John Montgomery, Ph.D., is an Adjunct Assistant Professor in the Psychology Department at New York University. He received his Ph.D. in Neuroscience from Caltech and has written for publications such as The Economist andThe Washington Post.
As strange as it may initially sound, distressing "survival-mode" emotional states like anxiety and fear can unconsciously facilitate sexual attraction and lead us into destructive relationships.
When we live in environments that are drastically different from the ones we’re biologically adapted for, our threshold for "survival mode" triggers is lowered. Repeated triggering leads to stress and pain.
When we live in environments that are drastically different from the ones we’re biologically adapted for, our threshold for "survival mode" triggers is lowered. Repeated triggering leads to stress and pain.
When we become triggered unaccountably into states of "survival mode," our emotions can turn against us, creating destructive patterns and disconnection.
When we become triggered unaccountably into states of "survival mode," our emotions can turn against us, creating destructive patterns and disconnection.
It’s increasingly common for someone to be diagnosed with a condition such as ADHD or autism as an adult. A diagnosis often brings relief, but it can also come with as many questions as answers.