Relationship Issues Therapists in Christchurch

Photo of Kate Todd - Kate Todd Coaching and Counselling, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional, Counsellor
Kate Todd Coaching and Counselling
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Christchurch 8053
Special interest in supporting clients with managing work and home-life , Stress, Menopause, Divorce, Relationship issues, ADHD, Older teenagers, Disordered Eating and Grief.
I am a Solution Focused trained counsellor which means we will look at how your life is now, what changes you would like to make, what is holding you back from that and learning your strengths to help you to move forward. We live in busy and emotionally demanding times and my hope is to provide you with some space to focus on your needs away from the pressure of life and work. I welcome working with clients from all walks of life. We will work together to figure out how you would like your life to be, identify the roadblocks and look at ways for you to make positive changes in your life.
Special interest in supporting clients with managing work and home-life , Stress, Menopause, Divorce, Relationship issues, ADHD, Older teenagers, Disordered Eating and Grief.
I am a Solution Focused trained counsellor which means we will look at how your life is now, what changes you would like to make, what is holding you back from that and learning your strengths to help you to move forward. We live in busy and emotionally demanding times and my hope is to provide you with some space to focus on your needs away from the pressure of life and work. I welcome working with clients from all walks of life. We will work together to figure out how you would like your life to be, identify the roadblocks and look at ways for you to make positive changes in your life.
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Photo of Alison Kay Paterson - Heart and Mind: Couples & Relationship Counselling, NZCCA, Counsellor
Heart and Mind: Couples & Relationship Counselling
Counsellor, NZCCA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Christchurch 8013
Kia ora, My name is Kay. I'm a relationship counsellor working with couples, families, parents, and individuals. My therapy room is in Christchurch City Centre on Bealey Avenue. ​I believe that there is little of greater importance than living in right relationship: with ourselves, our partner, our family, and our community. I understand how we long to be understood and loved by the important people in our lives, however sometimes we struggle to achieve this. I would be honoured to work with you to improve the quality of your relationships and your life. Read more on my website: www.heartandmind.org.nz
Kia ora, My name is Kay. I'm a relationship counsellor working with couples, families, parents, and individuals. My therapy room is in Christchurch City Centre on Bealey Avenue. ​I believe that there is little of greater importance than living in right relationship: with ourselves, our partner, our family, and our community. I understand how we long to be understood and loved by the important people in our lives, however sometimes we struggle to achieve this. I would be honoured to work with you to improve the quality of your relationships and your life. Read more on my website: www.heartandmind.org.nz
0800 468 212 x82 View 0800 468 212 x82
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Becky Bradley
Counsellor, MCouns, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Christchurch 7670  (Online Only)
I am an experienced Counsellor with a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology. I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to eating disorders and trauma. Growing up in several different countries has given me a deep appreciation for people of diverse cultures, identities and backgrounds, and has informed my open-minded understanding and acceptance of others. With experience providing long-term, trauma-informed counselling, I offer a safe, collaborative and non-judgemental space where you can feel heard, supported and work towards your goals.
I am an experienced Counsellor with a Masters degree in Counselling Psychology. I support clients with varying issues, from anxiety, relationship difficulties and body image to eating disorders and trauma. Growing up in several different countries has given me a deep appreciation for people of diverse cultures, identities and backgrounds, and has informed my open-minded understanding and acceptance of others. With experience providing long-term, trauma-informed counselling, I offer a safe, collaborative and non-judgemental space where you can feel heard, supported and work towards your goals.
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Claire Thompson
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Christchurch 7670
Hi, I’m an individual and relationship counsellor, drug and alcohol specialist, family mediator and coach with over 22 years experience.
Face to face (Auckland), online and phone appointments are available NZ and world wide.
Hi, I’m an individual and relationship counsellor, drug and alcohol specialist, family mediator and coach with over 22 years experience.
Face to face (Auckland), online and phone appointments are available NZ and world wide.
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Serafin Upton
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8011
Serafin Upton - Love and relationship science, no sweeteners, plenty of moxie. Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex and relationship therapist - Infidelity and Betrayal - Queer Relationships / Relationship Anarchy/ Polyamory/ Open Relationships/ Kink - Neurodiversity - Autism - ADHD / Sex Addiction / Pornography / Intergenerational trauma.
Serafin Upton - Love and relationship science, no sweeteners, plenty of moxie. Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex and relationship therapist - Infidelity and Betrayal - Queer Relationships / Relationship Anarchy/ Polyamory/ Open Relationships/ Kink - Neurodiversity - Autism - ADHD / Sex Addiction / Pornography / Intergenerational trauma.
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Elaine Allison
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8022
Elaine often works with those who have ADHD, anxiety, OCD, depression, life coaching, relationship, work, parenting issues etc.
Elaine is a Senior Registered Psychologist in New Zealand and a Registered Clinical and Counselling Psychologist in the UK. Elaine has lived in New Zealand for over 25yrs. Elaine helps her clients using a warm, empowering approach to assist her clients achieve their goals in the most appropriate way. Using a wide variety of approaches such as CBT, positive psychology, DBT and mindfulness etc. Elaine has over 27 years experience working with adults, teenagers, children and families. Elaine has worked in the UK and New Zealand within the Health Service, NHS, G.P. surgeries, Social Services, Special Education and in private practice.
Elaine often works with those who have ADHD, anxiety, OCD, depression, life coaching, relationship, work, parenting issues etc.
Elaine is a Senior Registered Psychologist in New Zealand and a Registered Clinical and Counselling Psychologist in the UK. Elaine has lived in New Zealand for over 25yrs. Elaine helps her clients using a warm, empowering approach to assist her clients achieve their goals in the most appropriate way. Using a wide variety of approaches such as CBT, positive psychology, DBT and mindfulness etc. Elaine has over 27 years experience working with adults, teenagers, children and families. Elaine has worked in the UK and New Zealand within the Health Service, NHS, G.P. surgeries, Social Services, Special Education and in private practice.
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Shelley Harvill - Rainbow Consulting
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Christchurch 7670  (Online Only)
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
She works with individual, couples and people in alternative relationship structures.
Shelley obtained a Doctorate of Psychology and completed post grad work in Nova Scotia Canada in 2010. She is a NZ registered clinical psychologist & served in the role of Clinical Manager of a National DBT Service. DBT is an integration of western and eastern psychological philosophies and along with EMDR and CBT based prolonged exposure, is one of Shelley’s preferred therapeutic models for working with emotional regulation, complex needs and trauma.
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Luba Kabanov
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8011
Life's journey can be challenging, but you don't have to navigate it alone. With my gentle support and guidance, I'm here to help you uncover the most authentic, fulfilling version of yourself, whatever that might look like for you. Whether you're grappling with stress, self-doubt, relationship issues, or career uncertainties, we'll work together to find your path to inner peace and joy. As a relational psychotherapist drawing upon attachment theory, I create a safe space where healing can occur. I also incorporate creative therapies to foster self-expression, helping you articulate what words alone can't capture.
Life's journey can be challenging, but you don't have to navigate it alone. With my gentle support and guidance, I'm here to help you uncover the most authentic, fulfilling version of yourself, whatever that might look like for you. Whether you're grappling with stress, self-doubt, relationship issues, or career uncertainties, we'll work together to find your path to inner peace and joy. As a relational psychotherapist drawing upon attachment theory, I create a safe space where healing can occur. I also incorporate creative therapies to foster self-expression, helping you articulate what words alone can't capture.
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Relationship Mentor and Coach
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Christchurch 7670
If you're ready to work on yourself and your relationship, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
On the brink of divorce and desperate to save your marriage? Feeling more like roommates than a happy couple? Frustrated, anxious, and scared, wondering if it's even possible to fix your relationship? I understand. With 40 years of marriage and experience helping hundreds of couples, I've seen it all—from communication breakdowns to lost intimacy. But there's hope. My Aroha Rapid Transformation Method offers a clear, practical plan to rebuild your relationship, fast. Together, we'll: • Break through old patterns • Create great communication for deeper connection • Rediscover joy and intimacy • Rebuild trust and reignite passion
If you're ready to work on yourself and your relationship, I'm here to guide you every step of the way.
On the brink of divorce and desperate to save your marriage? Feeling more like roommates than a happy couple? Frustrated, anxious, and scared, wondering if it's even possible to fix your relationship? I understand. With 40 years of marriage and experience helping hundreds of couples, I've seen it all—from communication breakdowns to lost intimacy. But there's hope. My Aroha Rapid Transformation Method offers a clear, practical plan to rebuild your relationship, fast. Together, we'll: • Break through old patterns • Create great communication for deeper connection • Rediscover joy and intimacy • Rebuild trust and reignite passion
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Photo of Claire Heathcote - Claire Heathcote - CH Psychology Ltd., MA, Psychologist
Claire Heathcote - CH Psychology Ltd.
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8011
I invite clients into a trusting relationship where they have a space to share their problems without judgement.
I provide a safe, empathic, and collaborative space in which I offer psychological assessment and treatment to children, teenagers and adults. Treatment planning and interventions are designed with the client and outcomes are monitored. I have had the privilege to work with a range of people, to support and empower them to reach the goals they desire. I have worked with low moods, depression, anxiety, self-harm, loss and grief, stress, workplace issues, parenting issues, relationship issues and anger problems.
I invite clients into a trusting relationship where they have a space to share their problems without judgement.
I provide a safe, empathic, and collaborative space in which I offer psychological assessment and treatment to children, teenagers and adults. Treatment planning and interventions are designed with the client and outcomes are monitored. I have had the privilege to work with a range of people, to support and empower them to reach the goals they desire. I have worked with low moods, depression, anxiety, self-harm, loss and grief, stress, workplace issues, parenting issues, relationship issues and anger problems.
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Photo of Vicki Maree Fowler, PhD, NZPsS Member, Psychologist
Vicki Maree Fowler
Psychologist, PhD, NZPsS Member
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8022
Sensitivity in working with people experiencing Anxiety/Depression, Emotional Disturbance, Work, Well-Being & Relationship Issues, Compulsive Shopping, Compulsive Gambling (especially Gaming Machine Gambling), Problematic Alcohol Use, and suffering from Grief and Bereavement and Trust Issues.
My name is Dr Vicki Fowler (PhD) and I am a Life Coach & Registered Psychologist. I would like to welcome my very special clients to my website www.drvickifowler.com. As a Life Coach I enjoy setting meaningful goals for clients and as a Registered Psychologist I am able to clinically work with a range of conditions and issues. My charge-out rate is ($172.50 incl GST per hour). My Special Clients are Clients seeking Help for Anxiety/Depression, Stress, Work & Relationship Difficulties, Alcohol, Gambling, Grief/Bereavement & Other Issues. I look forward to working with you to achieve goals that you want in a clinically meaningful way.
Sensitivity in working with people experiencing Anxiety/Depression, Emotional Disturbance, Work, Well-Being & Relationship Issues, Compulsive Shopping, Compulsive Gambling (especially Gaming Machine Gambling), Problematic Alcohol Use, and suffering from Grief and Bereavement and Trust Issues.
My name is Dr Vicki Fowler (PhD) and I am a Life Coach & Registered Psychologist. I would like to welcome my very special clients to my website www.drvickifowler.com. As a Life Coach I enjoy setting meaningful goals for clients and as a Registered Psychologist I am able to clinically work with a range of conditions and issues. My charge-out rate is ($172.50 incl GST per hour). My Special Clients are Clients seeking Help for Anxiety/Depression, Stress, Work & Relationship Difficulties, Alcohol, Gambling, Grief/Bereavement & Other Issues. I look forward to working with you to achieve goals that you want in a clinically meaningful way.
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Photo of Donna Steel - Donna Steel Counselling, NZAC - Provisional, Counsellor
Donna Steel Counselling
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Christchurch 8014
My specialty areas are working alongside clients experiencing issues due to Trauma, Addiction, Anorexia, Anxiety, ADHD, Adoption, Depression, Identity, and Relationship/breakdowns.
I believe that it's my job to create a warm inviting space for my clients, a space where you are able to feel safe and be able to talk about what is important for you while exploring what you may need. I work from a Strength-Based Person-Centered approach and at times may utilize other modalities such as CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy), Narrative Therapy, Systemic Family Therapy, Trauma informed mindfulness, Art therapy using an Open Studio Therapy approach and Sand Tray Therapy. I also provide ACC Sensitive Claims Counselling.
My specialty areas are working alongside clients experiencing issues due to Trauma, Addiction, Anorexia, Anxiety, ADHD, Adoption, Depression, Identity, and Relationship/breakdowns.
I believe that it's my job to create a warm inviting space for my clients, a space where you are able to feel safe and be able to talk about what is important for you while exploring what you may need. I work from a Strength-Based Person-Centered approach and at times may utilize other modalities such as CBT (Cognitive Behavior Therapy), Narrative Therapy, Systemic Family Therapy, Trauma informed mindfulness, Art therapy using an Open Studio Therapy approach and Sand Tray Therapy. I also provide ACC Sensitive Claims Counselling.
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Photo of Tim Robinson - Tim Robinson - Counsellor- men's wellbeing/anxiety, MPsych, NZAC - Provisional, Counsellor
Tim Robinson - Counsellor- men's wellbeing/anxiety
Counsellor, MPsych, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8081  (Online Only)
I have a particular interest in anxiety, especially social anxiety. Other areas of interest include: grief, trauma, relationship issues, career aspirations/transitions, anxiety disorders (in general) and men's mental health. I feel at times men get left "behind" in the health system and do not utilise services as well as they could so I'm keen to promote support around men's mental health and have done academic research in this area.
I have a particular interest in anxiety, especially social anxiety. Other areas of interest include: grief, trauma, relationship issues, career aspirations/transitions, anxiety disorders (in general) and men's mental health. I feel at times men get left "behind" in the health system and do not utilise services as well as they could so I'm keen to promote support around men's mental health and have done academic research in this area.
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T Melanie Lake
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8042
I offer marital/relationship therapy, helping individuals or partners through betrayals & relationship repair or moving on.
Welcome. Seeking psychological help is a courageous step & I aim to make it accessible, understandable & effective for clients. Please feel free to email me. I am a Doctorate-level qualified Clinical Psychologist who can help with assessment & therapy for mental health needs, personal problems or relationship issues. I work in a transparent way, explaining what we do & why, to increase your insight & engagement in your therapy. A good “fit” between client & psychologist is key & I would encourage you to look until you find that. I offer evidence-based strategies & coping skills, or can advise self-help or other resources at times.
I offer marital/relationship therapy, helping individuals or partners through betrayals & relationship repair or moving on.
Welcome. Seeking psychological help is a courageous step & I aim to make it accessible, understandable & effective for clients. Please feel free to email me. I am a Doctorate-level qualified Clinical Psychologist who can help with assessment & therapy for mental health needs, personal problems or relationship issues. I work in a transparent way, explaining what we do & why, to increase your insight & engagement in your therapy. A good “fit” between client & psychologist is key & I would encourage you to look until you find that. I offer evidence-based strategies & coping skills, or can advise self-help or other resources at times.
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Madhu Munasinghe
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8022
Are you or your child facing mental health difficulties like depression, mental breakdown, self-harm, anxiety, anger, trauma, relationship struggles, or self-esteem issues? With my expertise and evidence-based therapeutic techniques, I can provide the support you need to overcome these challenges and regain control of your life. From emotional regulation to trauma healing, I assess and address various psychological problems such as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), support in the diagnosis process of ADHD and more. Through assessment and therapy, you'll discover the tools to improve your present and embrace a brighter future
Are you or your child facing mental health difficulties like depression, mental breakdown, self-harm, anxiety, anger, trauma, relationship struggles, or self-esteem issues? With my expertise and evidence-based therapeutic techniques, I can provide the support you need to overcome these challenges and regain control of your life. From emotional regulation to trauma healing, I assess and address various psychological problems such as Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), support in the diagnosis process of ADHD and more. Through assessment and therapy, you'll discover the tools to improve your present and embrace a brighter future
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Paul Letham-McGrath
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Christchurch 8023
My main areas of specialty are: Creative and performance industries; Existential concerns (the search for meaning, purpose, or direction); Depression and anxiety; Relationship problems; Gay, lesbian, and bisexual concerns; Transgender and gender identity issues; Intimacy and sexuality; Jungian, transpersonal, and depth psychology.
I am a fully-qualified registered counsellor based in Christchurch, Rolleston, and online. I have 11 years of full-time private practice experience. My counselling style is warm, interactive, exploratory, and methodical.
My main areas of specialty are: Creative and performance industries; Existential concerns (the search for meaning, purpose, or direction); Depression and anxiety; Relationship problems; Gay, lesbian, and bisexual concerns; Transgender and gender identity issues; Intimacy and sexuality; Jungian, transpersonal, and depth psychology.
I am a fully-qualified registered counsellor based in Christchurch, Rolleston, and online. I have 11 years of full-time private practice experience. My counselling style is warm, interactive, exploratory, and methodical.
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Regina Webb
Counsellor
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Christchurch 8053
Do you find your thoughts overwhelming you? Are these thoughts constantly on your mind keeping you from living your life? Through life's obstacles and challenges, there is a story. You deserved to be heard for yourself or your relationship with your loved ones. Each journey with a client is unique. I am here to listen if you are experiencing anxiety, stress, anger or depression. When past traumas or present issues create road bumps in your life, I can work collaboratively to help you make sense of it all.
Do you find your thoughts overwhelming you? Are these thoughts constantly on your mind keeping you from living your life? Through life's obstacles and challenges, there is a story. You deserved to be heard for yourself or your relationship with your loved ones. Each journey with a client is unique. I am here to listen if you are experiencing anxiety, stress, anger or depression. When past traumas or present issues create road bumps in your life, I can work collaboratively to help you make sense of it all.
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Anna Keyter
Counsellor, MA, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Christchurch 7670  (Online Only)
I am trained in a number of therapies, including CBT, Action and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Gestalt Psychotherapy, Relationship Therapy, Humanistic Therapies and more.
I work mainly with adults online, using Zoom. My clients come from various backgrounds, including all sexual or religious orientations. I walk alongside you to decide on your treatment plan. If you experience depression, anxiety, work-related or relationship issues, you could benefit from my service. I work with you to realise your goals by working from an eclectic (various therapies) perspective to support you.
I am trained in a number of therapies, including CBT, Action and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Gestalt Psychotherapy, Relationship Therapy, Humanistic Therapies and more.
I work mainly with adults online, using Zoom. My clients come from various backgrounds, including all sexual or religious orientations. I walk alongside you to decide on your treatment plan. If you experience depression, anxiety, work-related or relationship issues, you could benefit from my service. I work with you to realise your goals by working from an eclectic (various therapies) perspective to support you.
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Chiara Flisi
Counsellor, MCouns
Verified Verified
Christchurch 7670  (Online Only)
I help people facing difficult times because of a relationship,conflicts within the family,or just facing a transitional time in their lives.I will help you finding out what are your needs,how to express them in an assertive way,how to find the right decision for you to take.It is generally a short path as you will be able able to soon change your mindset,enhance your skills and practise self-help.
I help people facing difficult times because of a relationship,conflicts within the family,or just facing a transitional time in their lives.I will help you finding out what are your needs,how to express them in an assertive way,how to find the right decision for you to take.It is generally a short path as you will be able able to soon change your mindset,enhance your skills and practise self-help.
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Safe Space with Shagoon
MA
Verified Verified
Christchurch 7672
My work assists adolescents and parents with parent-child relationship, behavioral concerns, anxiety, depression, peer relationships, adolescent issues, anxiety, stress, depression, self-esteem, developmental disorders and other life challenges.
I am an enthusiastic, energetic and reliable individual with a wealth of experiences combined with appropriate qualifications who has been supporting individuals through general, complex and diverse issues they may experience. I believe in creative yet simple ways to bring out positive emotional, social and cognitive changes in people. I have a diverse and comprehensive educational background from the University of Adelaide and Delhi (India). I have current police checks, all my DCSI screenings. Providing E-Counselling to NRIs and Indians. In one sentence, encouraging self care, positivity and mental health is my life’s passion.
My work assists adolescents and parents with parent-child relationship, behavioral concerns, anxiety, depression, peer relationships, adolescent issues, anxiety, stress, depression, self-esteem, developmental disorders and other life challenges.
I am an enthusiastic, energetic and reliable individual with a wealth of experiences combined with appropriate qualifications who has been supporting individuals through general, complex and diverse issues they may experience. I believe in creative yet simple ways to bring out positive emotional, social and cognitive changes in people. I have a diverse and comprehensive educational background from the University of Adelaide and Delhi (India). I have current police checks, all my DCSI screenings. Providing E-Counselling to NRIs and Indians. In one sentence, encouraging self care, positivity and mental health is my life’s passion.
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Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.