Men's Issues Counselling in West Wickham

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Anita Evenden
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
West Wickham BR4
Do you want someone to listen and understand how things are for you? I am passionate about being with you in your concerns. Whatever they may be. I am currently working online and face to face. if you are nervous about this, please give me a call and I can arrange a taster session. Sometimes we all need someone to listen, accept and help us to work through our problems and just be with us in times of distress. Give me a call or email and see if we can work together? I work regularly with clients across the country but also locally. I have a garden office which is purpose built for sessions and is comfortable and confidential.
Do you want someone to listen and understand how things are for you? I am passionate about being with you in your concerns. Whatever they may be. I am currently working online and face to face. if you are nervous about this, please give me a call and I can arrange a taster session. Sometimes we all need someone to listen, accept and help us to work through our problems and just be with us in times of distress. Give me a call or email and see if we can work together? I work regularly with clients across the country but also locally. I have a garden office which is purpose built for sessions and is comfortable and confidential.
020 3909 8944 View 020 3909 8944
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David Poynor
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
West Wickham BR4
You might feel as though you are losing control. That life is delivering more than you can handle or you feel broken beyond repair. It's not unusual to experience feelings like these. It can be difficult to manage them or to believe that things will ever change. Perhaps you are dissatisfied with personal relationships or in your job. I offer a safe and confidential space to explore, reflect and grapple with the issues that impact upon your life. For more information about the service I provide or to book online please click the website link or visit www.cherryorchardtherapy.com
You might feel as though you are losing control. That life is delivering more than you can handle or you feel broken beyond repair. It's not unusual to experience feelings like these. It can be difficult to manage them or to believe that things will ever change. Perhaps you are dissatisfied with personal relationships or in your job. I offer a safe and confidential space to explore, reflect and grapple with the issues that impact upon your life. For more information about the service I provide or to book online please click the website link or visit www.cherryorchardtherapy.com
020 8059 2143 View 020 8059 2143
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Paul Fitzpatrick
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Wickham BR4
I have been in that unimaginable place, where I did not know where to turn or even where to begin to make the necessary changes to improve my life. It is through my own positive experiences of counselling that I decided to train to become a counsellor. I understand that taking that first step towards seeking support can seem very challenging. It is with this empathetic thought in mind, and the ethical framework that I work within that I always endeavour to establish a transparent and trusting therapeutic relationship, without judgement, in a safe and confidential environment.
I have been in that unimaginable place, where I did not know where to turn or even where to begin to make the necessary changes to improve my life. It is through my own positive experiences of counselling that I decided to train to become a counsellor. I understand that taking that first step towards seeking support can seem very challenging. It is with this empathetic thought in mind, and the ethical framework that I work within that I always endeavour to establish a transparent and trusting therapeutic relationship, without judgement, in a safe and confidential environment.
01689 664649 View 01689 664649
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Jeremy J. Pilkington
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
West Wickham BR4
I am a psychotherapist qualified to Master level(s) in both psychodynamic counselling (MA) and cognitive behavioural therapy (MSc). How I work with you will be dependent on your needs and goals for counselling. We will identify this together during an assessment where I will aim to understand more about you, the challenges you have experienced and the particular issues you are struggling with. Our therapeutic relationship will be central to the healing that is possible for you in counselling. It will be a space where you will be 'heard' with empathy and without judgement and where the profound work of insight and change can occur.
I am a psychotherapist qualified to Master level(s) in both psychodynamic counselling (MA) and cognitive behavioural therapy (MSc). How I work with you will be dependent on your needs and goals for counselling. We will identify this together during an assessment where I will aim to understand more about you, the challenges you have experienced and the particular issues you are struggling with. Our therapeutic relationship will be central to the healing that is possible for you in counselling. It will be a space where you will be 'heard' with empathy and without judgement and where the profound work of insight and change can occur.
020 4538 1207 View 020 4538 1207
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Lucy Lee
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
West Wickham BR4
A warm hello, I’m Lucy and I offer a safe and confidential space to talk and be heard without judgement. Perhaps you’ve never had the space in your day-to-day to process difficult events or relationships in your life or you are struggling day to day with anxiety or depression and can’t work through it alone? Do you have so many difficult thoughts you’re left confused and exhausted. I am here to offer you the space to work through things at your pace, together, enabling greater self-awareness, self-compassion and understanding of self.
A warm hello, I’m Lucy and I offer a safe and confidential space to talk and be heard without judgement. Perhaps you’ve never had the space in your day-to-day to process difficult events or relationships in your life or you are struggling day to day with anxiety or depression and can’t work through it alone? Do you have so many difficult thoughts you’re left confused and exhausted. I am here to offer you the space to work through things at your pace, together, enabling greater self-awareness, self-compassion and understanding of self.
020 4538 2901 View 020 4538 2901
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Alistair McGill
Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
West Wickham BR4
Every client responds to a different balance of therapeutic help. It's your journey, and it's one along which you can discover what if anything is stopping you be the best you can be, or where your talents lie. With or without the aide of hypnosis, your life journey is one of self discovery and a pathway to the realisation that you have all the tools you need, right inside. Its a journey that would sometimes benefit from a pause and a think in a non judgemental, confidential environment and that what I provide to all my clients.
Every client responds to a different balance of therapeutic help. It's your journey, and it's one along which you can discover what if anything is stopping you be the best you can be, or where your talents lie. With or without the aide of hypnosis, your life journey is one of self discovery and a pathway to the realisation that you have all the tools you need, right inside. Its a journey that would sometimes benefit from a pause and a think in a non judgemental, confidential environment and that what I provide to all my clients.
020 4538 0158 View 020 4538 0158
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The Psych Practice Limited
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
West Wickham BR4  (Online Only)
We work with a wide range of conditions, from common psychological problems such as anxiety, depression, to more complex health conditions such as brain injury. We see individuals, couples and families. We offer: Couple therapy, Family therapy; Neuropsychology assessment & treatment, including cognitive rehabilitation; EMDR, Expert witness work; consultation (with staff teams working with challenging behaviour); ADHD assessments, Neurodevelopmental disorder and Mental capacity assessments
We work with a wide range of conditions, from common psychological problems such as anxiety, depression, to more complex health conditions such as brain injury. We see individuals, couples and families. We offer: Couple therapy, Family therapy; Neuropsychology assessment & treatment, including cognitive rehabilitation; EMDR, Expert witness work; consultation (with staff teams working with challenging behaviour); ADHD assessments, Neurodevelopmental disorder and Mental capacity assessments
020 4538 2743 View 020 4538 2743
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Garry Michael Brennan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
West Wickham BR4  (Online Only)
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
07723 562533 View 07723 562533

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A Safe Place 2 Talk
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR9
Low self-esteem, Abuse, Relationships, Depression, Anxiety, Panic attacks, Family Relationships, Negative Childhood Experiences, Cancer, Cultural issues, Disability, Eating Disorders, Health related issues, Identity issues, Grief & Loss, Men's issues, Obsessions, OCD, Self-harm, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Stress, Trauma, Women's issues, Work issues.
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
Low self-esteem, Abuse, Relationships, Depression, Anxiety, Panic attacks, Family Relationships, Negative Childhood Experiences, Cancer, Cultural issues, Disability, Eating Disorders, Health related issues, Identity issues, Grief & Loss, Men's issues, Obsessions, OCD, Self-harm, Sex-related issues, Sexual identity, Stress, Trauma, Women's issues, Work issues.
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
01798 306674 View 01798 306674
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David Yiu
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Beckenham BR3
Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
020 3910 6179 View 020 3910 6179
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Wellness Consulting Limited
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
I have worked as a therapist for over 15 years counselling adults, teens, couples and families. I work as a clinical supervisor and have run a large counselling and mediation service whilst practicing as a therapist. I have supported clients with varying issues ranging from grief, loss of purpose and identity, anxiety and depression, through to complex trauma and neurodiversity. I specialise in supporting people looking to embark upon new relationships after a breakup, struggling in relationship and or going through separation and divorce.
I have worked as a therapist for over 15 years counselling adults, teens, couples and families. I work as a clinical supervisor and have run a large counselling and mediation service whilst practicing as a therapist. I have supported clients with varying issues ranging from grief, loss of purpose and identity, anxiety and depression, through to complex trauma and neurodiversity. I specialise in supporting people looking to embark upon new relationships after a breakup, struggling in relationship and or going through separation and divorce.
01689 661750 View 01689 661750
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Michael Bizley
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0  (Online Only)
I work purely as an Online Therapist for which I am fully qualified and trained to do. This has many benefits, not only as it doesn't mean travelling but we also have the options of working in different ways, such as video, email, audio or instant messaging. Sometimes it can reduce anxieties as you can be in a space that feels comfortable for you. I have a particular interest in working with MEN in therapy as I am aware how difficult it can be for a man to seek therapy and talk about their emotions and experiences. My aim is to provide that safe space in which all clients can explore their feelings and emotions.
I work purely as an Online Therapist for which I am fully qualified and trained to do. This has many benefits, not only as it doesn't mean travelling but we also have the options of working in different ways, such as video, email, audio or instant messaging. Sometimes it can reduce anxieties as you can be in a space that feels comfortable for you. I have a particular interest in working with MEN in therapy as I am aware how difficult it can be for a man to seek therapy and talk about their emotions and experiences. My aim is to provide that safe space in which all clients can explore their feelings and emotions.
01249 471511 View 01249 471511
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Ken Tait
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
At sometimes in our lives we just need someone that will listen and can help you.
At sometimes in our lives we just need someone that will listen and can help you.
07403 923265 View 07403 923265
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Valerie-Lee Howard
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
People often find counselling useful when they are struggling to make sense of difficult thoughts, feelings and experiences they are encountering. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space in which an individual can explore their life in their own personal way, as a means of finding deeper understanding; balance and to strengthen their resolve. Whilst being a counsellor I have experience working within the Ministry Of Justice for 18+ years delivering Therapeutic Groups for both men and women who have entered the Criminal Justice System.
People often find counselling useful when they are struggling to make sense of difficult thoughts, feelings and experiences they are encountering. I offer a safe and non-judgmental space in which an individual can explore their life in their own personal way, as a means of finding deeper understanding; balance and to strengthen their resolve. Whilst being a counsellor I have experience working within the Ministry Of Justice for 18+ years delivering Therapeutic Groups for both men and women who have entered the Criminal Justice System.
01798 305083 View 01798 305083
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Dr Erlend Slettevold
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Croydon CR0
Hi everyone! I'm Erlend, a Clinical Psychologist. My priority is always to provide you with a safe and confidential space and help you feel like you can express yourself. I will be guided by your pace and values to help you work towards living a more fulfilling life. I also place great importance on being genuine and honest when working with people, so am always keen to review our progress and make sure the process is working for you. I studied Psychology at the University of Bergen, Norway, before moving to the UK to study my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Essex.
Hi everyone! I'm Erlend, a Clinical Psychologist. My priority is always to provide you with a safe and confidential space and help you feel like you can express yourself. I will be guided by your pace and values to help you work towards living a more fulfilling life. I also place great importance on being genuine and honest when working with people, so am always keen to review our progress and make sure the process is working for you. I studied Psychology at the University of Bergen, Norway, before moving to the UK to study my Doctorate in Clinical Psychology at the University of Essex.
020 3835 4465 View 020 3835 4465
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Tolis Marinos Pgdip Mbacp Mac Emdr Couples Adv Certifica
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Croydon CR0
I am a qualified and registered Person Centred psychotherapist and Counsellor (Higher Professional Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy), Gestalt ( graduate Diploma) and I am a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand each client to be unique and so is my approach. I have worked both as part of a team (One Vision Counselling and Wandsworth Association of Psychotherapists) and in private practice. I am in regular Supervision with a more experienced Psychotherapist and regularly attend Continued Professional Development. I work closely with a distinguished award-winning psychiatrist.
I am a qualified and registered Person Centred psychotherapist and Counsellor (Higher Professional Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy), Gestalt ( graduate Diploma) and I am a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand each client to be unique and so is my approach. I have worked both as part of a team (One Vision Counselling and Wandsworth Association of Psychotherapists) and in private practice. I am in regular Supervision with a more experienced Psychotherapist and regularly attend Continued Professional Development. I work closely with a distinguished award-winning psychiatrist.
07480 789953 View 07480 789953
Ronak Motlagh
Counsellor, MA, BACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
Counselling provides a safe and confidential space in which you can explore whatever is troubling you. Our first meeting will help me to make an initial assessment of your situation and will also give you an opportunity to gain a sense of whether you feel comfortable with me in order for us to work together. This session will additionally give you an opportunity to explore what you would like to gain from counselling and give us a chance to establish whether you would like to commit to a short-term or potentially an open-ended basis. This will ultimately be your decision and can naturally change over the course of therapy.
Counselling provides a safe and confidential space in which you can explore whatever is troubling you. Our first meeting will help me to make an initial assessment of your situation and will also give you an opportunity to gain a sense of whether you feel comfortable with me in order for us to work together. This session will additionally give you an opportunity to explore what you would like to gain from counselling and give us a chance to establish whether you would like to commit to a short-term or potentially an open-ended basis. This will ultimately be your decision and can naturally change over the course of therapy.
020 3031 1236 View 020 3031 1236
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Ian Richards
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and hold the ATSAC professional Certificate for Treating Sexual Addiction. I work with individuals who are struggling with compulsive sexual behaviours including paraphiliac urges. These can range from, viewing online Pornography, having multiple sexual encounters or sexual urges towards children.  I also work with the partners of addicted individuals suffering from these behaviours. I have vast clinical experience of working with men who have committed sexual online or contact offence's. I offer therapy sessions in Stratford-upon-Avon and Nationally via Zoom.
I am a fully qualified Psychotherapist and hold the ATSAC professional Certificate for Treating Sexual Addiction. I work with individuals who are struggling with compulsive sexual behaviours including paraphiliac urges. These can range from, viewing online Pornography, having multiple sexual encounters or sexual urges towards children.  I also work with the partners of addicted individuals suffering from these behaviours. I have vast clinical experience of working with men who have committed sexual online or contact offence's. I offer therapy sessions in Stratford-upon-Avon and Nationally via Zoom.
01789 331276 View 01789 331276
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Jenny Edwards
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bromley BR2
Feeling stuck, not where you want to be? Do you feel low, but not sure why? Is life throwing you challenges? I offer a confidential, safe space to explore and process what is going on for you, at your own pace, I can offer support and guidance along the way in sessions to assist on your journey. Counselling focuses on you and identifying blocks and challenges that prevent you from living your life the way you want to live. If you are not certain of your end goals or know what your concerns are but feel like you need some space, need to talk maybe hear your thoughts do get in touch.
Feeling stuck, not where you want to be? Do you feel low, but not sure why? Is life throwing you challenges? I offer a confidential, safe space to explore and process what is going on for you, at your own pace, I can offer support and guidance along the way in sessions to assist on your journey. Counselling focuses on you and identifying blocks and challenges that prevent you from living your life the way you want to live. If you are not certain of your end goals or know what your concerns are but feel like you need some space, need to talk maybe hear your thoughts do get in touch.
01689 666181 View 01689 666181
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JustJulie Counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Croydon CR0
I'm Julie, an experienced birth, trauma and parenting specialist. Are you finding the demands of early parenting much tougher than you imagined, leaving you overwhelmed and anxious, but unable to see a way out of the current chaos and fog? Are you feeling constantly exhausted, sad. tearful, inadequate, unable to concentrate and make decisions, and not finding much joy in anything? Did you have a traumatic birth or other experience, which has left you feeling on-edge, with flashbacks and trapped in a cycle of depression, anger and guilt? Or perhaps you are pregnant and struggling with difficult thoughts around your forthcoming birth?
I'm Julie, an experienced birth, trauma and parenting specialist. Are you finding the demands of early parenting much tougher than you imagined, leaving you overwhelmed and anxious, but unable to see a way out of the current chaos and fog? Are you feeling constantly exhausted, sad. tearful, inadequate, unable to concentrate and make decisions, and not finding much joy in anything? Did you have a traumatic birth or other experience, which has left you feeling on-edge, with flashbacks and trapped in a cycle of depression, anger and guilt? Or perhaps you are pregnant and struggling with difficult thoughts around your forthcoming birth?
020 3835 5735 View 020 3835 5735

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Men's Issues Counsellors

Is therapy for men different than it is for women?

Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.

How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

How can men prepare for therapy?

Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.

What should men know about the process of therapy?

One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.