Adrian Tiller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
Santa Rosa, CA 95409
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Whether borderline, narcissistic or simply toxic, wounded and self-centered parents create wounded children. And these children grow up without the basics of warmth and kindness, acceptance and encouragement. In order to survive, we adapt to the needs of our demanding parents. That might mean we learn to parent our parent. Or we develop antennae and quickly respond to their changing moods and needs, simultaneously ignoring our own. We hope if we do and say the right thing long enough, then one day they will be strong enough to finally take care of us. But that day may never come.
We can spend our whole life looking for what we didn't get in our childhood. Attract partners who are carbon copies. Perceive other people's innocent remarks as attacking or critical. Maybe we're never quite satisfied with the attention we receive. Or no amount of success is enough.
Therapy is a way to find answers and chart a new course; transcend the past and move forward. My approach is pragmatic and straightforward. I do more than just say, "Um huh," or "How does that make you feel?" I offer acceptance and encouragement, as well as feedback and suggestions.
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Finances
Fees
- Individual Sessions $200
- Pay by ACH Bank transfer, Health Savings Account, Venmo
Insurance
- Aetna
- Blue Cross
- Blue Shield
- BlueCross and BlueShield
- Carelon Behavioral Health
- Elevance
- Out of Network
Call or Email me for a free 15 minute consultation now - (415) 799-9858
Adrian Tiller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT
Qualifications
- Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / MFC 25896 Adrian Tiller
- In Practice for 34 Years
- Attended University of Tennessee, M.S., Graduated 1977
Specialties and Expertise
Top Specialties
- Relationship Issues
- Anxiety
- Narcissistic Personality (NPD)
Expertise
- Codependency
- Coping Skills
- Grief
- Internet Addiction
- LGBTQ+
- Life Coaching
- Mindfulness & Meditation Training
- Peer Relationships
- Self Esteem
- Spirituality
- Stress
Client Focus
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Age
Adults
Participants
Individuals
Treatment Approach
Types of Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
- Positive Psychology
- Psychodynamic
Location
Additional Location
1025 Fifth Street
Novato, CA 94945
(415) 799-9858Nearby Areas
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Adrian Tiller
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT