Couples Counselling in Shildon

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Bishop Auckland Counselling and Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Shildon DL4
Waitlist for new clients
I am a Humanistic Integrative therapist, which means my "eclectic" style of therapy is adaptable to the individual. The integrative approach views the client as a whole and considers many different therapy styles and approaches to find what works for the individual, and appeals most to their personality and attachment style. I view my clients as people, not jargon, and an advocate for personal autonomy. I use many techniques but specialise in Transactional Analysis.
I am a Humanistic Integrative therapist, which means my "eclectic" style of therapy is adaptable to the individual. The integrative approach views the client as a whole and considers many different therapy styles and approaches to find what works for the individual, and appeals most to their personality and attachment style. I view my clients as people, not jargon, and an advocate for personal autonomy. I use many techniques but specialise in Transactional Analysis.
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Life Pathways Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Shildon DL4
I am a qualified counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer expert help for anxiety related disorders including panic attack I am able to deliver a broad range of tried and tested therapeutic techniques to alleviate your anxiety which can be triggered by various issues such as, work, health, relationships, loss to name a few. I use various approaches, CBT Solution Focused. Person Centred and added extra training in the Rewind Technique, this is useful for trauma and recurring troubled memories. EFT is a tapping technique can be useful for stress .
I am a qualified counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer expert help for anxiety related disorders including panic attack I am able to deliver a broad range of tried and tested therapeutic techniques to alleviate your anxiety which can be triggered by various issues such as, work, health, relationships, loss to name a few. I use various approaches, CBT Solution Focused. Person Centred and added extra training in the Rewind Technique, this is useful for trauma and recurring troubled memories. EFT is a tapping technique can be useful for stress .
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Jesmond Therapy Centre
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Sunderland Bridge DH6
Our range of talking therapies primarily focus on counselling and psychotherapy for children (aged 9 and above) and for adults, couples and families.
We welcome you to a safe space....Coming for therapy can help you to identify what the issues are so that you can feel better about yourself, your relationships, your work and your life. All of our therapists are independent private practitioners with a great deal of experience of working with a vast range of issues in a variety of settings. We offer a wide range of daytime, late evening & Saturday appointments to fit around your busy schedule . If you're coming to us by car, we have free on-street parking and we are a few minutes walk from the nearest bus stop & metro stations.
Our range of talking therapies primarily focus on counselling and psychotherapy for children (aged 9 and above) and for adults, couples and families.
We welcome you to a safe space....Coming for therapy can help you to identify what the issues are so that you can feel better about yourself, your relationships, your work and your life. All of our therapists are independent private practitioners with a great deal of experience of working with a vast range of issues in a variety of settings. We offer a wide range of daytime, late evening & Saturday appointments to fit around your busy schedule . If you're coming to us by car, we have free on-street parking and we are a few minutes walk from the nearest bus stop & metro stations.
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Photo of Deborah Williamson - At One Relationship Therapy  , MBACP, Counsellor
At One Relationship Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
Having problems with relationships? Either the relationship you have with yourself, your partner or your relationship as a parent? If you're struggling in any of these areas and finding that your mind is pre-occupied with troubling thoughts and it's getting in the way of normal enjoyment then I can assure you that it doesn't have to be this way.
Having problems with relationships? Either the relationship you have with yourself, your partner or your relationship as a parent? If you're struggling in any of these areas and finding that your mind is pre-occupied with troubling thoughts and it's getting in the way of normal enjoyment then I can assure you that it doesn't have to be this way.
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Karena Serdecka
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
I have worked with Trauma, PTSD, Relationship issues, Depression, Guilt, Anger, Grief, Anxiety, Abuse, Phobias, Self-Esteem issues, Low Confidence, Identity Crises, OCD, Separation and Loss, Divorce, Life changes, Suicidal Ideation, Self-Harm and Sexual Issues, and more ….
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
I have worked with Trauma, PTSD, Relationship issues, Depression, Guilt, Anger, Grief, Anxiety, Abuse, Phobias, Self-Esteem issues, Low Confidence, Identity Crises, OCD, Separation and Loss, Divorce, Life changes, Suicidal Ideation, Self-Harm and Sexual Issues, and more ….
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
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Stephanie Powell
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL2
I offer a challenging yet encouraging and supportive environment, where our relationship will be the heartbeat of the work we do.
I am a Psychological Therapist specialising in solution focused therapy. If you are seeking change and positive growth such as developing confidence or healthy self-esteem, we will work strategically to move you towards your goals. Creating a stronger sense of who you are and what you want, will help you to move forward with your life. Many life experiences, however simple or traumatic, can keep us stuck; we will explore and address what needs to be released, healed and developed in order to align you with your most authentic self and best life. My work is a complete integrated approach to mind/body/spirit wellness.
I offer a challenging yet encouraging and supportive environment, where our relationship will be the heartbeat of the work we do.
I am a Psychological Therapist specialising in solution focused therapy. If you are seeking change and positive growth such as developing confidence or healthy self-esteem, we will work strategically to move you towards your goals. Creating a stronger sense of who you are and what you want, will help you to move forward with your life. Many life experiences, however simple or traumatic, can keep us stuck; we will explore and address what needs to be released, healed and developed in order to align you with your most authentic self and best life. My work is a complete integrated approach to mind/body/spirit wellness.
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Hayley Harle - BU Therapy
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
Hello and welcome to my page! After being a part of the military community for over 10 years, I was in close contact with individuals suffering with post-traumatic stress; Flashbacks and nightmares; triggers such as smells, social situations and physical sensations. These symptoms can then cause anxiety, depression, overwhelming feelings of anger and frustration, numbness, lack of sleep, relationship difficulties, substance use, isolation and sadly in some cases suicidal thoughts and attempts.. does any of these sound familiar? Then keep reading see if you think I could be the right fit for you
Hello and welcome to my page! After being a part of the military community for over 10 years, I was in close contact with individuals suffering with post-traumatic stress; Flashbacks and nightmares; triggers such as smells, social situations and physical sensations. These symptoms can then cause anxiety, depression, overwhelming feelings of anger and frustration, numbness, lack of sleep, relationship difficulties, substance use, isolation and sadly in some cases suicidal thoughts and attempts.. does any of these sound familiar? Then keep reading see if you think I could be the right fit for you
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Photo of Dr Abi Tarran-Jones, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Dr Abi Tarran-Jones
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
Do you have any questions about therapy with me? To get the best from therapy it's vital that you feel comfortable with your therapist and the relationship fits.
I am a Clinical Psychologist and I offer outdoor therapy in a natural setting, as well as traditional sessions in a clinic. My approach is based on developing a caring and compassionate therapeutic relationship with you, as this is the most active ingredient for effective therapy. I deliver outdoor therapy as nature is healing for our mental and physical health and wellbeing. Through nature we can learn more about ourselves and how we want to live our lives. And the natural environment can offer us tools to enhance the therapeutic work. You can choose whether you prefer the comfort of the indoors or the freedom of the outdoors!
Do you have any questions about therapy with me? To get the best from therapy it's vital that you feel comfortable with your therapist and the relationship fits.
I am a Clinical Psychologist and I offer outdoor therapy in a natural setting, as well as traditional sessions in a clinic. My approach is based on developing a caring and compassionate therapeutic relationship with you, as this is the most active ingredient for effective therapy. I deliver outdoor therapy as nature is healing for our mental and physical health and wellbeing. Through nature we can learn more about ourselves and how we want to live our lives. And the natural environment can offer us tools to enhance the therapeutic work. You can choose whether you prefer the comfort of the indoors or the freedom of the outdoors!
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Raj Muirhead
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Redmarshall TS21
I am an experienced psychotherapist and have worked with a wide range of complex trauma, abuse, loss, work related stress and mental health issues. I have an integrative approach to my work and tailor the work to suit your needs. I have a strong belief in every individual being able to manage themselves with the appropriate resources and being able to change the repeating negative patterns or behaviours in their lives, personal and work relationships.
I am an experienced psychotherapist and have worked with a wide range of complex trauma, abuse, loss, work related stress and mental health issues. I have an integrative approach to my work and tailor the work to suit your needs. I have a strong belief in every individual being able to manage themselves with the appropriate resources and being able to change the repeating negative patterns or behaviours in their lives, personal and work relationships.
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Katherine Banner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL3
I specialise in the area of feeling 'overwhelmed', 'high anxiety' and your mental health feeling ignored. I am here to support these questions in life: -How can I feel like my self again? -How can I feel calmer? -how can I regain my autonomy -How can I start to trust again? My experience of working with the conscious and unconscious patterns in our life and relationships, enables us to gain a deeper understanding of what is impacting you. I work in a range of areas from high anxiety, bereavement, depression and psychological neglect.
I specialise in the area of feeling 'overwhelmed', 'high anxiety' and your mental health feeling ignored. I am here to support these questions in life: -How can I feel like my self again? -How can I feel calmer? -how can I regain my autonomy -How can I start to trust again? My experience of working with the conscious and unconscious patterns in our life and relationships, enables us to gain a deeper understanding of what is impacting you. I work in a range of areas from high anxiety, bereavement, depression and psychological neglect.
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Sean Mellor
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Spennymoor DL16  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
As a dedicated CBT and EMDR therapist, I am committed to helping my clients. Through evidence-based therapeutic techniques and a compassionate, non-judgmental approach, I work collaboratively with clients to empower them to create positive change in their lives. I help clients identify and challenge negative thought patterns and beliefs that contribute to anxiety, depression, and other mental health difficulties. By teaching clients effective coping strategies and skills, I empower them to manage their emotions and behaviours in a healthier way.
As a dedicated CBT and EMDR therapist, I am committed to helping my clients. Through evidence-based therapeutic techniques and a compassionate, non-judgmental approach, I work collaboratively with clients to empower them to create positive change in their lives. I help clients identify and challenge negative thought patterns and beliefs that contribute to anxiety, depression, and other mental health difficulties. By teaching clients effective coping strategies and skills, I empower them to manage their emotions and behaviours in a healthier way.
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Shirley Wilks
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
Not accepting new clients
I specialise in mental issues and life events: Trauma, childhood issues, anxiety, depression, personality disorder, low self esteem, relationship issues and couples counselling, bereavement, eating disorder and anger management.
I am a Person Centred/Gestalt Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor who has worked in the area of mental health since 2001 working with adult individuals, couples and groups. The therapeutic relationship is key and I am here to explore with you and support you in working through what might be troubling you at this time with a common goal, which is to improve your psychological mood and wellbeing. I provide clinical supervision to clinicians from trainees in placements to experienced therapists. I also work as an affiliate for EAP organisations. I am BACP Accredited and UKCP Registered
I specialise in mental issues and life events: Trauma, childhood issues, anxiety, depression, personality disorder, low self esteem, relationship issues and couples counselling, bereavement, eating disorder and anger management.
I am a Person Centred/Gestalt Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor who has worked in the area of mental health since 2001 working with adult individuals, couples and groups. The therapeutic relationship is key and I am here to explore with you and support you in working through what might be troubling you at this time with a common goal, which is to improve your psychological mood and wellbeing. I provide clinical supervision to clinicians from trainees in placements to experienced therapists. I also work as an affiliate for EAP organisations. I am BACP Accredited and UKCP Registered
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Online Therapists

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Jo Weir
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Middlesbrough TS5
I work with a range of clients, but predominantly I work with Trauma and couples.
I consider myself to be an integrative therapist drawing from different modalities to provide a bespoke pathway to the clients needs as each journey is completely individual. I provide a trusted, supportive and safe space for the client (s) to heard and explored. When working with couples I acknowledge every relationship is unique, as are the individuals in the partnership. I work with issues such as ineffective communication, escalating arguments, infidelity, loss of intimacy, the impact of a loss of a child has on a relationship, coping with a separation or divorce and co dependency.
I work with a range of clients, but predominantly I work with Trauma and couples.
I consider myself to be an integrative therapist drawing from different modalities to provide a bespoke pathway to the clients needs as each journey is completely individual. I provide a trusted, supportive and safe space for the client (s) to heard and explored. When working with couples I acknowledge every relationship is unique, as are the individuals in the partnership. I work with issues such as ineffective communication, escalating arguments, infidelity, loss of intimacy, the impact of a loss of a child has on a relationship, coping with a separation or divorce and co dependency.
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Nicole Brook
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Harrogate HG1
I am a friendly and professionally qualified counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor. I help people manage depression, anxiety, stress, anger and relationship issues. I also help people explore issues of gender and sexuality, offering a supportive and confidential space. I have a warm, relaxed approach and will try to help you feel as comfortable as possible. My aim is to understand you and your unique situation, and to help you with the issues that you may be struggling with, in order to help you resolve them. Counselling facilitates self awareness, enabling your own capacity for healing, growth and change.
I am a friendly and professionally qualified counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor. I help people manage depression, anxiety, stress, anger and relationship issues. I also help people explore issues of gender and sexuality, offering a supportive and confidential space. I have a warm, relaxed approach and will try to help you feel as comfortable as possible. My aim is to understand you and your unique situation, and to help you with the issues that you may be struggling with, in order to help you resolve them. Counselling facilitates self awareness, enabling your own capacity for healing, growth and change.
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Amend Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stockport SK6
Together we work in small time frames of a few sessions, exploring, understanding, and changing problem areas in the relationship.
Hi. Are you feeling stressed, anxious or depressed? Have you been struggling with relationships? Is your relationship strained at the moment? Perhaps you are struggling to rebuild trust after an affair? Or you (and maybe your partner) just feel very unhappy at the moment, and are looking for a way to feel better and happier. I specialise in working with couples and relationships. My work is about helping you to understand why you feel the way you do, and then support you to make the changes necessary.
Together we work in small time frames of a few sessions, exploring, understanding, and changing problem areas in the relationship.
Hi. Are you feeling stressed, anxious or depressed? Have you been struggling with relationships? Is your relationship strained at the moment? Perhaps you are struggling to rebuild trust after an affair? Or you (and maybe your partner) just feel very unhappy at the moment, and are looking for a way to feel better and happier. I specialise in working with couples and relationships. My work is about helping you to understand why you feel the way you do, and then support you to make the changes necessary.
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Athina Patsoule
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Manchester M4  (Online Only)
I also work with couples navigating difficulties in their relationship and seeking to gain deeper insights into their relationship dynamics and enhance their connection with one another.
I am a psychologist and certified psychotherapist ECP, registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP). I completed my undergraduate and postgraduate studies in Psychology at the University of Strasbourg and I specialised in Systemic Psychotherapy at the Laboratory for the Study of Human Relations in Greece. Since 2010, I have been working privately and also collaborating with various public and private organisations, offering individual, couples and group counselling and psychotherapy as well as parenting counselling. I currently work online and I offer sessions in Greek, French and English.
I also work with couples navigating difficulties in their relationship and seeking to gain deeper insights into their relationship dynamics and enhance their connection with one another.
I am a psychologist and certified psychotherapist ECP, registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (MBACP). I completed my undergraduate and postgraduate studies in Psychology at the University of Strasbourg and I specialised in Systemic Psychotherapy at the Laboratory for the Study of Human Relations in Greece. Since 2010, I have been working privately and also collaborating with various public and private organisations, offering individual, couples and group counselling and psychotherapy as well as parenting counselling. I currently work online and I offer sessions in Greek, French and English.
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Annika Giles
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
York YO30
Do you begin your day feeling anxious, low and lack of motivation, wondering your life is not going where you want to be?  Maybe you wake up during the night worrying and stressed about the day ahead? Are you wondering why you feel so lost and lonely, not fitting in whether it is relationship with your partner, family members, friends or even colleagues at work.  Maybe you are a couple feeling increasingly unhappy, fed up and tired with constant arguing or not talking about things?   You are worried about the future of your relationship?
Do you begin your day feeling anxious, low and lack of motivation, wondering your life is not going where you want to be?  Maybe you wake up during the night worrying and stressed about the day ahead? Are you wondering why you feel so lost and lonely, not fitting in whether it is relationship with your partner, family members, friends or even colleagues at work.  Maybe you are a couple feeling increasingly unhappy, fed up and tired with constant arguing or not talking about things?   You are worried about the future of your relationship?
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Rebecca Serella Qcop
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Lytham Saint Annes FY8
Hello and welcome! I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, CBT and EMDR Therapist. For fifteen years I have helped adults, couples and children understand themselves more clearly and live more authentic, happier lives. I am passionate about helping clients develop their self concept and overcome self doubt. At times in our lives we may feel lost and unsure, we can forget what brings us joy, or the barriers to get there feel too big. Perhaps you have felt this way for a long time or it is following a particular incident in your life. We may feel unable to live the life we want because of fear, anxiety or trauma symptoms.
Hello and welcome! I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, CBT and EMDR Therapist. For fifteen years I have helped adults, couples and children understand themselves more clearly and live more authentic, happier lives. I am passionate about helping clients develop their self concept and overcome self doubt. At times in our lives we may feel lost and unsure, we can forget what brings us joy, or the barriers to get there feel too big. Perhaps you have felt this way for a long time or it is following a particular incident in your life. We may feel unable to live the life we want because of fear, anxiety or trauma symptoms.
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Wellbeing North West Limited
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Leigh WN7
Our focus will be directed here as it is key to develop an understanding of the relationship between these factors.
It’s hard to believe that your feelings are worth something when you’re depressed, anxious, stuck or feeling trapped with self-critical thoughts and belief you have no control. But I’m here to tell you that it just isn’t the case, I’m here and I’m asking you to let me listen. With over 16years of experience in Mental Health I aim to help you navigate your way through your problems and find personal resolve. Regardless of the journey, therapy is tailored to be supportive, to suit your needs, to help you reach your desired outcome and by the end of our time together your journey will be something you can have pride in.
Our focus will be directed here as it is key to develop an understanding of the relationship between these factors.
It’s hard to believe that your feelings are worth something when you’re depressed, anxious, stuck or feeling trapped with self-critical thoughts and belief you have no control. But I’m here to tell you that it just isn’t the case, I’m here and I’m asking you to let me listen. With over 16years of experience in Mental Health I aim to help you navigate your way through your problems and find personal resolve. Regardless of the journey, therapy is tailored to be supportive, to suit your needs, to help you reach your desired outcome and by the end of our time together your journey will be something you can have pride in.
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Michelle Bradley
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Bradford BD2
Waitlist for new clients
I am a fully quaIified, experienced, accredited and insured therapist working in the Bradford 2 area close to the city centre. I offer supportive, non-judgemental and confidential help to individuals and couples looking to overcome problems and challenges in order to enjoy a healthier, happier future. My speciality is working at deeper levels to address the root causes of problems and issues for longer term results, primarily using the IFS model and EMDR.
I am a fully quaIified, experienced, accredited and insured therapist working in the Bradford 2 area close to the city centre. I offer supportive, non-judgemental and confidential help to individuals and couples looking to overcome problems and challenges in order to enjoy a healthier, happier future. My speciality is working at deeper levels to address the root causes of problems and issues for longer term results, primarily using the IFS model and EMDR.
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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.