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Looking over your life—beyond your current sweetie, mate, or spouse—there have undoubtedly been people who have positively influenced you but whom you have never told, others you are sure knew your feelings, and some whom it may soon be too late to let know.
It's worth the time to take stock and speak up. Occasioned by a surprise earthquake near my home and the sudden loss of her estranged mother by a friend, I started taking stock. Given the unknowns of life, I suggest you do, too.
Here are some suggestions for acknowledging appreciation.
Parental wisdom: If you’re lucky enough to have a parent still living, what did they tell you that has proved valuable as you mature? You would make someone very happy if you told them.
Sibling lessons: Whether younger or older or your favorite among several, a brother or sister’s wisdom or predictions (“I admired you”) can be grounds for acknowledgement.
Childhood friends: The person you held hands with in kindergarten, a favorite someone in your class, A note or email out of the blue can be very rewarding.
School days: Was there someone who taught you to read, some early teacher who was especially meaningful in your young life? Unless you were a teacher yourself or a babysitter or a child influencer, you have no idea what a letter of thanks out of the blue can mean to someone who is now out of your life. It’s not that hard to find most people in your early life. Look online, ask old neighbors, contact the school in question. The joy an hour or two of research and letter writing on your part can bring is immeasurable.
Yearbook predictions: Were you voted “most likely to…” or even “least likely to” anything? Did that influence you in any way, preferably positively: Your yearbook editor is probably traceable. Let him or her know.
Something someone said that has stayed with you: I have been retired for almost five years, and it has been many more years since my online Sexuality Forum was active, but I still get email regarding something I said that stayed with a client or a conversation online that has proven memorable. That’s enormously gratifying.
Coworkers and bosses: Life lessons and gratifying memories come from many sources. If one or more of yours comes from a workplace, let that person know.
Old sweethearts or crushes: This is a use-your-judgement-carefully one.. Some objects of your affection will be delighted to hear from you; some won’t. Some previous romantic relationships may seem to need closure; some best left in memory.
Last and best: If you are in a close relationship, you don’t have to be the first to use the L word. Let your partner know what you appreciate about him/or her and how they have contributed to your life.
