Female Counselling in Tonbridge, ENG

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Natalie Wood
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
At various points in our lives, we all experience feelings, thoughts and events that we find challenging. You may be feeling anxious or depressed, finding it difficult to come to terms with something that has happened in the past, or worried about what the future will bring. Perhaps you feel stuck in a difficult situation, or caught between what seem like impossible choices. You may be seeking an opportunity to think about who you are, what is important to you, and the kind of life you want to lead.
At various points in our lives, we all experience feelings, thoughts and events that we find challenging. You may be feeling anxious or depressed, finding it difficult to come to terms with something that has happened in the past, or worried about what the future will bring. Perhaps you feel stuck in a difficult situation, or caught between what seem like impossible choices. You may be seeking an opportunity to think about who you are, what is important to you, and the kind of life you want to lead.
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Rebekah Dervley
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
I am Dr Rebekah Dervley, a HCPC registered Psychologist. I am Clinical Lead for Sunstone Psychology - www.sunstonepsychology.co.uk - a psychological therapies service offering UK-wide psychological therapy and clinical supervision. I can offer you a safe and confidential listening space, and work with you to understand your difficulties and help you find a way forward. I specialise in working with trauma, PTSD, and people who exhibit a range of coping behaviours, such as self-harm, addiction, and other behavioural issues. I offer specialist diagnostic assessments for ADHD in children and adults.
I am Dr Rebekah Dervley, a HCPC registered Psychologist. I am Clinical Lead for Sunstone Psychology - www.sunstonepsychology.co.uk - a psychological therapies service offering UK-wide psychological therapy and clinical supervision. I can offer you a safe and confidential listening space, and work with you to understand your difficulties and help you find a way forward. I specialise in working with trauma, PTSD, and people who exhibit a range of coping behaviours, such as self-harm, addiction, and other behavioural issues. I offer specialist diagnostic assessments for ADHD in children and adults.
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Anna Gooch
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12  (Online Only)
My name is Anna. I retrained as an Integrative Counsellor, having experienced for myself, how transformative counselling was on my own personal journey. Life can be hard, and I will walk alongside you as you navigate feelings such as fear, confusion, shock, shame, rejection, grief, anger, and sadness. I will support your therapeutic journey within an empathetic, authentic, non-judgemental, safe space. I work collaboratively and will help you find a deeper understanding of how you think and how to process the parts of life that are hard for you right now.
My name is Anna. I retrained as an Integrative Counsellor, having experienced for myself, how transformative counselling was on my own personal journey. Life can be hard, and I will walk alongside you as you navigate feelings such as fear, confusion, shock, shame, rejection, grief, anger, and sadness. I will support your therapeutic journey within an empathetic, authentic, non-judgemental, safe space. I work collaboratively and will help you find a deeper understanding of how you think and how to process the parts of life that are hard for you right now.
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Lisa Hounslow
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
I am passionate about helping women empower themselves.
As a woman, do you put other people's needs above your own and find it difficult to say no? Maybe it's hard to say how you really feel or to ask for what you need? Do you find being nice all the time and avoiding upsetting anyone could be taking it’s toll, especially when you already feel stressed and overwhelmed by the many roles and relationships in your life? I wonder what life would look like if you felt calmer and more confident in yourself? How would it change your personal relationships and your life in general? What would it feel like to be able to voice what it is you want? It's certainly challenging being a woman today.
I am passionate about helping women empower themselves.
As a woman, do you put other people's needs above your own and find it difficult to say no? Maybe it's hard to say how you really feel or to ask for what you need? Do you find being nice all the time and avoiding upsetting anyone could be taking it’s toll, especially when you already feel stressed and overwhelmed by the many roles and relationships in your life? I wonder what life would look like if you felt calmer and more confident in yourself? How would it change your personal relationships and your life in general? What would it feel like to be able to voice what it is you want? It's certainly challenging being a woman today.
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Sjstherapy
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9  (Online Only)
I have a special interest in women's health and offer a holistic approach to a woman's health journey that may include childhood or relational distress, PMDD, or menopause.
Many of us reach points in our lives when we need someone to hear us. Maybe you are struggling with Anxiety, Depression, Anger, or a Bereavement. Perhaps you are feeling stuck or lack confidence and are looking for a way forward. I am a warm, empathic therapist who offers a safe, supportive space in which to deepen self-awareness and support potential for change, growth, and well being. As an integrative therapist, I offer a personalised approach to therapy, providing a calm, safe and facilitating environment where worries and difficulties can be explored in total confidence.
I have a special interest in women's health and offer a holistic approach to a woman's health journey that may include childhood or relational distress, PMDD, or menopause.
Many of us reach points in our lives when we need someone to hear us. Maybe you are struggling with Anxiety, Depression, Anger, or a Bereavement. Perhaps you are feeling stuck or lack confidence and are looking for a way forward. I am a warm, empathic therapist who offers a safe, supportive space in which to deepen self-awareness and support potential for change, growth, and well being. As an integrative therapist, I offer a personalised approach to therapy, providing a calm, safe and facilitating environment where worries and difficulties can be explored in total confidence.
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Melanie Beth Lucas
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10  (Online Only)
I can speak from experience that when difficulties affect your day-to-day wellbeing, every person can try to find a way towards their desired outcome, should they choose to. I would be honoured to take that journey with you. I believe that taking the first step in considering speaking with someone is often the hardest step to take. I aim to offer you a safe, relaxed and confidential space in which to hold your thoughts, fears and triumphs. Together we will work towards building a therapeutic relationship based on an honest, trustworthy and non-judgemental foundation.
I can speak from experience that when difficulties affect your day-to-day wellbeing, every person can try to find a way towards their desired outcome, should they choose to. I would be honoured to take that journey with you. I believe that taking the first step in considering speaking with someone is often the hardest step to take. I aim to offer you a safe, relaxed and confidential space in which to hold your thoughts, fears and triumphs. Together we will work towards building a therapeutic relationship based on an honest, trustworthy and non-judgemental foundation.
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Brenda Hogg
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
There are many reasons you might decide to seek counselling, at any stage of your life; each reason is valid and unique to you. There might be issues related to unresolved traumas in the past, or it might be that day-to-day pressures have become challenging and are affecting you. Whatever your reason, it can be helpful to have a therapist, working together with you, forming a professional and confidential relationship - unlike any of those you might share with family and friends - wherein you are welcome to explore your concerns; thereby offering you a deeper understanding of yourself - helping you move forward.
There are many reasons you might decide to seek counselling, at any stage of your life; each reason is valid and unique to you. There might be issues related to unresolved traumas in the past, or it might be that day-to-day pressures have become challenging and are affecting you. Whatever your reason, it can be helpful to have a therapist, working together with you, forming a professional and confidential relationship - unlike any of those you might share with family and friends - wherein you are welcome to explore your concerns; thereby offering you a deeper understanding of yourself - helping you move forward.
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Iva Roberts
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9  (Online Only)
I am a clinical psychologist providing short and long-term therapy and autism assessments to children and adults in a private practice Kent. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where we can develop an understanding of your difficulties. I draw on a variety of psychological approaches including psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioural (CBT), and systemic (including narrative and solution-focused). I have 9 years of experience working with a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety and trauma. I have worked with children diagnosed with Autism (including PDA profile) and supported them their families for many years.
I am a clinical psychologist providing short and long-term therapy and autism assessments to children and adults in a private practice Kent. I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where we can develop an understanding of your difficulties. I draw on a variety of psychological approaches including psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioural (CBT), and systemic (including narrative and solution-focused). I have 9 years of experience working with a variety of difficulties including depression, anxiety and trauma. I have worked with children diagnosed with Autism (including PDA profile) and supported them their families for many years.
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Helen Genty
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tonbridge TN9
Are you facing some of these issues ? A negative cycle of arguments that never seems to get resolved? Are you struggling with the affects of an affair? Changes you are having difficulty adjusting to e.g. the birth of a baby, health problems or retirement? Are you worried about your child and not sure how to help? Do you wish you could talk more frankly about sex without hurting your partner’s feelings. Do you feel that your relationship is over and need a place to mourn its passing. Do you miss the feeling of closeness and intimacy you once had and want to rebuild your connection?
Are you facing some of these issues ? A negative cycle of arguments that never seems to get resolved? Are you struggling with the affects of an affair? Changes you are having difficulty adjusting to e.g. the birth of a baby, health problems or retirement? Are you worried about your child and not sure how to help? Do you wish you could talk more frankly about sex without hurting your partner’s feelings. Do you feel that your relationship is over and need a place to mourn its passing. Do you miss the feeling of closeness and intimacy you once had and want to rebuild your connection?
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Mel Burgess
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12
I am a UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, supervisor and tutor, and offer a range of therapies to suit client’s needs. I work with individuals and couples on a short and long-term basis, online and face to face from my private practice. I am passionate about psychotherapy and believe that it enables people to make meaning out of their problems so that they can take informed decisions about what they want to do to bring about change in their lives. I have undergone extensive and rigorous psychotherapy training, I have a Diploma in Counselling and over 30 years’ experience of working in health, including 20 years of hospice experience.
I am a UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, supervisor and tutor, and offer a range of therapies to suit client’s needs. I work with individuals and couples on a short and long-term basis, online and face to face from my private practice. I am passionate about psychotherapy and believe that it enables people to make meaning out of their problems so that they can take informed decisions about what they want to do to bring about change in their lives. I have undergone extensive and rigorous psychotherapy training, I have a Diploma in Counselling and over 30 years’ experience of working in health, including 20 years of hospice experience.
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The Positive Mind Psychotherapy & Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12
I am an experienced and highly professional Integrative Psychotherapist with a First-Class BSc (Hons) Psychology and Counselling, I have over 10 years of psychotherapy experience working in the NHS, the Private Sector at The Priory, in Education, at the Mental Health Charity Mind, in the Corporate Sector and now in Private Practice. This means I have a broad understanding of the mental healthcare landscape, which will significantly benefit you, as I have developed a comprehensive 'toolkit' that I can draw upon to help you better understand yourself, feel less overwhelmed by your problems and feel truly great, not just OK.
I am an experienced and highly professional Integrative Psychotherapist with a First-Class BSc (Hons) Psychology and Counselling, I have over 10 years of psychotherapy experience working in the NHS, the Private Sector at The Priory, in Education, at the Mental Health Charity Mind, in the Corporate Sector and now in Private Practice. This means I have a broad understanding of the mental healthcare landscape, which will significantly benefit you, as I have developed a comprehensive 'toolkit' that I can draw upon to help you better understand yourself, feel less overwhelmed by your problems and feel truly great, not just OK.
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Claire Seadon
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Hello and welcome to my profile. I am an experienced therapist offering online therapy to individual adults of all ages. Therapy provides an opportunity to better understand ourselves, untangle inner conflicts and bring about positive change. I acknowledge that the environments we grew up in and what we experience as we move through the stages of our lives, can leave us with emotional wounds and unhealthy coping mechanisms. I am experienced in working with clients who wish to explore complex family dynamics and who have experienced emotional abuse. Another specialism is working with bereavement and loss.
Hello and welcome to my profile. I am an experienced therapist offering online therapy to individual adults of all ages. Therapy provides an opportunity to better understand ourselves, untangle inner conflicts and bring about positive change. I acknowledge that the environments we grew up in and what we experience as we move through the stages of our lives, can leave us with emotional wounds and unhealthy coping mechanisms. I am experienced in working with clients who wish to explore complex family dynamics and who have experienced emotional abuse. Another specialism is working with bereavement and loss.
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Diana Goldsmith
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN9
I am Dr Diana Goldsmith, a Chartered Clinical Psychologist registered with the Heath and Care Professions Council (HCPC). I am Clinical Director and Senior Psychologist for Foundations Child & Family Therapy – www.foundationschildtherapy.co.uk- a psychological therapies service offering UK-wide psychological therapy and clinical supervision. We offer support for children, young people and their families. We also offer ADHD and ASD assessments and follow-up post-diagnostic services. We aim to provide a supportive, understanding and compassionate service that works alongside families and their children.
I am Dr Diana Goldsmith, a Chartered Clinical Psychologist registered with the Heath and Care Professions Council (HCPC). I am Clinical Director and Senior Psychologist for Foundations Child & Family Therapy – www.foundationschildtherapy.co.uk- a psychological therapies service offering UK-wide psychological therapy and clinical supervision. We offer support for children, young people and their families. We also offer ADHD and ASD assessments and follow-up post-diagnostic services. We aim to provide a supportive, understanding and compassionate service that works alongside families and their children.
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Lucy Menard
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tonbridge TN11
You might be feeling depressed, or low, for a known reason or perhaps for no identifiable reason. Sometimes it is not always possible to speak to your friends or family. You might not want to burden them or might fear judgement. I have helped clients with issues including: bereavement, loss, grief, workplace, sexuality and weight issues. I am a qualified counsellor and can offer you a warm, empathic space to examine and explore your feelings, patterns of behaviour and thoughts.
You might be feeling depressed, or low, for a known reason or perhaps for no identifiable reason. Sometimes it is not always possible to speak to your friends or family. You might not want to burden them or might fear judgement. I have helped clients with issues including: bereavement, loss, grief, workplace, sexuality and weight issues. I am a qualified counsellor and can offer you a warm, empathic space to examine and explore your feelings, patterns of behaviour and thoughts.
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Jean Delevingne
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Have you recently been bereaved and struggling to know how to cope. Are you usually seen as the ‘strong one’- the person others turn to for help and support? Does your appearance convey confidence and self-assurance, but inside you find yourself struggling and overwhelmed? You may have lost a loved one during the pandemic and you are finding it difficult ‘holding it altogether’? Is this sense of unease affecting your eating or sleeping patterns, are you irritable with those close to you, or feel anxious about any further changes?
Have you recently been bereaved and struggling to know how to cope. Are you usually seen as the ‘strong one’- the person others turn to for help and support? Does your appearance convey confidence and self-assurance, but inside you find yourself struggling and overwhelmed? You may have lost a loved one during the pandemic and you are finding it difficult ‘holding it altogether’? Is this sense of unease affecting your eating or sleeping patterns, are you irritable with those close to you, or feel anxious about any further changes?
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RW Counselling
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Waitlist for new clients
I am passionate about working with children and young people and have spent many years working within the educational sector. As adults we sometimes have better coping mechanisms or ways in which to self help, however children do not always have those skills. So I feel it is extremely important to be there to help guide and listen, to help better understand themselves and situations that may appear. I also work with adults helping to explore anxieties and stresses of every day life, within home, work or personally.
I am passionate about working with children and young people and have spent many years working within the educational sector. As adults we sometimes have better coping mechanisms or ways in which to self help, however children do not always have those skills. So I feel it is extremely important to be there to help guide and listen, to help better understand themselves and situations that may appear. I also work with adults helping to explore anxieties and stresses of every day life, within home, work or personally.
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Jemma Wilkinson
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12
Everyone's life experience is unique and important and often this can create questions in our minds on how these influence our life and choices now. These may be questions from childhood, trauma based, gender or sexuality questioning, anxiety, loss or a neurodiversity. You may feel that the day-to-day is simply overwhelming or tainted by those life experiences. Sometimes, when those hard times flow into our every day life it may feel that you are unable to be happy, think clearly or feel able to cope. In the safety of your own home (or a space that works for you) we can explore and process this together.
Everyone's life experience is unique and important and often this can create questions in our minds on how these influence our life and choices now. These may be questions from childhood, trauma based, gender or sexuality questioning, anxiety, loss or a neurodiversity. You may feel that the day-to-day is simply overwhelming or tainted by those life experiences. Sometimes, when those hard times flow into our every day life it may feel that you are unable to be happy, think clearly or feel able to cope. In the safety of your own home (or a space that works for you) we can explore and process this together.
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Louise Malyan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12
Hey, I'm Louise. I’m an empathic, down-to-earth, and fully qualified Integrative Counsellor. Specialising in trauma, alcohol issues and addiction, ADHD, sexual abuse, anxiety, self-esteem, and complex PTSD, I understand firsthand what it’s like to feel overwhelmed, scared, angry, and sad. These emotions can make life feel unmanageable, but counselling offers a way forward. With lived experience, I bring genuine empathy to our sessions. I understand the courage it takes to seek help and the pain that often brings people to counselling. Your feelings are valid, and I’m here to listen, support, and and guide you without judgment.
Hey, I'm Louise. I’m an empathic, down-to-earth, and fully qualified Integrative Counsellor. Specialising in trauma, alcohol issues and addiction, ADHD, sexual abuse, anxiety, self-esteem, and complex PTSD, I understand firsthand what it’s like to feel overwhelmed, scared, angry, and sad. These emotions can make life feel unmanageable, but counselling offers a way forward. With lived experience, I bring genuine empathy to our sessions. I understand the courage it takes to seek help and the pain that often brings people to counselling. Your feelings are valid, and I’m here to listen, support, and and guide you without judgment.
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Helena Prentice
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN12
Hello, my name is Helena Prentice (Dip.Psych.Couns.MBACP) and I am a qualified Psychotherapist and Counsellor and a member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy). I am insured and hold an up-to-date Disclosure and Barring Service Certificate. Prior to running my private practice, Enlightened Minds Therapy, I worked within an NHS setting providing therapy to adults and children. I have worked within a cancer care support centre, helping those bereaved, going through treatment and the terminally ill and I have also provided voluntary support within a substance abuse residential rehabilitation facility,
Hello, my name is Helena Prentice (Dip.Psych.Couns.MBACP) and I am a qualified Psychotherapist and Counsellor and a member of the BACP (British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy). I am insured and hold an up-to-date Disclosure and Barring Service Certificate. Prior to running my private practice, Enlightened Minds Therapy, I worked within an NHS setting providing therapy to adults and children. I have worked within a cancer care support centre, helping those bereaved, going through treatment and the terminally ill and I have also provided voluntary support within a substance abuse residential rehabilitation facility,
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Maria Carelse
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych
Verified Verified
Tonbridge TN10
Hello I am Maria. I'm a trained counsellor and life coach, with a Batchelor degree in Counselling/Psychotherapy, providing face-to-face, online and over the phone therapy, depending on your preference. I help adults and young people with a variety of challenges, including: anxiety and social anxiety, depression, trauma and PTSD, abuse, ADHD and autism, burnout, relationship and family difficulties, parenting challenges, loss and grief, various degrees of trauma including PTSD, life decisions and minority experience. I am also fluent in Spanish. I am also fluent in Spanish.
Hello I am Maria. I'm a trained counsellor and life coach, with a Batchelor degree in Counselling/Psychotherapy, providing face-to-face, online and over the phone therapy, depending on your preference. I help adults and young people with a variety of challenges, including: anxiety and social anxiety, depression, trauma and PTSD, abuse, ADHD and autism, burnout, relationship and family difficulties, parenting challenges, loss and grief, various degrees of trauma including PTSD, life decisions and minority experience. I am also fluent in Spanish. I am also fluent in Spanish.
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Female Counsellors

Does it matter what gender my therapist is?

In general, this is not an important factor, as there is no relationship between a therapist’s gender and their efficacy. Some clients, however, prefer to see therapists of a particular gender, whether due to their own past experiences with men and women, or ingrained beliefs about how people of different genders think and behave. Exploring the roots of such preferences and considering what one wants to address in therapy can help someone determine whether their therapist’s gender truly matters to them.

Should I see a female therapist?

Many people—not just women—prefer to see a female therapist, either because they believe that a woman will be able to relate to their specific challenges (for example, sexism in the workplace) or because they imagine feeling more comfortable disclosing sensitive information to a woman. Such beliefs may not turn out to be accurate, however, and adhering too rigidly to a gender preference can at times hinder a client from finding the best therapeutic match.

Do therapists get specific training to help with women’s concerns?

Therapists are trained to provide care to clients of any gender. However, some therapists—both men and women—may pursue additional training in feminist therapy, gender-specific issues, or women’s mental health. Female clients may wish to ask prospective therapists whether they have received specific training in the client’s primary area(s) of concern, or whether they have worked extensively with women on issues similar to their own.

How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience in treating women?

It’s OK—even encouraged!—to ask a therapist directly whether and how often they have treated women in the past, or whether they have treated women dealing with the client’s most prominent concern(s). Competent therapists will be happy to share their educational background, preferred treatment modalities, and prior client experience to help an individual find the therapist best suited to their needs.