Counselling in Pembury

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Hazel Mouls
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Pembury TN2
I am an experienced, Humanistic counsellor, practising from a central location in Tunbridge Wells. There may be a number of reasons why you are looking for counselling. You might be feeling anxious or depressed, having relationship issues, trying to process a loss or change or simply be struggling to cope. Whatever the issues you are facing, I provide a warm. supportive and confidential relationship in which you can explore your feelings and current difficulties, look at any unhelpful patterns of thought or behaviour and find better ways to manage the issues that you are facing.
I am an experienced, Humanistic counsellor, practising from a central location in Tunbridge Wells. There may be a number of reasons why you are looking for counselling. You might be feeling anxious or depressed, having relationship issues, trying to process a loss or change or simply be struggling to cope. Whatever the issues you are facing, I provide a warm. supportive and confidential relationship in which you can explore your feelings and current difficulties, look at any unhelpful patterns of thought or behaviour and find better ways to manage the issues that you are facing.
01732 496382 View 01732 496382
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Jane Taylor
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Pembury TN2
I am an Accredited Member of the BACP. This means The British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy recognises me as an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist who's practice meets their higher standard as a competent, ethical, independent practitioner. I am trained in Humanistic Integrative Counselling and work with adults (18+) experiencing a broad range of personal, emotional or mental health difficulties. For example grief and loss, divorce, redundancy or other major life event, anxiety, depression, illness, family and relationship issues.
I am an Accredited Member of the BACP. This means The British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy recognises me as an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist who's practice meets their higher standard as a competent, ethical, independent practitioner. I am trained in Humanistic Integrative Counselling and work with adults (18+) experiencing a broad range of personal, emotional or mental health difficulties. For example grief and loss, divorce, redundancy or other major life event, anxiety, depression, illness, family and relationship issues.
01892 362194 View 01892 362194
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Steve Berger
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Pembury TN2
If we aren't listened to, aren't heard, how can we be seen? Through our sessions together I provide a space for you to be heard, for you to talk through the challenges that you face, and to support you in finding a way to be. I am also a qualified couples therapist and psychosexual therapist. I work with all areas of couples therapy including communication, sexual issues, and the importance of maintaining a sense of self in a relationship. I am based in Tunbridge Wells and work with clients from all areas and backgrounds.
If we aren't listened to, aren't heard, how can we be seen? Through our sessions together I provide a space for you to be heard, for you to talk through the challenges that you face, and to support you in finding a way to be. I am also a qualified couples therapist and psychosexual therapist. I work with all areas of couples therapy including communication, sexual issues, and the importance of maintaining a sense of self in a relationship. I am based in Tunbridge Wells and work with clients from all areas and backgrounds.
01892 576451 View 01892 576451

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Angela Gilchrist
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tunbridge Wells TN2
Not accepting new clients
I am an experienced, BPS Chartered Consultant Clinical Psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council. I have been a Psychologist for more than 20 years, seventeen of these post-Chartered. I have a wealth of experience having worked in health care organisations in the private and public sector both in the UK and overseas. I see adult clients with a broad range of psychological difficulties and life issues (please see ‘issues’ listed to the right. I am also an experienced supervisor of Clinical Psychologists both in the NHS and private practice.
I am an experienced, BPS Chartered Consultant Clinical Psychologist registered with the Health and Care Professions Council. I have been a Psychologist for more than 20 years, seventeen of these post-Chartered. I have a wealth of experience having worked in health care organisations in the private and public sector both in the UK and overseas. I see adult clients with a broad range of psychological difficulties and life issues (please see ‘issues’ listed to the right. I am also an experienced supervisor of Clinical Psychologists both in the NHS and private practice.
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David Stockwell
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN1
At times we may experience difficult emotions which we struggle to control. We may know why, or it may be a mystery to us. Wrestling with these feelings may give rise to anxiety or feeling withdrawn and low. We may also have long-standing difficulties, stemming from past experiences, that constrain our lives and compromise our relationships. Abuse, bullying and neglect can have a deep and lasting impact on our emotional wellbeing. These emotional difficulties can affect many aspects of life including sexuality, relationships, family, work, diet and physical health.
At times we may experience difficult emotions which we struggle to control. We may know why, or it may be a mystery to us. Wrestling with these feelings may give rise to anxiety or feeling withdrawn and low. We may also have long-standing difficulties, stemming from past experiences, that constrain our lives and compromise our relationships. Abuse, bullying and neglect can have a deep and lasting impact on our emotional wellbeing. These emotional difficulties can affect many aspects of life including sexuality, relationships, family, work, diet and physical health.
07480 782387 View 07480 782387
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Sanae Mentis Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN2
Here at Sanae Mentis counselling you will be assured a safe space with which to explore your world without judgement. This is your time to bring whatever is troubling you and to know that you are not alone as I walk alongside you through what can sometimes feel painful. Counselling can at times be challenging as you delve a little deeper into your emotions but this is truly where growth can occur and therefore it is important to understand that the more you get out from this experience will largely depend on how open you can be. Alongside my Private practice, I work with clients for Betterhelp and with Wellbeing in the arts.
Here at Sanae Mentis counselling you will be assured a safe space with which to explore your world without judgement. This is your time to bring whatever is troubling you and to know that you are not alone as I walk alongside you through what can sometimes feel painful. Counselling can at times be challenging as you delve a little deeper into your emotions but this is truly where growth can occur and therefore it is important to understand that the more you get out from this experience will largely depend on how open you can be. Alongside my Private practice, I work with clients for Betterhelp and with Wellbeing in the arts.
01892 571232 View 01892 571232
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Katherine Taylor
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN2
Katherine is a specialised Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Nutritionist. Katherine's private practice offers support for a range of mental health challenges such as eating disorders, anxiety, depression and trauma. Katherine practices holistically, combining her knowledge of nutrition and evidence-based psychotherapy to offer a unique and highly effective experience for her clients. Katherine is an accredited member of the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies
Katherine is a specialised Cognitive Behavioural Therapist and Nutritionist. Katherine's private practice offers support for a range of mental health challenges such as eating disorders, anxiety, depression and trauma. Katherine practices holistically, combining her knowledge of nutrition and evidence-based psychotherapy to offer a unique and highly effective experience for her clients. Katherine is an accredited member of the British Association for Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies
020 3835 3017 View 020 3835 3017
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Elle Jayne Ulliott
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN4
I have worked with all kinds of people, for all different reasons. I have found that’s its very rare for people just to want to talk about one particular issue. I will offer you the opportunity for you to be heard, a chance for you to gain a different perspective and a deeper understanding of who you are and the choices you have. I provide a non-judgemental space for you to explore your own thoughts and feelings about the difficulties you may be having.
I have worked with all kinds of people, for all different reasons. I have found that’s its very rare for people just to want to talk about one particular issue. I will offer you the opportunity for you to be heard, a chance for you to gain a different perspective and a deeper understanding of who you are and the choices you have. I provide a non-judgemental space for you to explore your own thoughts and feelings about the difficulties you may be having.
01892 362072 View 01892 362072
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Pauline Mabey
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN4
Hi and a warm welcome to my profile. As well as having a wealth of experience working with a wide range of clients, supporting them through difficult life events and personal circumstances, including relationship issues, depression, anxiety, bereavement, sexuality, and uncertainty, I am currently offering Supervison as a Practice Supervisor. This includes an inclusive, confidential, and judgement-free space in which I invite clients and supervisees to express themselves and share whatever is weighing heavily. Together we can have a greater understanding of yourself, your relationships and life.
Hi and a warm welcome to my profile. As well as having a wealth of experience working with a wide range of clients, supporting them through difficult life events and personal circumstances, including relationship issues, depression, anxiety, bereavement, sexuality, and uncertainty, I am currently offering Supervison as a Practice Supervisor. This includes an inclusive, confidential, and judgement-free space in which I invite clients and supervisees to express themselves and share whatever is weighing heavily. Together we can have a greater understanding of yourself, your relationships and life.
01732 496776 View 01732 496776
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Sarah Hitt
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Tunbridge Wells TN4
Taking the first step to see a counsellor can seem daunting, particularly if you've never done it before. I will support you to explore your feelings and experiences without judgement but with kindness and understanding. Maybe you feel more anxious than usual or there is a specific problem that's troubling you? When we have the opportunity to share how we feel in a safe, confidential environment, it can help us gain a better understanding of ourselves and our relationships, as well as helping us develop our true potential to lead a more fulfilling life.
Taking the first step to see a counsellor can seem daunting, particularly if you've never done it before. I will support you to explore your feelings and experiences without judgement but with kindness and understanding. Maybe you feel more anxious than usual or there is a specific problem that's troubling you? When we have the opportunity to share how we feel in a safe, confidential environment, it can help us gain a better understanding of ourselves and our relationships, as well as helping us develop our true potential to lead a more fulfilling life.
01626 247551 View 01626 247551
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Natalia Barnes
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN1  (Online Only)
We all go through difficulties at times and sometimes can feel out of our depth and in need of a helping hand. I believe our past experiences can shape how we feel and respond in any given situation and can keep us trapped in negative cycles and unsure of a way out. I want to help you overcome these difficulties and find a way forward to start reaching your goals. Please do not feel you have to go through this alone or that things can’t change. Let’s work together to see how we can understand things and make things better for the future. I have worked in a variety of settings including NHS, private and hospitals for over 10 years.
We all go through difficulties at times and sometimes can feel out of our depth and in need of a helping hand. I believe our past experiences can shape how we feel and respond in any given situation and can keep us trapped in negative cycles and unsure of a way out. I want to help you overcome these difficulties and find a way forward to start reaching your goals. Please do not feel you have to go through this alone or that things can’t change. Let’s work together to see how we can understand things and make things better for the future. I have worked in a variety of settings including NHS, private and hospitals for over 10 years.
01603 361552 View 01603 361552
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Dom Kelleher
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN1
l provide a non-judgmental space in which you can explore your issues and feelings openly. We'll collaborate to help you discover your own inner resources, promote healing, and/or find solutions. I work online and face-to-face in a dedicated and confidential bright and friendly room at my house, offering both long- and short-term counselling.
l provide a non-judgmental space in which you can explore your issues and feelings openly. We'll collaborate to help you discover your own inner resources, promote healing, and/or find solutions. I work online and face-to-face in a dedicated and confidential bright and friendly room at my house, offering both long- and short-term counselling.
01892 362970 View 01892 362970
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Charlotte Harding
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN2
Hello, my name is Charlotte and I am a professionally qualified Psychotherapist, accredited with the BACP and with over 20 years of experience in this field. I work from my private studio on a long or short term basis. I aim to provide a comfortable and safe environment to explore feelings and resolve issues; be they processing traumatic experiences, unhelpful patterns in relationships, feeling unfulfilled in your life... or at this stage you may not know exactly what they are. Whatever your reason for choosing to come to therapy, you will be met with warmth and acceptance with the intention of moving forward positively.
Hello, my name is Charlotte and I am a professionally qualified Psychotherapist, accredited with the BACP and with over 20 years of experience in this field. I work from my private studio on a long or short term basis. I aim to provide a comfortable and safe environment to explore feelings and resolve issues; be they processing traumatic experiences, unhelpful patterns in relationships, feeling unfulfilled in your life... or at this stage you may not know exactly what they are. Whatever your reason for choosing to come to therapy, you will be met with warmth and acceptance with the intention of moving forward positively.
07449 171783 View 07449 171783
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Beri Cohn
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN1  (Online Only)
No one needs to suffer alone, and in fact, I like to think that no one needs to suffer at all. I have dedicated most of my adult life, helping people with their mental health, as a nurse, a social worker and as a psychologist. I have over 40 years experience in the Mental Health field, 16 of which have been with the NHS as a Senior Psychologist. I help all age groups using on-line therapy. My clients have varied needs and I offer an individual plan of treatment for each person depending upon their specific needs and goals. I also have a special interest in working with LGBTQ+ clients
No one needs to suffer alone, and in fact, I like to think that no one needs to suffer at all. I have dedicated most of my adult life, helping people with their mental health, as a nurse, a social worker and as a psychologist. I have over 40 years experience in the Mental Health field, 16 of which have been with the NHS as a Senior Psychologist. I help all age groups using on-line therapy. My clients have varied needs and I offer an individual plan of treatment for each person depending upon their specific needs and goals. I also have a special interest in working with LGBTQ+ clients
01323 409736 View 01323 409736
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Mel Burgess
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN2
I am a UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, supervisor and tutor, and offer a range of therapies to suit client’s needs. I work with individuals and couples on a short and long-term basis, online and face to face from my private practice. I am passionate about psychotherapy and believe that it enables people to make meaning out of their problems so that they can take informed decisions about what they want to do to bring about change in their lives. I have undergone extensive and rigorous psychotherapy training, I have a Diploma in Counselling and over 30 years’ experience of working in health, including 20 years of hospice experience.
I am a UKCP Registered Psychotherapist, supervisor and tutor, and offer a range of therapies to suit client’s needs. I work with individuals and couples on a short and long-term basis, online and face to face from my private practice. I am passionate about psychotherapy and believe that it enables people to make meaning out of their problems so that they can take informed decisions about what they want to do to bring about change in their lives. I have undergone extensive and rigorous psychotherapy training, I have a Diploma in Counselling and over 30 years’ experience of working in health, including 20 years of hospice experience.
01732 496773 View 01732 496773
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Sarah Maynard
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN2  (Online Only)
What would life look like if you were flourishing? Sometimes problems can feel overwhelming to the extent that we can’t imagine life without them. Starting therapy can feel both daunting and hopeful, and finding a therapist and approach that you feel comfortable with is key. As a Clinical Psychologist with over 20 years experience helping people in distress, I work both in the NHS and privately, using a Holistic approach to care for the whole-being; mind and body to rebalance and heal.
What would life look like if you were flourishing? Sometimes problems can feel overwhelming to the extent that we can’t imagine life without them. Starting therapy can feel both daunting and hopeful, and finding a therapist and approach that you feel comfortable with is key. As a Clinical Psychologist with over 20 years experience helping people in distress, I work both in the NHS and privately, using a Holistic approach to care for the whole-being; mind and body to rebalance and heal.
01892 577014 View 01892 577014
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Dr Boguslaw Potoczny
Psychotherapist, PhD, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN1
There might be a time when you need a safe space to talk about your thoughts and feelings to help you try to make sense of them. You might be facing challenges in your personal life and inner conflicts, or you might be seeking a deeper understanding of yourself, your ways of relating to others, feelings of loss, emptiness, shame, lack of belonging or self-acceptance. Psychotherapy can offer a valuable environment to explore those feelings and to work through them.
There might be a time when you need a safe space to talk about your thoughts and feelings to help you try to make sense of them. You might be facing challenges in your personal life and inner conflicts, or you might be seeking a deeper understanding of yourself, your ways of relating to others, feelings of loss, emptiness, shame, lack of belonging or self-acceptance. Psychotherapy can offer a valuable environment to explore those feelings and to work through them.
020 3962 0106 View 020 3962 0106
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Sarah Hickman
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN4
I am an experienced and accredited BACP-registered Psychotherapeutic Counsellor with over fifteen years’ experience of working with individuals as a Therapist, Business Psychologist and Coach. I work with adults of all ages, students, teenagers and couples from a quiet and private therapy room in Crowborough with free parking and wheelchair accessability. I offer both face to face and online therapy sessions. It is the relationship between you and your Therapist which is the most important factor in successful therapy and finding the right therapist for you is key to this. I therefore offer a free initial half hour consultation.
I am an experienced and accredited BACP-registered Psychotherapeutic Counsellor with over fifteen years’ experience of working with individuals as a Therapist, Business Psychologist and Coach. I work with adults of all ages, students, teenagers and couples from a quiet and private therapy room in Crowborough with free parking and wheelchair accessability. I offer both face to face and online therapy sessions. It is the relationship between you and your Therapist which is the most important factor in successful therapy and finding the right therapist for you is key to this. I therefore offer a free initial half hour consultation.
07943 778455 View 07943 778455
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I am James Therapy & Coaching
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN2
I see clients in London (SW7 & SW5), Tunbridge Wells and online. I am a therapist, coach and wellbeing consultant and my friends joke that I wear many “hats” which is true I do and I am very grateful I get the opportunity to do so. I am a trauma informed addiction, eating disorder and compulsive behaviour specialist. I trained at Richmond College as an integrative therapist and the National Centre for Eating Disorders as a Master Practitioner. I am strongly informed by 12 step philosophy and have a holistic approach helping clients to look after their mental, physical, spiritual and emotional health to thrive in life.
I see clients in London (SW7 & SW5), Tunbridge Wells and online. I am a therapist, coach and wellbeing consultant and my friends joke that I wear many “hats” which is true I do and I am very grateful I get the opportunity to do so. I am a trauma informed addiction, eating disorder and compulsive behaviour specialist. I trained at Richmond College as an integrative therapist and the National Centre for Eating Disorders as a Master Practitioner. I am strongly informed by 12 step philosophy and have a holistic approach helping clients to look after their mental, physical, spiritual and emotional health to thrive in life.
020 3667 9963 View 020 3667 9963
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Fiona Tynan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Tunbridge Wells TN4
I am a specialist in addiction and trauma counselling
I am a specialist in addiction and trauma counselling
01892 571320 View 01892 571320

How does your Counsellor compare?

Number of Counsellors in Pembury

< 10

Counsellors in Pembury who prioritize treating:

100% Relationship Issues
100% Depression
100% Anxiety
100% Bereavement
100% Divorce
100% Family Conflict
100% Self Esteem

Average years in practice

6 Years

Gender breakdown

67% Female
33% Male

How Counsellors in Pembury see their clients

100% In Person and Online
FAQs - About Therapy and Counselling

How can I find a therapist in Pembury?

Search for nearby therapists or counsellors by inputting your city, postcode, or a provider’s name into the search bar. From there, you can filter providers by the issues they treat, cost, insurance, gender, and other factors to find providers who are well-suited to your needs. To navigate between locations within the same country, enter a new city or postcode into the search bar.

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Is everyone in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory a licensed therapist?

Counsellors and Psychotherapists listed in the directory are members of the main professional associations, mainly the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) and the UK Council for Psychotherapy (UKCP). Most Psychologists in the directory are accredited members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and/or are registered in the Health and Care Professions Council (HPCP).

Providers whose professional membership or primary credential has been verified by Psychology Today are signified by a “Verified” symbol. Given that professional memberships are not a statutory requirement for psychotherapists and counsellors in the UK, certain qualified professionals or organisations may choose not to maintain such memberships despite possessing the necessary qualifications. They may be selectively included without the “Verified” seal.

What’s the difference between a psychologist, a therapist, and a counsellor?

Counsellors, psychotherapists and psychologists can all provide counselling or talking therapy and have credentials and experience that enable them to do so in the UK. Psychologists have earned a degree in psychology and many are members of the British Psychological Society (BPS) and have completed a postgraduate qualification in a specialism. Counsellors and Psychotherapists are not required to have a psychology degree, but to belong to a professional organisation such as the BACP or UKCP, they are required to have completed a training course as well as clinical and supervision hours.

What type of therapy is right for me?

The type of therapy best suited to a particular individual depends on several factors, including their primary reason for seeking therapy, their preferred timeline (some therapy types last for a set number of sessions, while others are open-ended), and their personality and preferences—some may prefer a more structured approach. For many individuals, multiple types of therapy could provide a good fit.

How much does therapy cost?

The cost of therapy depends on a number of variables, including location and the therapist’s experience and training. On average, a therapy session in the UK could be between £30 - £60 when seeing a counsellor and £60 - £150 and up when seeing a clinical psychologist. If you have private insurance, your plan may cover some if not all of your sessions. You should contact your insurance provider to determine if they provide coverage for therapy sessions and to determine what, if any, requirements they might have in order for your sessions to be covered, such as a referral from your GP or medical specialist.

What are more affordable or low cost therapy solutions?

Many therapists offer sliding scale payments, usually on a limited number of slots, which consists in an agreement between the therapist and a client to pay a reduced rate. Therapists who provide such arrangements often consider the client's income or ability to pay, but the extent of the discount is ultimately at the therapist's discretion. Furthermore, while group therapy may have different goals and benefits compared to individual therapy, it can be a more affordable solution to address certain types of issues.

If you are struggling to access therapy due to budget constraints, you could also consider public funded mental health services. The NHS Talking therapies programme offers free of charge counselling for common mental health problems like anxiety and depression. The service is available to anyone registered with a GP, though you do not necessarily need to be referred by your GP and can refer yourself directly to a Talking therapies service. The service will provide different solutions, including group and individual therapy, for a limited number of sessions which are generally up to six.

Is online therapy cheaper than in-person therapy?

Many therapists charge the same amount for online therapy as they do for in-person therapy—though clients may still find this cost-effective if it cuts down on their transportation costs. Health insurance plans often offer equivalent coverage for online and in-person therapy; indeed, in many places, they are legally required to do so. Text-based or on-demand therapy apps may be cheaper than traditional one-on-one psychotherapy; however, the practice may be less effective and is not likely to be covered by insurance.

Is online therapy a good option?

Therapy conducted online can be just as effective as in-person therapy, as long as there is a strong alliance between the client and the therapist. To find a therapist who provides telehealth services to clients in your area, click “Online Therapy” on the directory homepage and search by your city or town or your postcode.

Are therapy sessions confidential?

Therapists who are part of a professional organisation such as the BACP, the UKCP, or BPS are bound by an ethical framework that requires them to uphold a confidentiality agreement. Confidentiality is a crucial part of the therapeutic relationship and only under specific circumstances, such as when there has been participation in a criminal act or act of terror, or if there is potential or known harm to the client or others, will a therapist be obligated to break the agreement. These exceptions to the confidentiality agreement are usually discussed during the initial consultation.