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Feeling Stressed? You Are Not Alone

Practices for building mental and emotional strength.

Let’s be real. For some this pandemic and physical distancing is a gift…an unexpected opportunity to pause, go to ground, bake bread from sourdough starter, finally build that raised garden bed, meditate, walk and do yoga, and work in pajamas.

For others it is a time of loss, uncertainty, anxiety, isolation, fear, or being uncomfortably crowded with others for extended periods. It can intensify stress, depression, anxiety, or relationship problems.

For most of us it’s a little bit of both, depending on the day.

If you are starting to get a little squirrelly, you are not alone. It is projected that overall, mental health symptoms will substantially intensify during the pandemic. Many will lose hope, lose faith, or lose someone they love. Mental health is being called the “parallel pandemic,” expected to impact more people and for a longer period of time than the COVID crisis, especially for those without a history of depression and anxiety. Check out this chart from our friends at One Mind:

One Mind
Lasting Mental Health Effects of COVID-19
Source: One Mind

This makes it crucial that we all focus just as much on building our mental, emotional, and spiritual strength as we have focused on protecting ourselves from the virus.

Attending to your mental health is just as important as your physical health. In truth, the two can’t be separated. Your stress level influences everything: your immunity, inflammation, your sleep and health behaviors – all of which have a pervasive effect on your mind, body, and spirit. It’s not as if taking care of your mental, emotional, and spiritual health is different from dealing with your physical health. They are one and the same.

You may not be able to control whether or not you experience emotional or mental health challenges during this time. Your genetics, your life experiences, the extent to which your health or finances are negatively impacted during this pandemic and many other factors will dictate that risk.

But what you can do is build your mental health resilience – in other words, how you withstand and adapt to the challenges that arise. To use a metaphor, you may not be able to determine what inner obstacle course you will face, but you can get more mentally and emotionally strong, nimble, and agile.

Building mental health resilience – whether in yourself, or in someone you love or people you work with – relies on all aspects of our lives. Mental health has to do with how we think and feel and how our brain works, yes — but also with how we move our bodies, what and how we eat, the microbiome in our gut, how we sleep, how we connect with community, nature, and spirit, where we place our attention, and even how we breathe.

It may seem overwhelming, but the good news is there are literally hundreds of evidence-based, simple (though not always easy) and free practices in each of these areas that can be gently included over time into our lives to boost mental health resilience in a short period of time. Not to be naive, even very small lifestyle changes can be surprisingly difficult - for everyone, especially when feeling down. But behavioral science also has some great tips for gradually anchoring new practices into your life. You can build an ecosystem that supports your mental, emotional and spiritual well-being. What’s more, most of these practices are enjoyable, rewarding, and connect you with others – helping you to remember that you are not alone. At times, they even bring joy, wonder, and magic into your life – which are not the opposite of stress, but can be antidotes to stress.

Never Alone Summit
Source: Never Alone Summit

Deepak Chopra, Poonacha Machaiah, Gabriella Wright, and I have created Never Alone: A Global Mental Health Summit on May 22-24. A collaboration between The Chopra Foundation’s #NeverAlone initiative and the John W. Brick Mental Health Foundation — this free 3-day livestream focuses on whole-person approaches to mental health. Register here. It will be viewable live or afterward on-demand at no cost. Featuring people like Wim Hof, Rick Hanson, Shauna Shapiro, Dan Siegel, Rhonda Magee, and more, each 12-minute talk is designed to share ideas, inspiration, and practices you can use right away. I hope you can join us.

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