Infidelity Therapists in Tempe, AZ

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Liz Hatch
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85284
As a marriage and family therapist, my focus is relationships and attachment. For those healing from a relationship injury ( affairs or other hurtful events), I follow a structured process to repair, understand, and re-envision the future. The stresses of life can create disconnection with your loved one(s). I help couples, families, and individuals learn their relationship patterns and practice communication skills. Some of this stress appears in conflicts about mental load/invisible labor in which I help couples anticipate and interrupt their negative cycles. Another focus of my work is sexual wellness and all that it encompasses.
As a marriage and family therapist, my focus is relationships and attachment. For those healing from a relationship injury ( affairs or other hurtful events), I follow a structured process to repair, understand, and re-envision the future. The stresses of life can create disconnection with your loved one(s). I help couples, families, and individuals learn their relationship patterns and practice communication skills. Some of this stress appears in conflicts about mental load/invisible labor in which I help couples anticipate and interrupt their negative cycles. Another focus of my work is sexual wellness and all that it encompasses.
(520) 379-7320 View (520) 379-7320
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Valeria Berrios
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LAMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
My ideal clients are couples facing challenges in their relationships. Their issues may include communication breakdowns, trust issues, emotional distance, or infidelity. They need a safe space to express their feelings, understand each other's perspectives, and develop healthier ways of interacting. Their goals are to rebuild trust, enhance emotional closeness, and resolve conflicts effectively. They want to strengthen their relationship because they value their connection and are committed to creating a loving, supportive partnership that can withstand life's challenges.
My ideal clients are couples facing challenges in their relationships. Their issues may include communication breakdowns, trust issues, emotional distance, or infidelity. They need a safe space to express their feelings, understand each other's perspectives, and develop healthier ways of interacting. Their goals are to rebuild trust, enhance emotional closeness, and resolve conflicts effectively. They want to strengthen their relationship because they value their connection and are committed to creating a loving, supportive partnership that can withstand life's challenges.
(623) 232-0702 View (623) 232-0702
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Angela Wilson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
I work with individuals, couples, especially those healing from infidelity, groups, and families.
As a meadows trained, sex therapist, and trauma specialist, I dive deeply into childhood issues helping you discover the root causes of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, sex addiction, and dysfunctional relationship patterns (such as the love addicted/love avoidant pattern), and attachment styles. Learn about how to heal from toxic relationships, narcissistic partners, trauma and codependency. Learn about the root of dysfunctional thinking patterns and how trauma shapes how you attach to others, who you date and what you attract.
I work with individuals, couples, especially those healing from infidelity, groups, and families.
As a meadows trained, sex therapist, and trauma specialist, I dive deeply into childhood issues helping you discover the root causes of depression, anxiety, substance abuse, sex addiction, and dysfunctional relationship patterns (such as the love addicted/love avoidant pattern), and attachment styles. Learn about how to heal from toxic relationships, narcissistic partners, trauma and codependency. Learn about the root of dysfunctional thinking patterns and how trauma shapes how you attach to others, who you date and what you attract.
(602) 932-0976 View (602) 932-0976
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Dr. Taylor Young
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
We all have stories to create and to tell and these stories include our mental health. Therapy is a space where you can create your own story and work through your mental health journey. I aim to be a helping hand in walking alongside you in this journey for you to realize your best self. My experience includes individuals who are struggling with chronic health issues (i.e., cancer, pain, diabetes, etc.), couples who have experienced infidelity and the LGBTQIA+ community. I also specialize in aiding my clients in their spirituality (hope, purpose, meaning) as well and enjoy exploring that part of my clients lives with them.
We all have stories to create and to tell and these stories include our mental health. Therapy is a space where you can create your own story and work through your mental health journey. I aim to be a helping hand in walking alongside you in this journey for you to realize your best self. My experience includes individuals who are struggling with chronic health issues (i.e., cancer, pain, diabetes, etc.), couples who have experienced infidelity and the LGBTQIA+ community. I also specialize in aiding my clients in their spirituality (hope, purpose, meaning) as well and enjoy exploring that part of my clients lives with them.
(602) 560-9291 View (602) 560-9291
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Arizona Marriage & Family Therapy Clinic
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85283
I have completed training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Level 1, Gottman Trauma and Affairs, and EMDR.
My name is Danielle Corrales and I make every effort to create a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment to those who seek growth. I am passionate and dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families in their journeys to heal and thrive in all areas of their lives. I utilize the most effective, evidence based, therapy approaches when addressing relationship challenges, life transitions, pre-marital preparation, communication and conflict resolution issues, and mental health stressors.
I have completed training in Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Level 1, Gottman Trauma and Affairs, and EMDR.
My name is Danielle Corrales and I make every effort to create a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment to those who seek growth. I am passionate and dedicated to helping individuals, couples, and families in their journeys to heal and thrive in all areas of their lives. I utilize the most effective, evidence based, therapy approaches when addressing relationship challenges, life transitions, pre-marital preparation, communication and conflict resolution issues, and mental health stressors.
(480) 608-9336 View (480) 608-9336
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Edward Callirgos
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
Thank you for reaching out and seeking therapy. I specialize in working with High Conflict couples struggling with infidelity, violations of love/trust & narcissistic behaviors. I also work with individuals who have experienced trauma (recent, adult hood or childhood). In addition to working with the above I also work with athletes and leaders of organization and CEOs of various companies who looking to improve their performance and also improve their personal lives. I am here and I am ready to get to work. Let's do this! HEAL. RESTORE. LEARN
Thank you for reaching out and seeking therapy. I specialize in working with High Conflict couples struggling with infidelity, violations of love/trust & narcissistic behaviors. I also work with individuals who have experienced trauma (recent, adult hood or childhood). In addition to working with the above I also work with athletes and leaders of organization and CEOs of various companies who looking to improve their performance and also improve their personal lives. I am here and I am ready to get to work. Let's do this! HEAL. RESTORE. LEARN
(480) 428-2607 View (480) 428-2607
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Kim Romen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85283
Often times people lie to cover up the betrayal so it’s betrayal upon betrayal.
You said you would never stay with someone who cheated. You can’t believe he did this. It's like a nightmare. You are considering divorce but you want to believe him and deep down you want to get through this if it’s possible. You thought you knew him. Could it be possible he loves you like he says he does when he hurt you like this? Did he even consider you? It’s embarrassing to bring this up to anyone. You wonder if people will judge you if you stay and will they ever be able to see him in the same light if you tell people and are able to work it out? You have already talked for hours and don't know how you can get through this.
Often times people lie to cover up the betrayal so it’s betrayal upon betrayal.
You said you would never stay with someone who cheated. You can’t believe he did this. It's like a nightmare. You are considering divorce but you want to believe him and deep down you want to get through this if it’s possible. You thought you knew him. Could it be possible he loves you like he says he does when he hurt you like this? Did he even consider you? It’s embarrassing to bring this up to anyone. You wonder if people will judge you if you stay and will they ever be able to see him in the same light if you tell people and are able to work it out? You have already talked for hours and don't know how you can get through this.
(480) 343-2617 View (480) 343-2617
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Arizona Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85283
I truly believe that therapy can be a transformative and rewarding process when facing the challenges of life. I strive to create a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment to encourage honest communication and trust between partners and family members. Curiosity, humor and understanding are often a part my work in therapy to help clients identify goals, create a plan, and work to make positive changes. As part of the therapy process, I utilize the most effective therapy approaches and techniques when addressing communication issues, infidelity, pre-marital preparation, intimacy, and family conflict.
I truly believe that therapy can be a transformative and rewarding process when facing the challenges of life. I strive to create a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental environment to encourage honest communication and trust between partners and family members. Curiosity, humor and understanding are often a part my work in therapy to help clients identify goals, create a plan, and work to make positive changes. As part of the therapy process, I utilize the most effective therapy approaches and techniques when addressing communication issues, infidelity, pre-marital preparation, intimacy, and family conflict.
(480) 666-8705 View (480) 666-8705
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Arizona Marriage and Family Therapy Clinic
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85283
I have experience helping with a range of presenting concerns including relational issues, infidelity, intimacy, anxiety, life transitions, family conflict, parenting, and behavioral concerns.
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I believe in providing an empathetic and non-judgmental experience throughout the therapy process. I offer compassionate support and guidance to individuals, couples, and families. Through a comprehensive assessment, I seek to understand how personal experiences, family history, culture, spirituality, sexual orientation, gender identity & expression, race, life stage, and relationship patterns influence well being and current challenges. I work collaboratively to identify strengths and resources in order to help clients transform the way they navigate life and work toward healing and change.
I have experience helping with a range of presenting concerns including relational issues, infidelity, intimacy, anxiety, life transitions, family conflict, parenting, and behavioral concerns.
As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I believe in providing an empathetic and non-judgmental experience throughout the therapy process. I offer compassionate support and guidance to individuals, couples, and families. Through a comprehensive assessment, I seek to understand how personal experiences, family history, culture, spirituality, sexual orientation, gender identity & expression, race, life stage, and relationship patterns influence well being and current challenges. I work collaboratively to identify strengths and resources in order to help clients transform the way they navigate life and work toward healing and change.
(520) 341-2015 View (520) 341-2015
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Karla Storey
Counselor, MS, LAC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85283
We are more than just our thoughts. I create a safe environment for you to explore your past and reshape your narrative, embracing the mind-body-spirit connection. Many clients I work with are struggling with the effects of childhood and relational trauma, which may include anxiety, fear of abandonment, difficulty setting boundaries, and low self-esteem. This type of trauma can result from neglect, abuse, betrayal, or abandonment, and it deeply affects a person's ability to form healthy, secure attachments with others later in life.
We are more than just our thoughts. I create a safe environment for you to explore your past and reshape your narrative, embracing the mind-body-spirit connection. Many clients I work with are struggling with the effects of childhood and relational trauma, which may include anxiety, fear of abandonment, difficulty setting boundaries, and low self-esteem. This type of trauma can result from neglect, abuse, betrayal, or abandonment, and it deeply affects a person's ability to form healthy, secure attachments with others later in life.
(480) 210-1637 View (480) 210-1637
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Jason Fierstein | Phoenix Men's Counseling
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85280
Welcome! I'm Jason, and I specialize in working with men and couples. My practice, Phoenix Men's Counseling, helps work with men just like you (or your husband, partner, or relative) with the issues that guys struggle with most, such as stress, depression, cheating, marriage/relationship issues, "nice guy" syndrome (guys who have a hard time saying 'no'), anger, and emotional intimacy, among others. As a guy, I know what men deal with, and work to create a counseling environment that men can relate to, feel heard and find new solutions to their problems. I have 20 years experience working with men.
Welcome! I'm Jason, and I specialize in working with men and couples. My practice, Phoenix Men's Counseling, helps work with men just like you (or your husband, partner, or relative) with the issues that guys struggle with most, such as stress, depression, cheating, marriage/relationship issues, "nice guy" syndrome (guys who have a hard time saying 'no'), anger, and emotional intimacy, among others. As a guy, I know what men deal with, and work to create a counseling environment that men can relate to, feel heard and find new solutions to their problems. I have 20 years experience working with men.
(602) 309-0568 View (602) 309-0568
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Lisa M. Clark
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS, MPA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85280
Infidelity, conflict, communication problems, lack of intimacy? I can help. I am devoted to strengthening couples through helping restore connections, create new healthy interactions, and develop safe and secure bonds. I create a safe, non-judgmental place to work through many of life's challenges. My approach to the struggles within a couples relationships is to identify the negative cycle that keeps couples from connecting, understanding their attachment needs, and expressing their emotions. I utilize Emotionally Focused Therapy and Gottman Method to improve relationships, develop stronger connections and meaningful communication.
Infidelity, conflict, communication problems, lack of intimacy? I can help. I am devoted to strengthening couples through helping restore connections, create new healthy interactions, and develop safe and secure bonds. I create a safe, non-judgmental place to work through many of life's challenges. My approach to the struggles within a couples relationships is to identify the negative cycle that keeps couples from connecting, understanding their attachment needs, and expressing their emotions. I utilize Emotionally Focused Therapy and Gottman Method to improve relationships, develop stronger connections and meaningful communication.
(480) 526-5799 View (480) 526-5799
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Regina Robison
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85284
Are you in a toxic relationship? Do you often feel confused, depleted, desperate to find solutions to make things better and get back to the good that existed in the beginning - but nothing you do seems to make a difference? Are your partner's words and actions often misaligned? Is infidelity present or suspected? If so, you may be in a relationship with a narcissist. The sooner you can identify this and get educated on what this entails, the sooner you can regain your strength and sanity. Enduring Narcissistic Abuse can lead to the debilitating and little known condition called Narcissistic Victim Syndrome (NVS).
Are you in a toxic relationship? Do you often feel confused, depleted, desperate to find solutions to make things better and get back to the good that existed in the beginning - but nothing you do seems to make a difference? Are your partner's words and actions often misaligned? Is infidelity present or suspected? If so, you may be in a relationship with a narcissist. The sooner you can identify this and get educated on what this entails, the sooner you can regain your strength and sanity. Enduring Narcissistic Abuse can lead to the debilitating and little known condition called Narcissistic Victim Syndrome (NVS).
(480) 725-5292 View (480) 725-5292
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Kelly Ontiveros
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85280
I'm a Certified Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist and Supervisor, which allows me to help couples recover from affairs, address losses of intimacy and connection, strengthen attachment, and adjust to life stressors.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I understand the importance of creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you to find your best self. I specialize in treating issues in marital connection and intimacy, affair recovery, trauma, anxiety, depression, grief and loss. After completing my master's work, I gained extensive training in psychodynamic therapy, which addresses family of origin issues, wounding messages from childhood, and attachment styles expressed in relationships.
I'm a Certified Emotionally Focused Couple Therapist and Supervisor, which allows me to help couples recover from affairs, address losses of intimacy and connection, strengthen attachment, and adjust to life stressors.
As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I understand the importance of creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you to find your best self. I specialize in treating issues in marital connection and intimacy, affair recovery, trauma, anxiety, depression, grief and loss. After completing my master's work, I gained extensive training in psychodynamic therapy, which addresses family of origin issues, wounding messages from childhood, and attachment styles expressed in relationships.
(602) 544-6044 View (602) 544-6044
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Rachel Beth Wininger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85283
I have experience and training in working with Faith Expansions, (Christian and LDS/Mormon church) ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, Betrayal Trauma, Child-Centered Play, Relationship Issues and more.
Hi! I offer a casual, open approach to therapy that includes humor, swearing, art, mental exercises, tears, and hope for the future. My approach is based on working to learn more about why we are the way we are to then show understanding and compassion. As we explore with curiosity we discover the reasons behind what makes us the way we are and gives us a sense of compassion, empathy, and validation towards the parts of ourselves we like the least. I believe that nothing is TMI (too much information) and work to develop a strong supportive relationship to learn about and celebrate my clients.
I have experience and training in working with Faith Expansions, (Christian and LDS/Mormon church) ADHD, Depression, Anxiety, Betrayal Trauma, Child-Centered Play, Relationship Issues and more.
Hi! I offer a casual, open approach to therapy that includes humor, swearing, art, mental exercises, tears, and hope for the future. My approach is based on working to learn more about why we are the way we are to then show understanding and compassion. As we explore with curiosity we discover the reasons behind what makes us the way we are and gives us a sense of compassion, empathy, and validation towards the parts of ourselves we like the least. I believe that nothing is TMI (too much information) and work to develop a strong supportive relationship to learn about and celebrate my clients.
(480) 864-4188 View (480) 864-4188
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Kelsey Fitzhugh Bass
Marriage & Family Therapist, MAS-MFT, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85281
I am currently accepting new clients. I specialize in working with couples, teens, and adults. I believe that attachment and connection is the most powerful emotion in humans, which makes me passionate about working with all types of relationships. I specialize in assisting couples navigate challenges including: communication, conflict resolution, trust and infidelity, resentments & premarital therapy. I also have an understanding of the developmental challenges faced by teenagers. In my work with adults and teens, I specialize in addressing: trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, and life transitions.
I am currently accepting new clients. I specialize in working with couples, teens, and adults. I believe that attachment and connection is the most powerful emotion in humans, which makes me passionate about working with all types of relationships. I specialize in assisting couples navigate challenges including: communication, conflict resolution, trust and infidelity, resentments & premarital therapy. I also have an understanding of the developmental challenges faced by teenagers. In my work with adults and teens, I specialize in addressing: trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties, and life transitions.
(520) 376-8104 View (520) 376-8104
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The Playmaker Coach: Empowering Life and Love
MA, MBA, BA
Verified Verified
Tempe, AZ 85283  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I’m glad you’re here. As a Christian life and relationship coach with a unique perspective shaped by my experiences as an NFL wife, I understand the complexities of navigating relationships, both personal and professional. Are you someone who is seeking clarity and healing, whether you’re facing challenges in your marriage, struggling with self-worth, or looking to rebuild your life after a difficult transition like a divorce, I know firsthand how the pressures of life can impact our relationships and sense of self.
Welcome! I’m glad you’re here. As a Christian life and relationship coach with a unique perspective shaped by my experiences as an NFL wife, I understand the complexities of navigating relationships, both personal and professional. Are you someone who is seeking clarity and healing, whether you’re facing challenges in your marriage, struggling with self-worth, or looking to rebuild your life after a difficult transition like a divorce, I know firsthand how the pressures of life can impact our relationships and sense of self.
(520) 210-5276 View (520) 210-5276
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Nicole Heim LPC
Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85283
Every individual has their needs and wants in life. I work with individuals, couples, or families to achieve goals to maintain a more meaningful lifestyle. My strength is an honest approach so that people know that I am being genuine with them and that I amwith them in the moment. I help people to find out what gets in the way of them being effective in everyday life and help them look to a healthier future. I believe that everyone has the power in themselves to change, and that everyone needs help sometimes to keep moving forward.
Every individual has their needs and wants in life. I work with individuals, couples, or families to achieve goals to maintain a more meaningful lifestyle. My strength is an honest approach so that people know that I am being genuine with them and that I amwith them in the moment. I help people to find out what gets in the way of them being effective in everyday life and help them look to a healthier future. I believe that everyone has the power in themselves to change, and that everyone needs help sometimes to keep moving forward.
(480) 428-3806 View (480) 428-3806
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William Santos
Counselor, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282
My passion includes helping with issues related to LGBTQ+, marital and premarital, anxiety, addiction, trauma, grief, abuse and depression in all age groups. I also work with those suffering from eating disorders, dissociative disorders, impulse control, and personality, and thinking disorders. I enjoy helping clients learn coping skills, how to deal with school or work stress, and improving peer and intimate relationships. So whether you need life coaching, self-esteem building, guidance through life transitions or just a friendly face on your side, I’d love to meet you and help with your next breakthrough!
My passion includes helping with issues related to LGBTQ+, marital and premarital, anxiety, addiction, trauma, grief, abuse and depression in all age groups. I also work with those suffering from eating disorders, dissociative disorders, impulse control, and personality, and thinking disorders. I enjoy helping clients learn coping skills, how to deal with school or work stress, and improving peer and intimate relationships. So whether you need life coaching, self-esteem building, guidance through life transitions or just a friendly face on your side, I’d love to meet you and help with your next breakthrough!
(480) 685-9016 View (480) 685-9016
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Zach Lucero
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Tempe, AZ 85282  (Online Only)
Have you ever worried about your relationship? Your child? Your own well-being? You are not alone, especially during these times. Change is constant in our life, but seeking help is a beneficial step in finding direction on your journey. I work with couples and families experiencing discord and individuals seeking solace during times of strife. My empathic and mindful style aids in my ability to establish a solid foundation of trust and rapport necessary for a healing relationship. We will work together as I believe in a collaborative approach as you are the expert on you, and I am here to offer clinical guidance to nurture growth.
Have you ever worried about your relationship? Your child? Your own well-being? You are not alone, especially during these times. Change is constant in our life, but seeking help is a beneficial step in finding direction on your journey. I work with couples and families experiencing discord and individuals seeking solace during times of strife. My empathic and mindful style aids in my ability to establish a solid foundation of trust and rapport necessary for a healing relationship. We will work together as I believe in a collaborative approach as you are the expert on you, and I am here to offer clinical guidance to nurture growth.
(623) 745-2675 View (623) 745-2675
Infidelity Therapists

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.