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Dark Hearts

Presents psychologist Susan Krause Whitbourne's findings on how personality changes over the course of adulthood. Since the mid-1960s when she started her study, Americans have lost a sense of personal meaning. Improvements in every measure of psychological development; 'Precipitous decline' in ego integrity; Disenchantment with work ethic; Putting meaning back into life; Hope. INSET: The end of 'image' (America's materialism profile).

A funny thing happened to psychologist Susan Krause Whitbourne. She thought she was researching how personality changes over the course of adulthood. But when she looked at the results of her longitudinal study, she was staring straight at the philosophical malaise of modern Americans.

What she found was that since the mid-1960s, when she started her study, Americans have lost a sense of personal meaning. They're working more -but far more full of despair.

In all three cohorts of adults she has added, tested, and retested over 22 years, every measure of psychosocial development improved with age. Except one. In her most recent round of testing, she was surprised to see a "precipitous decline" in ego integrity, a personality factor relating to wholeness, honesty, and meaning in life and to having a sense of connection with others.

At first she thought it was restricted to the yuppie generation of her study - people with a "notoriously empty lifestyle focused on wealth and possessions," she reports in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology (Vol. 63, No. 2). But when it turned up in all three groups at the same time, she could only conclude it reflects "a more general society-wide crisis of morality and purpose affecting adults of all ages."

A professor of psychology at the University of Massachusetts, Whitbourne began testing personality variables at the University of Rochester in 1966. Students scored low on industry; they lacked "a focus on work and material success." Like others of their era, they were disenchanted with the work ethic.

Over time, and with exposure to the real world, their personal industry began to climb. By 1988, when yet another cohort joined the study, the three groups were equally slaving away. But ego integrity had plummeted. All three groups were now questioning life's worth.

What happened between 1977 and 1988? "People got caught up in chasing the materialistic dream. They got recognition for their achievements, yet don't feel that what they are doing matters in the larger scheme of things."

The scores on life satisfaction were so low, Whitbourne says, they couldn't go any lower. She thinks people are now looking for ways to put more meaning in life. There are no data. "My belief," she confides, "is based on hope."

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THE END OF "IMAGE"

YOU'RE NO LONGER INTERESTED IN promiscuous spending or impressing the neighbors. You may spend dollars, but you demand substance and quality. Value means more to you than trendiness. You're not suffering from atrophy of desire. You've just discovered the limits of materialism. Enter the psychology of limitations. There's a dramatic shift in values and attitudes that drive the consumer behavior that drives the U.S. economy, says psychologist Lynne Kahle, Ph.D., head of marketing at the University of Oregon. Instead of being well-respected by others, it's self-respect you now seek.

In marketplace jargon, you're "role-relaxed"; you don't conform to any role. Here's the profile Kahle draws of you today, versus a decade ago:

THEN:

value being well-respected

money can buy happiness

conspicuous consumption

consumptions shows status

envy of possessions

possessiveness

nongenerous

expensive means quality

"Lifestyles of the Rich and Famous"

NOW:

value self-respect

money buys quality products

unpretentious consumption

status doesn't matter

satisfied with quality

products are means to ends

may or may not be generous

purchases should be practical

"Consumer Reports"

Maybe, just maybe, that augurs an end to those Michael Jackson Pepsi commercials. If we - finally - own our own minds, who needs celebrity pitches?

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