Relationship Issues Therapists in 30909
![Photo of Leslie M Cobb, EdS, LPC, NCC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/a6d7c5e4-e961-411b-b308-af02a6461821/2/320x400.jpeg)
Brené Brown said it best in her statement, “I believe that you have to walk through vulnerability to get to courage, therefore ... embrace the suck." However, you don’t have to do it alone. And it doesn’t have to suck all the time. When you develop a relationship with a caring, attuned therapist you will find new ways to solve problems, heal old wounds, and change the way you live your life. I am here to help you identify existing strengths, as well as introduce you to new strategies for managing your mental wellbeing. You’ll find it takes less time to get noticeable relief than what you think. And we’ll laugh a lot.
Brené Brown said it best in her statement, “I believe that you have to walk through vulnerability to get to courage, therefore ... embrace the suck." However, you don’t have to do it alone. And it doesn’t have to suck all the time. When you develop a relationship with a caring, attuned therapist you will find new ways to solve problems, heal old wounds, and change the way you live your life. I am here to help you identify existing strengths, as well as introduce you to new strategies for managing your mental wellbeing. You’ll find it takes less time to get noticeable relief than what you think. And we’ll laugh a lot.
![Photo of Sean Rahner, APC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/f0b409f4-8da8-46b0-969c-dfd33504b1da/2/320x400.jpeg)
I primarily work with adults who want to focus on relationships, sexual difficulties, spiritual and religious struggles, body image issues, chronic pain, anxiety, depression, and issues specific to sexual orientation, gender identity, and other sexual / relationship minorities.
In a world of Snapchat filters, Photoshop, and social media posts of others ‘living their best life,’ it’s far too easy to believe that everyone (but you) has it all together. Do you wonder if you’re the only one who struggles with esteem, image, sex, and relationships? Spoiler alert: you are NOT the only one fighting those battles and you are NOT alone. I have devoted my life to helping others in their worst moments. After spending more than twenty years in public safety, I decided to be helpful in a very different way and began my journey on a new path that includes counseling, activism, and education.
I primarily work with adults who want to focus on relationships, sexual difficulties, spiritual and religious struggles, body image issues, chronic pain, anxiety, depression, and issues specific to sexual orientation, gender identity, and other sexual / relationship minorities.
In a world of Snapchat filters, Photoshop, and social media posts of others ‘living their best life,’ it’s far too easy to believe that everyone (but you) has it all together. Do you wonder if you’re the only one who struggles with esteem, image, sex, and relationships? Spoiler alert: you are NOT the only one fighting those battles and you are NOT alone. I have devoted my life to helping others in their worst moments. After spending more than twenty years in public safety, I decided to be helpful in a very different way and began my journey on a new path that includes counseling, activism, and education.
![Photo of Ivy Nalley, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/54cf3e03-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/1/320x400.jpeg)
My work with patients focuses on relationships and relationship patterns, understanding and altering coping strategies, and exploring how one’s past, present, and future have personal meaning.
I am a licensed clinical social worker providing individual psychotherapy for adults (18 and older). I treat people with a variety of presenting complaints including interpersonal issues, identity concerns, self-esteem issues, stressful life transitions, anxiety, low mood, and substance use concerns.
My work with patients focuses on relationships and relationship patterns, understanding and altering coping strategies, and exploring how one’s past, present, and future have personal meaning.
I am a licensed clinical social worker providing individual psychotherapy for adults (18 and older). I treat people with a variety of presenting complaints including interpersonal issues, identity concerns, self-esteem issues, stressful life transitions, anxiety, low mood, and substance use concerns.
![Photo of Kimberly Sims, MA, LMFT, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/44168cca-a97a-4837-b2e7-7144ad278fd1/2/320x400.jpeg)
I am not currently accepting new couples clients at this time I have over a decade of experience helping individuals and couples navigate life transitions, relationship and parenting difficulties. I enjoy working all types people and provide a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals with a diverse sexual orientation, gender identity, and non-traditional lifestyles.
I am not currently accepting new couples clients at this time I have over a decade of experience helping individuals and couples navigate life transitions, relationship and parenting difficulties. I enjoy working all types people and provide a safe and non-judgmental space for individuals with a diverse sexual orientation, gender identity, and non-traditional lifestyles.
![Photo of Dr. Vernon T. Scott, EdD, Pre-Licensed Professional](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/be39fa32-37dc-4671-92eb-f7ae71f7c31a/1/320x400.jpeg)
Dr. Vernon T. Scott
Pre-Licensed Professional, EdD
Verified Verified
Augusta, GA 30909 (Online Only)
Are you having issues communicating with your partner and expressing your wants and needs? Are you experiencing a decline or issues with sexual satisfaction or pleasure? Are you a survivor of sexual violence or an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse? Are you a Black male at the beginning stages of your therapeutic journey? I work with clients that are over the age of 18, all orientations/identities, and all relationship structures.
Are you having issues communicating with your partner and expressing your wants and needs? Are you experiencing a decline or issues with sexual satisfaction or pleasure? Are you a survivor of sexual violence or an adult survivor of childhood sexual abuse? Are you a Black male at the beginning stages of your therapeutic journey? I work with clients that are over the age of 18, all orientations/identities, and all relationship structures.
![Photo of Tanya Ellis-Asbury, MA, LPC, NCC, CPCS, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/4fc2cff9-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/1/320x400.jpeg)
Tanya Ellis-Asbury
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC, CPCS
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Augusta, GA 30909
The challenges of life comes in different forms. Sometimes the unexpected and uncontrollable are most unsettling. When things are uncertain, you may feel out of control, anxious or hopeless. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, grief or self-defeating behaviors, I AM HERE with you. Let us take this therapeutic journey together. You are not alone. I can help you gain control and increase harmonious balance in multiple areas of your life. To expand the capability to meet your needs, other counselors are available in my practice. Intern available at 70% less typical cost. LET US HELP!!
The challenges of life comes in different forms. Sometimes the unexpected and uncontrollable are most unsettling. When things are uncertain, you may feel out of control, anxious or hopeless. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, grief or self-defeating behaviors, I AM HERE with you. Let us take this therapeutic journey together. You are not alone. I can help you gain control and increase harmonious balance in multiple areas of your life. To expand the capability to meet your needs, other counselors are available in my practice. Intern available at 70% less typical cost. LET US HELP!!
![Photo of Ronald Willis - First Focus Faith, MA](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/93940639-46b9-4134-8cab-94a355402e70/2/320x400.jpeg)
First Focus Faith treatment is for couples and individuals suffering from relationship issues, post-traumatic stress disorder , depression, anxiety, sexual abuse, addictions, behavioral issues, and anger management. Providing Christian Counseling, Family Counseling, Individual and coaching services specializing in confidence building, relationship improvements, self-care, purposeful living, stress relief, and financial wellness services for your mind, body and soul.
First Focus Faith treatment is for couples and individuals suffering from relationship issues, post-traumatic stress disorder , depression, anxiety, sexual abuse, addictions, behavioral issues, and anger management. Providing Christian Counseling, Family Counseling, Individual and coaching services specializing in confidence building, relationship improvements, self-care, purposeful living, stress relief, and financial wellness services for your mind, body and soul.
![Photo of Monte G. Kuykendall, MDiv, MA, LPC, CPCS, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/838a2799-c7aa-4c17-a7bf-e1a2e165fe98/1/320x400.jpeg)
Monte G. Kuykendall
Licensed Professional Counselor, MDiv, MA, LPC, CPCS
Verified Verified
Augusta, GA 30909 (Online Only)
Do you feel ashamed of how your life is going? Are you embarrassed to openly admit how unhealthy your family dynamics are or how your romantic relationship is going? I'm here for you. We all suffer from some shame at some point in our lives, and I firmly believe that shame makes us feel that we are out of place in society and that others can easily spot us for how damaged, messed up, or flawed we are. That we "stick out like a sore thumb." Perhaps you have tried your minister or rabbi to no avail. Maybe you have shared your struggles with your friends and neighbors, but nothing helped.
Do you feel ashamed of how your life is going? Are you embarrassed to openly admit how unhealthy your family dynamics are or how your romantic relationship is going? I'm here for you. We all suffer from some shame at some point in our lives, and I firmly believe that shame makes us feel that we are out of place in society and that others can easily spot us for how damaged, messed up, or flawed we are. That we "stick out like a sore thumb." Perhaps you have tried your minister or rabbi to no avail. Maybe you have shared your struggles with your friends and neighbors, but nothing helped.
![Photo of Kelsey Thompson, LMFT, MMFT, EMDR, Marriage & Family Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/47754a65-46cd-11ea-a6ad-06142c356176/2/320x400.jpeg)
Kelsey Thompson
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Augusta, GA 30909
You aren't sure how life got to this point. Starting another day is going to take energy that you just don’t have. You don’t feel like yourself anymore, but you don’t know how to connect with “who you used to be.” Is the disconnect impacting your most important relationships, such as your spouse, your children, family members, and friends? Even your relationship with yourself? You may find yourself pulling away from others in exhaustion or frustration, but also fearing they are pulling away from you. Perhaps you have faith and hope for the future, but lately even your faith has felt distant from you.
You aren't sure how life got to this point. Starting another day is going to take energy that you just don’t have. You don’t feel like yourself anymore, but you don’t know how to connect with “who you used to be.” Is the disconnect impacting your most important relationships, such as your spouse, your children, family members, and friends? Even your relationship with yourself? You may find yourself pulling away from others in exhaustion or frustration, but also fearing they are pulling away from you. Perhaps you have faith and hope for the future, but lately even your faith has felt distant from you.
![Photo of Ava C Mimbs, MS, NCC, LPC, C-DBT, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/2d577152-b8ff-450b-a362-d7367221c7bb/1/320x400.jpeg)
Ava C Mimbs
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, NCC, LPC, C-DBT
Verified Verified
Augusta, GA 30909 (Online Only)
I also work with clients on skills relating to Mindfulness, addressing communication skills and interpersonal relationship challenges, the managing of intense emotions, skills to address and tolerate distress, and learning techniques to assist in regulating emotions.
My goal is to assist you in the process of taking steps on your healing journey. My style is integrative in nature with a focus on authentic and honest communication. My approach is rooted in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), as I am a Certified DBT Professional. Counseling Services include Individual DBT-Informed Counseling Services with free Phone Coaching, and an Integrative approach to Individual Counseling Services. I approach counseling in a nonjudgmental manner and meet my clients where they are. I strive to provide a safe space for individuals to grow and support adults in working towards their individualized goals.
I also work with clients on skills relating to Mindfulness, addressing communication skills and interpersonal relationship challenges, the managing of intense emotions, skills to address and tolerate distress, and learning techniques to assist in regulating emotions.
My goal is to assist you in the process of taking steps on your healing journey. My style is integrative in nature with a focus on authentic and honest communication. My approach is rooted in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), as I am a Certified DBT Professional. Counseling Services include Individual DBT-Informed Counseling Services with free Phone Coaching, and an Integrative approach to Individual Counseling Services. I approach counseling in a nonjudgmental manner and meet my clients where they are. I strive to provide a safe space for individuals to grow and support adults in working towards their individualized goals.
![Photo of Cheryl Tatangelo, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/1b3d4eab-1732-4ac3-900c-a0fb34aa5ef6/1/320x400.jpeg)
I believe in creating a space that is supportive and nonjudgmental while allowing the development of a trusting and connected therapeutic relationship.
Welcome, my name is Cheryl and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of Georgia. With more than 20 years of experience as a Professional Counselor, I use a combination of theoretical approaches to fit the needs of the person sitting in front of me. I have worked extensively with children, adolescents, and adults who are dealing with life transitions, anxiety, depression, self-discovery, relationship with self, relationships with others, substance abuse, parenting concerns, trauma, and grief. I also have experience with death and dying, as well as young adult transitions.
I believe in creating a space that is supportive and nonjudgmental while allowing the development of a trusting and connected therapeutic relationship.
Welcome, my name is Cheryl and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of Georgia. With more than 20 years of experience as a Professional Counselor, I use a combination of theoretical approaches to fit the needs of the person sitting in front of me. I have worked extensively with children, adolescents, and adults who are dealing with life transitions, anxiety, depression, self-discovery, relationship with self, relationships with others, substance abuse, parenting concerns, trauma, and grief. I also have experience with death and dying, as well as young adult transitions.
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Verified Verified
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Augusta, GA 30909
You are feeling hopeless, stressed, anxious, and concerned you won't be able to handle this much longer. Your relationship is in the pits and you wonder if it could ever be renewed. Trying to communicate with your loved one feels too overwhelming and like walking on eggshells! It's hard to know what to do anymore. Tired of arguing, scared of being alone, and the possibility of losing everything that is important to you describes your life. Events in your life are hard to deal with and the person you should be able to count on is someone who hurt you and you are struggling to trust. Do any of these situations sound like you?
You are feeling hopeless, stressed, anxious, and concerned you won't be able to handle this much longer. Your relationship is in the pits and you wonder if it could ever be renewed. Trying to communicate with your loved one feels too overwhelming and like walking on eggshells! It's hard to know what to do anymore. Tired of arguing, scared of being alone, and the possibility of losing everything that is important to you describes your life. Events in your life are hard to deal with and the person you should be able to count on is someone who hurt you and you are struggling to trust. Do any of these situations sound like you?
![Photo of Jamie Lewis-Cox, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/6f73d2b2-474f-45a4-9318-82e2fd6033eb/1/320x400.png)
Active listening and working together are essential to the therapeutic relationship.
Hi! I’m an LPC in GA and have worked for 10+ years with all age groups in outpatient/inpatient settings struggling with depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD, & suicidal thoughts. My therapeutic approach is integrative, primarily influenced by Cognitive Behavioral, Interpersonal Process, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapies. I have worked with clients diagnosed with depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, attention-deficit hyperactivity, and psychotic disorders, as well as those struggling with behavioral and emotional distress, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, self-harm, insomnia, and more.
Active listening and working together are essential to the therapeutic relationship.
Hi! I’m an LPC in GA and have worked for 10+ years with all age groups in outpatient/inpatient settings struggling with depression, anxiety, PTSD, ADHD, & suicidal thoughts. My therapeutic approach is integrative, primarily influenced by Cognitive Behavioral, Interpersonal Process, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapies. I have worked with clients diagnosed with depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress, attention-deficit hyperactivity, and psychotic disorders, as well as those struggling with behavioral and emotional distress, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, self-harm, insomnia, and more.
![Photo of Capus Barnett, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/68c7d50e-f81f-4515-8f0a-872eb506fe0e/1/320x400.png)
Capus Barnett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Augusta, GA 30909 (Online Only)
Hello and welcome! I imagine you are someone who's navigating the complexities of life's challenges. Perhaps you're grappling with anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or feeling overwhelmed by the stressors of daily life. Your needs are unique: seeking understanding, desiring change, and striving for personal growth. Your goals? To find balance, achieve inner peace, and foster healthier relationships. You want more than just to cope; you yearn to thrive, to rediscover joy and meaning in your life. Why? Because you know deep down that you deserve a life filled with happiness and fulfillment.
Hello and welcome! I imagine you are someone who's navigating the complexities of life's challenges. Perhaps you're grappling with anxiety, depression, relationship problems, or feeling overwhelmed by the stressors of daily life. Your needs are unique: seeking understanding, desiring change, and striving for personal growth. Your goals? To find balance, achieve inner peace, and foster healthier relationships. You want more than just to cope; you yearn to thrive, to rediscover joy and meaning in your life. Why? Because you know deep down that you deserve a life filled with happiness and fulfillment.
![Photo of Emily Beall, MEd, LPC, Licensed Professional Counselor](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/b69542b8-a8a8-4eab-80f2-7a760a773b74/2/320x400.jpeg)
You may be here because you are seeking the freedom of not living in fear. Perhaps you find that a lot of your time is occupied by rumination or trouble tolerating uncertainty. You might describe yourself as ‘plagued with self-doubt’. I’m here for you while we navigate these challenges together. I approach therapy through the lens of guiding my clients to learn to manage the uncertainty and discomfort in what we don't have control of and instead focus on acting on their values, what is important to them/their growth, healing their relationship with themselves, and learning to be an active participant in their own lives.
You may be here because you are seeking the freedom of not living in fear. Perhaps you find that a lot of your time is occupied by rumination or trouble tolerating uncertainty. You might describe yourself as ‘plagued with self-doubt’. I’m here for you while we navigate these challenges together. I approach therapy through the lens of guiding my clients to learn to manage the uncertainty and discomfort in what we don't have control of and instead focus on acting on their values, what is important to them/their growth, healing their relationship with themselves, and learning to be an active participant in their own lives.
![Photo of Dr. Jessica M Shine, LPCA, Pre-Licensed Professional](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/d4fa6cac-d3ae-40c8-8a05-cf21b346871c/2/320x400.jpeg)
Dr. Jessica M Shine
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Augusta, GA 30909 (Online Only)
Hi, my name is Dr. Jessica Shine! I am caring and passionate about my purpose to help you heal past traumas and navigate through life’s difficult experiences and transitions. I love working with clients from diverse backgrounds and growing our therapeutic relationship in a non-judgmental, safe, and supportive environment. I strive to provide you with the necessary tools for your growth and success as your therapist, accountability partner, shoulder to cry on, and cheerleader! I’m here to connect the dots and help you understand how your life experiences all factor in to who you are today.
Hi, my name is Dr. Jessica Shine! I am caring and passionate about my purpose to help you heal past traumas and navigate through life’s difficult experiences and transitions. I love working with clients from diverse backgrounds and growing our therapeutic relationship in a non-judgmental, safe, and supportive environment. I strive to provide you with the necessary tools for your growth and success as your therapist, accountability partner, shoulder to cry on, and cheerleader! I’m here to connect the dots and help you understand how your life experiences all factor in to who you are today.
![Photo of Westly Francois, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist](https://photos.psychologytoday.com/c842afc5-fa4a-43a7-9583-7617e8d176d3/1/320x400.png)
Welcome! My name is Westly Francoi and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Florida and Georgia. I have over 13 years of experience working in acute, outpatient, and residential mental health/substance abuse treatment settings. I work with issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, life stressors, anger management, domestic violence, men's issues, and career challenges. I use a combination of cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, trauma-informed, and eye movement desensitization therapies. I have gained a passion for teaching and mentoring youth and young adults from all sorts of backgrounds.
Welcome! My name is Westly Francoi and I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Florida and Georgia. I have over 13 years of experience working in acute, outpatient, and residential mental health/substance abuse treatment settings. I work with issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, life stressors, anger management, domestic violence, men's issues, and career challenges. I use a combination of cognitive-behavioral, psychodynamic, trauma-informed, and eye movement desensitization therapies. I have gained a passion for teaching and mentoring youth and young adults from all sorts of backgrounds.
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Life Management Group has been serving the CSRA for 18 years. Our counselors and coaches specialize in a variety of issues: anger management, anxiety, depression, addiction(s), self-esteem, wounded child and trauma--just to name a few. Or if you just need an experienced coach to help you process through life's changes, family matters, parenting issues, marriage problems or relationship difficulties, LMG has dedicated, healing counselors and coaches who have made it their life's work to help others find true peace and happiness.
Life Management Group has been serving the CSRA for 18 years. Our counselors and coaches specialize in a variety of issues: anger management, anxiety, depression, addiction(s), self-esteem, wounded child and trauma--just to name a few. Or if you just need an experienced coach to help you process through life's changes, family matters, parenting issues, marriage problems or relationship difficulties, LMG has dedicated, healing counselors and coaches who have made it their life's work to help others find true peace and happiness.
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Kristi earned a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology. After two decades of her owning her own business, she decided to pursue her passion for working in the field of mental health. She then graduated with her Master of Education in counseling from Augusta University. Taking her life and educational experiences into consideration, she is committed to helping individuals navigate life’s challenges and achieve emotional well-being. Kristi began as an intern at LifeStance and had the opportunity to work with a wide range of diverse clients with challenges, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship issues, and more.
Kristi earned a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology. After two decades of her owning her own business, she decided to pursue her passion for working in the field of mental health. She then graduated with her Master of Education in counseling from Augusta University. Taking her life and educational experiences into consideration, she is committed to helping individuals navigate life’s challenges and achieve emotional well-being. Kristi began as an intern at LifeStance and had the opportunity to work with a wide range of diverse clients with challenges, such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, relationship issues, and more.
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Destiny Life Management Group is a Counseling, Coaching, and Consulting Group. We have a staff of highly trained and certified experts in their fields, who offer a non-traditional approach for people who are perplexed in managing their life, because of Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Mental Illness, Stress, Martial/Relationship Issues, Grief, Loss, Rejection, Spiritual Direction, and a Lack of Coping Skills. We are a Bridge of Peace, Privacy, and Confidentiality from the Stigmas associated with traditional Mental Health and Spiritual Counseling Services. Also, we offer Anger Management, Business/Financial Consulting, and more.
Destiny Life Management Group is a Counseling, Coaching, and Consulting Group. We have a staff of highly trained and certified experts in their fields, who offer a non-traditional approach for people who are perplexed in managing their life, because of Anxiety, Depression, Trauma, Mental Illness, Stress, Martial/Relationship Issues, Grief, Loss, Rejection, Spiritual Direction, and a Lack of Coping Skills. We are a Bridge of Peace, Privacy, and Confidentiality from the Stigmas associated with traditional Mental Health and Spiritual Counseling Services. Also, we offer Anger Management, Business/Financial Consulting, and more.
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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.