Sex Therapists in Auckland, AU

Photo of Margo Regan, MNZAC, Counsellor
Margo Regan
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011
Specialised in Relationship Couples Counselling Intensives and EMDR Therap in Auckland. MNZAC Registered with NZAC, specialising in relationships and areas that frequently impact relationships such as conflict, addiction, pornography addiction, anxiety, and sexuality. . Having trained with world-renowned teachers and worked in international world-leading addiction residential treatment centres, facilitated relationship workshops, designed and led corporate programmes and speaks on communication, emotional intelligence, relationships and resilience at conferences. Regularly asked for media commentary on national print, radio and tv.
Specialised in Relationship Couples Counselling Intensives and EMDR Therap in Auckland. MNZAC Registered with NZAC, specialising in relationships and areas that frequently impact relationships such as conflict, addiction, pornography addiction, anxiety, and sexuality. . Having trained with world-renowned teachers and worked in international world-leading addiction residential treatment centres, facilitated relationship workshops, designed and led corporate programmes and speaks on communication, emotional intelligence, relationships and resilience at conferences. Regularly asked for media commentary on national print, radio and tv.
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Gabriela Mercado
Psychotherapist, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 0627
I am a psychotherapist, a supervisor, and a sex therapist; these disciplines intertwine and inform my clinical practice every day. My approach is psychodynamic, which means that you and I will work together, which will help us to unravel the meanings and interpretations that sometimes are affecting the way we see our life and the patterns we find ourselves in. When psychotherapy meets sex therapy, this tool encompasses all and every aspect of a person’s expressions of life.
I am a psychotherapist, a supervisor, and a sex therapist; these disciplines intertwine and inform my clinical practice every day. My approach is psychodynamic, which means that you and I will work together, which will help us to unravel the meanings and interpretations that sometimes are affecting the way we see our life and the patterns we find ourselves in. When psychotherapy meets sex therapy, this tool encompasses all and every aspect of a person’s expressions of life.
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Jenny Smith
Counsellor, MNZCCA
Verified Verified
Auckland 1061
My work background has been highly varied and I have specialised training in addiction, sex therapy, trauma work and couples work.
Welcome! My name is Jen and I am a registered counsellor specialising in relationship work, sexual issues, addiction and trauma. I primarily work with adults and couples with a range of complex issues. I offer a non-judgmental environment and a relational approach with the hope that you and I can work together in order to find answers or solutions that you may be seeking. I am psychodynamically trained and enjoy the explorative process of therapy. I have been a therapist for several years and enjoy my work immensely. I approach each new client with curiosity, compassion and a hope for resolution. I look forward to hearing from you!
My work background has been highly varied and I have specialised training in addiction, sex therapy, trauma work and couples work.
Welcome! My name is Jen and I am a registered counsellor specialising in relationship work, sexual issues, addiction and trauma. I primarily work with adults and couples with a range of complex issues. I offer a non-judgmental environment and a relational approach with the hope that you and I can work together in order to find answers or solutions that you may be seeking. I am psychodynamically trained and enjoy the explorative process of therapy. I have been a therapist for several years and enjoy my work immensely. I approach each new client with curiosity, compassion and a hope for resolution. I look forward to hearing from you!
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Serafin Upton
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Auckland 1050
Specialising in sex and relationship therapy / family therapy / neurospicy relationships/ ENM / kink, and intergenerational trauma.
Serafin Upton - Love and relationship science, no sweeteners, plenty of moxie. Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex and relationship therapist - Infidelity and Betrayal - Queer Relationships / Relationship Anarchy/ Polyamory/ Open Relationships/ Kink - Neurodiversity - Autism - ADHD / Sex Addiction / Pornography / Intergenerational trauma.
Specialising in sex and relationship therapy / family therapy / neurospicy relationships/ ENM / kink, and intergenerational trauma.
Serafin Upton - Love and relationship science, no sweeteners, plenty of moxie. Providing specialist relationship therapy for individuals, couples, and families. Qualified sex and relationship therapist - Infidelity and Betrayal - Queer Relationships / Relationship Anarchy/ Polyamory/ Open Relationships/ Kink - Neurodiversity - Autism - ADHD / Sex Addiction / Pornography / Intergenerational trauma.
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Paul Wilson
Psychotherapist, MPsych, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 1021
Not accepting new clients
I have particular experience in working with issues around masculinity and sexuality.
I offer both short-term counselling focusing on specific issues as well as longer-term psychotherapy. If you are frustrated with repeating old patterns of behaving and feeling and are searching for increased wellbeing, self-acceptance and resilience, psychotherapy can make a big difference to your life. Sharing your difficulties with a caring and effective listener can help you live more adventurously and feel more at ease in your own skin. I prefer to work collaboratively towards useful and achievable goals that you choose.
I have particular experience in working with issues around masculinity and sexuality.
I offer both short-term counselling focusing on specific issues as well as longer-term psychotherapy. If you are frustrated with repeating old patterns of behaving and feeling and are searching for increased wellbeing, self-acceptance and resilience, psychotherapy can make a big difference to your life. Sharing your difficulties with a caring and effective listener can help you live more adventurously and feel more at ease in your own skin. I prefer to work collaboratively towards useful and achievable goals that you choose.
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Lineé Van der Meer
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Auckland 1051
In addition, I have a special interest in working with couples, and issues related to sex, pleasure and sexual self-concept.
Welcome to my practice. I am a registered clinical psychologist, offering long and short term psychotherapy to adults and couples. My clients present with a wide range of issues and challenges. Often, life transitions and changes like the loss of a relationship or job, becoming a parent, ageing and menopause, separation, and immigration are the impetus for seeking therapy. At other times, it might be difficulties in relationships, depression, low mood, anxiety or stress. I view issues and challenges brought to therapy through a holistic lens and believe that body, mind and spirit are all equally important for optimal well-being.
In addition, I have a special interest in working with couples, and issues related to sex, pleasure and sexual self-concept.
Welcome to my practice. I am a registered clinical psychologist, offering long and short term psychotherapy to adults and couples. My clients present with a wide range of issues and challenges. Often, life transitions and changes like the loss of a relationship or job, becoming a parent, ageing and menopause, separation, and immigration are the impetus for seeking therapy. At other times, it might be difficulties in relationships, depression, low mood, anxiety or stress. I view issues and challenges brought to therapy through a holistic lens and believe that body, mind and spirit are all equally important for optimal well-being.
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Photo of Megan Daube, MPsych, PBANZ, Psychotherapist
Megan Daube
Psychotherapist, MPsych, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011
Welcome, I have experience working with a wide range of people. Perhaps you have a mental health diagnosis, unsatisfying relationships, issues around sex and sexuality, anxiety, depression, trauma, separation or maybe a yearning to live a more authentic, pleasurable and peaceful life. Relationships are challenging and require skills which are rarely taught and life brings struggle to us all. Psychotherapy can help you move through your challenges consciously with intent. Let's start with a conversation about your needs and if my skills and style are a good fit for you. For more information please see my website www.megandaube.com
Welcome, I have experience working with a wide range of people. Perhaps you have a mental health diagnosis, unsatisfying relationships, issues around sex and sexuality, anxiety, depression, trauma, separation or maybe a yearning to live a more authentic, pleasurable and peaceful life. Relationships are challenging and require skills which are rarely taught and life brings struggle to us all. Psychotherapy can help you move through your challenges consciously with intent. Let's start with a conversation about your needs and if my skills and style are a good fit for you. For more information please see my website www.megandaube.com
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Melisa Cane-Franzetti
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1021  (Online Only)
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
I can help you with: anxiety, depression, navigating life's changes, relationship issues, communication styles, sex therapy, migrant related issues, attachment styles, feelings of isolation, fears, self-love, family dynamics, apathy, general well-being, and amongst other topics.
UNIQUE I don’t believe in “one solution fits all”. So I do an initial assessment and get to know you and your therapy goals. I train in different methods and techniques and tailor the session to your needs. HOLISTIC My approach to well-being and happiness is holistic. I look at the different elements in your life and your environment to better understand where you are at right now and what you need. I work on being present, mindful, and accepting. EMPOWERING I believe in giving people tools to apply in their lives outside of the therapy room. I like to give people the autonomy to make choices and perfect their reflective skills.
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Photo of Ria Tsai, MPsych, Psychologist
Ria Tsai
Psychologist, MPsych
Verified Verified
Auckland 1011  (Online Only)
Ria is a Counselling Psychologist. She has worked in a variety of mental health settings specializing in depression, anxiety, addictions, sexual abuse and harm, trauma/PTSD, relationship and sexuality issues. Ria has a specialised interest in healthy relationships and self-growth. She has worked with women, men and adolescents from different cultural backgrounds with neurodiversity, intellectual disabilities and the forensic population.
Ria is a Counselling Psychologist. She has worked in a variety of mental health settings specializing in depression, anxiety, addictions, sexual abuse and harm, trauma/PTSD, relationship and sexuality issues. Ria has a specialised interest in healthy relationships and self-growth. She has worked with women, men and adolescents from different cultural backgrounds with neurodiversity, intellectual disabilities and the forensic population.
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Bridget Stella Wilson
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Auckland 1010
I believe that addiction is a primary disease and that a person's other issues will stem from this fundamental problem. Therefore it's important to treat the addiction first. People with addiction often use alcohol and other drugs or behaviours to 'cope'. In the beginning the substance or the behaviour (such as sex addiction) was the 'solution', but after a while it became the problem. My approach is to offer therapy that is focused on a new, results-focused solution. The goal is offering my clients 'tools' so that they can change behaviour that is causing problems in their lives.
I believe that addiction is a primary disease and that a person's other issues will stem from this fundamental problem. Therefore it's important to treat the addiction first. People with addiction often use alcohol and other drugs or behaviours to 'cope'. In the beginning the substance or the behaviour (such as sex addiction) was the 'solution', but after a while it became the problem. My approach is to offer therapy that is focused on a new, results-focused solution. The goal is offering my clients 'tools' so that they can change behaviour that is causing problems in their lives.
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Photo of Sophie Rushmer, NZAC - Provisional, Counsellor
Sophie Rushmer
Counsellor, NZAC - Provisional
Verified Verified
Auckland 1061
As a dedicated and qualified relationship counsellor, Sophie is passionate about empowering people to find their own path forwards in a non-judgemental, open and safe space. Sophie believes in walking alongside people to gain insight and understanding into emotions, behaviours, thoughts and patterns.
As a dedicated and qualified relationship counsellor, Sophie is passionate about empowering people to find their own path forwards in a non-judgemental, open and safe space. Sophie believes in walking alongside people to gain insight and understanding into emotions, behaviours, thoughts and patterns.
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Photo of Yulia Von, MPsych, MNZAP, Psychotherapist
Yulia Von
Psychotherapist, MPsych, MNZAP
Verified Verified
Auckland 1072
Not accepting new clients
Each of us has a dream of creating a meaningful life filled with love and belonging. My greatest joy is to help people to uncover and follow their dreams.
Each of us has a dream of creating a meaningful life filled with love and belonging. My greatest joy is to help people to uncover and follow their dreams.
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Suzi Wallis
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1051
Waitlist for new clients
My name is Suzi Wallis (she/her). I am here to support you with tools and strategies, to achieve the changes you want. We will work towards the best possible outcomes for you and your situation. If you wish to explore the past, we will do that at a pace that's comfortable for you. The counselling I offer is about making change, and making change stick. Clients regularly leave sessions with several things to work on between appointments. I have been working with clients since 2002, and offer a variety of modalities to assist you. I offer in-person sessions in Ellerslie North, Tāmaki Makaurau Auckland, Aotearoa.
My name is Suzi Wallis (she/her). I am here to support you with tools and strategies, to achieve the changes you want. We will work towards the best possible outcomes for you and your situation. If you wish to explore the past, we will do that at a pace that's comfortable for you. The counselling I offer is about making change, and making change stick. Clients regularly leave sessions with several things to work on between appointments. I have been working with clients since 2002, and offer a variety of modalities to assist you. I offer in-person sessions in Ellerslie North, Tāmaki Makaurau Auckland, Aotearoa.
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Photo of Jessica Gu - Auckland Mental Wellness Centre, MPsych, NZPsS Member, Psychologist
Auckland Mental Wellness Centre
Psychologist, MPsych, NZPsS Member
Verified Verified
Auckland 1051
Auckland Mental Wellness Centre has a team of registered psychologists. We aim to provide professional, and confidential psychology service for children, adolescents, adults, and families. Our psychologists are experienced and certified supervisors to provide Clinical Supervision and Training for professionals. Our service include general and specialised psychological assessment, diagnosis and treatment of a wide range of relational, psychological, emotional, social and behavioural issues. We also do assessment report to Court and Immigration NZ.
Auckland Mental Wellness Centre has a team of registered psychologists. We aim to provide professional, and confidential psychology service for children, adolescents, adults, and families. Our psychologists are experienced and certified supervisors to provide Clinical Supervision and Training for professionals. Our service include general and specialised psychological assessment, diagnosis and treatment of a wide range of relational, psychological, emotional, social and behavioural issues. We also do assessment report to Court and Immigration NZ.
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Photo of Mo Nathan, MNZAC, Counsellor
Mo Nathan
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 1010
Mo provides a warm, kind, hopeful, and effective space for increased awareness, personal growth and healing. In his holistic practice, he integrates modern therapy with age old wisdom traditions. Mo has been himself on the journey of growth and embodiment, practicing yoga, meditation, martial arts, and shadow work. Mo worked at a domestic violence agency, where, in addition to offering couples and individual therapy, he facilitated anger management groups. Mo has also taught mindfulness for stress reduction courses.
Mo provides a warm, kind, hopeful, and effective space for increased awareness, personal growth and healing. In his holistic practice, he integrates modern therapy with age old wisdom traditions. Mo has been himself on the journey of growth and embodiment, practicing yoga, meditation, martial arts, and shadow work. Mo worked at a domestic violence agency, where, in addition to offering couples and individual therapy, he facilitated anger management groups. Mo has also taught mindfulness for stress reduction courses.
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Photo of Cobus du Plessis, MA, Psychologist
Cobus du Plessis
Psychologist, MA
Verified Verified
Auckland 2018
Therapy is a specialized conversation, which is both a science and an art. It creates a deep relational connection and a safe space, where we can heal, grow stronger, or just move forward. We do this by discovering who we are, what we want, and how to get there. I am passionate about meeting people, journeying with them, facilitating change, and watching as they become more at ease within themself, with others, their world, and spirituality.
Therapy is a specialized conversation, which is both a science and an art. It creates a deep relational connection and a safe space, where we can heal, grow stronger, or just move forward. We do this by discovering who we are, what we want, and how to get there. I am passionate about meeting people, journeying with them, facilitating change, and watching as they become more at ease within themself, with others, their world, and spirituality.
0800 447 264 x31 View 0800 447 264 x31
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Johan Erasmus
Psychologist, MSc, NZPsS Member
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Auckland 2010  (Online Only)
We all go through life events. At times more intense and at times quite bearable. If you are struggling with mental health, medical, relational or life difficulties, would like to feel more in control, feel stuck or need some objective help, guidance or coping skills, make contact and get the process started.
We all go through life events. At times more intense and at times quite bearable. If you are struggling with mental health, medical, relational or life difficulties, would like to feel more in control, feel stuck or need some objective help, guidance or coping skills, make contact and get the process started.
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Vincent Pinto
Verified Verified
Auckland 1050  (Online Only)
If you have been feeling lonely, sad or anxious, we can share a safe space where you can tell me your concerns. The main purpose of therapy is generating deep awareness of one's own personality and behaviour, understand about your inner world (thoughts, emotions, feelings), inquiring how our past affects our present. With this understanding one can move onto learning skills in order to manage emotions and behaviour. The therapeutic approach I use depends on the client's needs and resources available, with a strong foundation on a trauma-informed approach.
If you have been feeling lonely, sad or anxious, we can share a safe space where you can tell me your concerns. The main purpose of therapy is generating deep awareness of one's own personality and behaviour, understand about your inner world (thoughts, emotions, feelings), inquiring how our past affects our present. With this understanding one can move onto learning skills in order to manage emotions and behaviour. The therapeutic approach I use depends on the client's needs and resources available, with a strong foundation on a trauma-informed approach.
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Simon Banks
Psychotherapist, MA, PBANZ
Verified Verified
Auckland 0624
Perhaps you have tried strategies that no longer work. Perhaps you have had support before and would now like to try it again or continue where you left off. Perhaps there is something specific that you would like to gain more insight into and healing from. Whatever your reason for coming, you will find a safe, non-judgemental and accepting environment where you will have a confidential space to bring whatever you would like to work through at a pace and depth that feels safe to you.
Perhaps you have tried strategies that no longer work. Perhaps you have had support before and would now like to try it again or continue where you left off. Perhaps there is something specific that you would like to gain more insight into and healing from. Whatever your reason for coming, you will find a safe, non-judgemental and accepting environment where you will have a confidential space to bring whatever you would like to work through at a pace and depth that feels safe to you.
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The Couples Shed
Counsellor, MNZAC
Verified Verified
Auckland 0772
Has your relationship turned sour? Do you struggle to communicate effectively? Have anger and resentment replaced hope and kindness? Or has your relationship become transactional ? I offer communication coaching, couples therapy and practical relationship tools that work!
Has your relationship turned sour? Do you struggle to communicate effectively? Have anger and resentment replaced hope and kindness? Or has your relationship become transactional ? I offer communication coaching, couples therapy and practical relationship tools that work!
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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.