Men's Issues Counselling in Westerham

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Henry Robertson-Nicol
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Westerham TN16
Hi! I'm Henry, an Integrative Counsellor and Couples Therapist based in Sevenoaks. If work is getting you down, or if you're finding the balance between the office and home difficult, then please reach out and we can discuss the presenting issues. I am afforded the benefit of extensive life experience that is potentially unique in a therapist - as a man, as a stay-at-home dad, as someone who has lived and experienced many different cultures and working situations, and as an individual who has, at times, struggled with codependency and the corporate world.
Hi! I'm Henry, an Integrative Counsellor and Couples Therapist based in Sevenoaks. If work is getting you down, or if you're finding the balance between the office and home difficult, then please reach out and we can discuss the presenting issues. I am afforded the benefit of extensive life experience that is potentially unique in a therapist - as a man, as a stay-at-home dad, as someone who has lived and experienced many different cultures and working situations, and as an individual who has, at times, struggled with codependency and the corporate world.
01732 443372 View 01732 443372
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Samantha Geldard
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Westerham TN16
"The divine light in me bows to the divine light within you," Namaste. I support those struggling with anxiety, depression, panic attacks. I support making changes in your life or managing transitions. I offer a safe, non judgemental space for you the client to explore your feelings, relationships, habits, life events and past. I support adults and young people at any stage of a SEND or neuro diverse diagnosis. I have experience supporting chronic illness including families of chronically ill children. Currently offering face to face sessions in Beckenham, Mondays 3-8pm.
"The divine light in me bows to the divine light within you," Namaste. I support those struggling with anxiety, depression, panic attacks. I support making changes in your life or managing transitions. I offer a safe, non judgemental space for you the client to explore your feelings, relationships, habits, life events and past. I support adults and young people at any stage of a SEND or neuro diverse diagnosis. I have experience supporting chronic illness including families of chronically ill children. Currently offering face to face sessions in Beckenham, Mondays 3-8pm.
01883 779631 View 01883 779631
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Amanda Katharine Dalsan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Westerham TN16
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
07411 278341 View 07411 278341
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Andrew Allan
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Westerham TN16
I am here to support you with a wide range of issues from anxiety to anger, bereavement to low mood. I specialise in relationships, working with individuals and couples on infidelity, intimacy, communications, relationship anxiety, wider family dilemmas and many more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). I will work with you to address your challenges in the here and now, whilst also helping to shed a light on the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. No two people are the same and so my counselling offer is bespoke for you rather than an off the shelf model.
I am here to support you with a wide range of issues from anxiety to anger, bereavement to low mood. I specialise in relationships, working with individuals and couples on infidelity, intimacy, communications, relationship anxiety, wider family dilemmas and many more. I also specialise in compulsive sexual behaviours ("sex addiction"). I will work with you to address your challenges in the here and now, whilst also helping to shed a light on the root causes. Together, we will also explore what a happy future may look like. No two people are the same and so my counselling offer is bespoke for you rather than an off the shelf model.
01732 496782 View 01732 496782

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A Safe Place 2 Talk
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Low self-esteem, Abuse, Relationships, Depression, Anxiety, Panic attacks, Family Relationships, Negative Childhood Experiences, Cancer, Cultural issues, Disability, Eating Disorders, Health related issues, Identity issues, Grief & Loss, Men's issues, Obsessions, OCD, Self-harm, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Stress, Trauma, Women's issues, Work issues.
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
Low self-esteem, Abuse, Relationships, Depression, Anxiety, Panic attacks, Family Relationships, Negative Childhood Experiences, Cancer, Cultural issues, Disability, Eating Disorders, Health related issues, Identity issues, Grief & Loss, Men's issues, Obsessions, OCD, Self-harm, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Stress, Trauma, Women's issues, Work issues.
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
01798 306674 View 01798 306674
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Michael Blundell-Lithco
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Hello, my name is Michael and I am a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist, providing short and long term therapy. I will ensure to establish a safe and non-judgemental space so you can work through whatever issues or topics you would like to explore at your own pace. Whether they are difficulties from the past, present or future (or a mix of all three), we will work together to explore and transform your situation, so that you are able to gain more self awareness, increase your resilience, and potentially see new choices you can make.
Hello, my name is Michael and I am a qualified counsellor and psychotherapist, providing short and long term therapy. I will ensure to establish a safe and non-judgemental space so you can work through whatever issues or topics you would like to explore at your own pace. Whether they are difficulties from the past, present or future (or a mix of all three), we will work together to explore and transform your situation, so that you are able to gain more self awareness, increase your resilience, and potentially see new choices you can make.
01689 662196 View 01689 662196
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Ayo Adesioye
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE20  (Online Only)
I provide short and long-term therapy to young people and adults in a space that is completely safe and non-judgmental. My practice is LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent-affirming and inclusive of all creeds and colours. Being a person of colour myself, I understand the importance of cultural competence, of having someone understand your unique cultural background, and can ensure that this is what you will be met with at all times.
I provide short and long-term therapy to young people and adults in a space that is completely safe and non-judgmental. My practice is LGBTQ+ and neurodivergent-affirming and inclusive of all creeds and colours. Being a person of colour myself, I understand the importance of cultural competence, of having someone understand your unique cultural background, and can ensure that this is what you will be met with at all times.
020 4538 5323 View 020 4538 5323
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David Yiu
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Beckenham BR3
Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
020 3910 6179 View 020 3910 6179
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Michael Bizley
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0  (Online Only)
I work purely as an Online Therapist for which I am fully qualified and trained to do. This has many benefits, not only as it doesn't mean travelling but we also have the options of working in different ways, such as video, email, audio or instant messaging. Sometimes it can reduce anxieties as you can be in a space that feels comfortable for you. I have a particular interest in working with MEN in therapy as I am aware how difficult it can be for a man to seek therapy and talk about their emotions and experiences. My aim is to provide that safe space in which all clients can explore their feelings and emotions.
I work purely as an Online Therapist for which I am fully qualified and trained to do. This has many benefits, not only as it doesn't mean travelling but we also have the options of working in different ways, such as video, email, audio or instant messaging. Sometimes it can reduce anxieties as you can be in a space that feels comfortable for you. I have a particular interest in working with MEN in therapy as I am aware how difficult it can be for a man to seek therapy and talk about their emotions and experiences. My aim is to provide that safe space in which all clients can explore their feelings and emotions.
01249 471511 View 01249 471511
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Johnny Donnelly
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wallington SM6
Sometimes, being part of the LGBTQ+ community can be a very lonely existence, and we are not all ‘out and proud’ or lucky enough to feel part of a wider LGBTQ+ family. You may be experiencing isolation, shame, or perhaps you have faced rejection from your family or friends. I do not assume that your struggles are related to your sexuality or gender, but if you are trying to deal with something specific in your personal life, or are simply overwhelmed and feeling alone in your current situation, I can offer you a private and non-judgemental space for the exploration of anything which may be causing you pain.
Sometimes, being part of the LGBTQ+ community can be a very lonely existence, and we are not all ‘out and proud’ or lucky enough to feel part of a wider LGBTQ+ family. You may be experiencing isolation, shame, or perhaps you have faced rejection from your family or friends. I do not assume that your struggles are related to your sexuality or gender, but if you are trying to deal with something specific in your personal life, or are simply overwhelmed and feeling alone in your current situation, I can offer you a private and non-judgemental space for the exploration of anything which may be causing you pain.
01353 885158 View 01353 885158
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Dominik Czekman
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Purley CR8  (Online Only)
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). As an integrative therapist, I utilise a range of techniques from various theoretical models, tailored to your individual needs. I have experience providing short term and long term therapy for adults, children and young adults from various backgrounds and cultures and my expertise can help support those with a variety of concerns.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). As an integrative therapist, I utilise a range of techniques from various theoretical models, tailored to your individual needs. I have experience providing short term and long term therapy for adults, children and young adults from various backgrounds and cultures and my expertise can help support those with a variety of concerns.
0121 728 2348 View 0121 728 2348
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B. W. Jackson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE26
My name is Benj. I’m an BACP accredited therapist and specialist in men’s issues and the development of men’s therapy. I’ve been doing this work since 2018. Please visit my website to get a better idea of me and my approach. www.bwjackson.com I also have a background as an NHS mental health professional from 2014, totalling ten years experience working with a wide range of mental health issues.
My name is Benj. I’m an BACP accredited therapist and specialist in men’s issues and the development of men’s therapy. I’ve been doing this work since 2018. Please visit my website to get a better idea of me and my approach. www.bwjackson.com I also have a background as an NHS mental health professional from 2014, totalling ten years experience working with a wide range of mental health issues.
020 8106 0891 View 020 8106 0891
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William Clarke
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kenley CR8
I came to counselling later in life, after running my own successful business in the hospitality and events industry. I have a lot of experience in dealing with different people and situations, and I understand the pressures and challenges of working in a demanding and competitive field. I have also faced my own struggles with complicated family issues growing up, identity and self worth. These experiences have shaped me as a person and as a therapist, and they help me to connect with a diverse range of clients.
I came to counselling later in life, after running my own successful business in the hospitality and events industry. I have a lot of experience in dealing with different people and situations, and I understand the pressures and challenges of working in a demanding and competitive field. I have also faced my own struggles with complicated family issues growing up, identity and self worth. These experiences have shaped me as a person and as a therapist, and they help me to connect with a diverse range of clients.
020 4538 4591 View 020 4538 4591
Photo of James Quirk, MSc, MBACP, Psychotherapist
James Quirk
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
South Godstone RH9
You might be struggling with anxiety, feeling depressed, suffered a bereavement or having problems with relationships. I provide a safe, personal space where you can explore your concerns, thoughts and feelings and improve relationships and your mental wellbeing.
You might be struggling with anxiety, feeling depressed, suffered a bereavement or having problems with relationships. I provide a safe, personal space where you can explore your concerns, thoughts and feelings and improve relationships and your mental wellbeing.
01883 779615 View 01883 779615
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Saira Webster
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
020 3984 7614 View 020 3984 7614
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Laura Sutton
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Purley CR8
I provide a confidential and comfortable space, whether you have never been to therapy before or consider yourself an experienced client. I offer short or long term counselling and work closely with my clients to understand how they want to approach their sessions. I am easily accessible by train and there is parking readily available. I am experienced in dealing with, Trauma, Relationship Issues, Sexuality, Depression, Self Harm and Anxiety. I offer Zoom sessions also. You don’t have to feel alone, we can go on this journey together.
I provide a confidential and comfortable space, whether you have never been to therapy before or consider yourself an experienced client. I offer short or long term counselling and work closely with my clients to understand how they want to approach their sessions. I am easily accessible by train and there is parking readily available. I am experienced in dealing with, Trauma, Relationship Issues, Sexuality, Depression, Self Harm and Anxiety. I offer Zoom sessions also. You don’t have to feel alone, we can go on this journey together.
01260 542115 View 01260 542115
Photo of Garry Michael Brennan, MBACP, Counsellor
Garry Michael Brennan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1  (Online Only)
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
07723 562533 View 07723 562533
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Laura Hordern
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
You may be experiencing a whole range of emotions that has brought you here. Whatever happens next, just know that it is ok to feel whatever you are feeling, and you don't have to go through it alone. I believe that building a strong relationship between yourself, the client, and me, the counsellor, based on trust, openness, and honesty, is key to affecting change and growth within yourself, and it is at the heart of the work that we will do together. You are the expert in your own life, and I am here to help facilitate your own understanding of yourself in a space that is safe and free of judgement.
You may be experiencing a whole range of emotions that has brought you here. Whatever happens next, just know that it is ok to feel whatever you are feeling, and you don't have to go through it alone. I believe that building a strong relationship between yourself, the client, and me, the counsellor, based on trust, openness, and honesty, is key to affecting change and growth within yourself, and it is at the heart of the work that we will do together. You are the expert in your own life, and I am here to help facilitate your own understanding of yourself in a space that is safe and free of judgement.
01273 092083 View 01273 092083
Lorna Mullard
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
020 8138 8630 View 020 8138 8630
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Therapy Works Surrey
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
01883 772965 View 01883 772965

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Men's Issues Counsellors

Is therapy for men different than it is for women?

Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.

How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

How can men prepare for therapy?

Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.

What should men know about the process of therapy?

One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.