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Grooming Dogs: What's Good and Bad From Their Point of View

A discussion of the hidden layers of what it's like for a dog to be groomed.

Key points

  • Grooming a dog isn't as emotionally benign as it seems. There are ups and down—but it can be done mindfully as long as the dog consents.
  • It's essential to take the dog's point of view about their own personal well-being—what they want comes first.
  • Grooming, like dog training, is an unregulated, anything-goes industry, but it shouldn't be, and it needs to be cleaned up. 

Numerous people choose to have their dogs groomed professionally. I hadn't thought much about what can be involved when a dog goes to a groomer—traveling to a facility unless it's done at home; being caged before the procedure; being left alone with a groomer; being touched and restrained during the treatment; being exposed to multisensory overload; being shampooed, trimmed in vulnerable places, including private areas, dried, perfumed, and perhaps having their nails cut and painted—until I read Stephanie Zikmann's book The Magic of Holistic Grooming: A No-Nonsense Guide To Pawsitively Grooming Your Dog With Less Stress and did a recent interview with her.

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Both were eye-openers because I hadn't thought much about the ups and downs and many hidden and not-so-hidden layers—physical and emotional—of grooming. Nonetheless, despite what I've recently learned about its downsides, including an accumulation of different sorts of stress (trigger stacking) and the fact that grooming, like dog training, is an unregulated business and an invasion of a dog's personal space, body, and freedom, it still can be done in cooperative ways so that it can be a pleasant experience and not necessarily harmful to a dog, as long as the dog consents and agrees to be groomed, because we honor their agency.1-5

There also are marked individual differences among dogs in how they respond to being groomed. And grooming goes far beyond just looking good for a human.

I wanted to know more about grooming, and I'm pleased Stephanie could answer a few questions about what's entailed in making dogs look good and how it can be done holistically and mindfully.

Why did you establish The Holistic Grooming Academy?

I wanted to provide my peers with a safe space to learn more about a dog’s needs in the context of grooming and give them the confidence to embrace a more animal-centered approach in their roles as professional groomers. It is the intent and purpose of The Holistic Grooming Academy to encourage its students to embrace a more consensual approach in their roles as groomers.

What is it like for a dog to be groomed?

Grooming is a physically demanding task, and it is the role of the dog groomer to ensure that the skin and coat are healthy and well-preened to prevent tangles and matting. Anywhere hair grows has to be carefully groomed, which means that for most breeds, every inch of a dog’s body is handled, often against their will. Sadly, there are many “safety” devices and tools that groomers are encouraged to use on dogs who resist, often forcing a non-consensual dog to stand for prolonged periods of time.

The grooming environment is also noisy, smelly, and full of potential stressors, which, if not first carefully introduced and desensitized to, will cause the dog's senses to overload, increasing stress and anxiety in the environment.

Why is it essential that the dog give their consent and that their wishes be honored?

The misconception that controlling a dog keeps the environment safe is not only dangerous, but it can also have groomers believe that the need for learning concludes with just one professional grooming qualification when there’s plenty of room to dig deeper. Being able to successfully observe and communicate with a dog throughout the grooming process and to groom at the dog’s own pace not only helps to build up trust between a dog and their groomer but also helps enhance the experience for all.

Through my work as a force-free grooming behaviorist, I have recognized that safety, especially in an environment as hazardous as grooming, is better achieved when the dog feels safe. But this can only be achieved when the groomer acknowledges each dog's individual needs—their own likes and dislikes. It cannot be achieved through force.

Choice and consent are essential. The ability to choose how we are treated is not a species-specific right, it’s a universal one that exists for all living, sentient beings. It's about opening our minds and hearts to the idea that dogs can tell us their preferences in grooming and that it’s more than possible to reduce the length of time it takes to groom a dog and get far better results long-term if we do it on their terms from day one.

As groomers, we should incorporate positive training techniques and safe-handling methods to encourage cooperation. If we learn to listen to the dog, grooming can even be a fun process they look forward to time and time again.

Why should dog grooming be regulated?

Since the grooming industry is yet to be regulated, we threaten the quality-of-care animals receive and the competence of our working professionals—anyone can legally groom a dog and make money from it. Many people don't recognize that grooming is not just the art of styling a dog to a certain breed standard, but a service of care that’s main purpose should be to preserve health and well-being through positive training, safe handling, and observation.

Regulation would hopefully bring about strict guidelines to protect animals from untrained hands and ensure that those working with them are confident and competent enough to do so. But I also feel it’s important to emphasize here the significance of continually updating and enhancing our knowledge and skills.

There still are influencers and educational bodies who laugh at the idea of dogs giving consent, highlighting how outdated our industry is. It’s hard to be critical and positive at the same time, but I try to encourage my students to have courage and step into their vulnerability. It’s not about shaming ourselves for what we do today but looking at how we can enhance what we do today to better the future for all.

In an ideal world, all pet professionals would work closely together with an open heart toward providing a more synchronized and unified space for learning extra-curricular skills focused on the psychological and emotional aspects of each individual animal and how best to groom them under less stressful circumstances.

References

In conversation with Stephanie Zikmann, founder of The Holistic Grooming Academy and author of The Magic of Holistic Grooming: A No-Nonsense Guide To Pawsitively Grooming Your Dog With Less Stress.

1) The book's description reads: The history of preserving life across every species of the Animal Kingdom proves that grooming, in its truest form, is, in fact, an ancient and scientific practice that helps to keep animals healthy, happy, and well-connected to their social groups. Yet, when we think of ‘professional’ dog grooming today, we are inclined to think of it as the ability to style to Breed Standard. The difference between this and Holistic Grooming—the concept of this book—is more than just fur deep, however. This book not only covers the definition, the role, and the importance of Holistic Grooming both in the Pet Industry and at home but also explores the history and science of grooming back to its very basics. It explores our early relationship with dogs and shows ways we can develop what we already know so that we are constantly evolving with the times. It explains why grooming is beneficial to all breeds regardless of coat type and how it might help to heal underlying health conditions too. Through tackling myths head-on and providing key information in a way that the most forward-thinking animal lovers are sure to lap up, this book explores grooming in a ‘whole’ new light. History, Laws & Legislation, Behaviour & Body-language, Biology & Science, Safe-Interaction, and even the significance of developing our very own Spirituality… it’s all covered in this book, and through reading it, you’ll start to discover the true magic in what grooming holistically has to offer. In doing this, you’ll learn how to see through the eyes of a dog and learn the necessary steps you can take to groom holistically, not only to preserve and promote health and well-being but to develop practical skills that will make grooming a much less stressful experience for all. The Magic of Holistic Grooming will take you on an enlightening and somewhat emotional journey into why a synchronized holistic approach to caring for ourselves and animals is important now more than ever.

2) Asking for a dog's consent about being groomed is no different from asking for their consent to be hugged or to take them to a dog park.

3) I've been told that the trouble with big corporate businesses is they are target-driven and don’t allow their groomers to work the way they want to. Groomers are given very specific and limited training and strict rules, all designed to keep the flow of dogs coming for maximum profit, and animal welfare is disregarded mostly. Many of these groomers are depressed and conflicted. There’s a huge mental health crisis in the grooming industry, especially in corporate organizations.

4) For discussions of the importance of not being over-critical when things can go wrong for dogs and offering positive solutions to the situations at hand, see my "Are You Being Fair to Right-Minded Dog Owners?" and Zazie Todd's response, 3 Things Dog and Cat Guardians Get Right. (How do owners do their best for their pets?)

5) Trigger stacking is a toxic accumulation of stress due to exposure to multiple triggers over a period of time that is too short to allow an animal’s reactivity/stress levels to return to normal.

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