Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists in Oshkosh, WI

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Nicole Ann Millerd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, BS, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oshkosh, WI 54901
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome, and congratulations on taking the first step to living your best life! Are you struggling with a pattern of unhealthy and unsatisfying relationships or recovering from a painful breakup or divorce? I can help you heal and create the space for healthier, more satisfying relationships in the future. Are you struggling with the depression, anxiety, and isolation that comes with navigating a global pandemic? Have you experienced physical, sexual, and emotional abuse and are unsure of where to turn to? Do you struggle to regain power and agency over a life overwhelmed by trauma? Better days are on the horizon!
Welcome, and congratulations on taking the first step to living your best life! Are you struggling with a pattern of unhealthy and unsatisfying relationships or recovering from a painful breakup or divorce? I can help you heal and create the space for healthier, more satisfying relationships in the future. Are you struggling with the depression, anxiety, and isolation that comes with navigating a global pandemic? Have you experienced physical, sexual, and emotional abuse and are unsure of where to turn to? Do you struggle to regain power and agency over a life overwhelmed by trauma? Better days are on the horizon!
(920) 245-8613 View (920) 245-8613
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Donald Lee Schade
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54901  (Online Only)
Donnie utilizes a solution-focused and client-centered approach that supports clients in setting and reaching personalized, obtainable goals that improve their overall wellbeing. He also draws on evidence-based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to teach clients coping skills and help them develop a better understanding of the connections between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. With almost ten years of clinical practice, Donnie has abundant experience integrating these therapy modalities in a manner best suited to meet the needs of each client.
Donnie utilizes a solution-focused and client-centered approach that supports clients in setting and reaching personalized, obtainable goals that improve their overall wellbeing. He also draws on evidence-based Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to teach clients coping skills and help them develop a better understanding of the connections between their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. With almost ten years of clinical practice, Donnie has abundant experience integrating these therapy modalities in a manner best suited to meet the needs of each client.
(920) 824-3949 View (920) 824-3949
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Carrie Walters
Counselor, LPC-IT
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54904
I love watching my clients grow and become empowered by the work they are doing on themselves. I am on this journey with you as we utilize a technique or an approach that is individualized to you. I enjoy working with ages 13+ whether you are navigating through depression, stress, anxiety, suicidal ideations or you just need a safe space.
I love watching my clients grow and become empowered by the work they are doing on themselves. I am on this journey with you as we utilize a technique or an approach that is individualized to you. I enjoy working with ages 13+ whether you are navigating through depression, stress, anxiety, suicidal ideations or you just need a safe space.
(920) 689-4137 View (920) 689-4137
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Robin M. West
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CSAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oshkosh, WI 54901  (Online Only)
Clearing past trauma can allow you to live, love and pursue your goals in the now rather than living in reaction to the past. Eliminating triggers for using substances can help you get and stay sober.I have used EMDR to help people with just about any MH issue with great success. In addition, I have a background that I feel allows me to be of special help to veterans, emergency responders, survivors of sexual assault and anyone who struggles with shame or guilt for any reason. EMDR in conjunction with Trauma informed guilt reduction therapy can be very healing. See website: rwestpsychotherapy.com
Clearing past trauma can allow you to live, love and pursue your goals in the now rather than living in reaction to the past. Eliminating triggers for using substances can help you get and stay sober.I have used EMDR to help people with just about any MH issue with great success. In addition, I have a background that I feel allows me to be of special help to veterans, emergency responders, survivors of sexual assault and anyone who struggles with shame or guilt for any reason. EMDR in conjunction with Trauma informed guilt reduction therapy can be very healing. See website: rwestpsychotherapy.com
(920) 533-0868 View (920) 533-0868
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Thomas Mittelsteadt
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAC
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54902
The clients I work with are coping with not only addiction issues, but are having problems with depression, anxiety, trauma, impulse control problems, anger, and much more. I take a holistic approach to treatment, meaning that in treatment, we focus on the whole person - physical, social, emotional and mental. Addiction and mental health recovery is an active process, and I understand the process. If you are seeking a life of peace and happiness; of successes and reaching goals, I will be your guide.
The clients I work with are coping with not only addiction issues, but are having problems with depression, anxiety, trauma, impulse control problems, anger, and much more. I take a holistic approach to treatment, meaning that in treatment, we focus on the whole person - physical, social, emotional and mental. Addiction and mental health recovery is an active process, and I understand the process. If you are seeking a life of peace and happiness; of successes and reaching goals, I will be your guide.
(920) 230-2960 View (920) 230-2960
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Sarah Barron
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54904
My approach to therapy is primarily person-centered as I work build a strong therapeutic alliance and to collaborate with clients to establish goals they wish to accomplish, while also creating an environment that is comfortable and accepting. I believe you as the client are the expert of your own life and my goal is to assist and support you in processing your own thoughts, emotions, and experiences. My hope is that you will gain self-awareness and learn necessary skills to cope in healthier ways.
My approach to therapy is primarily person-centered as I work build a strong therapeutic alliance and to collaborate with clients to establish goals they wish to accomplish, while also creating an environment that is comfortable and accepting. I believe you as the client are the expert of your own life and my goal is to assist and support you in processing your own thoughts, emotions, and experiences. My hope is that you will gain self-awareness and learn necessary skills to cope in healthier ways.
(920) 768-6935 View (920) 768-6935
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Jennifer L Srnka
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54902
Trauma is any adverse experience that causes extreme emotional reaction: nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety etc. When meeting with me many reach their destination feeling guilty for their response to their unique experience — because its “less than” others. As we begin the journey to health and recovery, I assure all that their individual experience is different and unique. Our goal is to get to the point where you know that your feelings/emotions are not better or worse than another’s, as all individuals have a right to their feelings. No trauma is better, worse, harder or easier than another because it depends on how we react.
Trauma is any adverse experience that causes extreme emotional reaction: nightmares, flashbacks, anxiety etc. When meeting with me many reach their destination feeling guilty for their response to their unique experience — because its “less than” others. As we begin the journey to health and recovery, I assure all that their individual experience is different and unique. Our goal is to get to the point where you know that your feelings/emotions are not better or worse than another’s, as all individuals have a right to their feelings. No trauma is better, worse, harder or easier than another because it depends on how we react.
(920) 521-3445 View (920) 521-3445
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Steve Hable
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSE, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54901
If life is a struggle and you feel like it is getting harder for you to do things you used to enjoy, I would love to help you get where you want to be. You deserve to be happy and live the life you are meant to live. Sometimes we may need someone to help us travel our path through life and walk with us. If you are anxious, depressed or wondering how you will ever get through your emotional storm, call me and I will ride the wave with you. You are worth the best I can give. The purpose of my life is to help you find meaning and purpose in yours. Your life is your story. Write well. Edit often.
If life is a struggle and you feel like it is getting harder for you to do things you used to enjoy, I would love to help you get where you want to be. You deserve to be happy and live the life you are meant to live. Sometimes we may need someone to help us travel our path through life and walk with us. If you are anxious, depressed or wondering how you will ever get through your emotional storm, call me and I will ride the wave with you. You are worth the best I can give. The purpose of my life is to help you find meaning and purpose in yours. Your life is your story. Write well. Edit often.
(920) 645-0834 View (920) 645-0834
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Kitchen Table Counseling with AmySue
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oshkosh, WI 54904  (Online Only)
My name is AmySue Hartman; I am a licensed professional counselor in the state of Wisconsin, Minnesota and Florida. I have worked in various capacities within human services for many years.
My name is AmySue Hartman; I am a licensed professional counselor in the state of Wisconsin, Minnesota and Florida. I have worked in various capacities within human services for many years.
(920) 717-1406 View (920) 717-1406
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Samantha J Hanson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MS
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Oshkosh, WI 54901
Collaborating with an external confidant can provide valuable insights and support in processing emotions. I specialize in addressing anxiety, mood disturbances affecting sleep, and discussing unspoken mental health concerns within families. Sharing your story in a safe environment can redefine your journey. When you're prepared to discuss your narrative, we'll practice coping strategies to navigate the next phase more comfortably. My training in CBT and DBT, coupled with a client-centered approach, ensures we proceed at your pace and comfort level.
Collaborating with an external confidant can provide valuable insights and support in processing emotions. I specialize in addressing anxiety, mood disturbances affecting sleep, and discussing unspoken mental health concerns within families. Sharing your story in a safe environment can redefine your journey. When you're prepared to discuss your narrative, we'll practice coping strategies to navigate the next phase more comfortably. My training in CBT and DBT, coupled with a client-centered approach, ensures we proceed at your pace and comfort level.
(920) 659-0078 View (920) 659-0078
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Tania Stolfa
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Oshkosh, WI 54901  (Online Only)
Do racing thoughts and overwhelming worries interfere with your daily life? Do you feel pressure to perform, yet constantly on edge and misunderstood, as though no one truly understands you? You are not alone. Our experiences shape how we view ourselves and the world around us, but together we can unravel these threads. Therapy with me can help you develop coping strategies, gain insights, and find relief. I want to help you navigate these challenges, providing a safe, supportive space to heal and grow.
Do racing thoughts and overwhelming worries interfere with your daily life? Do you feel pressure to perform, yet constantly on edge and misunderstood, as though no one truly understands you? You are not alone. Our experiences shape how we view ourselves and the world around us, but together we can unravel these threads. Therapy with me can help you develop coping strategies, gain insights, and find relief. I want to help you navigate these challenges, providing a safe, supportive space to heal and grow.
(757) 540-5334 View (757) 540-5334
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Sharon Gray
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54901
YOU CAN FEEL BETTER! Feeling stressed, anxious, depressed? Have troubled relationships? Do you struggle with your child's behavior, attitude or school achievement? Want MORE than talk therapy? My work is strength-based: let's find what is working and improve the areas that are not! In an easy-going and comfortable manner, I use brain science i.e. Brainspotting, Sensorimotor Therapy and Interpersonal Neurobiology (along with a sense of humor) to provide treatment of emotional and behavioral issues in adults, children, couples and families; including psychological assessments for both children and adults.
YOU CAN FEEL BETTER! Feeling stressed, anxious, depressed? Have troubled relationships? Do you struggle with your child's behavior, attitude or school achievement? Want MORE than talk therapy? My work is strength-based: let's find what is working and improve the areas that are not! In an easy-going and comfortable manner, I use brain science i.e. Brainspotting, Sensorimotor Therapy and Interpersonal Neurobiology (along with a sense of humor) to provide treatment of emotional and behavioral issues in adults, children, couples and families; including psychological assessments for both children and adults.
(920) 471-1773 View (920) 471-1773
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Michael Anderson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MS, LCSW, LPC
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54902
I have been doing individual, family and couples therapy for 38 years. I am an associate of the American Board of Medical Psychotherapists and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Licensed Professional Counselor. My graduate degree is in Counseling from the University of Wisconsin with undergraduate degrees in Psychology and Philosophy. My approach is eclectic focusing on cognitive behavioral, existential and problem solving therapy. I has been trained in transactional analysis and enjoy working with the Christian and spiritual perspective. I have a Lay Ministry certificate in Lutheran studies. I have studied eastern religion, philosophy, Yoga, Judeo-Christian ministry, and the paranormal.
I have been doing individual, family and couples therapy for 38 years. I am an associate of the American Board of Medical Psychotherapists and a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Licensed Professional Counselor. My graduate degree is in Counseling from the University of Wisconsin with undergraduate degrees in Psychology and Philosophy. My approach is eclectic focusing on cognitive behavioral, existential and problem solving therapy. I has been trained in transactional analysis and enjoy working with the Christian and spiritual perspective. I have a Lay Ministry certificate in Lutheran studies. I have studied eastern religion, philosophy, Yoga, Judeo-Christian ministry, and the paranormal.
(920) 482-6294 View (920) 482-6294
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Shifting Perspectives
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54902
Are you noticing life is difficult to cope with because of obstacles and/or stressors? Having trouble knowing/finding the person you want to be is a struggle for many of us. It can get in the way of how we want to present/ be recognized and live. If you or a loved one are struggling with difficulties no matter what stage of life you are or what circumstances you face; You don't have to, 'just deal with it alone,' there are caring professionals who can help us find a new normal. Have experience working with age ranges 7-60+ together we work to identify and find resolution to issues.
Are you noticing life is difficult to cope with because of obstacles and/or stressors? Having trouble knowing/finding the person you want to be is a struggle for many of us. It can get in the way of how we want to present/ be recognized and live. If you or a loved one are struggling with difficulties no matter what stage of life you are or what circumstances you face; You don't have to, 'just deal with it alone,' there are caring professionals who can help us find a new normal. Have experience working with age ranges 7-60+ together we work to identify and find resolution to issues.
(920) 782-7616 View (920) 782-7616
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Amanda Line
Licensed Professional Counselor, MAC, LPC
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Oshkosh, WI 54901  (Online Only)
It's time to change but you’re not sure where to start. Dealing with the mood swings, sadness, and fear have become overwhelming but it’s hard to ask for help. Maybe you or someone in your family has experienced abuse or trauma and is scared or embarrassed to talk about it. It feels like you’ve tried everything to help yourself or teen and you’re worried the situation will get worse. The emotional roller coaster needs to stop but you don’t know where the controls are anymore. By reading this, you are already starting a path to change. There is no shame is asking for help.
It's time to change but you’re not sure where to start. Dealing with the mood swings, sadness, and fear have become overwhelming but it’s hard to ask for help. Maybe you or someone in your family has experienced abuse or trauma and is scared or embarrassed to talk about it. It feels like you’ve tried everything to help yourself or teen and you’re worried the situation will get worse. The emotional roller coaster needs to stop but you don’t know where the controls are anymore. By reading this, you are already starting a path to change. There is no shame is asking for help.
(920) 247-2528 View (920) 247-2528
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Jill Schabow
Licensed Professional Counselor, Owner, LPC, CSAC, ICS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oshkosh, WI 54901
As a therapist, I am honored and humbled to be allowed into someone’s life to assist with goals, aspirations, and solutions to personal struggles. I recognize the courage it takes to reach out for help. My passion is to help others see beyond their current viewpoint and offer feedback that can open doors that may not have been identified before. We all have a story and deserve the quality of life that we are all capable of achieving. What that is for you, is up to you. I look forward to being a part of that process while invoking optimism, solution-focused thinking, and support along the way. http://vital-traction-llc.square.site
As a therapist, I am honored and humbled to be allowed into someone’s life to assist with goals, aspirations, and solutions to personal struggles. I recognize the courage it takes to reach out for help. My passion is to help others see beyond their current viewpoint and offer feedback that can open doors that may not have been identified before. We all have a story and deserve the quality of life that we are all capable of achieving. What that is for you, is up to you. I look forward to being a part of that process while invoking optimism, solution-focused thinking, and support along the way. http://vital-traction-llc.square.site
(920) 259-2694 View (920) 259-2694
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Holly Doughty
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54902
Hello! I am Holly Doughty, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I am a EMDR and DBT therapist. I am accepting new patients (adults, teens, kids). I have recently opened a new location in Kaukauna. Are you struggling with anxiety? Worried about others and what they are thinking? Asking yourself "what if" a lot? Are you feeling triggered by others? Questioning your relationships? Is someone in your life causing you distress in a relationship? Are you struggling but don't know what is causing it. I can help you and you are in the right place.
Hello! I am Holly Doughty, I am a Licensed Professional Counselor. I am a EMDR and DBT therapist. I am accepting new patients (adults, teens, kids). I have recently opened a new location in Kaukauna. Are you struggling with anxiety? Worried about others and what they are thinking? Asking yourself "what if" a lot? Are you feeling triggered by others? Questioning your relationships? Is someone in your life causing you distress in a relationship? Are you struggling but don't know what is causing it. I can help you and you are in the right place.
(920) 415-4416 View (920) 415-4416
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Emily Hoch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Oshkosh, WI 54902
My practice centers around the understanding of the transformative healing power and potential of the human spirit. My therapeutic style is ethical, holistic and heart centered. I have specialized experience and passion working with complex relational trauma, anxiety, depression, and self-confidence.
My practice centers around the understanding of the transformative healing power and potential of the human spirit. My therapeutic style is ethical, holistic and heart centered. I have specialized experience and passion working with complex relational trauma, anxiety, depression, and self-confidence.
(920) 668-2255 View (920) 668-2255

Online Therapists

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Kallyn Heiges
Counselor, MS, LPC-IT
Verified Verified
Greenfield, WI 53221
I received my Bachelor's in Psychology and my graduate degree in Counseling with a Clinical Mental Health concentration from Mount Mary University. I am passionate about helping others with their mental health journey. I come from a background of working in inpatient and residential care with clients ages 11 and up. I have experience in various areas such as: Anxiety, Adolescent Issues, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Family Therapy, Grief & Loss, Self-Esteem, Self-Harm, Social Anxiety, Substance Use, and Suicidal Thoughts.
I received my Bachelor's in Psychology and my graduate degree in Counseling with a Clinical Mental Health concentration from Mount Mary University. I am passionate about helping others with their mental health journey. I come from a background of working in inpatient and residential care with clients ages 11 and up. I have experience in various areas such as: Anxiety, Adolescent Issues, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Borderline Personality Disorder, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Family Therapy, Grief & Loss, Self-Esteem, Self-Harm, Social Anxiety, Substance Use, and Suicidal Thoughts.
(414) 310-6653 View (414) 310-6653
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Naomi B Arenzon
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Milwaukee, WI 53202  (Online Only)
Welcome! I'm glad you're here. Making the choice to start therapy is not always an easy one. A bit about me... I specialize in working with both teens and adults dealing with depression, anxiety, and difficult life transitions. I also have experience with Borderline Personality Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, and OCD. My therapy style is warm, open, and centered on building compassion from within. I believe in tailoring my approach to meet the unique needs of each individual, using a variety of therapeutic techniques.
Welcome! I'm glad you're here. Making the choice to start therapy is not always an easy one. A bit about me... I specialize in working with both teens and adults dealing with depression, anxiety, and difficult life transitions. I also have experience with Borderline Personality Disorder, Bipolar Disorder, and OCD. My therapy style is warm, open, and centered on building compassion from within. I believe in tailoring my approach to meet the unique needs of each individual, using a variety of therapeutic techniques.
(262) 300-4534 View (262) 300-4534
Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.