Therapists for Teens in Flagstaff, AZ
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Mark S Anton
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC-BC, LCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flagstaff, AZ 86001
As a general mental health therapist, I am trained to treat and offer support for all difficulties, however, I also specialize in adolescent ADHD, trauma, addiction disorders, and faith-based counseling.
As an independently licensed therapist, and the owner of Northern Bliss Counseling Services my goal is to help you create and live out the best version of yourself. I am confident that we all have this inside, but might not know how to find it. Together, we will identify your goals and values and create a plan to live congruent with these values. We will identify what is important to you in life and find a way to get there together.
As a general mental health therapist, I am trained to treat and offer support for all difficulties, however, I also specialize in adolescent ADHD, trauma, addiction disorders, and faith-based counseling.
As an independently licensed therapist, and the owner of Northern Bliss Counseling Services my goal is to help you create and live out the best version of yourself. I am confident that we all have this inside, but might not know how to find it. Together, we will identify your goals and values and create a plan to live congruent with these values. We will identify what is important to you in life and find a way to get there together.
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Balance - Mental Health and Wellness, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flagstaff, AZ 86001
We also offer an adult and an adolescent DBT-informed skills group for managing strong emotions and distress ($10/group).
We are passionate about providing individual, family and group services to adults and children. We are excited to offer providers who are currently enrolled in masters programs for low-cost rates as well as licensed providers who can accept insurance.
We also offer an adult and an adolescent DBT-informed skills group for managing strong emotions and distress ($10/group).
We are passionate about providing individual, family and group services to adults and children. We are excited to offer providers who are currently enrolled in masters programs for low-cost rates as well as licensed providers who can accept insurance.
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I love working with pre- teen/ teens/young adults ages 12-25. I offer creative solutions for connection-including walk and talk sessions, music integration, and art therapy. I have found sometimes getting out of the office space produces new insight and new perspective, so outdoor therapy options are also available. I have a warm inviting office space to meet, offering collaborative approaches to work on therapeutic goals. I have been told I am authentic, open, and help clients feel right at home. I feel especially passionate about helping adolescent girls manage anxiety and feel more confident in their strengths and value.
I love working with pre- teen/ teens/young adults ages 12-25. I offer creative solutions for connection-including walk and talk sessions, music integration, and art therapy. I have found sometimes getting out of the office space produces new insight and new perspective, so outdoor therapy options are also available. I have a warm inviting office space to meet, offering collaborative approaches to work on therapeutic goals. I have been told I am authentic, open, and help clients feel right at home. I feel especially passionate about helping adolescent girls manage anxiety and feel more confident in their strengths and value.
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Penni Patterson, LCSW, MBA
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MBA
Verified Verified
Flagstaff, AZ 86001
My expertise is anxiety, depression, child and adolescent issues, failure to launch, and relationship issues.
As a therapist with 25 years of experience and extensive training, I understand the complexities of suffering and the healing process. Professional peers have described me as "exceptionally attuned," "warmly down to earth" and "to the point." I offer a compassionate, accepting, and wise presence to the therapy relationship. Because this relationship is paramount to your therapy experience, I offer a free initial consultation so that we can meet. I believe that human beings have an amazing ability to gain insight and create change in their lives and am dedicated to this process for clients, myself and all beings.
My expertise is anxiety, depression, child and adolescent issues, failure to launch, and relationship issues.
As a therapist with 25 years of experience and extensive training, I understand the complexities of suffering and the healing process. Professional peers have described me as "exceptionally attuned," "warmly down to earth" and "to the point." I offer a compassionate, accepting, and wise presence to the therapy relationship. Because this relationship is paramount to your therapy experience, I offer a free initial consultation so that we can meet. I believe that human beings have an amazing ability to gain insight and create change in their lives and am dedicated to this process for clients, myself and all beings.
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Cami L Larson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Flagstaff, AZ 86001 (Online Only)
I have an informal practice focusing on real world solutions and living the life you have always wanted. The biggest predictor of positive outcomes is the strength of the relationship between therapist and client, so I encourage you to get started today by giving me a call and scheduling a free 10 minute consultation. I hold licensure as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Mental Health Professional with experience in both adult/ adolescent therapy and crisis intervention.
I have an informal practice focusing on real world solutions and living the life you have always wanted. The biggest predictor of positive outcomes is the strength of the relationship between therapist and client, so I encourage you to get started today by giving me a call and scheduling a free 10 minute consultation. I hold licensure as a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Mental Health Professional with experience in both adult/ adolescent therapy and crisis intervention.
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I have experience working with children or adolescent, aged 5-18, who is experiencing significant emotional, substance use or behavioral challenges. They may come from diverse backgrounds, often navigating complex family dynamics or facing difficulties in their home environment. Emotional Disturbances: Struggles with anxiety, depression, and social-emotional issues. Adjustment Disorders: Difficulty coping with life transitions, such as divorce, relocation, or changes in family structure. Behavioral Issues: Problems at school or home, including defiance or withdrawal.
I have experience working with children or adolescent, aged 5-18, who is experiencing significant emotional, substance use or behavioral challenges. They may come from diverse backgrounds, often navigating complex family dynamics or facing difficulties in their home environment. Emotional Disturbances: Struggles with anxiety, depression, and social-emotional issues. Adjustment Disorders: Difficulty coping with life transitions, such as divorce, relocation, or changes in family structure. Behavioral Issues: Problems at school or home, including defiance or withdrawal.
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Arizona License: Arizona Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) LPC-15864 Specialties: Trauma Recovery EMDR Cognitive Therapy Ego Strength Therapy Child/ Adolescent Trauma Therapy Spectrum, ADHD, FAS, depression, anxiety, PTSD, DID Extensive Counseling Experience with Native American populations English Speaking.
Education/Professional Training: Psychology, Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah Masters in Clinical Counseling, Argosy University, Phoenix, EMDR Trauma Recovery Therapy Dissociative Personality (DID) Healing the Heart Through Ego Strength/ Therapy Counseling Experience: 2 years clinical work in Utah. 4 years clinical work in Arizona. 4 years Private Practice in trauma therapy with youth, adults, couples, groups, spectrum, adhd, DID.
Arizona License: Arizona Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) LPC-15864 Specialties: Trauma Recovery EMDR Cognitive Therapy Ego Strength Therapy Child/ Adolescent Trauma Therapy Spectrum, ADHD, FAS, depression, anxiety, PTSD, DID Extensive Counseling Experience with Native American populations English Speaking.
Education/Professional Training: Psychology, Brigham Young University, Provo, Utah Masters in Clinical Counseling, Argosy University, Phoenix, EMDR Trauma Recovery Therapy Dissociative Personality (DID) Healing the Heart Through Ego Strength/ Therapy Counseling Experience: 2 years clinical work in Utah. 4 years clinical work in Arizona. 4 years Private Practice in trauma therapy with youth, adults, couples, groups, spectrum, adhd, DID.
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Anna E McClaugherty
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, SEP, CEDS
Verified Verified
Flagstaff, AZ 86004 (Online Only)
Anna is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 10 years of experience, who enjoys working with adolescents, adults, and couples.
Anna specializes in working with couples, individuals healing from eating disorders, families, members of the LGBTQIA community, survivors of trauma, individuals facing life transitions, chronic medical conditions, and a variety of mood disorders, particularly long-term depression and anxiety. Anna is committed to the deep work of healing through the body and would be honored to assist you on your self-growth journey.
Anna is a Licensed Professional Counselor with over 10 years of experience, who enjoys working with adolescents, adults, and couples.
Anna specializes in working with couples, individuals healing from eating disorders, families, members of the LGBTQIA community, survivors of trauma, individuals facing life transitions, chronic medical conditions, and a variety of mood disorders, particularly long-term depression and anxiety. Anna is committed to the deep work of healing through the body and would be honored to assist you on your self-growth journey.
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Hello and welcome! I'm glad you're here. We all face challenges in life. We desire closeness, connection, recognition, peace. Yet often these elude us. Instead, depression, anxiety, and lack of connection or meaning are familiar. We long to restore these connections and find success, even joy! It is my aim to come alongside my clients and their families, and support them in the journey back towards health and wholeness - to find tools to cope and grow in the present as well as build healing for a fulfilling future. I offer secular and faith-based therapy and love to incorporate each clients' individual faith into our work.
Hello and welcome! I'm glad you're here. We all face challenges in life. We desire closeness, connection, recognition, peace. Yet often these elude us. Instead, depression, anxiety, and lack of connection or meaning are familiar. We long to restore these connections and find success, even joy! It is my aim to come alongside my clients and their families, and support them in the journey back towards health and wholeness - to find tools to cope and grow in the present as well as build healing for a fulfilling future. I offer secular and faith-based therapy and love to incorporate each clients' individual faith into our work.
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Gretchen Slover
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, PsyD, MALaw
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flagstaff, AZ 86004
When you find yourself needing a divorce, and as a couple, you want to end the relationship on your terms, you can turn to me for Divorce Mediation. Often clients possess the means to resolving issues and they just need a little help to arrive there. I offer sound solutions after problems are identified. Let me also serve as your independent mediator for child custody. Designed to assist an already overburdened court system it is the logical process to choose.
When you find yourself needing a divorce, and as a couple, you want to end the relationship on your terms, you can turn to me for Divorce Mediation. Often clients possess the means to resolving issues and they just need a little help to arrive there. I offer sound solutions after problems are identified. Let me also serve as your independent mediator for child custody. Designed to assist an already overburdened court system it is the logical process to choose.
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Your life is a divine gift and worthy of the time and attention you can provide it - especially during challenging times when your life is turned upside down, relationships are troubled, life is confusing and painful, past experiences make the present hard to navigate, or sadness or fears make coping difficult. It is my goal to create with you a place of safety, understanding, acceptance and exploration so that you can experience the changes and growth that you desire.
Your life is a divine gift and worthy of the time and attention you can provide it - especially during challenging times when your life is turned upside down, relationships are troubled, life is confusing and painful, past experiences make the present hard to navigate, or sadness or fears make coping difficult. It is my goal to create with you a place of safety, understanding, acceptance and exploration so that you can experience the changes and growth that you desire.
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I am a passionate advocate for diverse groups and am currently a Ph.D. candidate in Counselor Education. My research focuses on cultural humility and social justice advocacy. I am well-versed in the dynamics that contribute to behavioral health issues and mental health disparities. I have a deep compassion for the underserved and communities of color, and LGBTQI+ communities. I am trained in EMDR trauma therapy and work deeply with Attachment Theory and trauma-focused healing. As a former school counselor, I greatly understand systemic barriers, the impact of childhood experiences, and foundational issues that can impact one's life.
I am a passionate advocate for diverse groups and am currently a Ph.D. candidate in Counselor Education. My research focuses on cultural humility and social justice advocacy. I am well-versed in the dynamics that contribute to behavioral health issues and mental health disparities. I have a deep compassion for the underserved and communities of color, and LGBTQI+ communities. I am trained in EMDR trauma therapy and work deeply with Attachment Theory and trauma-focused healing. As a former school counselor, I greatly understand systemic barriers, the impact of childhood experiences, and foundational issues that can impact one's life.
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I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and National Certified Counselor license. I earned my BA in Anthropology and Mathematics from Grinnell College and my Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from South Dakota State University. I am EMDR trained, DC 0-5 trained, and have extensive training in play therapy, including neurobiology, brain development and trauma. I take a trauma informed approach to counseling, working to understand the impacts of past experiences and increasing your ability to live life as your authentic self.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) and National Certified Counselor license. I earned my BA in Anthropology and Mathematics from Grinnell College and my Masters in Clinical Mental Health Counseling from South Dakota State University. I am EMDR trained, DC 0-5 trained, and have extensive training in play therapy, including neurobiology, brain development and trauma. I take a trauma informed approach to counseling, working to understand the impacts of past experiences and increasing your ability to live life as your authentic self.
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Sheila Babendir- -Abundant Hope Integrated Solutions
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flagstaff, AZ 86001
At Abundant Hope Integrated Solutions we work with individuals, couples and families who struggle with life transitions, stress at home, work or school, depression, anxiety, PTSD and relationship issues. We know that everyone has a time in life when they need assistance in their journey. We are here to travel that path with you and support you as you navigate through the rough spots in life.
At Abundant Hope Integrated Solutions we work with individuals, couples and families who struggle with life transitions, stress at home, work or school, depression, anxiety, PTSD and relationship issues. We know that everyone has a time in life when they need assistance in their journey. We are here to travel that path with you and support you as you navigate through the rough spots in life.
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Hi there :) My name is Heather and I have been in the mental health field for almost 21 years now. I am passionate about walking alongside others as they learn to find balance, more joy and feel peace in their life. I am an Art Therapist, incorporating art into the therapy process. One of my favorite quotes about art, "I found I could say things with colors and shapes that I couldn't say any other way, things I had no words for" Georgia O'Keeffe
Hi there :) My name is Heather and I have been in the mental health field for almost 21 years now. I am passionate about walking alongside others as they learn to find balance, more joy and feel peace in their life. I am an Art Therapist, incorporating art into the therapy process. One of my favorite quotes about art, "I found I could say things with colors and shapes that I couldn't say any other way, things I had no words for" Georgia O'Keeffe
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You've been going through the motions in life but underneath it all, you aren't happy. You have been mostly keeping it all together, but lately the stress of relationships, job problems, or parenting have been getting to you, and you've been finding yourself feeling more depressed and anxious. May be you've been realizing your childhood was a traumatic one and you don't want to be defined by that. Maybe you've tried self-help techniques or even therapy but it hasn't really made a difference. You just want to feel happy again! I'm here to help.
You've been going through the motions in life but underneath it all, you aren't happy. You have been mostly keeping it all together, but lately the stress of relationships, job problems, or parenting have been getting to you, and you've been finding yourself feeling more depressed and anxious. May be you've been realizing your childhood was a traumatic one and you don't want to be defined by that. Maybe you've tried self-help techniques or even therapy but it hasn't really made a difference. You just want to feel happy again! I'm here to help.
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Emily Thomas Atlas Psychological Services
Psychologist, PhD, MA, LP
Verified Verified
Flagstaff, AZ 86001
Life is a journey. Sometimes you need a map. I am a caring, effective, trauma-informed clinician ready to address a wide range of issues to help you on your journey. I would love to help you find connection, healing, and purpose as you move through your daily life. I have extensive experience working with a variety of difficulties (depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD, Autism Spectrum, and Bipolar) and a variety of individuals (young adults, middle/older adults, adolescents, LGBTQ). I utilize techniques from CBT, person-centered, and interpersonal process therapies in my work.
Life is a journey. Sometimes you need a map. I am a caring, effective, trauma-informed clinician ready to address a wide range of issues to help you on your journey. I would love to help you find connection, healing, and purpose as you move through your daily life. I have extensive experience working with a variety of difficulties (depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD, Autism Spectrum, and Bipolar) and a variety of individuals (young adults, middle/older adults, adolescents, LGBTQ). I utilize techniques from CBT, person-centered, and interpersonal process therapies in my work.
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David Smart - Abundant Hope Integrated Solutions
Counselor, LAC, MBA
Verified Verified
Flagstaff, AZ 86001 (Online Only)
Hello! I am a Licensed Associate Counselor. I provide clients a safe, warm, open, and nonjudgmental space to tell their story. I listen intently and ask questions so that we can both understand what's going on. Whether the issue is anxiety, depression, loss, phase of life transition, trauma, or challenging relationships, we will navigate it together. My sincere hope is that clients will be empowered to get what they need - such as finding contentment, healing, strength, understanding, or positive growth.
Hello! I am a Licensed Associate Counselor. I provide clients a safe, warm, open, and nonjudgmental space to tell their story. I listen intently and ask questions so that we can both understand what's going on. Whether the issue is anxiety, depression, loss, phase of life transition, trauma, or challenging relationships, we will navigate it together. My sincere hope is that clients will be empowered to get what they need - such as finding contentment, healing, strength, understanding, or positive growth.
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The Arizona Behavioral Health Associates provide comprehensive treatment programs for clients seeking guidance through changes and difficulties in their lives. Our providers have extensive experience in counseling children, adolescents and families. Dr. Della Lusk's practice focuses primarily on individual psychotherapy, but she also offers group, couples and family counseling. Our practice also offers services by Licensed Professional Counselors and Psychology Interns.
The Arizona Behavioral Health Associates provide comprehensive treatment programs for clients seeking guidance through changes and difficulties in their lives. Our providers have extensive experience in counseling children, adolescents and families. Dr. Della Lusk's practice focuses primarily on individual psychotherapy, but she also offers group, couples and family counseling. Our practice also offers services by Licensed Professional Counselors and Psychology Interns.
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Mel Tucker Counseling...With a Touch of Magic
Counselor, LAC, MA, MEd, CGC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Flagstaff, AZ 86001
”Knowing and expecting that there is an end in sight, your inner healing process will make it work out. “Re-writing the past and Re-righting your present and future. “Look forward to the days when you can look back and feel happy and enjoy.” "You know a lot more than you think you know". Empowering your inner strengths in gaining new and greater perspectives. My goal is connecting you with your higher and wiser self, jumpstarting your personal wellness with a tuneup through healing and personal transformation. Enhancing and impacting a healthier positive self-concept offers optimism and possibilities for greater personal growth.
”Knowing and expecting that there is an end in sight, your inner healing process will make it work out. “Re-writing the past and Re-righting your present and future. “Look forward to the days when you can look back and feel happy and enjoy.” "You know a lot more than you think you know". Empowering your inner strengths in gaining new and greater perspectives. My goal is connecting you with your higher and wiser self, jumpstarting your personal wellness with a tuneup through healing and personal transformation. Enhancing and impacting a healthier positive self-concept offers optimism and possibilities for greater personal growth.
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Teen Therapists
What does therapy for teenagers look like?
When a therapist works with a teenager, the pair will talk about what the teen is struggling with and explore solutions, which may involve interpersonal skills, coping strategies, medication, or lifestyle changes related to sleep, diet, and exercise. Different therapists employ different modalities, but most involve a combination of conversation and skill building.
How long does therapy for teenagers generally take to work?
There’s variability in teenagers’ experiences and challenges; some may begin to improve from therapy within a few weeks while others may take several months or longer. Teens can discuss their progress with their therapist periodically to assess how they’re improving and any changes to the treatment plan that could potentially accelerate that progress.
How do you encourage a teenager to go to therapy?
It’s helpful to express your concern and love while framing therapy as an opportunity to explore a tool that could help improve their life; just like they practice baseball or dance, now they can practice their emotional skills. Give your teen control over the process where you can—maybe by weighing in on choice of therapist and signaling that therapy involves confidentiality, so a parent need not know all that is discussed in sessions.
How do you prepare teens for therapy?
You can prepare your teenager for therapy by describing what the process will look like and setting expectations for timeline, if requested. You can explain that the first session may begin with an assessment phase, that they can describe their experiences but that the therapist will ask questions too, and that it may take time to feel comfortable opening up. Ask how they’re feeling about the process and answer any questions calmly and supportively.