Depression Counselling in Thornton Heath

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Intuition Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Thornton Heath CR7
I am a a warm, compassionate and inclusive therapist who aims to offer a safe space for you to feel comfortable and be heard from session one.
Hello! If you are reading this you may be thinking about taking a step towards seeking help and struggling with something that you feel you can no longer tackle alone or maybe you just don’t feel like yourself, which is ok, it is not unusual and no one should have to face difficult situations on their own, I believe no one should have to suffer. I believe that talking through your issues and making sense of how you are feeling can make you feel empowered and propel you to take action to make changes as you connect the dots. I will engage with you to try and provide a deeper understanding of yourself.
I am a a warm, compassionate and inclusive therapist who aims to offer a safe space for you to feel comfortable and be heard from session one.
Hello! If you are reading this you may be thinking about taking a step towards seeking help and struggling with something that you feel you can no longer tackle alone or maybe you just don’t feel like yourself, which is ok, it is not unusual and no one should have to face difficult situations on their own, I believe no one should have to suffer. I believe that talking through your issues and making sense of how you are feeling can make you feel empowered and propel you to take action to make changes as you connect the dots. I will engage with you to try and provide a deeper understanding of yourself.
020 3835 4702 View 020 3835 4702
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Sarah Jane Allen
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7
Everyone is an individual.
In today's world, life can sometimes appear to be demanding which may leave us feeling overwhelmed, stressed, depressed and anxious. I am able to offer a safe, warm, non-judgemental space to support in the free exploration of what is happening to you. I am here to listen to you.
Everyone is an individual.
In today's world, life can sometimes appear to be demanding which may leave us feeling overwhelmed, stressed, depressed and anxious. I am able to offer a safe, warm, non-judgemental space to support in the free exploration of what is happening to you. I am here to listen to you.
020 3984 8932 View 020 3984 8932
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A Safe Place 2 Talk
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7
I am a fully qualified integrative therapist of which I may use multiple techniques for the best practice of the client.
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
I am a fully qualified integrative therapist of which I may use multiple techniques for the best practice of the client.
Therapy can help you whilst going through some of the most difficult times in your life, whether they are in the present or the past. As a counsellor there would be a safe place to offload those harmful thoughts in the room and where the focus is on the thoughts and feelings you have created. My focus is on you the client to support you at an emotional and steady pace; and to progress you from where you are to a place of contentment. I have been a therapist to children to mature adults. Remember that, "you are more than your past".
01798 306674 View 01798 306674
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Seema Bhatti
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7
My experience enables me to offer effective outpatient, individualized, psychological care.
I am an HCPC registered Counselling Psychologist and trained CBT and DBT therapist. I have been working in mental health for 9 years with both NHS and private health care experience. I work inline with my values of openness, integrity, non judgemental stance and positive regard. I have an interest in equality and diversity which is considered in the work I do and reflected in my academic research.
My experience enables me to offer effective outpatient, individualized, psychological care.
I am an HCPC registered Counselling Psychologist and trained CBT and DBT therapist. I have been working in mental health for 9 years with both NHS and private health care experience. I work inline with my values of openness, integrity, non judgemental stance and positive regard. I have an interest in equality and diversity which is considered in the work I do and reflected in my academic research.
01798 306635 View 01798 306635
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Beryl Tomlins
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7  (Online Only)
I can support you with a wide range of issues such as abuse, addictions, depression, stress and trauma.
There times in your life, when you feel overwhelmed and struggle to understand what is happening in your life. I am able to offer a safe,confidential environment to explore your issues
I can support you with a wide range of issues such as abuse, addictions, depression, stress and trauma.
There times in your life, when you feel overwhelmed and struggle to understand what is happening in your life. I am able to offer a safe,confidential environment to explore your issues
01798 309991 View 01798 309991
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My Time 2 Heal
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7  (Online Only)
We are all different from each other.
I believe therapy should be all about providing a conducive space where you can talk about yourself and your world, without fear of being judged, and at the same time, you are provided with the opportunity to learn how to make changes to improve your emotional wellbeing. If there's anything you should know about me, it's the fact that I'm ALWAYS on your side. We're on the same team and I'll help you fight the fight together. My job is to help you navigate and overcome some of the most difficult experiences you have had in your life. And I see it as a privilege that I get to be a part of your journey in finding growth.
We are all different from each other.
I believe therapy should be all about providing a conducive space where you can talk about yourself and your world, without fear of being judged, and at the same time, you are provided with the opportunity to learn how to make changes to improve your emotional wellbeing. If there's anything you should know about me, it's the fact that I'm ALWAYS on your side. We're on the same team and I'll help you fight the fight together. My job is to help you navigate and overcome some of the most difficult experiences you have had in your life. And I see it as a privilege that I get to be a part of your journey in finding growth.
020 4538 3378 View 020 4538 3378
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Dr Ivanka Ezhova
Psychologist, PhD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7
Do not be ashamed of the issues you are currently experiencing.
Hello and thank you for reading my bio. My name is Dr Ivanka Ezhova and I am a Registered Clinical Psychologist. I have 15 years extensive international experience of clinical practice, multidisciplinary research and education across the United Kingdom, France, and Bulgaria. I have worked in a number of clinical settings, including specialist Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS), acute in-patient care, primary and secondary care, and the private sector.
Do not be ashamed of the issues you are currently experiencing.
Hello and thank you for reading my bio. My name is Dr Ivanka Ezhova and I am a Registered Clinical Psychologist. I have 15 years extensive international experience of clinical practice, multidisciplinary research and education across the United Kingdom, France, and Bulgaria. I have worked in a number of clinical settings, including specialist Child and Adolescent Mental Health Services (CAMHS), acute in-patient care, primary and secondary care, and the private sector.
01798 305160 View 01798 305160
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Keziah Cader
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7  (Online Only)
As well as a qualified psychotherapist I also have 8 years of experience in the mental health sector, providing intervention and well-being support.
I am a compassionate and approachable counselling psychotherapist, known for my deep empathy. With over 3 years of experience, my therapeutic practice offers a safe, supportive and confidential haven for self-exploration and growth. My approach is integrative, psychodynamic, relational, and person-centred. I specialise in working with trauma and its impact on our nervous systems, recognising the significance of an intercultural approach, particularly when working with Black and people of colour. My goal is to offer a diverse and culturally rich perspective to help you navigate life's challenges and achieve personal fulfilment.
As well as a qualified psychotherapist I also have 8 years of experience in the mental health sector, providing intervention and well-being support.
I am a compassionate and approachable counselling psychotherapist, known for my deep empathy. With over 3 years of experience, my therapeutic practice offers a safe, supportive and confidential haven for self-exploration and growth. My approach is integrative, psychodynamic, relational, and person-centred. I specialise in working with trauma and its impact on our nervous systems, recognising the significance of an intercultural approach, particularly when working with Black and people of colour. My goal is to offer a diverse and culturally rich perspective to help you navigate life's challenges and achieve personal fulfilment.
020 3958 4056 View 020 3958 4056
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Byron Athene
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7  (Online Only)
I'm a Counselling Psychotherapist and Certified Mindset Coach, who is attuned to the pluralistic framework.
Are you adversely affected by negative or unwanted emotions? A large focus in my work is helping my clients to achieve conscious control of an otherwise subconscious process. After 6 - 8 sessions of working with me, you will have much better control of your emotions, therefore a lot of issues that revolve around unwanted emotions will no longer be an issue. If you're interested in DBT, get in touch and I'll show you another approach that gets much better results with far less effort in a significantly shorter timeframe.
I'm a Counselling Psychotherapist and Certified Mindset Coach, who is attuned to the pluralistic framework.
Are you adversely affected by negative or unwanted emotions? A large focus in my work is helping my clients to achieve conscious control of an otherwise subconscious process. After 6 - 8 sessions of working with me, you will have much better control of your emotions, therefore a lot of issues that revolve around unwanted emotions will no longer be an issue. If you're interested in DBT, get in touch and I'll show you another approach that gets much better results with far less effort in a significantly shorter timeframe.
020 3828 7728 View 020 3828 7728
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Mary Joynt
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Thornton Heath CR7  (Online Only)
I believe that the best therapeutic tool is having a good and trusting relationship with your therapist and finding a good therapeutic fit.
I am a family therapist (systemic psychotherapist ) who has been working in public services with individuals, children, adolescents, couples and families for over 14 years. I believe it is important to create a good and trusting therapeutic relationship in order to allow space for change. In my work I will spend time getting to know you (and your partner/family member), your values and the way in which your problem impacts you. Through this narrative approach space for change and difference is discovered.
I believe that the best therapeutic tool is having a good and trusting relationship with your therapist and finding a good therapeutic fit.
I am a family therapist (systemic psychotherapist ) who has been working in public services with individuals, children, adolescents, couples and families for over 14 years. I believe it is important to create a good and trusting therapeutic relationship in order to allow space for change. In my work I will spend time getting to know you (and your partner/family member), your values and the way in which your problem impacts you. Through this narrative approach space for change and difference is discovered.
020 7870 7443 View 020 7870 7443
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Sabina Begum-Hossain
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Thornton Heath CR7
Please contact me if you or your child are struggling for whatever reason.
Did you find the covid-19 situation challenging? Have you still not recovered from the effects of it? Have you experienced a loss or social isolation? Have you experienced relationship breakdowns, loss of job or income, bereavement, isolation from friends and family or had a major change? Do you just need to talk to someone so you can process all that has happened, to gte support and find some solutions? Then counselling and psychotherapy can provide this for you. Please get in touch.
Please contact me if you or your child are struggling for whatever reason.
Did you find the covid-19 situation challenging? Have you still not recovered from the effects of it? Have you experienced a loss or social isolation? Have you experienced relationship breakdowns, loss of job or income, bereavement, isolation from friends and family or had a major change? Do you just need to talk to someone so you can process all that has happened, to gte support and find some solutions? Then counselling and psychotherapy can provide this for you. Please get in touch.
020 4538 3723 View 020 4538 3723
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Tayo Fasusi
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7  (Online Only)
My goal is to offer unwavering support and encouragement, empowering clients to unlock their full potential while ensuring they feel valued and heard.
Hi, I am Tayo and I am a qualified Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor. I am, deeply enthusiastic about fostering the health and well-being of individuals. My mission extends beyond empowerment; I strive to guide individuals towards improved mental and emotional wellness. I passionately believe that seeking therapy is a courageous display of strength, not a sign of weakness. Together, we can navigate your journey towards growth, resilience and fulfilment as well as enhancing your overall quality of life through personalized counseling techniques and interventions tailored to your unique needs.
My goal is to offer unwavering support and encouragement, empowering clients to unlock their full potential while ensuring they feel valued and heard.
Hi, I am Tayo and I am a qualified Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor. I am, deeply enthusiastic about fostering the health and well-being of individuals. My mission extends beyond empowerment; I strive to guide individuals towards improved mental and emotional wellness. I passionately believe that seeking therapy is a courageous display of strength, not a sign of weakness. Together, we can navigate your journey towards growth, resilience and fulfilment as well as enhancing your overall quality of life through personalized counseling techniques and interventions tailored to your unique needs.
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Tracy Chery-Nicolls
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7  (Online Only)
If you are considering therapy, please feel free to call, text or email and I am happy to answer any questions or concerns you may have.
Through my training as a Counselling Psychologist and Psychotherapist, I have been privileged to work with a diverse range of clients presenting with different underlying difficulties from stress to childhood attachment issues or post traumatic stress disorder. The journey of life can throw up many turns and bumps, psychological therapy provides the opportunity to explore these challenges and find a way that is comfortable for you to move forward, and continue your journey of life.
If you are considering therapy, please feel free to call, text or email and I am happy to answer any questions or concerns you may have.
Through my training as a Counselling Psychologist and Psychotherapist, I have been privileged to work with a diverse range of clients presenting with different underlying difficulties from stress to childhood attachment issues or post traumatic stress disorder. The journey of life can throw up many turns and bumps, psychological therapy provides the opportunity to explore these challenges and find a way that is comfortable for you to move forward, and continue your journey of life.
01883 779580 View 01883 779580
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Pia Hansen
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7
I work in an open-minded and grounded way.
Right now, as you read this, you are likely not in a good place. You may be feeling distressed and hopeless or overwhelmed. This may have been going on for a long time and you may have tried to cope in different ways - but it's no longer working? You have tried talking to friends and family but that isn't working either? Maybe there are things that happened a long time ago in your childhood and this is still affecting you today - therapy can be a place to begin to look at all of this and can be the start of beginning to feel better and with improving self-esteem.
I work in an open-minded and grounded way.
Right now, as you read this, you are likely not in a good place. You may be feeling distressed and hopeless or overwhelmed. This may have been going on for a long time and you may have tried to cope in different ways - but it's no longer working? You have tried talking to friends and family but that isn't working either? Maybe there are things that happened a long time ago in your childhood and this is still affecting you today - therapy can be a place to begin to look at all of this and can be the start of beginning to feel better and with improving self-esteem.
01798 305037 View 01798 305037
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Victory Play Therapy
Psychotherapist, PTUK
Verified Verified
Thornton Heath CR7
I work with a number of agencies such as Social Services, youth centres, schools police services and charity organisations and parents/carers.
I provide integrative holistic Play and Creative Arts Therapy as a method of helping children and young people with behavior and emotional difficulties. I offer tailored individual and group sessions for children and young adults with additional needs, and those that have challenges in accessing learning and meeting their full potential due to school or life difficulties, emotional, behavior and wellbeing issues. I use creative mediums such as art, drama, music, sand play, story telling and many other channels to understand a child/ young person’s world and help them deal with social/emotional challenges.
I work with a number of agencies such as Social Services, youth centres, schools police services and charity organisations and parents/carers.
I provide integrative holistic Play and Creative Arts Therapy as a method of helping children and young people with behavior and emotional difficulties. I offer tailored individual and group sessions for children and young adults with additional needs, and those that have challenges in accessing learning and meeting their full potential due to school or life difficulties, emotional, behavior and wellbeing issues. I use creative mediums such as art, drama, music, sand play, story telling and many other channels to understand a child/ young person’s world and help them deal with social/emotional challenges.
020 3835 4198 View 020 3835 4198

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Tolis Marinos Pgdip Mbacp Mac Emdr Couples Adv Certifica
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London SE19
Sometimes we struggle with our past or a situation or relationship and feel stuck in patterns that no longer work for us.
I am a qualified and registered Person Centred psychotherapist and Counsellor (Higher Professional Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy), Gestalt ( graduate Diploma) and I am a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand each client to be unique and so is my approach. I have worked both as part of a team (One Vision Counselling and Wandsworth Association of Psychotherapists) and in private practice. I am in regular Supervision with a more experienced Psychotherapist and regularly attend Continued Professional Development. I work closely with a distinguished award-winning psychiatrist.
Sometimes we struggle with our past or a situation or relationship and feel stuck in patterns that no longer work for us.
I am a qualified and registered Person Centred psychotherapist and Counsellor (Higher Professional Diploma in Counselling and Psychotherapy), Gestalt ( graduate Diploma) and I am a member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I understand each client to be unique and so is my approach. I have worked both as part of a team (One Vision Counselling and Wandsworth Association of Psychotherapists) and in private practice. I am in regular Supervision with a more experienced Psychotherapist and regularly attend Continued Professional Development. I work closely with a distinguished award-winning psychiatrist.
07480 789953 View 07480 789953
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Ratsamee Huckfield
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SW16
It can be difficult to begin to talk about problems with someone you don’t know, but you do not need to worry as here you can say as much or as little as you want to.
I provide confidential and supportive counselling where you can discuss and explore your personal issues, thoughts, feelings, beliefs, choices and behaviours without fear of judgement. My service is available to everyone who is looking to achieve way to cope with the problems. I can offer you a safe and welcoming space where you and your experience will be treated respectfully. My counselling service is also available in both short and long-term to clients that need help with anxiety, depression and low self-esteem.
It can be difficult to begin to talk about problems with someone you don’t know, but you do not need to worry as here you can say as much or as little as you want to.
I provide confidential and supportive counselling where you can discuss and explore your personal issues, thoughts, feelings, beliefs, choices and behaviours without fear of judgement. My service is available to everyone who is looking to achieve way to cope with the problems. I can offer you a safe and welcoming space where you and your experience will be treated respectfully. My counselling service is also available in both short and long-term to clients that need help with anxiety, depression and low self-esteem.
01748 902495 View 01748 902495
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Charlotte Ascough
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
If you would like to ask me any more questions about my way of working feel free to send me an e-mail.
First and foremost I aim to sit with you as another human being, with an open mind and a gentle approach from which we can think together about what has led you to try counselling. From this starting point we can then look at why you might be struggling with the thoughts and feelings that you face on a daily basis, be it a life situation that you need support with, past experiences that you are ready to share or if you are trying to make sense of why life seems to be so challenging for you, without any clear defining cause.
If you would like to ask me any more questions about my way of working feel free to send me an e-mail.
First and foremost I aim to sit with you as another human being, with an open mind and a gentle approach from which we can think together about what has led you to try counselling. From this starting point we can then look at why you might be struggling with the thoughts and feelings that you face on a daily basis, be it a life situation that you need support with, past experiences that you are ready to share or if you are trying to make sense of why life seems to be so challenging for you, without any clear defining cause.
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Tanya Therapies London
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SW16  (Online Only)
I invite you to take the first step towards making sustainable change.
I'm Tanya Therapies London, and I'm here to offer you compassionate and empathetic therapeutic support on your path to personal growth and emotional well-being. I specialise in helping people undergo transitional period in their lives so they can lead the life they desire. Through a collaborative and nonjudgmental therapeutic relationship, I empower my clients to explore their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, gaining insight into underlying patterns and discovering new ways of coping and thriving.
I invite you to take the first step towards making sustainable change.
I'm Tanya Therapies London, and I'm here to offer you compassionate and empathetic therapeutic support on your path to personal growth and emotional well-being. I specialise in helping people undergo transitional period in their lives so they can lead the life they desire. Through a collaborative and nonjudgmental therapeutic relationship, I empower my clients to explore their thoughts, emotions, and behaviours, gaining insight into underlying patterns and discovering new ways of coping and thriving.
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Stephanie Ambrosius
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0  (Online Only)
I appreciate that all obstacles can feel overwhelming at times.
Are you looking for someone confidential and non judgemental to talk to? Life can often feel extremely overwhelming. Facing obstacles such as anxiety, depression, lack of self confidence, relationship issues, work issues etc can make us feel helpless. The aim is to understand our obstacles in order to change them.
I appreciate that all obstacles can feel overwhelming at times.
Are you looking for someone confidential and non judgemental to talk to? Life can often feel extremely overwhelming. Facing obstacles such as anxiety, depression, lack of self confidence, relationship issues, work issues etc can make us feel helpless. The aim is to understand our obstacles in order to change them.
07447 970267 View 07447 970267

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Depression Counsellors

What is the goal of therapy for depression?

Therapy for depression has several major goals. One is to relieve the mental pain of depression, which distorts feeling and thinking so that sufferers cannot see beyond their current state of mind or envision feeling better. Another is to give people the mental tools to recognise and correct the kinds of distorted thinking that turn a problem into a catastrophe and lead to despair. Therapy also teaches people how to process negative emotions in constructive ways, so they have more control over their own emotional reactivity. And it helps people regain the ability to see themselves positively, the motivation to do things, and the capacity for pleasure.

What happens in therapy for depression?

Perhaps most important, no matter the type of therapy, patients form an alliance with the therapist; that connection is therapeutic in itself, plus it becomes an instrument of change. Patients learn to identify and to challenge their own erroneous beliefs and thoughts that amplify the effects of negative experiences. They learn to identify situations in which they are especially vulnerable. And they learn new patterns of thinking and behaving. They may be given “homework” assignments in which they practice their developing skills. In addition, good therapists regularly monitor patients to assess whether and how much the condition is improving.

What therapy types help with depression?

Several types of short-term therapy have been found effective, each targeting one or more areas of dysfunction. Cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) helps clients challenge their negative thoughts and beliefs, learn new behavioral strategies, and curb reactivity to distressing situations. Behavioural activation (BA) is a form of therapy often used in conjunction with CBT; it focuses on engagement in rewarding activity as a pathway to changing negative feelings and disturbed mood. Another widely used approach is interpersonal therapy (IPT), which targets the social difficulties that both give rise to and get exacerbated by depression. Therapists may combine approaches as needed.

Can therapy for depression be done online?

Studies have found that online therapy can be highly effective for treating depression, although it may be more challenging to build a good therapist-patient alliance on screen than in person—at least at first. However, online therapy can offer considerable advantages. Accessibility and convenience are tops among them. Some people actually find it easier to talk about problems online than in person. While online therapy typically limits visibility of facial expression and body gestures that give important nonverbal cues to a patient’s state of mind, it can give therapists a glimpse into a patient’s world and life, providing information that can be highly useful in guiding therapy.

How effective is therapy for depression?

Many studies show that therapy is highly effective provided that patients complete the prescribed course of therapy, commonly 16 to 20 sessions. Over the long term, it is more effective than medication and the effects are more enduring. As a result, psychotherapy has the power not just to relieve current suffering but to prevent future episodes of the disorder. Therapy reverses the dysfunction in neural circuitry that disposes individuals to a negative view of themselves, the world, and their future and they acquire coping techniques, problem-solving skills, and understanding of their own vulnerabilities that are useful over the course of a lifetime.