Therapists for Teens in Pennsylvania

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Peace And Wellness Solutions LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
Monaca, PA 15061  (Online Only)
Welcome to Peace And Wellness Solutions LLC. My name is Brandi Elsman and I am so glad that you took the first step to finding a therapist to help you with life's struggles. Life can be hectic and overwhelming. Especially when you're struggling with issues such as depression, anxiety, separation/divorce, issues with children, or even issues with being a teenager, etc. The overwhelming feelings can get to be too much. I am here to let you know, that there is help in dealing with these struggles. I will be here every step of the way, guiding you through your struggles. I will help you navigate placing yourself onto a brighter journey.
Welcome to Peace And Wellness Solutions LLC. My name is Brandi Elsman and I am so glad that you took the first step to finding a therapist to help you with life's struggles. Life can be hectic and overwhelming. Especially when you're struggling with issues such as depression, anxiety, separation/divorce, issues with children, or even issues with being a teenager, etc. The overwhelming feelings can get to be too much. I am here to let you know, that there is help in dealing with these struggles. I will be here every step of the way, guiding you through your struggles. I will help you navigate placing yourself onto a brighter journey.
(412) 207-3642 View (412) 207-3642
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Jennifer Odom, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Clarks Green, PA 18411
I have had the opportunity to build relationships with an array of amazing clients over the past 28 years to develop my practice as an integrative, evidenced based approach for treatment. I have a strong interest in treating adolescent girls and adult women to foster personal growth, positive Self-esteem and Self-Confidence. My therapeutic approach includes evidenced based practices for the treatment of Anxiety disorders, Mood disorders, Eating issues, relationship difficulties, school related concerns and family challenges.
I have had the opportunity to build relationships with an array of amazing clients over the past 28 years to develop my practice as an integrative, evidenced based approach for treatment. I have a strong interest in treating adolescent girls and adult women to foster personal growth, positive Self-esteem and Self-Confidence. My therapeutic approach includes evidenced based practices for the treatment of Anxiety disorders, Mood disorders, Eating issues, relationship difficulties, school related concerns and family challenges.
(570) 559-3042 View (570) 559-3042
Scott Tracy
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Tracy has specialized training in adolescent psychology and in the treatment of PTSD.
Dr. Scott Tracy has maintained a private counseling practice in Fayette County for nearly twenty years. Dr. Tracy earned his doctoral degree from Duquesne University in Pittsburgh and serves as a professor of counseling in the Pennsylvania State System of Higher Education. Dr. Tracy utilizes an integrated counseling approach that involves traditional cognitive and behavioral counseling along with holistic techniques. Yoga, diet, exercise, stress management training, art therapy, dream analysis, massage and meditation are some examples of holistic techniques that complement traditional counseling. All of these are offered at the Tracy Counseling Center. Daisy, our emotional support dog, is also available for session participation.
Tracy has specialized training in adolescent psychology and in the treatment of PTSD.
Dr. Scott Tracy has maintained a private counseling practice in Fayette County for nearly twenty years. Dr. Tracy earned his doctoral degree from Duquesne University in Pittsburgh and serves as a professor of counseling in the Pennsylvania State System of Higher Education. Dr. Tracy utilizes an integrated counseling approach that involves traditional cognitive and behavioral counseling along with holistic techniques. Yoga, diet, exercise, stress management training, art therapy, dream analysis, massage and meditation are some examples of holistic techniques that complement traditional counseling. All of these are offered at the Tracy Counseling Center. Daisy, our emotional support dog, is also available for session participation.
(724) 626-4444 View (724) 626-4444
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Taylor Kyle
Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15205  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed and not sure where to find the support needed to reduce those feelings? Being a teenager or young adult is challenging time in life where a yearning for independence is often in conflict with the expectations of family, school, and peers. It can feel even more difficult to maintain this balance when you are struggling with mental health symptoms such as depression or anxiety. I am a therapist that is passionate about helping youth and young adults become more secure in their own identity while recognizing how they impact the world around them.
Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed and not sure where to find the support needed to reduce those feelings? Being a teenager or young adult is challenging time in life where a yearning for independence is often in conflict with the expectations of family, school, and peers. It can feel even more difficult to maintain this balance when you are struggling with mental health symptoms such as depression or anxiety. I am a therapist that is passionate about helping youth and young adults become more secure in their own identity while recognizing how they impact the world around them.
(412) 910-2088 View (412) 910-2088
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Yvonne D Neiman
Psychologist, MS
Verified Verified
Most recently, I have added areas of specialty in adolescent struggles, postpartum depression, mindfulness, and aging issues.
Thank you for taking the time to visit my profile. I have been licensed as a psychologist since 1986, and have been in private practice here in my native Bucks County for over 30 years. I work with adolescents, adults, and seniors, addressing a variety of difficulties, including: depression; family & relationship conflicts; social & school adjustment; grief & loss; and life changes. As you may have noticed by my photo, I am assisted by a therapy dog. Lucky Duck, who is pictured with me, is no longer with us. However, HoneyBunny, my rescuShih Tsu mix, will escort you into my office and keep you company during your sessions.
Most recently, I have added areas of specialty in adolescent struggles, postpartum depression, mindfulness, and aging issues.
Thank you for taking the time to visit my profile. I have been licensed as a psychologist since 1986, and have been in private practice here in my native Bucks County for over 30 years. I work with adolescents, adults, and seniors, addressing a variety of difficulties, including: depression; family & relationship conflicts; social & school adjustment; grief & loss; and life changes. As you may have noticed by my photo, I am assisted by a therapy dog. Lucky Duck, who is pictured with me, is no longer with us. However, HoneyBunny, my rescuShih Tsu mix, will escort you into my office and keep you company during your sessions.
(215) 804-4277 View (215) 804-4277
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Heatherstone Counseling Services New Clients Welcome
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, LSW, MSW, CAADC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
We have many years of experience working with adults, teen/adolescents, children, families, and couples.
Are you feeling anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed? At Heatherstone Counseling Services, we believe that a warm, caring, and supportive therapeutic relationship is imperative to the success of our clients. Building trust, and helping people work towards achieving their personal goals is what we strive to do in each and every session. We understand that challenges and difficult moments can be a part of the therapy process, and we aim to support our clients as they move through those experiences. Our hope is that each and every person that we meet in practice will experience personal growth, self understanding, and improved health.
We have many years of experience working with adults, teen/adolescents, children, families, and couples.
Are you feeling anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed? At Heatherstone Counseling Services, we believe that a warm, caring, and supportive therapeutic relationship is imperative to the success of our clients. Building trust, and helping people work towards achieving their personal goals is what we strive to do in each and every session. We understand that challenges and difficult moments can be a part of the therapy process, and we aim to support our clients as they move through those experiences. Our hope is that each and every person that we meet in practice will experience personal growth, self understanding, and improved health.
(717) 537-9470 View (717) 537-9470
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Stacie Searle
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Bethlehem, PA 18018
The areas that I specialize in are parenting, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, personality disorders, and self-esteem in adolescent and adult clients.
Therapy is a place to explore and understand, a place to be heard and to use your voice, a place to recognize and embrace your worth, a place to learn that you are stronger than you think and more valuable than you ever thought. A place to just be. With a deep commitment to fostering positive change, I collaborate closely with clients to develop personalized treatment plans tailored to their unique needs and goals. Whether you are grappling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship challenges, I will employ a strengths-based perspective to empower you in your journey toward healing and growth.
The areas that I specialize in are parenting, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, personality disorders, and self-esteem in adolescent and adult clients.
Therapy is a place to explore and understand, a place to be heard and to use your voice, a place to recognize and embrace your worth, a place to learn that you are stronger than you think and more valuable than you ever thought. A place to just be. With a deep commitment to fostering positive change, I collaborate closely with clients to develop personalized treatment plans tailored to their unique needs and goals. Whether you are grappling with anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship challenges, I will employ a strengths-based perspective to empower you in your journey toward healing and growth.
(484) 749-9181 View (484) 749-9181
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Daniel J Leichter
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Doylestown, PA 18901
I work with individuals, families, and couples and have specialized clinical expertise in the treatment of anxiety and depression, adolescent issues, life transition adjustment, grief and loss, emotional intelligence, and pain management.
It is truly a privilege to be invited into the lives of others during a therapy session. As a licensed clinical psychologist, my philosophy of psychological treatment is based upon an empathic and compassionate therapeutic rapport which I consider the primary vehicle to interpersonal understanding, change and healing. I utilize a multi-modal approach grounded in psychodynamic theory and cognitive behavioral technique.
I work with individuals, families, and couples and have specialized clinical expertise in the treatment of anxiety and depression, adolescent issues, life transition adjustment, grief and loss, emotional intelligence, and pain management.
It is truly a privilege to be invited into the lives of others during a therapy session. As a licensed clinical psychologist, my philosophy of psychological treatment is based upon an empathic and compassionate therapeutic rapport which I consider the primary vehicle to interpersonal understanding, change and healing. I utilize a multi-modal approach grounded in psychodynamic theory and cognitive behavioral technique.
(610) 915-8560 View (610) 915-8560
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Dr. Yisroel (Jonathan) King
Pre-Licensed Professional, PsyD
Verified Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15217
Yisroel is a clinician at Cardigan Psychological, LLC. He has had extensive training in providing child and adolescent individual therapy, structural family therapy, and school and home-based interventions. His experience includes working in therapeutic and educational settings with children and adolescents struggling with a variety of difficulties including behavioral disorders, depression, trauma, ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, anxiety, and many other mental health concerns.
Yisroel is a clinician at Cardigan Psychological, LLC. He has had extensive training in providing child and adolescent individual therapy, structural family therapy, and school and home-based interventions. His experience includes working in therapeutic and educational settings with children and adolescents struggling with a variety of difficulties including behavioral disorders, depression, trauma, ADHD, autism spectrum disorder, anxiety, and many other mental health concerns.
(724) 573-3647 View (724) 573-3647
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Alyssa Drake
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
Mechanicsburg, PA 17055
My hope is to ensure each client will feel seen, heard & accepted. I am passionate about working with the child, adolescent, teen, & young adult population. Dedicated to making my client's therapeutic experience a positive one, I work with clients to navigate through difficulties, explore and explain developmental processes, establish/enhance behavior management, adjust both socially and emotionally, and develop coping skills. I understand the importance of working with the family of the client as well and welcome a collaborative approach to give clients and their families a sense of security and support.
My hope is to ensure each client will feel seen, heard & accepted. I am passionate about working with the child, adolescent, teen, & young adult population. Dedicated to making my client's therapeutic experience a positive one, I work with clients to navigate through difficulties, explore and explain developmental processes, establish/enhance behavior management, adjust both socially and emotionally, and develop coping skills. I understand the importance of working with the family of the client as well and welcome a collaborative approach to give clients and their families a sense of security and support.
(717) 930-2881 View (717) 930-2881
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Katowitz Jeff
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
My ideal clients are those who are experiencing difficulties with blended family issues, adolescent development, trauma, grief and loss, separation and divorce. My role as a therapist is to facilitate a process of healing by partnering with each client. I believe it is essential to listen carefully to an individual, couple or family and develop a partnership that combines my training and experience as a practitioner with each persons unique capacity for healing and growth. Most importantly, the objective of intervention and caring is promoting the family's ability to support the passions and interests that exist in each individual.
My ideal clients are those who are experiencing difficulties with blended family issues, adolescent development, trauma, grief and loss, separation and divorce. My role as a therapist is to facilitate a process of healing by partnering with each client. I believe it is essential to listen carefully to an individual, couple or family and develop a partnership that combines my training and experience as a practitioner with each persons unique capacity for healing and growth. Most importantly, the objective of intervention and caring is promoting the family's ability to support the passions and interests that exist in each individual.
(215) 977-4832 View (215) 977-4832
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Cheryl Pappa
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Scranton, PA 18503
Are you an adult or adolescent who feels stuck, or unmotivated as a result of trauma? You are not alone, and I can help. I use a holistic approach and provide an atmosphere of unconditional positive regard where you can discover your strengths, and develop insight into presenting issues and roadblocks to change. The ultimate goal is for my clients to emerge with an increased sense of self-worth, personal empowerment and the ability to engage fully in the life of their choosing.
Are you an adult or adolescent who feels stuck, or unmotivated as a result of trauma? You are not alone, and I can help. I use a holistic approach and provide an atmosphere of unconditional positive regard where you can discover your strengths, and develop insight into presenting issues and roadblocks to change. The ultimate goal is for my clients to emerge with an increased sense of self-worth, personal empowerment and the ability to engage fully in the life of their choosing.
(272) 808-1042 View (272) 808-1042
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Alaina O'Neill
Pre-Licensed Professional, BS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Philadelphia, PA 19144  (Online Only)
I specialize in providing services for teen and young adult populations who experience symptoms of anxiety, depression and trauma that may arise during difficult life transitions.
Hello! I am Alaina. I am a counseling student pursuing a Masters at Thomas Jefferson University. I have a passion for working with individuals to pull on their strengths and support them through the many different transitions that emerge during early adolescence and young adulthood. During our work together, I strive to cultivate a safe environment for us to work through any thoughts, feelings or emotions.
I specialize in providing services for teen and young adult populations who experience symptoms of anxiety, depression and trauma that may arise during difficult life transitions.
Hello! I am Alaina. I am a counseling student pursuing a Masters at Thomas Jefferson University. I have a passion for working with individuals to pull on their strengths and support them through the many different transitions that emerge during early adolescence and young adulthood. During our work together, I strive to cultivate a safe environment for us to work through any thoughts, feelings or emotions.
(267) 848-9808 View (267) 848-9808
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Christopher P Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
Pittsburgh, PA 15217
Each of us each and every day is confronted with significant life difficulties. We can become overwhelmed and unable to cope with what appears to be insurmountable problems. My approach to counseling and consultation is that of a life coach assisting and supporting each person in learning new ways to deal with life difficulties and reach ones full potential. Most of us can benefit from a coach from time to time to help us deal with issues such as: relationships, parenting, adolescent struggles, substance misuse, abuse or addiction, anxiety and depression. Tomorrow can be different than today!
Each of us each and every day is confronted with significant life difficulties. We can become overwhelmed and unable to cope with what appears to be insurmountable problems. My approach to counseling and consultation is that of a life coach assisting and supporting each person in learning new ways to deal with life difficulties and reach ones full potential. Most of us can benefit from a coach from time to time to help us deal with issues such as: relationships, parenting, adolescent struggles, substance misuse, abuse or addiction, anxiety and depression. Tomorrow can be different than today!
(412) 228-0601 View (412) 228-0601
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Colin O'Grady
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Squirrel Hill, PA 15217
****Teletherapy Available****Hello and nice to meet you. I look forward to supporting your journey of problem solving, gaining insight and living a fuller life. Are your family members practicing "unhealthy" communication habits? Is your child, adolescent or college age student struggling in school? If so, counseling may be an option. I am a former School Counselor for 12 years, so I am well versed in a variety of school related issues such as academic and career counseling and personal or social difficulties.
****Teletherapy Available****Hello and nice to meet you. I look forward to supporting your journey of problem solving, gaining insight and living a fuller life. Are your family members practicing "unhealthy" communication habits? Is your child, adolescent or college age student struggling in school? If so, counseling may be an option. I am a former School Counselor for 12 years, so I am well versed in a variety of school related issues such as academic and career counseling and personal or social difficulties.
(724) 620-4909 View (724) 620-4909
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Derek Pendleton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW, BCD
Verified Verified
Jamison, PA 18929
I have nearly 25 years of experience providing individual, family, and couples therapy to people of all ages and diagnoses. My areas of specialty include adult/ adolescent Anxiety, Depression, Anger Management, Bipolar Disorder, and Addiction (all types). In addition, I work well with families whose children struggle with emotional and behavioral problems, including diagnoses of ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, and Autism Spectrum Disorder. Regardless of diagnoses, most people seek professional help to alleviate stressors that have become too overwhelming to manage by themselves. I understand what that is like, and I can help.
I have nearly 25 years of experience providing individual, family, and couples therapy to people of all ages and diagnoses. My areas of specialty include adult/ adolescent Anxiety, Depression, Anger Management, Bipolar Disorder, and Addiction (all types). In addition, I work well with families whose children struggle with emotional and behavioral problems, including diagnoses of ADHD, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, and Autism Spectrum Disorder. Regardless of diagnoses, most people seek professional help to alleviate stressors that have become too overwhelming to manage by themselves. I understand what that is like, and I can help.
(267) 800-2903 View (267) 800-2903
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We offer individual counseling, psychiatry/medication management (virtual only), family counseling, couples therapy/marriage counseling, and child & teen therapy.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
We offer individual counseling, psychiatry/medication management (virtual only), family counseling, couples therapy/marriage counseling, and child & teen therapy.
At Thriveworks, we're dedicated to providing top-tier mental health services that are easily accessible to everyone. With over 340 locations nationwide and flexible online therapy options, our professional therapists are equipped to assist you through any stress, life transitions, or ongoing mental health concerns. We prioritize your convenience and needs by offering flexible scheduling, including evening and weekend appointments, ensuring that you can start your therapy journey as early as this week. Plus, we accept most major insurance plans, making your path to mental health support smoother and more affordable.
(610) 819-7142 View (610) 819-7142
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Therapy for Kids
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bala Cynwyd, PA 19004
As a parent, it can be difficult to know if or why your child is struggling. For younger kids, behavioral issues such as tantrums, extreme shyness, aggression, defiance, social or school issues are actually signs of anxiety, depression, grief, or low self esteem. We work with kids ages 5 and up, using play therapy and other engaging techniques to connect with your child on their level. Similarly, for adolescents, too mental health struggles can be dismissed as " teen angst." We work with adolescents ages 10-19 struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, anger, ADHD, eating disorders, self esteem and more.
As a parent, it can be difficult to know if or why your child is struggling. For younger kids, behavioral issues such as tantrums, extreme shyness, aggression, defiance, social or school issues are actually signs of anxiety, depression, grief, or low self esteem. We work with kids ages 5 and up, using play therapy and other engaging techniques to connect with your child on their level. Similarly, for adolescents, too mental health struggles can be dismissed as " teen angst." We work with adolescents ages 10-19 struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, anger, ADHD, eating disorders, self esteem and more.
(484) 734-1712 View (484) 734-1712
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Cambridge Lane Psychology Group
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Newtown, PA 18940
Cambridge Lane Psychology Group is a private clinical psychology practice serving Newtown and the surrounding areas since 2003. We provide evidence-based therapeutic treatment for a diverse range of mental health and life challenges for all ages (child, adolescent, and adult). While our practice recently changed names and ownership, our dedicated and skilled family of psychologists and therapists are committed to providing the quality of care that our clients have grown to trust and depend on.
Cambridge Lane Psychology Group is a private clinical psychology practice serving Newtown and the surrounding areas since 2003. We provide evidence-based therapeutic treatment for a diverse range of mental health and life challenges for all ages (child, adolescent, and adult). While our practice recently changed names and ownership, our dedicated and skilled family of psychologists and therapists are committed to providing the quality of care that our clients have grown to trust and depend on.
(215) 968-5151 View (215) 968-5151
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Robia Smith-Herman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSS, LSW
Verified Verified
Ardmore, PA 19003
Clinical experience at NET and The Renfrew Center has facilitated a proficiency for the treatment of substance use disorders in adolescent and adult males and females and eating disorders in adolescent and adult females respectfully.
My ideal client is an individual who is motivated to improve their overall quality of life. I have a passion for working with individuals who struggle with trauma and PTSD, substance abuse and disordered eating. I believe that a good rapport is key in treatment of these issues and aim to build a positive working therapeutic relationship.
Clinical experience at NET and The Renfrew Center has facilitated a proficiency for the treatment of substance use disorders in adolescent and adult males and females and eating disorders in adolescent and adult females respectfully.
My ideal client is an individual who is motivated to improve their overall quality of life. I have a passion for working with individuals who struggle with trauma and PTSD, substance abuse and disordered eating. I believe that a good rapport is key in treatment of these issues and aim to build a positive working therapeutic relationship.
(301) 880-4050 View (301) 880-4050
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Teen Therapists

What does therapy for teenagers look like?

When a therapist works with a teenager, the pair will talk about what the teen is struggling with and explore solutions, which may involve interpersonal skills, coping strategies, medication, or lifestyle changes related to sleep, diet, and exercise. Different therapists employ different modalities, but most involve a combination of conversation and skill building.

How long does therapy for teenagers generally take to work?

There’s variability in teenagers’ experiences and challenges; some may begin to improve from therapy within a few weeks while others may take several months or longer. Teens can discuss their progress with their therapist periodically to assess how they’re improving and any changes to the treatment plan that could potentially accelerate that progress.

How do you encourage a teenager to go to therapy?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love while framing therapy as an opportunity to explore a tool that could help improve their life; just like they practice baseball or dance, now they can practice their emotional skills. Give your teen control over the process where you can—maybe by weighing in on choice of therapist and signaling that therapy involves confidentiality, so a parent need not know all that is discussed in sessions.

How do you prepare teens for therapy?

You can prepare your teenager for therapy by describing what the process will look like and setting expectations for timeline, if requested. You can explain that the first session may begin with an assessment phase, that they can describe their experiences but that the therapist will ask questions too, and that it may take time to feel comfortable opening up. Ask how they’re feeling about the process and answer any questions calmly and supportively.