Parent-Child Interaction (PCIT) Therapists in Costa Mesa, CA

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The Child and Family Connection
Psychologist, MS, PsyD
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Specialties include ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Oppositional Behavior, Family Conflict, Divorce and Blended Families, Emotional Dysregulation, Play Therapy, PCIT, Eating Disorders, Trauma, and Psychological Testing.
At the Child and Family Connection, we believe that all children want to do well. Children, like anyone, are limited by the skills and tools available to them. This principal guides our work with children and families to identify the underlying cause through multi-modality approaches and bring out the best for both the child and caregiver. Our skilled, licensed mental health professionals have the experience, training, and education to help with each child's individualized psychological, behavioral, and educational needs.
Specialties include ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, Oppositional Behavior, Family Conflict, Divorce and Blended Families, Emotional Dysregulation, Play Therapy, PCIT, Eating Disorders, Trauma, and Psychological Testing.
At the Child and Family Connection, we believe that all children want to do well. Children, like anyone, are limited by the skills and tools available to them. This principal guides our work with children and families to identify the underlying cause through multi-modality approaches and bring out the best for both the child and caregiver. Our skilled, licensed mental health professionals have the experience, training, and education to help with each child's individualized psychological, behavioral, and educational needs.
(949) 541-0304 View (949) 541-0304
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Chelze Zamani
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
My passion is in working with BIPOC/mixed/queer folks, partnerships, parent-child relationship, sexual trauma survivors, complex trauma, ambiguous loss, and friendship loss.
My name is Dr. Zamani (she/her) and I am a queer Afghan-American mixed licensed doctor in marriage & family therapy. I specialize in working with Complex Trauma for folks who have been exposed to consistent stressful experiences throughout their development ranging from childhood trauma, displacement, financial instability, and abandonment. Since I went to school for 9 years and had to complete a doctoral exam and dissertation, I have a wide range of knowledge and experience working from different therapy modalities and approaches. Most of which originate from eastern teachings and indigenous practices.
My passion is in working with BIPOC/mixed/queer folks, partnerships, parent-child relationship, sexual trauma survivors, complex trauma, ambiguous loss, and friendship loss.
My name is Dr. Zamani (she/her) and I am a queer Afghan-American mixed licensed doctor in marriage & family therapy. I specialize in working with Complex Trauma for folks who have been exposed to consistent stressful experiences throughout their development ranging from childhood trauma, displacement, financial instability, and abandonment. Since I went to school for 9 years and had to complete a doctoral exam and dissertation, I have a wide range of knowledge and experience working from different therapy modalities and approaches. Most of which originate from eastern teachings and indigenous practices.
(657) 837-2566 View (657) 837-2566
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Cassandra Moore
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
After PCIT, children demonstrate improvements in compliance and reductions in overall disruptive behaviors.
Are you feeling stressed or out of control of your child's behavior? Are the good days getting fewer and far between? As the Assistant Director of the PCIT Institute, I specialize in treating families with children 2-8 with difficulties such as: Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), Autism Spectrum disorders, anxiety and difficult divorce reactions utilizing Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT). By giving equal attention to the parent-child relationship and to parents' behavior management skills, I collaborate with families to enhance parent-child interactions, improve behavior, and empower parents to use consistent, predictable, effective parenting strategies that work.
After PCIT, children demonstrate improvements in compliance and reductions in overall disruptive behaviors.
Are you feeling stressed or out of control of your child's behavior? Are the good days getting fewer and far between? As the Assistant Director of the PCIT Institute, I specialize in treating families with children 2-8 with difficulties such as: Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), Autism Spectrum disorders, anxiety and difficult divorce reactions utilizing Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT). By giving equal attention to the parent-child relationship and to parents' behavior management skills, I collaborate with families to enhance parent-child interactions, improve behavior, and empower parents to use consistent, predictable, effective parenting strategies that work.
(855) 568-3291 View (855) 568-3291
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PCIT Institute of Southern California
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Over 30 published studies have documented the superiority of PCIT over other methods.
Is your child controlling your household with their demands, tantrums and power struggles? Are you feeling exhausted, out of control and defeated? Are you embarrassed in public and afraid that people see your child's behavior as your failure? Are you tired of fighting, struggling, and trying so hard, but getting nowhere?
Over 30 published studies have documented the superiority of PCIT over other methods.
Is your child controlling your household with their demands, tantrums and power struggles? Are you feeling exhausted, out of control and defeated? Are you embarrassed in public and afraid that people see your child's behavior as your failure? Are you tired of fighting, struggling, and trying so hard, but getting nowhere?
(949) 482-4367 View (949) 482-4367
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The Art of Healing
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
In addition, I am certified in PCIT, Parent-Child Interactive Therapy to help at-risk parents relate to their children more effectively.
With specialties in addiction and dual diagnosis; including depression, anxiety and trauma history, I take an integrated, holistic approach to care. The therapeutic relationship is one in which optimum healing is, as a result of the reciprocal bond, between the therapist and the client. One can only be open to the experience of change and improvement in their life if they feel safe. This is the therapy space that I provide in order to help shape authentic, loving and accurate self-awareness. I provide nurturance, guidance, affirmation and compassionate reflection in order to help clients feel grounded in their own decision-making.
In addition, I am certified in PCIT, Parent-Child Interactive Therapy to help at-risk parents relate to their children more effectively.
With specialties in addiction and dual diagnosis; including depression, anxiety and trauma history, I take an integrated, holistic approach to care. The therapeutic relationship is one in which optimum healing is, as a result of the reciprocal bond, between the therapist and the client. One can only be open to the experience of change and improvement in their life if they feel safe. This is the therapy space that I provide in order to help shape authentic, loving and accurate self-awareness. I provide nurturance, guidance, affirmation and compassionate reflection in order to help clients feel grounded in their own decision-making.
(714) 978-4660 View (714) 978-4660
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Mitra H Elmi
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Being in the helping field is where I belong, and helping others is my priority. I initially began my career as a teacher, and then decided to pursue a deeper role in helping others learn, grow, and become their best self. During the past 8 years of being a clinical therapist, I have worked in both a clinic and school setting. I've worked with a diverse population, including people of all ages, cultures, and socioeconomic backgrounds. I welcome anyone who is willing to work with me, together, to improve relationships, self, family, and/or overall well-being.
Being in the helping field is where I belong, and helping others is my priority. I initially began my career as a teacher, and then decided to pursue a deeper role in helping others learn, grow, and become their best self. During the past 8 years of being a clinical therapist, I have worked in both a clinic and school setting. I've worked with a diverse population, including people of all ages, cultures, and socioeconomic backgrounds. I welcome anyone who is willing to work with me, together, to improve relationships, self, family, and/or overall well-being.
(949) 682-3843 View (949) 682-3843
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Logical Behavioral Health
Psychologist, PsyD, PhD, ABPP, LMFT
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Logical Behavioral Health providers are professionals who understand and prioritize your care above all else. We believe that in certain cases, good care even means providing a referral to someone outside of our office if our providers are not the best fit for your behavioral health care needs. The overall course of treatment will ultimately utilize a collaborative approach in helping you achieve mutually formulated treatment goals to reduce symptoms and improve functioning. If you believe that you need a referral to a psychiatrist or other health care professional, we have the resources to provide you with an appropriate referral.
Logical Behavioral Health providers are professionals who understand and prioritize your care above all else. We believe that in certain cases, good care even means providing a referral to someone outside of our office if our providers are not the best fit for your behavioral health care needs. The overall course of treatment will ultimately utilize a collaborative approach in helping you achieve mutually formulated treatment goals to reduce symptoms and improve functioning. If you believe that you need a referral to a psychiatrist or other health care professional, we have the resources to provide you with an appropriate referral.
(949) 536-8892 View (949) 536-8892
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Mary E Lama
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Waitlist for new clients
We are all on our own journey in life, filled with experiences big and small that have shaped our present. At times we all have our own work to do to feel mentally healthy and balanced in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a courageous and powerful step for your journey, helping you grow and/or heal to reach the goals you desire. By meeting you where you are at emotionally/mentally we work for you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself, discover patterns in your life and learn skills for you to reach your goals.
We are all on our own journey in life, filled with experiences big and small that have shaped our present. At times we all have our own work to do to feel mentally healthy and balanced in our relationship with ourselves and others. Therapy is a courageous and powerful step for your journey, helping you grow and/or heal to reach the goals you desire. By meeting you where you are at emotionally/mentally we work for you to gain a deeper understanding of yourself, discover patterns in your life and learn skills for you to reach your goals.
(925) 275-5216 View (925) 275-5216
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Rachael Berg-Martinez
Psychologist, PhD, PMH-C
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
If you are finding yourself impacted by hurt and harm from your past, I am here to help. Our experiences can weigh heavily on our present relationships with family, partners, and children, diminish our sense of thriving, and impact our faith and spirituality. Often we are paying the debt of generations before us to benefit the generations to come. Healing is a powerful, though sometimes painful process, but you don’t have to do this alone. Reaching out for support is the first courageous step in this investment.
If you are finding yourself impacted by hurt and harm from your past, I am here to help. Our experiences can weigh heavily on our present relationships with family, partners, and children, diminish our sense of thriving, and impact our faith and spirituality. Often we are paying the debt of generations before us to benefit the generations to come. Healing is a powerful, though sometimes painful process, but you don’t have to do this alone. Reaching out for support is the first courageous step in this investment.
(714) 558-9266 x244 View (714) 558-9266 x244
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Amy McNerney
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, PsyD, MA-ED, TF-EAP, IAYT
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92627  (Online Only)
Having spent almost two decades healing patients, I've developed a profound understanding of the unique challenges individuals face in their journey towards self-discovery. My approach combines evidence-based, trauma-focused therapy with neuroscience-based cognitive techniques, specifically tailored toward each patient. Together, I invite you to embark on a journey of growth and empowerment, unlocking your full potential and nurturing your True Self.
Having spent almost two decades healing patients, I've developed a profound understanding of the unique challenges individuals face in their journey towards self-discovery. My approach combines evidence-based, trauma-focused therapy with neuroscience-based cognitive techniques, specifically tailored toward each patient. Together, I invite you to embark on a journey of growth and empowerment, unlocking your full potential and nurturing your True Self.
(949) 704-5043 View (949) 704-5043
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John L. Avitabile
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MBA, MA
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Each individual experiences life's journey in a personally unique manner while weaving the tapestry of lived experience into a meaningful and beautiful pattern reflecting their journey. As most of us have discovered, however, sometimes the actual experience can be fraught with anxiety, depression, anger, regret and disappointment. As a therapist, I use my education and life experience to help clients reconnect with their hopes, dreams, personal and professional goals using their undiscovered strengths and natural resilience. We will work together to find practical strategies to make life energizing, meaningful and rewarding again.
Each individual experiences life's journey in a personally unique manner while weaving the tapestry of lived experience into a meaningful and beautiful pattern reflecting their journey. As most of us have discovered, however, sometimes the actual experience can be fraught with anxiety, depression, anger, regret and disappointment. As a therapist, I use my education and life experience to help clients reconnect with their hopes, dreams, personal and professional goals using their undiscovered strengths and natural resilience. We will work together to find practical strategies to make life energizing, meaningful and rewarding again.
(949) 531-7844 View (949) 531-7844
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Claudia Ulwelling
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
My name is Claudia Ulwelling, MA, LMFT. My approach to therapy is to offer a safe and welcoming space for you to explore life challenges that you feel may be holding you back from your goals. I have experience treating clients with family conflict, grief/loss, life transitions, personal growth and transformation, spirituality, stress and trauma. My therapeutic approaches are dependent on clients individual needs. Solution Focused and Person Centered Therapies are two modalities I have found to promote increased well-being.
My name is Claudia Ulwelling, MA, LMFT. My approach to therapy is to offer a safe and welcoming space for you to explore life challenges that you feel may be holding you back from your goals. I have experience treating clients with family conflict, grief/loss, life transitions, personal growth and transformation, spirituality, stress and trauma. My therapeutic approaches are dependent on clients individual needs. Solution Focused and Person Centered Therapies are two modalities I have found to promote increased well-being.
(805) 222-7806 View (805) 222-7806
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Alison Lynn Johnson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Costa Mesa, CA 92627
Frustrated with your: relationship? sex life? child? I am trained in 2nd level, Gottman Method, a specialty that started with couples. John Gottman, the author of, "7 Principles of Marriage," is known for predicting divorce with 90% accuracy, has been influential over my career. The Gottman Method has transformed my practice to focusing on couples, parenting, and children. If you're looking for guidance through a challenging situation with your children, partner or anyone else, I look forward to working with you to accomplish your goals.
Frustrated with your: relationship? sex life? child? I am trained in 2nd level, Gottman Method, a specialty that started with couples. John Gottman, the author of, "7 Principles of Marriage," is known for predicting divorce with 90% accuracy, has been influential over my career. The Gottman Method has transformed my practice to focusing on couples, parenting, and children. If you're looking for guidance through a challenging situation with your children, partner or anyone else, I look forward to working with you to accomplish your goals.
(714) 654-1570 View (714) 654-1570
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Allen Darbonne
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
"WANT A DEEP SOULMATE CNXN?" HEARTBROKEN? FAMILY HURTING? DISAPPOINTED? LONELY? FEELING NOT APPRECIATED, NOT SEEN ? TIRED ARGUING? STUBBORN MATE? STAY OR BREAKUP?" "WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?" After 50 years helping couples and training therapists all over the world, I am convinced that most relationship problems are not the couples' fault. Lacking Real Knowledge & Skills for Deep Soulmate Relating is! CALL ME.
"WANT A DEEP SOULMATE CNXN?" HEARTBROKEN? FAMILY HURTING? DISAPPOINTED? LONELY? FEELING NOT APPRECIATED, NOT SEEN ? TIRED ARGUING? STUBBORN MATE? STAY OR BREAKUP?" "WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?" After 50 years helping couples and training therapists all over the world, I am convinced that most relationship problems are not the couples' fault. Lacking Real Knowledge & Skills for Deep Soulmate Relating is! CALL ME.
(424) 269-2119 View (424) 269-2119
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Lisa L Popper
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, LPCC
Verified Verified
Costa Mesa, CA 92627
Are you struggling with a recent loss – the death of a loved one, loss of a job or the end of a relationship? Do you have a child that has been recently diagnosed with Autism or suffers with self-esteem issues? Are you trying to work on your marriage to rekindle the passion you once enjoyed? Some clients tell me they just feel "off" and unable to enjoy life as they once knew it. Therapy exists to help individuals like you navigate circumstances that are difficult to face alone.
Are you struggling with a recent loss – the death of a loved one, loss of a job or the end of a relationship? Do you have a child that has been recently diagnosed with Autism or suffers with self-esteem issues? Are you trying to work on your marriage to rekindle the passion you once enjoyed? Some clients tell me they just feel "off" and unable to enjoy life as they once knew it. Therapy exists to help individuals like you navigate circumstances that are difficult to face alone.
(714) 862-2162 View (714) 862-2162
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Madeline S Rodriguez
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Not accepting new clients
If you are reading this, I commend you for taking the first step toward exploring/identifying someone to help you through whatever concerning issue and or life challenge that has occurred which prompted your search. It is my hope that you connect with someone that you feel will be the right fit for you and meet your current needs; if that person happens to be me, I look forward to embarking on this journey with you. My name is Madeline Rodriguez, and I have been working in the mental health field for over 7 years, with a widespread of experience, providing comprehensive and culturally sensitive/diverse services.
If you are reading this, I commend you for taking the first step toward exploring/identifying someone to help you through whatever concerning issue and or life challenge that has occurred which prompted your search. It is my hope that you connect with someone that you feel will be the right fit for you and meet your current needs; if that person happens to be me, I look forward to embarking on this journey with you. My name is Madeline Rodriguez, and I have been working in the mental health field for over 7 years, with a widespread of experience, providing comprehensive and culturally sensitive/diverse services.
(714) 266-3252 View (714) 266-3252

More Therapists Nearby

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Mariam Ibrahim
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92660  (Online Only)
Dr. Ibrahim completed her PhD in Clinical Psychology at Arizona State University, with an emphasis on clinical child and health psychology. She then completed her clinical internship at the UCLA's Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior and post-doctoral fellowship at Children’s Hospital of Orange County (CHOC). Dr. Ibrahim flexibly uses evidence-based modalities backed by research to guide her treatment, adapting the approaches to each individual’s needs. She is trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma-Focused CBT, and Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT).
Dr. Ibrahim completed her PhD in Clinical Psychology at Arizona State University, with an emphasis on clinical child and health psychology. She then completed her clinical internship at the UCLA's Semel Institute for Neuroscience and Human Behavior and post-doctoral fellowship at Children’s Hospital of Orange County (CHOC). Dr. Ibrahim flexibly uses evidence-based modalities backed by research to guide her treatment, adapting the approaches to each individual’s needs. She is trained in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Trauma-Focused CBT, and Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT).
(714) 415-2033 View (714) 415-2033
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Elizabeth Kovacevich
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS, MFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92660
For over 30 years I have been helping my clients to discover new ways to deal with their problems and to begin thriving rather than merely surviving in their lives. My greatest strength is moving people from crisis to change. My openness and forthright style with clients provide them the opportunity for understanding, personal growth, and change. I view therapy as an educational as well as therapeutic experience. My style is primarily interactive. I am supportive, caring and process oriented. I have extensive experience with mental health, hospitals and schools. I love working with people in all stages and ages of their lives!
For over 30 years I have been helping my clients to discover new ways to deal with their problems and to begin thriving rather than merely surviving in their lives. My greatest strength is moving people from crisis to change. My openness and forthright style with clients provide them the opportunity for understanding, personal growth, and change. I view therapy as an educational as well as therapeutic experience. My style is primarily interactive. I am supportive, caring and process oriented. I have extensive experience with mental health, hospitals and schools. I love working with people in all stages and ages of their lives!
(831) 272-4983 View (831) 272-4983
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Trinity Wang
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Irvine, CA 92612  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
*Please email me to schedule an appt* Have you ever found yourself asking “What was I thinking?” or thought, “I should have done this differently!” I get it, and you’re not alone in these thoughts! They are signs that you’re hoping for change. Whether you’re experiencing conflicts in your relationship, cross-cultural challenges, academic concerns, or you’re taking time for self-exploration, you’re likely feeling overwhelmed, scared, anxious, or even depressed through it all. I’m here to work with you in turning these challenges into the freedom you’re pursuing.
*Please email me to schedule an appt* Have you ever found yourself asking “What was I thinking?” or thought, “I should have done this differently!” I get it, and you’re not alone in these thoughts! They are signs that you’re hoping for change. Whether you’re experiencing conflicts in your relationship, cross-cultural challenges, academic concerns, or you’re taking time for self-exploration, you’re likely feeling overwhelmed, scared, anxious, or even depressed through it all. I’m here to work with you in turning these challenges into the freedom you’re pursuing.
(949) 979-7355 View (949) 979-7355
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Cornell Custody Solutions
Marriage & Family Therapist, PsyD, LMFT
Verified Verified
Newport Beach, CA 92660
Cornell Custody Solutions works with families dealing with divorce and custody related issues. CCS was founded by Dr. Nelson de Ramirez. The same founder of OC Kids Therapy. We provide individual, reunification, co-parenting and mediation that is focused on getting results.
Cornell Custody Solutions works with families dealing with divorce and custody related issues. CCS was founded by Dr. Nelson de Ramirez. The same founder of OC Kids Therapy. We provide individual, reunification, co-parenting and mediation that is focused on getting results.
(949) 763-4390 View (949) 763-4390
Parent-Child Interaction (PCIT) Therapists

Does parent-child interaction therapy (PCIT) work?

PCIT is an evidence-based treatment that has been shown to be effective across domains, including for children with behavioral problems, those on the autism spectrum, and those who have experienced early childhood trauma. Further, studies have found that the skills developed through PCIT benefit not only the child in therapy but also siblings, as the parent internalizes lessons learned in sessions and is able to incorporate them into interactions with other family members.

How long does PCIT last?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and treatment lasts, on average, between 12 and 20 sessions. Factors that influence treatment duration include how regularly a client attends treatment, how much progress is achieved between sessions, the particular skills that need development, and the extent to which the parent and therapist see improvement.

Can PCIT be done online?

PCIT is among the therapy types best suited for video sessions. Therapists are able to communicate with parents with essentially the same ease, and by observing the parent and child at home in their normal environment, the therapist may gain additional insight into their interactions, as the child will have their normal toys and may feel more comfortable and act more naturally than they would in a therapist’s room.

Does PCIT help parents?

In addition to the skills parents develop through the treatment, PCIT has also been shown to reduce frustration, stress, and depression in parents and promote confidence and a sense of calm when dealing with their children. The desired outcomes of PCIT include a reduction in defiant and aggressive behavior by children and an improvement in communicating their feelings productively, complying with parental instruction, and behaving according to parents’ rules. Growth in these areas can be a relief for parents.