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Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Solvang, CA 93463
Let's Connect (805) 623-4453
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I specialize in Couples and Individual Counseling in service of relationship issues. The goal of counseling is to enhance communication that will build trust and emotional safety in the distressed relationship or a desire to learn communication to enhance a loving bond. Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) is the therapeutic protocol I utilize to enhance communication skills to deescalate the pain and fear that arises from not being seen or understood by your partner. EFT helps deescalate feelings of "I do not matter", "I'm not important" "I can never get it right" these difficult thoughts trigger fears of abandonment or rejection.
EFT is an evidence based protocol for couples counseling, the research indicates that couples who receive EFT, will emerge from treatment with a high success rates (75%-90%) and low relapse rates. I specialize in trust issues, absence of emotional safety, infidelity, sexual related issues, anger issues, step-families, adult children issues, parenting skills
The EFT model asks of you to be willing to open your heart, be motivated to repair with your partner rather than punish and/or make them accountable for the stress in the bond. I look forward to my journey of learning from my clients about their longing to be in connection, and their desire to reduce the distance that is causing the rupture .
Call or Email Beverly Raff now for a free 15 minute consultation - (805) 623-4453
Let's Connect (805) 623-4453
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $225
- Couple Sessions $225
- Pay by ACH Bank transfer, American Express, Cash, Check, Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Paypal, Visa
Insurance
- OUT-OF-NETWORK PROVIDER
- Out of Network
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (805) 623-4453
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Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 102968 Beverly Raff
- In Practice for 10 Years
- Certificate from BBS # 102968 / 2017
- Attended UCLA, BA Sociology , Graduated 1995
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Marital and Premarital
- Relationship Issues
- Divorce
Expertise
- Adult Children of emotionally immature parents
- Anxiety
- Blended family
- Codependency
- Depression
- Family Conflict
- Infidelity
- Life Transitions
- Peer Relationships
- Sexual Addiction
- Stress
Client Focus
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Age
Adults ,
Elders (65+)
Participants
Individuals ,
Couples ,
Family
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- AEDP
- Attachment-based
- Emotionally Focused
- Family / Marital
- Somatic
- Trauma Focused
Location
Nearby Areas
Call for a free consultation now - (805) 623-4453
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Beverly Raff
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT