Infidelity Counselling in Nottingham

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Laura Jane Halliwell
Counsellor, MSc, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Nottingham NG3
I am committed to working with you with whatever you face. My work has supported those facing multiple struggles, notably; grief, depression, loneliness, infidelity, the processing of new diagnoses, anxiety, suicidal ideation, self-esteem struggles, relationship complexities, control around alcohol consumption, weight or compulsive behaviours. I work anti-diagnositically, believing that these behaviours often made sense in the context of your life. I trust that together, the therapeutic relationship can help you develop an understanding about where behaviours and thoughts originate and what sense they make now and in the future.
I am committed to working with you with whatever you face. My work has supported those facing multiple struggles, notably; grief, depression, loneliness, infidelity, the processing of new diagnoses, anxiety, suicidal ideation, self-esteem struggles, relationship complexities, control around alcohol consumption, weight or compulsive behaviours. I work anti-diagnositically, believing that these behaviours often made sense in the context of your life. I trust that together, the therapeutic relationship can help you develop an understanding about where behaviours and thoughts originate and what sense they make now and in the future.
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Rajan Rai | Individuals And Couples
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
Hello! I’m Raj, and I am psychosexually-informed UKCP-registered psychotherapist. I offer face-to-face individual & couples counselling sessions in Beeston, Nottingham as well as online. With individuals, I work with (but not limited to): Depression & Anxiety; Relationship Issues; LGBTQIA+ - related Issues; Racial and cultural issues/conflicts; Low self-esteem; Lack of fulfilment. With couples, typical issues include:  affairs; conflict & anger; poor communication; life transitions; sexual difficulties; separation & divorce.
Hello! I’m Raj, and I am psychosexually-informed UKCP-registered psychotherapist. I offer face-to-face individual & couples counselling sessions in Beeston, Nottingham as well as online. With individuals, I work with (but not limited to): Depression & Anxiety; Relationship Issues; LGBTQIA+ - related Issues; Racial and cultural issues/conflicts; Low self-esteem; Lack of fulfilment. With couples, typical issues include:  affairs; conflict & anger; poor communication; life transitions; sexual difficulties; separation & divorce.
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Jasmine Foulkes
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG2
We all feel stuck sometimes; either in life generally or in our relationships. We increasingly hear of people struggling with low self esteem, low mood and motivation, anxiety and depression diagnoses are becoming more common. We hear of relationships falling apart for a myriad of reasons; money, trust issues, infidelity, loss of connection to name a few. The key factor that causes relationships to break down is the failure to communicate effectively and re-connect before the problems arise.
We all feel stuck sometimes; either in life generally or in our relationships. We increasingly hear of people struggling with low self esteem, low mood and motivation, anxiety and depression diagnoses are becoming more common. We hear of relationships falling apart for a myriad of reasons; money, trust issues, infidelity, loss of connection to name a few. The key factor that causes relationships to break down is the failure to communicate effectively and re-connect before the problems arise.
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Matthew Johnston
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG14  (Online Only)
I also enjoy working with couples to address a wide range of issues such as improving communication, working through infidelity, managing conflict, improving intimacy and rebuilding trust.
Hi, I'm Matthew and I am a MBACP Accredited Person-centred psychotherapist passionate about supporting people to live happier and healthier lives. I have been in practice for over 10 years and have worked in range of different settings (local authority, schools, universities and privately) with individuals from all walks of life. I aim to support my clients to develop the tools and resilience to better cope with the world around them, be at peace with the events of the past and more confident about approaching the future.
I also enjoy working with couples to address a wide range of issues such as improving communication, working through infidelity, managing conflict, improving intimacy and rebuilding trust.
Hi, I'm Matthew and I am a MBACP Accredited Person-centred psychotherapist passionate about supporting people to live happier and healthier lives. I have been in practice for over 10 years and have worked in range of different settings (local authority, schools, universities and privately) with individuals from all walks of life. I aim to support my clients to develop the tools and resilience to better cope with the world around them, be at peace with the events of the past and more confident about approaching the future.
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Yasmin LAWSON
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG2
Do you have relationship issues? I am an experienced Relate trained Couples Counsellor and I can help with a wide range of relationship difficulties. I am person centred and work in collaboration with my clients to help them to find a way to improve their relationships. I also work with couples when one partner may be on the Autistic Spectrum, whether diagnosed or not.
Do you have relationship issues? I am an experienced Relate trained Couples Counsellor and I can help with a wide range of relationship difficulties. I am person centred and work in collaboration with my clients to help them to find a way to improve their relationships. I also work with couples when one partner may be on the Autistic Spectrum, whether diagnosed or not.
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Sarah Olds
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG1
I am a neuro-affirmatiive counsellor with specialist training in working with neurodivergent clients and over 16 years' experience of working with university staff and students. I'm also a certified ADHD coach and can offer a combined package of counselling and coaching sessions.
I am a neuro-affirmatiive counsellor with specialist training in working with neurodivergent clients and over 16 years' experience of working with university staff and students. I'm also a certified ADHD coach and can offer a combined package of counselling and coaching sessions.
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Andrea Mendes Freira
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG1
Regardless of our background we all go through difficult moments in our lives, leaving us overwhelmed and often struggling with feelings that may be hard to understand. It could be because life events are hard to overcome, or you feel exploited and disempowered and would like that to change. Maybe you are sexually unfulfilled or dealing with sexual problems. It could be that you want to build the confidence to come out of the closet or just to find your sexual self and enjoy the intimacy you desire in your romantic relationships. Whatever the reason is that brings you to this point - it is ok to look for someone to talk to.
Regardless of our background we all go through difficult moments in our lives, leaving us overwhelmed and often struggling with feelings that may be hard to understand. It could be because life events are hard to overcome, or you feel exploited and disempowered and would like that to change. Maybe you are sexually unfulfilled or dealing with sexual problems. It could be that you want to build the confidence to come out of the closet or just to find your sexual self and enjoy the intimacy you desire in your romantic relationships. Whatever the reason is that brings you to this point - it is ok to look for someone to talk to.
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Jo Newstead Counsellor And Supervisor
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG11
My name is Jo and I am a BACP accredited therapist and supervisor with over 11 years experience in practice. Using a blend of Person Centred and Solution Focused therapy I can offer short term solution focused therapy (6-8 sessions) and longer term if there are perhaps multiple issues to address. I came into counselling following a difficult period in my own life and felt that I wanted to give something back by helping others who may find themselves struggling in life.
My name is Jo and I am a BACP accredited therapist and supervisor with over 11 years experience in practice. Using a blend of Person Centred and Solution Focused therapy I can offer short term solution focused therapy (6-8 sessions) and longer term if there are perhaps multiple issues to address. I came into counselling following a difficult period in my own life and felt that I wanted to give something back by helping others who may find themselves struggling in life.
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Martin Biddle
Counsellor, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
My name is Martin and I am a UKCP & BACP registered psychotherapist and trainee supervisor who has worked with adults, young people, couples, university students, families and many others who are experiencing anxiety, relationship issues, depression, trauma, bereavement and loss and concerns about anger management or emotional regulation. Maybe you are feeling stressed-out or anxious or are struggling at work, college or university, or you are overthinking, having panic attacks or relationship issues? Or you need some sexual health counselling or you are a couple who need some support? Talk with me in a safe non-judgemental space.
My name is Martin and I am a UKCP & BACP registered psychotherapist and trainee supervisor who has worked with adults, young people, couples, university students, families and many others who are experiencing anxiety, relationship issues, depression, trauma, bereavement and loss and concerns about anger management or emotional regulation. Maybe you are feeling stressed-out or anxious or are struggling at work, college or university, or you are overthinking, having panic attacks or relationship issues? Or you need some sexual health counselling or you are a couple who need some support? Talk with me in a safe non-judgemental space.
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Gemma Smithson
Counsellor, MSc, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG7
Hi, I’m Gem, I see clients in-person in Nottingham and online UK-wide. We are complex beings - I believe our past, our here-and-now circumstances, and the wider world we live in are all interconnected. Together they shape us, and the struggles and questions we bring to counselling. There may be experiences from your past causing ongoing distress, patterns you notice repeating, anxieties or overwhelming feelings that are hard to soothe. My practice is grounded in conversation and collaboration, and may include creative and body-focused approaches depending on what works for you.
Hi, I’m Gem, I see clients in-person in Nottingham and online UK-wide. We are complex beings - I believe our past, our here-and-now circumstances, and the wider world we live in are all interconnected. Together they shape us, and the struggles and questions we bring to counselling. There may be experiences from your past causing ongoing distress, patterns you notice repeating, anxieties or overwhelming feelings that are hard to soothe. My practice is grounded in conversation and collaboration, and may include creative and body-focused approaches depending on what works for you.
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Horizon Oak Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
Hi, my name is Chinedu Agu. I am a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist. Adopting a holistic stance, my training allows me to blend different techniques and theories for a bespoke or tailor-made approach to suit your problems. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where you can feel free to find your own path and discover your goals.
Hi, my name is Chinedu Agu. I am a humanistic and integrative psychotherapist. Adopting a holistic stance, my training allows me to blend different techniques and theories for a bespoke or tailor-made approach to suit your problems. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space where you can feel free to find your own path and discover your goals.
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Tracy Rowberry
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG4
Working with clients who feel confused, conflicted or unhappy about who they are, is an area of therapy I am drawn to. Whether as a result of birth; life choice; changes in circumstances or life stage; labelling or perceptions by others; or unresolved events from their past, this can feel an isolating, anxiety- inducing, unsettling and distressing time, it can also feel difficult to stop feeling negatively about yourself, feeling you're to blame. I get it, I really do. I can provide a non-judgemental space for you to explore your inner thoughts, worries, or beliefs that are making life difficult to cope with. A place you can be you.
Working with clients who feel confused, conflicted or unhappy about who they are, is an area of therapy I am drawn to. Whether as a result of birth; life choice; changes in circumstances or life stage; labelling or perceptions by others; or unresolved events from their past, this can feel an isolating, anxiety- inducing, unsettling and distressing time, it can also feel difficult to stop feeling negatively about yourself, feeling you're to blame. I get it, I really do. I can provide a non-judgemental space for you to explore your inner thoughts, worries, or beliefs that are making life difficult to cope with. A place you can be you.
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Robert Hewes
Counsellor, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
Award winning BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor / Psychotherapist. Hi, thank you for choosing to read my profile. My name is Rob Hewes and I provide appropriate therapy or coaching that you need and in a confidential, warm and safe environment. I have now spent nearly 20 years in intense training and development as have experience working with clients in a variety of settings. I am an integrative therapist, drawing skills and experience from various therapeutic approaches. I provide: Psychotherapeutic Counselling. Therapeutic Counselling Supervision. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). Clinical Hypnotherapy. NLP Coaching.
Award winning BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor / Psychotherapist. Hi, thank you for choosing to read my profile. My name is Rob Hewes and I provide appropriate therapy or coaching that you need and in a confidential, warm and safe environment. I have now spent nearly 20 years in intense training and development as have experience working with clients in a variety of settings. I am an integrative therapist, drawing skills and experience from various therapeutic approaches. I provide: Psychotherapeutic Counselling. Therapeutic Counselling Supervision. Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). Clinical Hypnotherapy. NLP Coaching.
0115 697 1698 View 0115 697 1698
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Vesna Pivcevic
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG3
I am a professionally trained and qualified person-centred counsellor supporting clients with a wide range of issues. Reaching out for help can feel like a big step so I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to help you to make your decision. Being able to talk about everything that matters to you and feeling truly heard and understood, can help you to ease your burdens and feel able to cope again. I offer both long and short-term counselling, face to face or online.
I am a professionally trained and qualified person-centred counsellor supporting clients with a wide range of issues. Reaching out for help can feel like a big step so I offer a free 15-minute phone consultation to help you to make your decision. Being able to talk about everything that matters to you and feeling truly heard and understood, can help you to ease your burdens and feel able to cope again. I offer both long and short-term counselling, face to face or online.
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Naheed Chowdhery Relationships Anxiety-Stress-Female-Self-Esteem
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG1
Welcome, my name is Naheed and I am a Humanistic Integrative therapist, working from Nottingham, in-person, and online. We can all experience dissatisfaction within our relationships at some period within our lives. Sometimes we need support to understand what we are feeling and struggle with anxiety and depression or feel trapped. I am committed to providing support within a safe, empathic and confidential space where you can explore your experience with respect and understanding. I have an in-depth understanding of the experiences of being a daughter, sister, mother, wife or friend and can offer fresh insight to familiar patterns.
Welcome, my name is Naheed and I am a Humanistic Integrative therapist, working from Nottingham, in-person, and online. We can all experience dissatisfaction within our relationships at some period within our lives. Sometimes we need support to understand what we are feeling and struggle with anxiety and depression or feel trapped. I am committed to providing support within a safe, empathic and confidential space where you can explore your experience with respect and understanding. I have an in-depth understanding of the experiences of being a daughter, sister, mother, wife or friend and can offer fresh insight to familiar patterns.
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Lorna Eatherington Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG5
Hi, I'm Lorna and thank you for reading my profile. Counselling can be helpful for so many reasons. We all have a lot to deal with, from relationships, family issues and stress - to worries about life in general. Perhaps you have low Self-esteem or feel anxious. Maybe you're struggling in your relationships with others.
Hi, I'm Lorna and thank you for reading my profile. Counselling can be helpful for so many reasons. We all have a lot to deal with, from relationships, family issues and stress - to worries about life in general. Perhaps you have low Self-esteem or feel anxious. Maybe you're struggling in your relationships with others.
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Claire Kleynhans
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Nottingham NG5
Welcome, I am a degree qualified Humanistic and Integrative psychotherapist. If you would like to gain a deeper understanding and awareness of yourself, your relationships or the difficulties you experience then we can work together to explore these and find a way forward. I believe our early experiences shape our beliefs about ourselves, others and the world and sometimes, because of these experiences we can take on unhealthy thoughts and behaviours to help us cope with whatever we are going through
Welcome, I am a degree qualified Humanistic and Integrative psychotherapist. If you would like to gain a deeper understanding and awareness of yourself, your relationships or the difficulties you experience then we can work together to explore these and find a way forward. I believe our early experiences shape our beliefs about ourselves, others and the world and sometimes, because of these experiences we can take on unhealthy thoughts and behaviours to help us cope with whatever we are going through
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Sara Badr-Andrews
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG9
I am based in Beeston, Nottingham. It easily accessible by car, bus and tram. Things can throw us off course and we can lose ourselves and need support through difficult times. It may just be that you need someone to talk to about what’s going on for you. I can help you by offering a warm and safe space where you will be fully listened to and can explore your emotional difficulties without judgement and at a pace that suits you.
I am based in Beeston, Nottingham. It easily accessible by car, bus and tram. Things can throw us off course and we can lose ourselves and need support through difficult times. It may just be that you need someone to talk to about what’s going on for you. I can help you by offering a warm and safe space where you will be fully listened to and can explore your emotional difficulties without judgement and at a pace that suits you.
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Abi Mohtady
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG7
Hi! I’m Abi, and I am a Relational Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor. Therapy offers us a space to explore current processes, and how they may be linked to the past. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-worth, or other trauma-related difficulties, I am here for you. My practice is a cosy room, located in Nottingham. Here we can explore, processing the parts of you, perhaps gaining a better understanding of yourself and how you want to move forwards. Sometimes life can be hard and it is my wish to be here for you when it is, tackling the bad, whilst working on feeling the good.
Hi! I’m Abi, and I am a Relational Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor. Therapy offers us a space to explore current processes, and how they may be linked to the past. Whether you are experiencing anxiety, depression, low self-worth, or other trauma-related difficulties, I am here for you. My practice is a cosy room, located in Nottingham. Here we can explore, processing the parts of you, perhaps gaining a better understanding of yourself and how you want to move forwards. Sometimes life can be hard and it is my wish to be here for you when it is, tackling the bad, whilst working on feeling the good.
0115 647 3294 View 0115 647 3294
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Janine Piccierella
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Nottingham NG1
Hello, my name is Janine. I am a qualified Psychotherapist, with UKCP Reg. MBACP Accreditation and a qualified Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapist. I have been working in the field of Psychotherapy for 19 years and EMDR for nine years both in the NHS and in private practice.
Hello, my name is Janine. I am a qualified Psychotherapist, with UKCP Reg. MBACP Accreditation and a qualified Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR) Therapist. I have been working in the field of Psychotherapy for 19 years and EMDR for nine years both in the NHS and in private practice.
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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.