Emotionally Focused Counselling in Stroud

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Hannya Melrose
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Stroud GL5
I have worked for over 15 years as a body-oriented psychotherapist, specialising in prenatal & birth/ attachment issues, sexual trauma, life transitions & crisis. I am also a TRE (Tension Releasing Exercises) provider, to support the release of stress from the body/ mind. More recently I have trained to work with women of all ages & life stages around menstrual cycle awareness, the menopause passage & after & I am currently training as a women's transformational coach & facilitator. I feel passionately about supporting women to step into greater self-love, empowerment & fulfillment in all areas of their life.
I have worked for over 15 years as a body-oriented psychotherapist, specialising in prenatal & birth/ attachment issues, sexual trauma, life transitions & crisis. I am also a TRE (Tension Releasing Exercises) provider, to support the release of stress from the body/ mind. More recently I have trained to work with women of all ages & life stages around menstrual cycle awareness, the menopause passage & after & I am currently training as a women's transformational coach & facilitator. I feel passionately about supporting women to step into greater self-love, empowerment & fulfillment in all areas of their life.
01453 708236 View 01453 708236
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Brian Back
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stroud GL5  (Online Only)
When life gets hard, it's easy to feel like you're all alone and not good enough. But you're not alone. There's nothing 'wrong' with you. Everyone struggles sometimes. I’ve met many people who felt hopeless about life, who turned their lives around, in ways that felt almost miraculous. I’ve found that people have more strength and wisdom than they realise. Together, in a warm, non-judgmental, and very safe, confidential environment, we can help you to re-discover that same wisdom and strength in yourself. I can help you understand, process, and work through the complex feelings that make life difficult.
When life gets hard, it's easy to feel like you're all alone and not good enough. But you're not alone. There's nothing 'wrong' with you. Everyone struggles sometimes. I’ve met many people who felt hopeless about life, who turned their lives around, in ways that felt almost miraculous. I’ve found that people have more strength and wisdom than they realise. Together, in a warm, non-judgmental, and very safe, confidential environment, we can help you to re-discover that same wisdom and strength in yourself. I can help you understand, process, and work through the complex feelings that make life difficult.
020 3948 6496 View 020 3948 6496
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Catherine Macer
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Stroud GL5
Life is not always easy. The fact that you are looking at my page suggests that something feels stuck, painful, maybe hopeless or unreachable and that you want something different for yourself – that you want things to change. Perhaps you want to free yourself from repetitive patterns of behaviour, depression, anxiety and self-limiting beliefs or the impact of trauma. Maybe you want to deepen your connection to yourself so that life feels richer and more rewarding and you can find a more authentic sense of yourself. Whatever your reason, I offer you a safe, empathetic and thoughtful space to explore whatever you want to bring.
Life is not always easy. The fact that you are looking at my page suggests that something feels stuck, painful, maybe hopeless or unreachable and that you want something different for yourself – that you want things to change. Perhaps you want to free yourself from repetitive patterns of behaviour, depression, anxiety and self-limiting beliefs or the impact of trauma. Maybe you want to deepen your connection to yourself so that life feels richer and more rewarding and you can find a more authentic sense of yourself. Whatever your reason, I offer you a safe, empathetic and thoughtful space to explore whatever you want to bring.
01257 449409 View 01257 449409
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Grace McIntyre
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
Stroud GL6
Senior Coach + Mediator + MA Art Psychotherapist "I am a passionate creative, and have committed a decade working therapeutically in private residential trauma clinics, the NHS, secondary schools and my own business Resonate Therapy LTD. I bring all the skills of a specialist trauma therapist, that has worked extensively with neurodiversity and complex needs. By harmonising together a robust psychologically informed somatic based therapy programme. I specialise in supporting building meta-perspective of individual and collective systems. Are you ready to shift your life on a cellular, neuroplastic dimension?"
Senior Coach + Mediator + MA Art Psychotherapist "I am a passionate creative, and have committed a decade working therapeutically in private residential trauma clinics, the NHS, secondary schools and my own business Resonate Therapy LTD. I bring all the skills of a specialist trauma therapist, that has worked extensively with neurodiversity and complex needs. By harmonising together a robust psychologically informed somatic based therapy programme. I specialise in supporting building meta-perspective of individual and collective systems. Are you ready to shift your life on a cellular, neuroplastic dimension?"
01235 424339 View 01235 424339
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Fi Hanaway
Counsellor, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
Stroud GL6
As an art therapist, my goal is to provide a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space for you to express and explore your emotions through creative processes. With a background in art and psychology, I understand how powerful artistic expression can be in promoting healing and personal growth. I am committed to listening with empathy, respecting your experiences, and tailoring my approach to meet your individual needs. Together, we will work towards uncovering insights, building resilience, and improving well-being. Your trust is essential, and I am dedicated to earning it through compassionate care and professional integrity.
As an art therapist, my goal is to provide a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space for you to express and explore your emotions through creative processes. With a background in art and psychology, I understand how powerful artistic expression can be in promoting healing and personal growth. I am committed to listening with empathy, respecting your experiences, and tailoring my approach to meet your individual needs. Together, we will work towards uncovering insights, building resilience, and improving well-being. Your trust is essential, and I am dedicated to earning it through compassionate care and professional integrity.
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Dr Claudia Herbert Ltd
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Stroud GL6  (Online Only)
All of us experience challenges as part of life. When these are traumatic or overwhelming, they deplete our energy, create blockages, hinder healthy functioning, disconnect from our power and take us out of our inner alignment. Despite being outwardly successful, you may feel that something is missing within you and you are not truly yourself. There are many reasons for why this might have happened and for some people this starts very early in their childhood, for others later in life and in both instances, there are ways in which these experiences can be explored and transformed into an inner healing and positive growth process.
All of us experience challenges as part of life. When these are traumatic or overwhelming, they deplete our energy, create blockages, hinder healthy functioning, disconnect from our power and take us out of our inner alignment. Despite being outwardly successful, you may feel that something is missing within you and you are not truly yourself. There are many reasons for why this might have happened and for some people this starts very early in their childhood, for others later in life and in both instances, there are ways in which these experiences can be explored and transformed into an inner healing and positive growth process.
01453 702596 View 01453 702596
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Anna Settle
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Stroud GL5  (Online Only)
Our time together will help release burdens and heal the injuries that have resulted from past experiences. My intention is to enable and support you to be able to live your life in a way that is more true to who you really are. My aim is to offer the tools and compassion into the places of darkness and discomfort in your life. I am an Internal Family Systems therapist at the heart of sessions and greatly value the impact this way of being has for our inner world. Feel free to contact me for further information on IFS or to chat about sessions.
Our time together will help release burdens and heal the injuries that have resulted from past experiences. My intention is to enable and support you to be able to live your life in a way that is more true to who you really are. My aim is to offer the tools and compassion into the places of darkness and discomfort in your life. I am an Internal Family Systems therapist at the heart of sessions and greatly value the impact this way of being has for our inner world. Feel free to contact me for further information on IFS or to chat about sessions.
01924 979866 View 01924 979866
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Rebecca Lazaro
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Stroud GL5
Hi, I'm Rebecca, I'm a qualified therapeutic counsellor and a trauma-informed practitioner. Reaching out is the best thing you can do if you are struggling with difficult feelings that are affecting your mental and emotional wellbeing. I can offer you my undivided attention in a safe, confidential space, where I will listen to whatever problems you are experiencing, without judgements or expectations, and help you work your way through your difficulties at your own pace. I'm interested in you as an individual, and helping you understand what's happened in your life to make you the way you are, in all your uniqueness.
Hi, I'm Rebecca, I'm a qualified therapeutic counsellor and a trauma-informed practitioner. Reaching out is the best thing you can do if you are struggling with difficult feelings that are affecting your mental and emotional wellbeing. I can offer you my undivided attention in a safe, confidential space, where I will listen to whatever problems you are experiencing, without judgements or expectations, and help you work your way through your difficulties at your own pace. I'm interested in you as an individual, and helping you understand what's happened in your life to make you the way you are, in all your uniqueness.
01453 702561 View 01453 702561
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Samantha Turner
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stroud GL6
Are you struggling with something in life? Be it something life has thrown up for you or feelings and thoughts that seem too overwhelming to cope with? Are you looking for someone to support you through this, that will listen and acknowledge where you are at? Would you like to learn how to acknowledge your emotions and not let them be in control of you? My name is Samantha Turner and i am very passionate about my work and how i feel it can help.
Are you struggling with something in life? Be it something life has thrown up for you or feelings and thoughts that seem too overwhelming to cope with? Are you looking for someone to support you through this, that will listen and acknowledge where you are at? Would you like to learn how to acknowledge your emotions and not let them be in control of you? My name is Samantha Turner and i am very passionate about my work and how i feel it can help.
01452 596332 View 01452 596332
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Kerstin Pullin
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stroud GL5
Choosing a counsellor with whom to connect and build a trusting therapeutic relationship can feel daunting, even risky, yet also empowering and hopeful. What does it feel like to take off masks, shedding protective layers that keep the authentic, vulnerable self safe while navigating through challenging or traumatic times? Together we can explore what you feel ready and safe to share - whether these are current, buried or almost forgotten experiences. I will be at your side to listen; endeavouring to relate to your unique circumstances and way of being; facilitative of your change and growth process.
Choosing a counsellor with whom to connect and build a trusting therapeutic relationship can feel daunting, even risky, yet also empowering and hopeful. What does it feel like to take off masks, shedding protective layers that keep the authentic, vulnerable self safe while navigating through challenging or traumatic times? Together we can explore what you feel ready and safe to share - whether these are current, buried or almost forgotten experiences. I will be at your side to listen; endeavouring to relate to your unique circumstances and way of being; facilitative of your change and growth process.
0117 456 5302 View 0117 456 5302
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Libbet Paravicini
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Stroud GL5
Life can be overwhelming sometimes. Most people have experienced anxiety, stress or low moods at some point and often try to struggle through alone. Seeking professional help can feel daunting and takes courage to make that first call. I work with genuine care and empathy and offer a warm, safe, non-judgemental environment for you to explore what's troubling you with complete confidentiality.
Life can be overwhelming sometimes. Most people have experienced anxiety, stress or low moods at some point and often try to struggle through alone. Seeking professional help can feel daunting and takes courage to make that first call. I work with genuine care and empathy and offer a warm, safe, non-judgemental environment for you to explore what's troubling you with complete confidentiality.
01666 331453 View 01666 331453
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Debbie Thomas
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stroud GL5
Taking the first step to explore your feelings or navigate life’s challenges is a brave decision. As an integrative counsellor based in Gloucester, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for face-to-face, online, or telephone sessions. Life is unpredictable, and having someone neutral and empathetic to talk to can make a significant difference. I am here to support you in making new decisions, choices, and changes to improve how you feel. My experience includes working with anxiety, depression, work-related stress, redundancy, bereavement, and relationship issues.
Taking the first step to explore your feelings or navigate life’s challenges is a brave decision. As an integrative counsellor based in Gloucester, I offer a safe, non-judgmental space for face-to-face, online, or telephone sessions. Life is unpredictable, and having someone neutral and empathetic to talk to can make a significant difference. I am here to support you in making new decisions, choices, and changes to improve how you feel. My experience includes working with anxiety, depression, work-related stress, redundancy, bereavement, and relationship issues.
01452 923069 View 01452 923069
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David Victor
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stroud GL5  (Online Only)
We all carry with us a weight of experience that is repressed, denied, distorted or simply misunderstood. We construct narratives that help us to ignore or avoid the parts of our lives that might be unwelcome or unwanted. We struggle with anger, anxiety, guilt, self-loathing and resentment at a huge personal cost. Through talking, in the presence of real listening, we are able to gently explore the truths that have eluded us and are l eft feeling lighter. This unfurling of what we truly feel and experience sets in motion the life changing process of becoming; of returning to the person we were all along.
We all carry with us a weight of experience that is repressed, denied, distorted or simply misunderstood. We construct narratives that help us to ignore or avoid the parts of our lives that might be unwelcome or unwanted. We struggle with anger, anxiety, guilt, self-loathing and resentment at a huge personal cost. Through talking, in the presence of real listening, we are able to gently explore the truths that have eluded us and are l eft feeling lighter. This unfurling of what we truly feel and experience sets in motion the life changing process of becoming; of returning to the person we were all along.
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Christina Anne Tremaine
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Gloucester GL1
By using creative therapies, CBT, emotionally focused therapy, NLP, and Person-centred counselling and more, I will provide a safe, supportive, confidential setting, for you to begin your healing process.
Hello, my name is Tina, Life can become overwhelming at times and finding the right counsellor can be daunting, especially when you want to find someone to talk through personal issues. I want to help you express yourself in a confidential environment. I am non-judgmental, down-to-earth, and supportive, with much NHS experience. Life is not always straightforward, it may feel impossible to move forward and to visualise your potential self. Family and friends can help, however, this may not always be possible, I can help you find your self-belief and motivation again.
By using creative therapies, CBT, emotionally focused therapy, NLP, and Person-centred counselling and more, I will provide a safe, supportive, confidential setting, for you to begin your healing process.
Hello, my name is Tina, Life can become overwhelming at times and finding the right counsellor can be daunting, especially when you want to find someone to talk through personal issues. I want to help you express yourself in a confidential environment. I am non-judgmental, down-to-earth, and supportive, with much NHS experience. Life is not always straightforward, it may feel impossible to move forward and to visualise your potential self. Family and friends can help, however, this may not always be possible, I can help you find your self-belief and motivation again.
01736 808726 View 01736 808726
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The Apsley Clinic
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Gloucester GL1
At the Apsley Clinic, we have a team of dedicated Practitioners who can assess, treat, and support your mental health needs within just 72 hours of referral. We strive to support you as soon as possible, offering a range of Psychological therapies, including Psychotherapy and Counselling. Our experienced medical professionals put your Mental Health needs first. We are proud to provide a high quality multi-disciplinary team of therapists and Mental Health Practitioners to provide Psychological support that is client centred and tailored to you . Our goal is to make you feel better as quickly as possible.
At the Apsley Clinic, we have a team of dedicated Practitioners who can assess, treat, and support your mental health needs within just 72 hours of referral. We strive to support you as soon as possible, offering a range of Psychological therapies, including Psychotherapy and Counselling. Our experienced medical professionals put your Mental Health needs first. We are proud to provide a high quality multi-disciplinary team of therapists and Mental Health Practitioners to provide Psychological support that is client centred and tailored to you . Our goal is to make you feel better as quickly as possible.
0117 463 4597 View 0117 463 4597
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Emma Brooke Gilding
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Gloucester GL1  (Online Only)
At times we may feel stuck or alone, we are being affected by feelings of loss, anxiety, depression or something else which stops us from living fully. Perhaps we notice repeating patterns or habits that we don't know how to change. In these cases, working with an experienced professional through therapeutic coaching and counselling which holds you accountable for your changes can support you to heal, understand yourself (learning new tools and techniques) and access the inner resources you need to move forward.
At times we may feel stuck or alone, we are being affected by feelings of loss, anxiety, depression or something else which stops us from living fully. Perhaps we notice repeating patterns or habits that we don't know how to change. In these cases, working with an experienced professional through therapeutic coaching and counselling which holds you accountable for your changes can support you to heal, understand yourself (learning new tools and techniques) and access the inner resources you need to move forward.
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Your Way Talking Therapy
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Gloucester GL1  (Online Only)
Is life overwhelming? Do you feel unheard? Do you feel you have to please others? Or maybe you are looking for new ways to manage your situation?
Is life overwhelming? Do you feel unheard? Do you feel you have to please others? Or maybe you are looking for new ways to manage your situation?
01905 975332 View 01905 975332
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Devi Sundar
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Gloucester GL2  (Online Only)
Embarking on healing and growth requires trust and empathy. I provide a safe space for exploration and positive change. My therapy is authentic, collaborative, and non-judgmental. Together, we'll overcome challenges, develop coping skills, and empower you. Your confidentiality and trust are paramount. Let's journey towards resilience and hope.
Embarking on healing and growth requires trust and empathy. I provide a safe space for exploration and positive change. My therapy is authentic, collaborative, and non-judgmental. Together, we'll overcome challenges, develop coping skills, and empower you. Your confidentiality and trust are paramount. Let's journey towards resilience and hope.
01452 941698 View 01452 941698
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Vanesssa Tyrrell
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Gloucester GL2
Hello my name is Vanessa Tyrrell and I'd be happy to help you begin your therapeutic journey. I'd like to assist you in meaningful therapeutic conversations about the things that are troubling you, within a safe, confidential, empathic space. You are not alone, together we can facilitate a shift towards the lasting and favourable change you are hoping for.
Hello my name is Vanessa Tyrrell and I'd be happy to help you begin your therapeutic journey. I'd like to assist you in meaningful therapeutic conversations about the things that are troubling you, within a safe, confidential, empathic space. You are not alone, together we can facilitate a shift towards the lasting and favourable change you are hoping for.
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Jen Edwards
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Gloucester GL1
I recognise that life is a journey that can sometimes be a struggle. Life in this modern world is often chaotic, stressful and moves at such a fast pace, yet our reptilian brains are still designed to deal with cave man threats. This can lead to our bodies being flooded with fight, flight or freeze responses. In time these can build and lead to conditions such as anxiety, depression and low level trauma if not dealt with correctly. Having the support to help you through is not always easy to find.
I recognise that life is a journey that can sometimes be a struggle. Life in this modern world is often chaotic, stressful and moves at such a fast pace, yet our reptilian brains are still designed to deal with cave man threats. This can lead to our bodies being flooded with fight, flight or freeze responses. In time these can build and lead to conditions such as anxiety, depression and low level trauma if not dealt with correctly. Having the support to help you through is not always easy to find.
01242 903218 View 01242 903218

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Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.