Couples Counselling Therapists in Napier

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Amy T Walewski
Counsellor, MA, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Napier 4110
Amy covers many areas of therapies servicing individuals and couples dealing with anxiety, depression or life challenges.
Amy is an experienced therapist who provides safe, non-judgemental and private sessions in Napier and online. She specialises working with individuals or couples dealing with anxiety, depression, bullying, fear, panic attacks, post-natal depression, parenting, marriage stress, career guidance and life coaching. Amy Walewski is a member of New Zealand Associations of Counsellors with over 25 years of experience. She is a preferred provider for The Hawkes Bay Mental Health Initiative. If you are looking for a professional, Amy can help you feel back in control.
Amy covers many areas of therapies servicing individuals and couples dealing with anxiety, depression or life challenges.
Amy is an experienced therapist who provides safe, non-judgemental and private sessions in Napier and online. She specialises working with individuals or couples dealing with anxiety, depression, bullying, fear, panic attacks, post-natal depression, parenting, marriage stress, career guidance and life coaching. Amy Walewski is a member of New Zealand Associations of Counsellors with over 25 years of experience. She is a preferred provider for The Hawkes Bay Mental Health Initiative. If you are looking for a professional, Amy can help you feel back in control.
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Plot Twist Talk Therapy: Neil Westwood
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Napier 4112
I am an experienced Social Worker, Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years. I work alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness. My top specialties are relationship dynamics, men's issues, intimate partner abuse and violence, anger management, communication, and parenting.
I am an experienced Social Worker, Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years. I work alongside clients who are navigating major life transitions, coping with mental health challenges, or seeking greater self-awareness. My top specialties are relationship dynamics, men's issues, intimate partner abuse and violence, anger management, communication, and parenting.
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Marriage Transformation Expert | Global Author
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Napier 4104
Together we can transform your relationship from cold silence to warm friendship.
Is it possible to save your marriage when you're lying in bed at night, a million miles apart, with that hopeless knot in your stomach? Most people think their partner must be equally committed to making changes, but I've discovered it takes just ONE person to turn things around. Like many of my clients, you may be successful professionally or in business but struggling with your relationship - facing broken communication, constant conflicts, lost intimacy, or trying to rebuild trust. You're tired of the icy cold silence and talk of divorce. You know your relationship deserves better, but traditional couples therapy isn't helping.
Together we can transform your relationship from cold silence to warm friendship.
Is it possible to save your marriage when you're lying in bed at night, a million miles apart, with that hopeless knot in your stomach? Most people think their partner must be equally committed to making changes, but I've discovered it takes just ONE person to turn things around. Like many of my clients, you may be successful professionally or in business but struggling with your relationship - facing broken communication, constant conflicts, lost intimacy, or trying to rebuild trust. You're tired of the icy cold silence and talk of divorce. You know your relationship deserves better, but traditional couples therapy isn't helping.
0800 627 003 x20 View 0800 627 003 x20
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Ellie Lockhart Coaching & Hypnotherapy
Verified Verified
Napier 4104
Do you feel like your mind and body are being hijacked by recent or old traumatic events? Do you feel like you lose control of your thoughts and behaviour? Are you being held back from living the life you want? Of being the parent, partner, colleague or leader, you want to be? You are frustrated that you can't shake it off? It's exhausting and affecting your relationships and coping skills. You just want to be free of it and get on with your life. You may also be holding back from getting professional support because you can't bear to talk about it. What if you could resolve this with minimal talking and time?
Do you feel like your mind and body are being hijacked by recent or old traumatic events? Do you feel like you lose control of your thoughts and behaviour? Are you being held back from living the life you want? Of being the parent, partner, colleague or leader, you want to be? You are frustrated that you can't shake it off? It's exhausting and affecting your relationships and coping skills. You just want to be free of it and get on with your life. You may also be holding back from getting professional support because you can't bear to talk about it. What if you could resolve this with minimal talking and time?
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Dr. Premitha Silva
MBBS
Verified Verified
Napier 4110
My ideal clients would be children and families. I focus on childhood issues and children and families needs. The goals for your child and for your family would be the starting point. Supporting you to assess the needs and reflect on your situation and get the life you want for your child and family is what I support you with on your journey.
My ideal clients would be children and families. I focus on childhood issues and children and families needs. The goals for your child and for your family would be the starting point. Supporting you to assess the needs and reflect on your situation and get the life you want for your child and family is what I support you with on your journey.
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Dan Goodkind
Psychologist, PhD, MNZCCP
Verified Verified
Napier 4110
Hi, I am a registered clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist living and practicing in Nelson, New Zealand. My primary focus is providing psychotherapy. Psychotherapy involves the careful application of techniques that help people change their behaviors, thoughts, feelings, and other personal characteristics in ways that enable them to thrive and cope with the stresses of living. I prefer to work with clients in person but if meeting in person is impossible or impractical, I can provide services online.
Hi, I am a registered clinical psychologist and neuropsychologist living and practicing in Nelson, New Zealand. My primary focus is providing psychotherapy. Psychotherapy involves the careful application of techniques that help people change their behaviors, thoughts, feelings, and other personal characteristics in ways that enable them to thrive and cope with the stresses of living. I prefer to work with clients in person but if meeting in person is impossible or impractical, I can provide services online.
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More Therapists Nearby

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Dr. Hayley Walker-Williams (Bwrt Practitioner)
Psychologist, PhD, MNZCCP
Verified Verified
Hastings 4120
Dr. Hayley Walker-Williams is a practicing Clinical Psychologist with 24 years of experience. She is registered with the NZ Psychology Board and is a full member of the NZ College of Clinical Psychologists. Her clinical expertise include psychological disorders and specifically trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship issues. She immigrated to New Zealand in 2021 from South Africa where she was a full-time academic/associate professor of psychology at the North-West University. She also consulted in private practice, an inpatient ward and as an EAP consultant. Hayley has published several peer-reviewed journal articles.
Dr. Hayley Walker-Williams is a practicing Clinical Psychologist with 24 years of experience. She is registered with the NZ Psychology Board and is a full member of the NZ College of Clinical Psychologists. Her clinical expertise include psychological disorders and specifically trauma, depression, anxiety, grief, and relationship issues. She immigrated to New Zealand in 2021 from South Africa where she was a full-time academic/associate professor of psychology at the North-West University. She also consulted in private practice, an inpatient ward and as an EAP consultant. Hayley has published several peer-reviewed journal articles.
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Online Therapists

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Le Pine-Roulston Counselling
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Palmerston North 4410
Lynley offers a confidential, compassionate and professional counselling service with a special interest in women health and wellbeing as well as working with couples to enhance their relationship.
Lynley is a Senior Counsellor with extensive experience working with people around a variety of issues. She is in private practice and holds a number of contracts, Victim Support and ACC and is an appointed family court counsellor. She also works for a NGO. Lynley is constantly attending professional development in a way that allows her to keep up with new ways of working.
Lynley offers a confidential, compassionate and professional counselling service with a special interest in women health and wellbeing as well as working with couples to enhance their relationship.
Lynley is a Senior Counsellor with extensive experience working with people around a variety of issues. She is in private practice and holds a number of contracts, Victim Support and ACC and is an appointed family court counsellor. She also works for a NGO. Lynley is constantly attending professional development in a way that allows her to keep up with new ways of working.
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Jacqui Grant
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Palmerston North 4412
I offer a kind, professional and confidential service to individuals, all kinds of couples, and families.
Kia ora koutou. Sometimes everything can get too much and is hard to navigate. Sometimes the inside gets really noisy, and it becomes hard to operate. It is completely normal to experience and to get stuck in these times or perhaps notice some unhelpful patterns of behaviour. I'm passionate about supporting people to find their way through these times. Together we will explore your world. To help you understand where you are; see different perspectives; and help you find practical solutions; that will initially help you cope and then begin to move forward.
I offer a kind, professional and confidential service to individuals, all kinds of couples, and families.
Kia ora koutou. Sometimes everything can get too much and is hard to navigate. Sometimes the inside gets really noisy, and it becomes hard to operate. It is completely normal to experience and to get stuck in these times or perhaps notice some unhelpful patterns of behaviour. I'm passionate about supporting people to find their way through these times. Together we will explore your world. To help you understand where you are; see different perspectives; and help you find practical solutions; that will initially help you cope and then begin to move forward.
0800 447 264 x39 View 0800 447 264 x39
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Annie Bruwer
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Palmerston North 4410
I am a registered counsellor with The New Zealand Association of Counsellors with over 5 years experience working with a wide range of ages presenting with various issues/challenges. I provide individual and couples counselling.
I am a registered counsellor with The New Zealand Association of Counsellors with over 5 years experience working with a wide range of ages presenting with various issues/challenges. I provide individual and couples counselling.
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Photo of Christine Wattie - Relationship Mentor and Leadership Coach, MNZAC, Counsellor
Relationship Mentor and Leadership Coach
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Havelock North 4130
I understand the pain of feeling disconnected from your partner and the fear of losing the love you once shared.
Are struggling with your relationship? Feeling frustrated, stressed, anxious, overwhelmed, burnt out? More like flatmates than friends and lovers? Wondering if it is even possible to fix it? I will help create a clear, plan with the exact steps to build a thriving relationship, fast. Together, we'll break through old patterns, create great communication for more connection, to rediscover the joy and intimacy you both want. If you're ready to work on yourself and your partnership and experience a truly exceptional relationship, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
I understand the pain of feeling disconnected from your partner and the fear of losing the love you once shared.
Are struggling with your relationship? Feeling frustrated, stressed, anxious, overwhelmed, burnt out? More like flatmates than friends and lovers? Wondering if it is even possible to fix it? I will help create a clear, plan with the exact steps to build a thriving relationship, fast. Together, we'll break through old patterns, create great communication for more connection, to rediscover the joy and intimacy you both want. If you're ready to work on yourself and your partnership and experience a truly exceptional relationship, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
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Monika Lovelock
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Gisborne 4010
I help you react and respond to the world around you mindfully and establish a friendly relationship with your mind, body, and brain.
I offer integrative therapy which includes EMDR (Memory reprocessing), Traumatic attachment and Inner Child Healing), TCTSY (Trauma Center Trauma Sensitive Yoga), and Somatic Approaches (body-oriented). These modalities are evidence-based, effective, and holistic approaches. Your body has an innate ability for physiological and psychological healing. But much like your physical healing, your psychological recovery needs to be supported by the right treatment, that which is effective and empowering. Full recovery from psychological distress or injury is possible and should be available to all of us.
I help you react and respond to the world around you mindfully and establish a friendly relationship with your mind, body, and brain.
I offer integrative therapy which includes EMDR (Memory reprocessing), Traumatic attachment and Inner Child Healing), TCTSY (Trauma Center Trauma Sensitive Yoga), and Somatic Approaches (body-oriented). These modalities are evidence-based, effective, and holistic approaches. Your body has an innate ability for physiological and psychological healing. But much like your physical healing, your psychological recovery needs to be supported by the right treatment, that which is effective and empowering. Full recovery from psychological distress or injury is possible and should be available to all of us.
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Lisa Gibson
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Palmerston North 4414
Waitlist for new clients
I specialise in helping adults, teens, and couples live more in alignment with their values.
Kia ora! I'm Lisa Gibson, a registered psychologist based in Palmerston North. I'm dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. Through therapy, we can work together to develop helpful coping strategies, foster self-compassion, and cultivate greater self-awareness. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach.
I specialise in helping adults, teens, and couples live more in alignment with their values.
Kia ora! I'm Lisa Gibson, a registered psychologist based in Palmerston North. I'm dedicated to helping individuals and couples navigate life's challenges. Through therapy, we can work together to develop helpful coping strategies, foster self-compassion, and cultivate greater self-awareness. I have a compassionate, non-judgmental, and collaborative approach.
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Photo of Debbie Marie Elizabeth Cunningham - Personal Transformation Therapy & Counselling, NZAC - Provisional, Counsellor
Personal Transformation Therapy & Counselling
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Rotorua 3010
My ideal client is a self-motivated referral wanting to empower themselves with new strategies, willing to be curious to what may be possibilities
My ideal client is a self-motivated referral wanting to empower themselves with new strategies, willing to be curious to what may be possibilities
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Counsellor Dave
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Palmerston North 4410
My focus in therapy is creating a respectful space where your life can change for the better. If you want to confront something problematic, I am here to listen to and support you through whatever it may be. I have many years of experience as a practising therapist and have worked with various issues with men, women, and youth. I offer an open, caring space for you to take the time you need to achieve your goals.
My focus in therapy is creating a respectful space where your life can change for the better. If you want to confront something problematic, I am here to listen to and support you through whatever it may be. I have many years of experience as a practising therapist and have worked with various issues with men, women, and youth. I offer an open, caring space for you to take the time you need to achieve your goals.
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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.