Relationship Issues Therapists in Coronado, CA

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Lilach Dior Harris
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
I have spent the past 20+ years listening to relationship problems and their attempted failed solutions.
I offer non-judgmental, direct, compassionate and effective therapy. I possess 20+ years of extensive experience and education in the successful treatment of relationship issues often related to unresolved trauma. In therapy, we are a team and you are the “driver”, my role is to navigate the journey and this life is all about the journey. As a certified EMDR psychotherapist, I have found that EMDR is one of the most effective methods to stimulate the brain and body’s natural ability towards healing. I can help you develop simple solutions to parenting issues post COVID.
I have spent the past 20+ years listening to relationship problems and their attempted failed solutions.
I offer non-judgmental, direct, compassionate and effective therapy. I possess 20+ years of extensive experience and education in the successful treatment of relationship issues often related to unresolved trauma. In therapy, we are a team and you are the “driver”, my role is to navigate the journey and this life is all about the journey. As a certified EMDR psychotherapist, I have found that EMDR is one of the most effective methods to stimulate the brain and body’s natural ability towards healing. I can help you develop simple solutions to parenting issues post COVID.
(619) 320-4647 View (619) 320-4647
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Cory Stege
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
I believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is essential in promoting successful outcomes and can help you determine if I am the right fit for you.
Through an effective, supportive, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach, I act as an experienced and knowledgable guide for individuals and couples seeking positive and healthy transformations individually and within relationships. I offer compassionate and empathic support and guidance as well as implement gentle, direct, and respectful challenges so that my clients feel safe and comfortable with acknowledging and exploring what is working as well as thoughts and behaviors that are contributing to life's struggles and dissatisfaction.
I believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is essential in promoting successful outcomes and can help you determine if I am the right fit for you.
Through an effective, supportive, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach, I act as an experienced and knowledgable guide for individuals and couples seeking positive and healthy transformations individually and within relationships. I offer compassionate and empathic support and guidance as well as implement gentle, direct, and respectful challenges so that my clients feel safe and comfortable with acknowledging and exploring what is working as well as thoughts and behaviors that are contributing to life's struggles and dissatisfaction.
(619) 762-4045 View (619) 762-4045
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Rebecca Moore
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Coronado, CA 92118  (Online Only)
Our work together will help you to increase your self-awareness and your thoughts in a way that will allow you to learn better ways to manage and relieve symptoms of depression or anxiety. For example, you might be feeling symptoms such as relationship issues, sadness anger, insomnia, stress, worry or social phobias which we can change. My approach aims to help you attract and maintain healthy personal and professional relationships. We will work together to reduce stress, depression , anxiety, improve your relationships and improve your overall quality of life.
Our work together will help you to increase your self-awareness and your thoughts in a way that will allow you to learn better ways to manage and relieve symptoms of depression or anxiety. For example, you might be feeling symptoms such as relationship issues, sadness anger, insomnia, stress, worry or social phobias which we can change. My approach aims to help you attract and maintain healthy personal and professional relationships. We will work together to reduce stress, depression , anxiety, improve your relationships and improve your overall quality of life.
(619) 492-3346 View (619) 492-3346
Patricia Lazalde
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Coronado, CA 92118
I have been very effective in my work with Couples and managing Relationship Issues & Relationship Conflict.
As a psychologist, I am compassionate, experienced, and down to earth. I enjoy working with adults and children, and I am committed to understanding my clients and helping you reach your goals. I believe that change is possible with patience and effort. The path to transformation is a commitment that must be made collaboratively by both of us. If you are or your child is experiencing depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, or behavioral problems it may be time to seek psychological help. Feel free to call me and I'll give you my professional opinion on your next steps.
I have been very effective in my work with Couples and managing Relationship Issues & Relationship Conflict.
As a psychologist, I am compassionate, experienced, and down to earth. I enjoy working with adults and children, and I am committed to understanding my clients and helping you reach your goals. I believe that change is possible with patience and effort. The path to transformation is a commitment that must be made collaboratively by both of us. If you are or your child is experiencing depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, or behavioral problems it may be time to seek psychological help. Feel free to call me and I'll give you my professional opinion on your next steps.
(619) 722-3258 View (619) 722-3258
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Sally Witmer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Coronado, CA 92118
The safety and connection of our therapeutic relationship will be the foundation, no matter what style you choose to explore.
It takes courage to seek therapy. I'm passionate about how the power of therapy can restore lives in vibrant ways, like it did my own. I've been working in the helping field for 25+ years as a social worker, with a focus on developmental trauma, anxiety, relationship issues, and healing from abuse and abandonment. I enjoy supporting couples as well as individuals.
The safety and connection of our therapeutic relationship will be the foundation, no matter what style you choose to explore.
It takes courage to seek therapy. I'm passionate about how the power of therapy can restore lives in vibrant ways, like it did my own. I've been working in the helping field for 25+ years as a social worker, with a focus on developmental trauma, anxiety, relationship issues, and healing from abuse and abandonment. I enjoy supporting couples as well as individuals.
(619) 775-1625 View (619) 775-1625
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Tamela S Dreyer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
Imagine a relationship or marriage where communication flows easily, trust is restored, and intimacy deepens.
Communication with your partner has broken down, causing trust in each other and in your relationship/marriage to erode. It seems like every conversation turns into an argument. Old grievances resurface, increasing anxiety, bringing unhealed wounds to the top. Each of you has expectations of the other, and when they go unmet, you're both left feeling disappointed. The cycle of blame and resentment has caused frustration and emotional distance. You remember when your life as a couple felt joyful, peaceful, and full of laughter. You love each other but have no idea how to heal the rift that's grown between you. Healing is possible.
Imagine a relationship or marriage where communication flows easily, trust is restored, and intimacy deepens.
Communication with your partner has broken down, causing trust in each other and in your relationship/marriage to erode. It seems like every conversation turns into an argument. Old grievances resurface, increasing anxiety, bringing unhealed wounds to the top. Each of you has expectations of the other, and when they go unmet, you're both left feeling disappointed. The cycle of blame and resentment has caused frustration and emotional distance. You remember when your life as a couple felt joyful, peaceful, and full of laughter. You love each other but have no idea how to heal the rift that's grown between you. Healing is possible.
(619) 333-8682 View (619) 333-8682
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Jessie Lee
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
Clients are typically feeling stuck and annoyed about falling into the same patterns when they come in to see me. Together, we will look at the ways you've tried to address your issues, and how those attempts are usually counterproductive. In session, we will work on increasing your brain's flexibility to create sustainable change within your relationship with yourself and with others. I'm passionate about working with college students and young adults navigating life transitions, anxiety, and people pleasing.
Clients are typically feeling stuck and annoyed about falling into the same patterns when they come in to see me. Together, we will look at the ways you've tried to address your issues, and how those attempts are usually counterproductive. In session, we will work on increasing your brain's flexibility to create sustainable change within your relationship with yourself and with others. I'm passionate about working with college students and young adults navigating life transitions, anxiety, and people pleasing.
(619) 815-4037 View (619) 815-4037
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Denise L Buchanan
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Coronado, CA 92118  (Online Only)
If you are currently in a relationship that isn't working, use this realization as an opportunity to build a better relationship with more physical and emotional intimacy.
My passion is to help my clients feel empowered in their lives and to live more resiliently. I enjoy collaborating with my clients to achieve the best version of themselves, repair their relationships, and find more meaning and joy in their lives. I am a Christian therapist and have had the privilege to be in private practice for over 20 years, working with individuals and couples. I am confident from my clinical experience that therapy works to improve clients' sense of wellbeing and overall satisfaction in their lives.
If you are currently in a relationship that isn't working, use this realization as an opportunity to build a better relationship with more physical and emotional intimacy.
My passion is to help my clients feel empowered in their lives and to live more resiliently. I enjoy collaborating with my clients to achieve the best version of themselves, repair their relationships, and find more meaning and joy in their lives. I am a Christian therapist and have had the privilege to be in private practice for over 20 years, working with individuals and couples. I am confident from my clinical experience that therapy works to improve clients' sense of wellbeing and overall satisfaction in their lives.
(619) 853-4097 View (619) 853-4097
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Jessica Ryan Morris
Counselor, MS, LPCC
Verified Verified
Coronado, CA 92118
My primary focus is working with individuals struggling with anxiety, relationship issues, weight and body image, disordered eating and addiction.
I’m passionate about helping those seeking change in their lives to achieve their goals. My education in multi-cultural counseling and social justice means that I approach each individual with empathy and awareness when it comes to navigating racial and gender identities, and life experiences. I understand we each have our own story and challenges, making the recovery and healing process unique for each of us. I help clients to identify and achieve small-scale, doable goals which build a foundation for lasting change.
My primary focus is working with individuals struggling with anxiety, relationship issues, weight and body image, disordered eating and addiction.
I’m passionate about helping those seeking change in their lives to achieve their goals. My education in multi-cultural counseling and social justice means that I approach each individual with empathy and awareness when it comes to navigating racial and gender identities, and life experiences. I understand we each have our own story and challenges, making the recovery and healing process unique for each of us. I help clients to identify and achieve small-scale, doable goals which build a foundation for lasting change.
(619) 393-7942 View (619) 393-7942
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Sean Hodges
Psychologist, PhD, MSCP
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
I serve to help those with acute or chronic medical and emotional problems. I help find solutions to depression, anxiety and irritability (including low self-esteem, lack of motivation, low energy, feeling on edge, enduring feelings of sadness/guilt). I help those who have a history of acute or chronic trauma, intimacy and relationship concerns, behavioral problems (such as acting out and oppositional defiance), ADD/ADHD, substance abuse, acute/chronic pain, headaches, obesity, heart disease, cancer, diabetes.
I serve to help those with acute or chronic medical and emotional problems. I help find solutions to depression, anxiety and irritability (including low self-esteem, lack of motivation, low energy, feeling on edge, enduring feelings of sadness/guilt). I help those who have a history of acute or chronic trauma, intimacy and relationship concerns, behavioral problems (such as acting out and oppositional defiance), ADD/ADHD, substance abuse, acute/chronic pain, headaches, obesity, heart disease, cancer, diabetes.
(619) 996-3195 View (619) 996-3195
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Rika Tanaka
Psychologist, PhD, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
Life is hard! Whether it’s dealing with everyday hassles (e.g. work or family/ relationship-related stress) or big life events (e.g. death of a loved one, a new diagnosis, trauma, job loss, divorce, marriage, retirement, or welcoming home a new baby), life can really take a toll on us all! If you feel like you’re worried about everything (all the time!) or if you feel like you’ve somehow lost your sense of confidence or joy along the way, I am here to help! As a licensed psychologist, I help young adults (18+), adults, and seniors (65+) just like you cope with anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, health stress, and more.
Life is hard! Whether it’s dealing with everyday hassles (e.g. work or family/ relationship-related stress) or big life events (e.g. death of a loved one, a new diagnosis, trauma, job loss, divorce, marriage, retirement, or welcoming home a new baby), life can really take a toll on us all! If you feel like you’re worried about everything (all the time!) or if you feel like you’ve somehow lost your sense of confidence or joy along the way, I am here to help! As a licensed psychologist, I help young adults (18+), adults, and seniors (65+) just like you cope with anxiety, depression, grief, life transitions, health stress, and more.
(619) 554-0120 View (619) 554-0120
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Maricela Moore
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Coronado, CA 92118  (Online Only)
We aren't often taught healthy ways to cope with life's challenges and I aim to build a strong therapeutic relationship to collaboratively work towards your individual healing journey.
Hello! It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to seek therapy, so I'm glad you're here. My goal is to create a safe space to process your current challenges and help you build on your inherent strengths to create your unique path to wellness. I utilize highly effective evidence-based treatments such as EMDR, cognitive-behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and person-centered therapy. I provide a safe and supportive environment to promote self-awareness, healing, and personal growth to reach your full potential.
We aren't often taught healthy ways to cope with life's challenges and I aim to build a strong therapeutic relationship to collaboratively work towards your individual healing journey.
Hello! It takes a lot of courage and vulnerability to seek therapy, so I'm glad you're here. My goal is to create a safe space to process your current challenges and help you build on your inherent strengths to create your unique path to wellness. I utilize highly effective evidence-based treatments such as EMDR, cognitive-behavioral therapy, mindfulness, and person-centered therapy. I provide a safe and supportive environment to promote self-awareness, healing, and personal growth to reach your full potential.
(858) 780-4777 View (858) 780-4777
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James Staunton
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118  (Online Only)
I am accepting new patients (January 2023). Is life overwhelming and you feel alone with your problems? Do you feel hopeless to achieve the relationship you always wanted? If you want to change, I can help. Maybe you get caught up in fear and anxiety you don't understand what is causing it. Have you been shocked to see yourself acting like your parents in ways you never wanted? Or, do you strive to understand yourself deeply and make sense of your life? Maybe you have that burning desire to find a kind of wholeness in yourself?
I am accepting new patients (January 2023). Is life overwhelming and you feel alone with your problems? Do you feel hopeless to achieve the relationship you always wanted? If you want to change, I can help. Maybe you get caught up in fear and anxiety you don't understand what is causing it. Have you been shocked to see yourself acting like your parents in ways you never wanted? Or, do you strive to understand yourself deeply and make sense of your life? Maybe you have that burning desire to find a kind of wholeness in yourself?
(619) 377-8319 View (619) 377-8319
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Dr. Aubrey Austin
Psychologist, PhD, LP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118  (Online Only)
I am a seasoned, skilled, and supportive psychologist with 20 years of experience treating traumatic stress, anxiety, and relationship concerns.
Do you ever feel anxious, overwhelmed by work, or shaken by a traumatic event? Do you put others first and struggle to take care of yourself? Are you stuck repeating problematic relationship patterns? I help executives, healthcare professionals, first responders, and community members like you enhance their mental wellness with proven tools and supportive therapy. By focusing on reducing symptoms, building skills, and targeting core underlying causes, my clients recover from stressful events and build lasting change in their lives. I am a Licensed Psychologist in Colorado (PSY.0003749) and California (PSY35122).
I am a seasoned, skilled, and supportive psychologist with 20 years of experience treating traumatic stress, anxiety, and relationship concerns.
Do you ever feel anxious, overwhelmed by work, or shaken by a traumatic event? Do you put others first and struggle to take care of yourself? Are you stuck repeating problematic relationship patterns? I help executives, healthcare professionals, first responders, and community members like you enhance their mental wellness with proven tools and supportive therapy. By focusing on reducing symptoms, building skills, and targeting core underlying causes, my clients recover from stressful events and build lasting change in their lives. I am a Licensed Psychologist in Colorado (PSY.0003749) and California (PSY35122).
(833) 721-0411 View (833) 721-0411
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Jeff Williams | Pathways Family Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
If you're an individual experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction or complex inter-personal relationship issues, I'd love to help.
Welcome! I work with families and individuals that are stuck and ready for change. Therapy is a great place to open up, be understood, and pursue change. I've been in the mental health field most of my adult life and value the process every day. It includes honest feedback, improved self-awareness, an inventory of the parts of our life that we want to keep and those that we will adjust. If you're ready to work through the challenges, I'd like to help!
If you're an individual experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma, addiction or complex inter-personal relationship issues, I'd love to help.
Welcome! I work with families and individuals that are stuck and ready for change. Therapy is a great place to open up, be understood, and pursue change. I've been in the mental health field most of my adult life and value the process every day. It includes honest feedback, improved self-awareness, an inventory of the parts of our life that we want to keep and those that we will adjust. If you're ready to work through the challenges, I'd like to help!
(619) 975-3332 View (619) 975-3332
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Kaelyn Baker
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MA, LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship to foster positive change and create a foundation for lasting well-being.
Do you often worry about what others think of you? Do you find yourself trying to please everyone around you? Are you caught in the pressure of doing everything perfectly, yet still feeling like you’re not good enough? I specialize in supporting adolescents and young adults facing trauma, anxiety, and depression. My areas of focus include people-pleasing, perfectionism, guilt, shame, self-harm, disordered eating, and relational challenges. I’m especially passionate about helping my clients build self-esteem, confidence, and self-compassion.
I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship to foster positive change and create a foundation for lasting well-being.
Do you often worry about what others think of you? Do you find yourself trying to please everyone around you? Are you caught in the pressure of doing everything perfectly, yet still feeling like you’re not good enough? I specialize in supporting adolescents and young adults facing trauma, anxiety, and depression. My areas of focus include people-pleasing, perfectionism, guilt, shame, self-harm, disordered eating, and relational challenges. I’m especially passionate about helping my clients build self-esteem, confidence, and self-compassion.
(760) 642-6431 View (760) 642-6431
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Mark Veldkamp
Counselor, MA, LPCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
I can help with the following: work stress and burnout, relationship issues, grief and loss, traumatic life events, loss of drive and motivation, lack of life direction, managing anger, and dealing with life crises.
Are you overwhelmed by stress, worry, or loss? Has your job taken over your life? Do you feel stuck, lost, or unsure where to turn? My name is Mark Veldkamp. I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor based in San Diego, California offering in person and virtual sessions to California residents with a variety emotional and mental health needs. I started my practice because I believe that no one should have to face life’s challenges alone and that everyone deserves support. No matter how bad things might seem, no matter how helpless you feel, there is hope. You deserve a life filled with joy and meaning.
I can help with the following: work stress and burnout, relationship issues, grief and loss, traumatic life events, loss of drive and motivation, lack of life direction, managing anger, and dealing with life crises.
Are you overwhelmed by stress, worry, or loss? Has your job taken over your life? Do you feel stuck, lost, or unsure where to turn? My name is Mark Veldkamp. I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor based in San Diego, California offering in person and virtual sessions to California residents with a variety emotional and mental health needs. I started my practice because I believe that no one should have to face life’s challenges alone and that everyone deserves support. No matter how bad things might seem, no matter how helpless you feel, there is hope. You deserve a life filled with joy and meaning.
(424) 332-0496 View (424) 332-0496
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Ryan Dumke
Psychologist, PsyD, ABPP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
I start out by evaluating your concerns and building a relationship with you, and developing a plan with you that's tailored to meet your goals.
Hello! In a world that can feel rough and insensitive, with pasts that feel like they can choke us, it can be hard to move past the weight of our histories and our own minds. I'm here to help you figure out problems you want to overcome, what goals and life you want, and work with you to get there. I work with mood disorders (depression), anxiety disorders (OCD, Generalized Anxiety, panic), trauma-spectrum disorders (PTSD), relationship problems, intimacy issues, emotional problems, work and academic issues, and generalized coaching. Reach out and we'll figure it out together! Call 619-500-8967 for a free consult.
I start out by evaluating your concerns and building a relationship with you, and developing a plan with you that's tailored to meet your goals.
Hello! In a world that can feel rough and insensitive, with pasts that feel like they can choke us, it can be hard to move past the weight of our histories and our own minds. I'm here to help you figure out problems you want to overcome, what goals and life you want, and work with you to get there. I work with mood disorders (depression), anxiety disorders (OCD, Generalized Anxiety, panic), trauma-spectrum disorders (PTSD), relationship problems, intimacy issues, emotional problems, work and academic issues, and generalized coaching. Reach out and we'll figure it out together! Call 619-500-8967 for a free consult.
(760) 239-5626 View (760) 239-5626
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Kira Sweetlove - Personal Evolution Psychotherapy
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, AMFT
Verified Verified
Coronado, CA 92118
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stressed out or sad to the point that you can't live the life you want? Do you want to feel better & have a life worth living? Personal Evolution Psychotherapy (PEP) is a team of therapists that use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, family conflict, panic, excessive worry & depression. Visit Us at www.PersonalEvolutionPsychotherapy.com. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly. Call us today to schedule an appt.
Are you feeling overwhelmed, stressed out or sad to the point that you can't live the life you want? Do you want to feel better & have a life worth living? Personal Evolution Psychotherapy (PEP) is a team of therapists that use Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to overcome social anxiety, depression, communication & relationship issues, family conflict, panic, excessive worry & depression. Visit Us at www.PersonalEvolutionPsychotherapy.com. We provide much more than traditional talk therapy & help you get results to help control your emotions & your life. By doing this we can help more quickly. Call us today to schedule an appt.
(619) 787-6676 View (619) 787-6676
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Dr. Laura-Beth Fitzpatrick
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Coronado, CA 92118
A lot is happening in our world right now. If you’re finding yourself struggling with adjusting to life changes, experiencing low mood, or feeling challenged in a relationship, you don’t have to hold this alone. In therapy, I create a space where you can be your authentic self, in the safety of a therapeutic relationship where you feel heard, understood, and cared for. I have a warm therapeutic approach that is collaborative as we work together toward the heart of what you need.
A lot is happening in our world right now. If you’re finding yourself struggling with adjusting to life changes, experiencing low mood, or feeling challenged in a relationship, you don’t have to hold this alone. In therapy, I create a space where you can be your authentic self, in the safety of a therapeutic relationship where you feel heard, understood, and cared for. I have a warm therapeutic approach that is collaborative as we work together toward the heart of what you need.
(619) 664-4624 View (619) 664-4624
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.