve their lives.
I specialize in working with adults who are struggling in their relationships, specifically divorce recovery.
I believe therapy can be a powerful tool to overcome life's obstacles. My clients want to learn how to approach these obstacles and apply their new skills as problems arise; this allows my clients to feel confident in making positive, lasting changes in their lives. I often work with individuals, both adults and adolescents, who want to learn how to be more mindful in their lives and want help "getting out of their heads so to speak." My clients often want to re-establish their inner strength and learn how to better problem-solve in order to improve their lives.
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Life can be extremely difficult when dealing with the impact of the past or when facing current life changing experiences. I'm a licensed clinical psychologist who is experienced in the area of trauma (physical, emotional, sexual abuse; neglect; and domestic violence); major life transitions (divorce, bereavement, or foster care system); and chronic illness. I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, children, and families that are looking for positive change and growth in their relationships and themselves. I am certified in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing), a therapeutic tool to reduce trauma; as well as helping to create a healthy state of balance.
Life can be extremely difficult when dealing with the impact of the past or when facing current life changing experiences. I'm a licensed clinical psychologist who is experienced in the area of trauma (physical, emotional, sexual abuse; neglect; and domestic violence); major life transitions (divorce, bereavement, or foster care system); and chronic illness. I am passionate about working with individuals, couples, children, and families that are looking for positive change and growth in their relationships and themselves. I am certified in EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing), a therapeutic tool to reduce trauma; as well as helping to create a healthy state of balance.
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Cornell Custody Solutions
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92620
Cornell Custody Solutions works with families dealing with divorce and custody related issues. CCS was founded by Dr. Nelson de Ramirez. The same founder of OC Kids Therapy. We provide individual, reunification, co-parenting and mediation that is focused on getting results.
Cornell Custody Solutions works with families dealing with divorce and custody related issues. CCS was founded by Dr. Nelson de Ramirez. The same founder of OC Kids Therapy. We provide individual, reunification, co-parenting and mediation that is focused on getting results.
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Marc Bruderer
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, MBA, AMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92618
I believe that emotional insights are the cornerstone of therapeutic growth. Drawing from life experience, I offer empathy and understanding to individuals navigating issues like anxiety, depression, family dysfunction, relationship conflicts, past trauma, grief, loneliness, life crises, shame, self-esteem issues, aging, body image concerns, parenting problems, and divorce. My clients seek to uncover emotional insights, foster healthier relationships, and achieve personal growth. They desire a therapist who can empathize and understand their experiences. I help navigate my clients' journey toward health, happiness, and healing.
I believe that emotional insights are the cornerstone of therapeutic growth. Drawing from life experience, I offer empathy and understanding to individuals navigating issues like anxiety, depression, family dysfunction, relationship conflicts, past trauma, grief, loneliness, life crises, shame, self-esteem issues, aging, body image concerns, parenting problems, and divorce. My clients seek to uncover emotional insights, foster healthier relationships, and achieve personal growth. They desire a therapist who can empathize and understand their experiences. I help navigate my clients' journey toward health, happiness, and healing.
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Adult Autism/ADHD Assessments, Couples, Mediation
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, MDR, JD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92623 (Online Only)
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I also provide mediation services for separation, divorce and parenting agreements.
Have the last few years created new or increased suffering in your life or with your relationships? I can help you climb out of this difficult space and improve your happiness and reduce conflict and suffering. Learning new tools can dramatically improve your life and the relationships around you, whether that be at work, home or with family. Please consider reaching out to do a 15 minute consultation (free of charge) to explore how our work together could help you achieve the happiness you are seeking.
I also provide mediation services for separation, divorce and parenting agreements.
Have the last few years created new or increased suffering in your life or with your relationships? I can help you climb out of this difficult space and improve your happiness and reduce conflict and suffering. Learning new tools can dramatically improve your life and the relationships around you, whether that be at work, home or with family. Please consider reaching out to do a 15 minute consultation (free of charge) to explore how our work together could help you achieve the happiness you are seeking.
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Do you feel like you've exhausted your attempts at self-help? Do you keep repeating the same patterns of behavior or thoughts despite your efforts to change them? If you feel weary, hopeless, stuck, frustrated with how things are, wanting change but unable to get there on your own, I can help. While we don't expect life to be easy, sometimes difficult times can become more than we can bear on our own. I address a variety of concerns including anxiety, depression, relational/communication difficulties, coping with grief and loss, role/life transitions, behavior difficulties, ADHD, parenting stress, and divorce.
Do you feel like you've exhausted your attempts at self-help? Do you keep repeating the same patterns of behavior or thoughts despite your efforts to change them? If you feel weary, hopeless, stuck, frustrated with how things are, wanting change but unable to get there on your own, I can help. While we don't expect life to be easy, sometimes difficult times can become more than we can bear on our own. I address a variety of concerns including anxiety, depression, relational/communication difficulties, coping with grief and loss, role/life transitions, behavior difficulties, ADHD, parenting stress, and divorce.
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Relationship issues, men's issues, infidelity, divorce, family conflict, life transitions, grief and loss, let's go!.
Men and Couples, is your relationship struggling after having kids, stressful jobs, or because negative thoughts and behaviors? Do you want better communication and emotional intimacy? Build secure-functioning relationship and marriage with shared purpose, solid agreements, and positive repairs! If you are seeking the clarity and authenticity to get unstuck, realize life goals, increase mindfulness and self-awareness, counseling is a courageous first step towards having a better experience and manifesting your dreams.
Relationship issues, men's issues, infidelity, divorce, family conflict, life transitions, grief and loss, let's go!.
Men and Couples, is your relationship struggling after having kids, stressful jobs, or because negative thoughts and behaviors? Do you want better communication and emotional intimacy? Build secure-functioning relationship and marriage with shared purpose, solid agreements, and positive repairs! If you are seeking the clarity and authenticity to get unstuck, realize life goals, increase mindfulness and self-awareness, counseling is a courageous first step towards having a better experience and manifesting your dreams.
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Christina Allameh
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, AMFT
Not Verified Not Verified
Irvine, CA 92612 (Online Only)
I have successfully treated issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, crisis management, borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, relationship issues, and divorce.
Finding the right therapist can be a difficult task. Connecting and opening up to a stranger can feel even more daunting. Taking the first step and reaching out for support shows the desire for true and meaningful change. My therapeutic style is warm, active, and non-judgemental. My goal is to build trust and create a safe space where you, the client, can feel open sharing your thoughts, feelings and emotions. Together we can work to get to the root of the issues you are facing and push past them to help you live your best life.
I have successfully treated issues such as depression, anxiety, trauma, grief, crisis management, borderline personality disorder, bipolar disorder, relationship issues, and divorce.
Finding the right therapist can be a difficult task. Connecting and opening up to a stranger can feel even more daunting. Taking the first step and reaching out for support shows the desire for true and meaningful change. My therapeutic style is warm, active, and non-judgemental. My goal is to build trust and create a safe space where you, the client, can feel open sharing your thoughts, feelings and emotions. Together we can work to get to the root of the issues you are facing and push past them to help you live your best life.
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Bilingual Couples Therapist
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, APCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92618
Welcome! I work with those struggling with anxiety, grief, life transitions, divorce, stress, navigating culture/racial identity, or relationship stress. If you're looking for a new therapist feel free to reach out for an initial consultation. -Hola y Bienvenido! Si usted o su familia necesitan a alguien con quién hablar, no dude en llamarme. Juntos determinaremos si la terapia puede ser adecuada para su situación.
Welcome! I work with those struggling with anxiety, grief, life transitions, divorce, stress, navigating culture/racial identity, or relationship stress. If you're looking for a new therapist feel free to reach out for an initial consultation. -Hola y Bienvenido! Si usted o su familia necesitan a alguien con quién hablar, no dude en llamarme. Juntos determinaremos si la terapia puede ser adecuada para su situación.
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As a psychotherapist licensed in Marriage, Family Therapy, and 16 years experience working with clients, I am dedicated to the wholeness of individuals and their relationships. I am trained thoroughly working with: anxiety/depression, relationship conflict, trauma & PTSD, issues of divorce and co-parenting; life stage crises; and sexual addiction. My theoretical approach is integrative; and I draw especially on EMDR, psychodynamic, Positive Psychology, attachment theory, cognitive behavioral and systems theories.
As a psychotherapist licensed in Marriage, Family Therapy, and 16 years experience working with clients, I am dedicated to the wholeness of individuals and their relationships. I am trained thoroughly working with: anxiety/depression, relationship conflict, trauma & PTSD, issues of divorce and co-parenting; life stage crises; and sexual addiction. My theoretical approach is integrative; and I draw especially on EMDR, psychodynamic, Positive Psychology, attachment theory, cognitive behavioral and systems theories.
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Fae specializes in treating LGBTQIA+ individuals, including issues of sexuality and identity. She is additionally specialized in grief and loss, immigration and acculturation, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, life-transitions, and divorce. Fae approaches therapy from a client-centered approach. She views you as the expert on your own life, and she is just an instrument in your healing process. She provides a warm environment with unconditional positive regard to create a feeling of safety during your therapeutic process.
Fae specializes in treating LGBTQIA+ individuals, including issues of sexuality and identity. She is additionally specialized in grief and loss, immigration and acculturation, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, life-transitions, and divorce. Fae approaches therapy from a client-centered approach. She views you as the expert on your own life, and she is just an instrument in your healing process. She provides a warm environment with unconditional positive regard to create a feeling of safety during your therapeutic process.
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Pilar Aguero-Cardosa
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92606 (Online Only)
I strive to help my clients achieve lasting change though natural means such as self-compassion, mindfulness, and positive empowerment. I like to work with individuals, families, and couples dealing with anxiety, depression, and anger problems. During my over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist, I have to achieve an extensive experience working with couples and families issues such as making the marriage work, divorce, blended families daily situations and co-parenting. My main goal is to help clients solved their presenting problems with the least amount of sessions possible.
I strive to help my clients achieve lasting change though natural means such as self-compassion, mindfulness, and positive empowerment. I like to work with individuals, families, and couples dealing with anxiety, depression, and anger problems. During my over 20 years of experience as a psychotherapist, I have to achieve an extensive experience working with couples and families issues such as making the marriage work, divorce, blended families daily situations and co-parenting. My main goal is to help clients solved their presenting problems with the least amount of sessions possible.
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I am a licensed clinical psychologist who treats depression, anxiety and panic attacks, grief, trauma and PTSD, chronic pain and illness (i.e. Parkinson's and cancer), divorce recovery, parenting skills, managing life transition stages, aging, LGBTQIA+ support, stress, weight loss struggles, self-esteem, and communication skills. My approach to therapy is based on a foundation of building a relationship and connection with patients, in order to provide a safe place to talk about the hard things in Iife.
I am a licensed clinical psychologist who treats depression, anxiety and panic attacks, grief, trauma and PTSD, chronic pain and illness (i.e. Parkinson's and cancer), divorce recovery, parenting skills, managing life transition stages, aging, LGBTQIA+ support, stress, weight loss struggles, self-esteem, and communication skills. My approach to therapy is based on a foundation of building a relationship and connection with patients, in order to provide a safe place to talk about the hard things in Iife.
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I love working with children and adolescents. Before I get a history from you, I like to meet with your teenager to let them feel like they have a choice in picking their therapist. This gives them a sense of control and they are then more committed to the therapy. I will integrate the family as necessary. I have extensive success with children of divorce, those experiencing anxiety, depression, low self esteem and difficulty managing anger. I also connect well with adults and young adults dealing with life transitions.
I love working with children and adolescents. Before I get a history from you, I like to meet with your teenager to let them feel like they have a choice in picking their therapist. This gives them a sense of control and they are then more committed to the therapy. I will integrate the family as necessary. I have extensive success with children of divorce, those experiencing anxiety, depression, low self esteem and difficulty managing anger. I also connect well with adults and young adults dealing with life transitions.
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If you would like to have a free 15-minute consultation to see if I could be a fit for you, you can make an appointment at www.kristenhowertonlmft.com. I'm passionate about helping couples and families thrive. I enjoy working with clients who want to improve their relationships (even divorced couples who are coparenting.) I am experienced with working with autism spectrum, ADHD, infertility, adoption, multi-racial families, divorce mediation, and coparenting. I also have experience working with people struggling with addiction, and those who love them.
If you would like to have a free 15-minute consultation to see if I could be a fit for you, you can make an appointment at www.kristenhowertonlmft.com. I'm passionate about helping couples and families thrive. I enjoy working with clients who want to improve their relationships (even divorced couples who are coparenting.) I am experienced with working with autism spectrum, ADHD, infertility, adoption, multi-racial families, divorce mediation, and coparenting. I also have experience working with people struggling with addiction, and those who love them.
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Danielle Roxborough
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Irvine, CA 92612
If you're highly successful but love evades you; If resentment is blocking intimacy; If you're feeling undervalued or unheard; If closeness feels too close, or never close enough; If a guilty pleasure feels more like home than your partner does; If your sex life has dwindled; If you're damned if you do, damned if you don't & it's never good enough; If hyper-independence is a way of life, yet you crave closeness; If you're desperate for love, but terrified of abandonment; If your arguments spiral towards hopelessness; If you're considering divorce; If your trauma keeps you distanced; If you keep finding the wrong person; I can help.
If you're highly successful but love evades you; If resentment is blocking intimacy; If you're feeling undervalued or unheard; If closeness feels too close, or never close enough; If a guilty pleasure feels more like home than your partner does; If your sex life has dwindled; If you're damned if you do, damned if you don't & it's never good enough; If hyper-independence is a way of life, yet you crave closeness; If you're desperate for love, but terrified of abandonment; If your arguments spiral towards hopelessness; If you're considering divorce; If your trauma keeps you distanced; If you keep finding the wrong person; I can help.
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Divorce Therapists
How does therapy for people affected by a divorce work?
Individuals may feel a number of emotions following a divorce, such as shock, guilt, grief, anger, and fear. Therapists offer a non-judgmental space for individuals to talk about what they’ve experienced and process their emotions. Therapists will help clients develop coping strategies. They can also help a client rebuild their sense of self and self-worth and talk about what a happier future might look like.
What’s the most common type of therapy following a divorce?
There are several types of therapy that may be useful for divorce, including cognitive behavioral, acceptance and commitment, solution-focused brief, and mindfulness-based therapies. Many therapy types are talk-therapy based, which is typically the most popular option for individuals dealing with divorce. Cognitive behavioral therapy is a widely-used talk therapy, however, there’s no specific therapy type that’s designed to help people with divorce, and different types will work depending on the person.
When should an individual seek help due to a divorce?
When the feelings of a divorced individual, or an individual going through the process of divorce, begin to disrupt healthy daily functioning, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not performing at work due to problems with anxiety or motivation, if they’re no longer seeing friends due to feelings of shame, or if they’re not properly taking care of themselves as a result of depression, speaking to a professional could help.
How do you encourage someone to go to therapy due to a divorce?
It’s helpful to express concern and love for the individual while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Sharing how the individual appears to be suffering, and what effects it has on them or on their children, should be done with compassion and empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.