Attachment-based Therapists in Nelson

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Sally Scott
Counsellor, NZCCA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Nelson 7010
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, stress burnout, grief, trauma, immigration or other concerns? Looking for guidance in changing patterns or struggling to navigate the complexities of neurodiversity (ADHD, ASD, Dyslexia)? Do you need understanding, acceptance, and practical strategies while riding the wave of life's adversities? I'm mature counsellor, so I bring academic training, but also years of life experience and my own ongoing life learning to my counselling. Clients tell me I am calm, approachable, friendly, and trustworthy. I'm here to listen & help make sense of it. I'm ACC & WINZ Registered.
Are you feeling overwhelmed by anxiety, depression, stress burnout, grief, trauma, immigration or other concerns? Looking for guidance in changing patterns or struggling to navigate the complexities of neurodiversity (ADHD, ASD, Dyslexia)? Do you need understanding, acceptance, and practical strategies while riding the wave of life's adversities? I'm mature counsellor, so I bring academic training, but also years of life experience and my own ongoing life learning to my counselling. Clients tell me I am calm, approachable, friendly, and trustworthy. I'm here to listen & help make sense of it. I'm ACC & WINZ Registered.
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Jen Holmes Beamer
Counsellor, MSc, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010  (Online Only)
Developing together a safe space to explore, we can work towards connecting with, and understanding your inner world (thoughts, emotions, body sensations and nervous system responses) as a pathway towards awareness, resilience and lasting healing.
Developing together a safe space to explore, we can work towards connecting with, and understanding your inner world (thoughts, emotions, body sensations and nervous system responses) as a pathway towards awareness, resilience and lasting healing.
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Patricia Pataki
Psychotherapist, MSc, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Nelson 7011
I am a Nelson-based Psychotherapist offering short-term and long-term psychotherapy for adults, children and young people. My approach to working in therapy relies mainly on psychodynamic theories; meaning that I believe our early experiences (such as those encountered during our childhood and adolescence) have a significant impact on us. We may search for patterns in your life, to better understand what may be causing and perpetuating your problems. In long-term therapy it is crucial that you come to trust me, to share these often very personal memories and experiences.
I am a Nelson-based Psychotherapist offering short-term and long-term psychotherapy for adults, children and young people. My approach to working in therapy relies mainly on psychodynamic theories; meaning that I believe our early experiences (such as those encountered during our childhood and adolescence) have a significant impact on us. We may search for patterns in your life, to better understand what may be causing and perpetuating your problems. In long-term therapy it is crucial that you come to trust me, to share these often very personal memories and experiences.
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Isabel Law
Counsellor, NZCCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nelson 7011
The journey through life is often defined by many challenges that can weigh us down in unexpected ways. Whether we are feeling anxious or depressed, are navigating relationship issues, a difficult transition, struggling with unresolved trauma, or unhelpful behaviour patterns we do not need to do it alone. Sometimes this journey requires support so we can find our way back to a greater sense of balance and well-being.
The journey through life is often defined by many challenges that can weigh us down in unexpected ways. Whether we are feeling anxious or depressed, are navigating relationship issues, a difficult transition, struggling with unresolved trauma, or unhelpful behaviour patterns we do not need to do it alone. Sometimes this journey requires support so we can find our way back to a greater sense of balance and well-being.
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Shelley Harvill - Rainbow Consulting
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010  (Online Only)
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
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Joanne Hender
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010
Kia Ora, I am Jo, I am here to offer support to individuals or couples who are experiencing challenges which are impacting on their day to day lives. If you are experiencing Depression, Post-Natal Depression, Anxiety, Grief and Loss, Communication challenges then please reach out for a chat, and we can make a plan that works for you. I am happy to work in person, online or on the phone. I look forward to hearing from you.
Kia Ora, I am Jo, I am here to offer support to individuals or couples who are experiencing challenges which are impacting on their day to day lives. If you are experiencing Depression, Post-Natal Depression, Anxiety, Grief and Loss, Communication challenges then please reach out for a chat, and we can make a plan that works for you. I am happy to work in person, online or on the phone. I look forward to hearing from you.
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Breakthrough Counselling
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010
Kia ora, I'm Jennifer Stewart (she/her) and I work with those deep, thorny emotional wounds that we often refer to as trauma or complex trauma. Sometimes these wounds are caused by big, dramatic events and sometimes they're created by the many smaller injuries that can result from not being fully seen, supported, or understood by those around us. These wounds can leave us feeling stuck, out of control, or unable to realise our full potential. We may feel easily triggered/anxious or numb/shut down. We may struggle with setting boundaries, low self esteem, substance use, self harm, or be targeted for relationship/narcissistic abuse.
Kia ora, I'm Jennifer Stewart (she/her) and I work with those deep, thorny emotional wounds that we often refer to as trauma or complex trauma. Sometimes these wounds are caused by big, dramatic events and sometimes they're created by the many smaller injuries that can result from not being fully seen, supported, or understood by those around us. These wounds can leave us feeling stuck, out of control, or unable to realise our full potential. We may feel easily triggered/anxious or numb/shut down. We may struggle with setting boundaries, low self esteem, substance use, self harm, or be targeted for relationship/narcissistic abuse.
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Rainbow Consulting
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I work with individuals, couples and policules. Though I work broadly with people who have a variety of emotional health concerns, I have a passion for and commitment to supporting those in Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous relationship structures and the LGBTQ+ community. I also have a focus on attachment, trauma, gender and sexuality/sex positivity.
I work with individuals, couples and policules. Though I work broadly with people who have a variety of emotional health concerns, I have a passion for and commitment to supporting those in Ethically Non Monogamous/polyamorous relationship structures and the LGBTQ+ community. I also have a focus on attachment, trauma, gender and sexuality/sex positivity.
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Grace Irvine
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Nelson 7071  (Online Only)
I work with all ages and specialise working with teens and young adults who are struggling. Challenges can come from anywhere; the loss of a loved one, a health condition, problems at school or work, anxiety, trauma, bullying, depression, attacks on dignity, abuse, or being spoken to in unhelpful ways. Problems can get you feeling overwhelmed, hopeless and stuck. I invite you to let me journey with you from that stuck place to hope and peace.
I work with all ages and specialise working with teens and young adults who are struggling. Challenges can come from anywhere; the loss of a loved one, a health condition, problems at school or work, anxiety, trauma, bullying, depression, attacks on dignity, abuse, or being spoken to in unhelpful ways. Problems can get you feeling overwhelmed, hopeless and stuck. I invite you to let me journey with you from that stuck place to hope and peace.
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Dr. Ella Kroch
Psychologist, PsychD
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010  (Online Only)
Kia ora and welcome! I am a registered clinical psychologist who works compassionately and collaboratively with adults (18+) experiencing a range of life challenges and mental health difficulties.
Kia ora and welcome! I am a registered clinical psychologist who works compassionately and collaboratively with adults (18+) experiencing a range of life challenges and mental health difficulties.
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Paola @ Therapy Tides
Counsellor, MPsych, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
Kia ora, I'm Paola. In therapy, change comes in waves and cycles, like with the tides. I provide my clients a safe and professional environment to navigate those therapeutic tides in the smoothest way possible. I bring to the therapeutic process competence, clarity and clinical discernment for the client to be able to dive safely in the deep waters of personal transformation. Clients report that they experience tangible results as enhanced self-esteem and trust, reduced severity of symptoms as anxiety, depression, grief or mental confusion, and the restoring of their capacity for secure, and organized relationships, among others.
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Angela Carter
Counsellor, NZAFT
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010  (Online Only)
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
As Bessel van der Kolk notes, trauma is specifically an event that overwhelms the central nervous system, altering the way we process and recall memories. “Trauma is not the story of something that happened back then," he adds. "It's the current imprint of that pain, horror, and fear living inside people.” I am a well-established health professional who has dedicated my professional life working on releasing trauma in a natural, nurturing way, returning my clients to their natural state of wholeness. I call this "The Journey Home". I work from a neuroscience perspective. Harmonizing all aspects of our being Mind, Body and Soul
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Krysia Lanigan
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Nelson 7010
Not accepting new clients
I offer a warm, accepting, and confidential space where you feel listened to. I have experience supporting people with wide-ranging issues including; relationship challenges, feeling disconnected, navigating life changes, loss, identity struggles, and low self-worth; and people who identify as highly sensitive or neurodiverse. Psychotherapy allows us to explore why we feel and behave the way we do and can help us learn to manage our emotions. Developing an understanding of ourselves and our patterns can give us new perspectives, help us make meaningful changes, and may help us accept things we can’t change.
I offer a warm, accepting, and confidential space where you feel listened to. I have experience supporting people with wide-ranging issues including; relationship challenges, feeling disconnected, navigating life changes, loss, identity struggles, and low self-worth; and people who identify as highly sensitive or neurodiverse. Psychotherapy allows us to explore why we feel and behave the way we do and can help us learn to manage our emotions. Developing an understanding of ourselves and our patterns can give us new perspectives, help us make meaningful changes, and may help us accept things we can’t change.
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Adrianne Kelly Counselling
Counsellor, NZCCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Richmond 7020
Waitlist for new clients
I create a warm and caring environment where we can explore the issues concerning you. My aim is to support you in identifying and building the life you really want, by overcoming or better managing obstacles to that vision. If you're feeling stuck in a rut and you're sick of going round in circles, let's work together and get things sorted.
I create a warm and caring environment where we can explore the issues concerning you. My aim is to support you in identifying and building the life you really want, by overcoming or better managing obstacles to that vision. If you're feeling stuck in a rut and you're sick of going round in circles, let's work together and get things sorted.
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Online Therapists

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Sue O'Hagan Counselling
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Paraparaumu 5032
I offer in person counselling in Kāpiti or online counselling throughout New Zealand to adults and adolescents. I am flexible in my approach, which is individualised for you depending on your current needs. I work in a client centred, collaborative way where we meet together as equals working to satisfy the outcome that you desire, respecting your values, beliefs and uniqueness. We will work together and at a pace that works for you enabling you to heal and move forward to your wholeness - of what is already there. I believe that we can find solutions to your difficulties using the strength and resources that you have within you.
I offer in person counselling in Kāpiti or online counselling throughout New Zealand to adults and adolescents. I am flexible in my approach, which is individualised for you depending on your current needs. I work in a client centred, collaborative way where we meet together as equals working to satisfy the outcome that you desire, respecting your values, beliefs and uniqueness. We will work together and at a pace that works for you enabling you to heal and move forward to your wholeness - of what is already there. I believe that we can find solutions to your difficulties using the strength and resources that you have within you.
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Bethany Resink Counselling
Counsellor, MSc, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Wellington 6011
Hello, I'm Bethany. I enjoy helping others and feel honoured to be part of a client's journey towards healing, freedom and becoming a more authentic and healthier version of themselves. I have experience working individually, with couples and groups. I provide a safe, accepting and affirming environment where growth, insight and discovery are nurtured.
Hello, I'm Bethany. I enjoy helping others and feel honoured to be part of a client's journey towards healing, freedom and becoming a more authentic and healthier version of themselves. I have experience working individually, with couples and groups. I provide a safe, accepting and affirming environment where growth, insight and discovery are nurtured.
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Delia Crozier
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Wellington 6011
I provide psychotherapy for people having difficulties in relationships, feeling hurt, confused or overwhelmed by circumstances or life events, having a sense of lack or something missing, wanting more from life or curious to understand yourself more fully.
I provide psychotherapy for people having difficulties in relationships, feeling hurt, confused or overwhelmed by circumstances or life events, having a sense of lack or something missing, wanting more from life or curious to understand yourself more fully.
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Art of Therapy
Counsellor, MA, AThR
Verified Verified
Lower Hutt 5012
I work with children and adults using Art therapy, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP), Interactive Drawing Technique (IDT) with a parts approach, talk therapy, somatic methods, mindfulness and sand tray. I find these modalities, within a supportive therapeutic relationship, help people who are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief and loss, attachment and relationship struggles and who need to recover from traumatic experiences.
I work with children and adults using Art therapy, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR), Dyadic Developmental Psychotherapy (DDP), Interactive Drawing Technique (IDT) with a parts approach, talk therapy, somatic methods, mindfulness and sand tray. I find these modalities, within a supportive therapeutic relationship, help people who are experiencing depression, anxiety, grief and loss, attachment and relationship struggles and who need to recover from traumatic experiences.
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Megan Carter, Ocean Psy Clinical Psychology
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Wellington 6037  (Online Only)
It takes a lot of courage to reach out to a person you don’t know to work through challenges. I will meet you with compassion, for you, and hold space for your human experiences. We will build safety and trust together as we seek to acknowledge, understand, heal, and integrate what you have been through. I am passionate about supporting the diverse humans I work with to build resilience, cope, and process their experiences. I support my clients to live a life where their minds are a bit kinder to them.
It takes a lot of courage to reach out to a person you don’t know to work through challenges. I will meet you with compassion, for you, and hold space for your human experiences. We will build safety and trust together as we seek to acknowledge, understand, heal, and integrate what you have been through. I am passionate about supporting the diverse humans I work with to build resilience, cope, and process their experiences. I support my clients to live a life where their minds are a bit kinder to them.
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Judy Dunce
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Wellington 6037
Kia ora, I offer therapy to help you to overcome difficult experiences in the past to help you towards a better future? I have experience in supporting people who are experiencing stress related to their childhood, or current specific events. There is no better time to start working towards change in your life.
Kia ora, I offer therapy to help you to overcome difficult experiences in the past to help you towards a better future? I have experience in supporting people who are experiencing stress related to their childhood, or current specific events. There is no better time to start working towards change in your life.
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Attachment-based Counsellors

Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?

Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.

What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?

Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.

How long does attachment-based therapy last?

Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioural Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.

Does attachment-based therapy work?

Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.