Gottman Method Counselling in North West London, London

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Tara Gallagher. Talking Therapy. Emdr. Couples Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North West London, London NW3
Using therapies like Psychodynamic, CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method, sessions are tailored to each client to foster positive change.
Since 2009, I've been committed to supporting clients in their healing journey by offering talking therapy and conducting over 4000 successful EMDR sessions. Specialised training with Esther Perel enriches my marriage counselling approach, exploring issues like freedom versus security, struggles with intimacy and connection, emotional shutdowns, conflicts over finances and recurring arguments. In therapy, we start by understanding your story's narrative. We unravel underlying beliefs like "I'm not good enough," "It's my fault," and "I'm unsafe." Together, we collaborate to establish secure attachment and facilitate repair.
Using therapies like Psychodynamic, CBT, EMDR, and Gottman Method, sessions are tailored to each client to foster positive change.
Since 2009, I've been committed to supporting clients in their healing journey by offering talking therapy and conducting over 4000 successful EMDR sessions. Specialised training with Esther Perel enriches my marriage counselling approach, exploring issues like freedom versus security, struggles with intimacy and connection, emotional shutdowns, conflicts over finances and recurring arguments. In therapy, we start by understanding your story's narrative. We unravel underlying beliefs like "I'm not good enough," "It's my fault," and "I'm unsafe." Together, we collaborate to establish secure attachment and facilitate repair.
020 4538 7154 View 020 4538 7154
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Alison Edwards Therapy, Coaching and Supervision
Psychologist, MSc, FMBPsS
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW3  (Online Only)
I'm experienced in several therapies, including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Compassion Focused Therapy, ACT (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy), mindfulness, person-centred counselling, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Choosing a therapist can be a stressful process, and it's difficult to decide which kind of therapy to try. Many people find it helpful to work with a therapist who has trained in more than one therapy, who can switch to a different therapy when needed, and who can tailor sessions according to your needs. You can have a phone consultation with me to discuss what you are looking for and ask questions. 16 years experience in supporting neurodivergent clients (with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyspraxia or other difficulties) led me to further training in autism, and specialised CBT and ACT for ADHD and emotional regulation problems.
I'm experienced in several therapies, including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Compassion Focused Therapy, ACT (Acceptance & Commitment Therapy), mindfulness, person-centred counselling, and Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Choosing a therapist can be a stressful process, and it's difficult to decide which kind of therapy to try. Many people find it helpful to work with a therapist who has trained in more than one therapy, who can switch to a different therapy when needed, and who can tailor sessions according to your needs. You can have a phone consultation with me to discuss what you are looking for and ask questions. 16 years experience in supporting neurodivergent clients (with ADHD, autism, dyslexia, dyspraxia or other difficulties) led me to further training in autism, and specialised CBT and ACT for ADHD and emotional regulation problems.
01392 321135 View 01392 321135
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Mina Minozzi
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW3  (Online Only)
Is your child struggling with intense anger or anxiety, friendships, low confidence or school-related stress? Understanding your child's feelings and how to guide them can be challenging, especially if we were not parented that way. As an empathetic and experienced child emotion specialist, my creative emotion coaching approach is tailored to your child's interests. I share valuable social and emotional skills that boost children's self-esteem, develop their emotional intelligence and self-regulation. These tools prepare your child for a successful future and help build strong relationships.
Is your child struggling with intense anger or anxiety, friendships, low confidence or school-related stress? Understanding your child's feelings and how to guide them can be challenging, especially if we were not parented that way. As an empathetic and experienced child emotion specialist, my creative emotion coaching approach is tailored to your child's interests. I share valuable social and emotional skills that boost children's self-esteem, develop their emotional intelligence and self-regulation. These tools prepare your child for a successful future and help build strong relationships.
020 3675 0456 View 020 3675 0456
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Magda Piesiewicz
Psychotherapist, MSc, COSRT General
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW11
I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with an MSc in Psychology. I studied Psychotherapy at Regent’s University and have completed a Post Graduate Diploma in Clinical Sexology at Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology in Cambridge. My prior occupation as a teacher has sparked my passion for further studying of human behaviour and lifelong development. I undertook a two-year student placement in Harley Street, where I had a chance to acquire skills to work with individuals and couples struggling with compulsive sexual behaviour and relationship difficulties.
I am a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist with an MSc in Psychology. I studied Psychotherapy at Regent’s University and have completed a Post Graduate Diploma in Clinical Sexology at Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology in Cambridge. My prior occupation as a teacher has sparked my passion for further studying of human behaviour and lifelong development. I undertook a two-year student placement in Harley Street, where I had a chance to acquire skills to work with individuals and couples struggling with compulsive sexual behaviour and relationship difficulties.
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Ludovica Colella
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW11
Welcome, I'm Ludo, here to guide you on a journey to break free from the chains of your negative EGO story and reconnect with your authentic self. If you're tired of constantly putting others' needs before your own, struggling to communicate effectively in your relationships, wrestling with feelings of inadequacy, and stuck in a loop of overthinking and anxiety, you've come to the right place. I will teach you strategies to set boundaries confidently while maintaining compassion and kindness. You deserve to navigate life with confidence, authenticity, and grace, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.
Welcome, I'm Ludo, here to guide you on a journey to break free from the chains of your negative EGO story and reconnect with your authentic self. If you're tired of constantly putting others' needs before your own, struggling to communicate effectively in your relationships, wrestling with feelings of inadequacy, and stuck in a loop of overthinking and anxiety, you've come to the right place. I will teach you strategies to set boundaries confidently while maintaining compassion and kindness. You deserve to navigate life with confidence, authenticity, and grace, and I'm here to support you every step of the way.
020 3974 2408 View 020 3974 2408
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Re-connect EFT Clinic
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW1
As skilled practitioners specialising in the renowned Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we offer compassionate expert guidance towards reconnection, healing and greater life success. Our practitioners have years of experience working with couples and families to help with a range of emotional, relational and sexual issues. We help them move towards safe and loving emotional connection from being stuck in destructive conflict patterns of attack-withdraw and blame-defend. We also work with individuals (including children and young people) to help with mental health, sexual and relational issues, addictions and interpersonal trauma.
As skilled practitioners specialising in the renowned Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we offer compassionate expert guidance towards reconnection, healing and greater life success. Our practitioners have years of experience working with couples and families to help with a range of emotional, relational and sexual issues. We help them move towards safe and loving emotional connection from being stuck in destructive conflict patterns of attack-withdraw and blame-defend. We also work with individuals (including children and young people) to help with mental health, sexual and relational issues, addictions and interpersonal trauma.
020 3962 0906 View 020 3962 0906
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Meera Moore Danowski
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW3
I am a BACP registered psychotherapist who has experience of helping people (individuals and couples) at life’s most difficult junctions. I have worked within the charity sector, with the NHS, and Mind. I provide a safe, confidential and inclusive space; a space that is 100% judgement free. Psychotherapy is a personal journey; there is no one size fits all. I believe it is possible heal from the past, improve your relationships with others, learn to be kinder to you and say goodbye to destructive behaviours. I can help you find ways to cope with the ups and downs and feel empowered to live the best life you can.
I am a BACP registered psychotherapist who has experience of helping people (individuals and couples) at life’s most difficult junctions. I have worked within the charity sector, with the NHS, and Mind. I provide a safe, confidential and inclusive space; a space that is 100% judgement free. Psychotherapy is a personal journey; there is no one size fits all. I believe it is possible heal from the past, improve your relationships with others, learn to be kinder to you and say goodbye to destructive behaviours. I can help you find ways to cope with the ups and downs and feel empowered to live the best life you can.
020 4572 0101 View 020 4572 0101
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Anicca Moxley-Wyles (Online Practice)
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW4  (Online Only)
I offer a non-judgemental, safe environment to help you understand yourself and your life. Counselling can support you to find your own insights, new ways of being with yourself and others, and work towards healing and freedom. It can be a space to get things off your chest, rest or reset, find perspective and understanding in life and relationships, as well as having someone to really hear and be with you as you share and explore what is difficult. My practice is informed by Buddhist philosophy and meditation, which I have been exploring and supporting others with for over 15 years, emphasising embodied awareness and compassion.
I offer a non-judgemental, safe environment to help you understand yourself and your life. Counselling can support you to find your own insights, new ways of being with yourself and others, and work towards healing and freedom. It can be a space to get things off your chest, rest or reset, find perspective and understanding in life and relationships, as well as having someone to really hear and be with you as you share and explore what is difficult. My practice is informed by Buddhist philosophy and meditation, which I have been exploring and supporting others with for over 15 years, emphasising embodied awareness and compassion.
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Flying Couch - Therapy At Home
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW1
Combat Zoom fatigue and long commutes to your therapists' office by having therapy in the comfort and privacy of your own home. Our therapists are DBS checked, accredited and fully insured. We support people with anxiety, depression, trauma and PTSD, couple and relationship issues, family issues (including parenting and infertility), workplace stress, grief and loss, chronic illness and disability and much more. We travel across London (Zones 1-5) and we’re open between 7am-8pm Monday-Sunday.
Combat Zoom fatigue and long commutes to your therapists' office by having therapy in the comfort and privacy of your own home. Our therapists are DBS checked, accredited and fully insured. We support people with anxiety, depression, trauma and PTSD, couple and relationship issues, family issues (including parenting and infertility), workplace stress, grief and loss, chronic illness and disability and much more. We travel across London (Zones 1-5) and we’re open between 7am-8pm Monday-Sunday.
020 3978 0143 View 020 3978 0143
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Patricia Canal
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW8
I specialize in women's mental health, combining evidenced-based interventions with a holistic health approach and a non-judgmental environment. I can help you with: low mood and sadness, feelings of stress and anxiety, low self-worth or negative body image, relationship issues with partner, family or friends, fertility and pregnancy difficulties, motherhood & caregiving challenges, trauma from domestic violence, sexual abuse, etc. sexual problems such as lack of desire or difficulty reaching orgasm, challenges with hormone-related conditions including PMS, PMDD, PCOS and menopause.
I specialize in women's mental health, combining evidenced-based interventions with a holistic health approach and a non-judgmental environment. I can help you with: low mood and sadness, feelings of stress and anxiety, low self-worth or negative body image, relationship issues with partner, family or friends, fertility and pregnancy difficulties, motherhood & caregiving challenges, trauma from domestic violence, sexual abuse, etc. sexual problems such as lack of desire or difficulty reaching orgasm, challenges with hormone-related conditions including PMS, PMDD, PCOS and menopause.
020 4538 4856 View 020 4538 4856
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Julie Anne Lacy
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW1  (Online Only)
I’m a creative, holistic practitioner with 25 years experience. I use a bespoke approach where you're offered treatment specific to your needs and goals, and I draw on many modalities. These include arts therapies, compassion focussed, positive psychology, CBT, depth psychology and psychoanalysis. Your journey is unique, and my role as your psychotherapist is to provide opportunity for you to gain insight about your challenges, work through them at a pace that's comfortable for you, and find healing solutions so you can make different, authentic life choices. I work in a trauma informed model and also consider ancestral legacies.
I’m a creative, holistic practitioner with 25 years experience. I use a bespoke approach where you're offered treatment specific to your needs and goals, and I draw on many modalities. These include arts therapies, compassion focussed, positive psychology, CBT, depth psychology and psychoanalysis. Your journey is unique, and my role as your psychotherapist is to provide opportunity for you to gain insight about your challenges, work through them at a pace that's comfortable for you, and find healing solutions so you can make different, authentic life choices. I work in a trauma informed model and also consider ancestral legacies.
020 3879 4797 View 020 3879 4797
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Randi Levinson
MA
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW8  (Online Only)
Long Term Relationships, Marriage, and Intimacy are my areas of passion. I have been in private practice for nearly 16 years. Those of us who are in relationships understand the complexities and hardships that come along with trying to maintain love, closeness and intimacy.
Long Term Relationships, Marriage, and Intimacy are my areas of passion. I have been in private practice for nearly 16 years. Those of us who are in relationships understand the complexities and hardships that come along with trying to maintain love, closeness and intimacy.
020 3476 9614 View 020 3476 9614
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Melike Guray
MBBS
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW9
I can help you if you are feeling overwhelmed by the complexities of life. You might be grappling with challenges such as anxiety, depression, or relationship issues. You seek a way out of your emotional and mental struggles, yearning to realize your true potential. Your deepest desire is to cultivate healthier and more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, ultimately leading a more fulfilling life. Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), you aim to reconstruct your thoughts and emotions, enhancing your self-confidence and resilience. For you, CBT is a crucial tool in your journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
I can help you if you are feeling overwhelmed by the complexities of life. You might be grappling with challenges such as anxiety, depression, or relationship issues. You seek a way out of your emotional and mental struggles, yearning to realize your true potential. Your deepest desire is to cultivate healthier and more meaningful relationships with yourself and others, ultimately leading a more fulfilling life. Through Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), you aim to reconstruct your thoughts and emotions, enhancing your self-confidence and resilience. For you, CBT is a crucial tool in your journey of self-discovery and empowerment.
020 3772 3393 View 020 3772 3393
Photo of Nevena Curcic, PhD, MBACP, Counsellor
Nevena Curcic
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Verified Verified
North West London, London NW1
Experiencing anxiety, depression, problems in relationships or some more elusive trouble that is difficult to name? There are many situations that prompt people to seek help when they encounter a problem in living and struggle to find a way through confusion and emotional suffering. Talking things trough helps. As a therapist, my primary concern is to create a warm and respectful relationship that would provide support as well as encourage you to express your feelings and reflect upon what is going on for you. Rather than being a neutral observer, I seek to involve myself in your effort to deal with your distress.
Experiencing anxiety, depression, problems in relationships or some more elusive trouble that is difficult to name? There are many situations that prompt people to seek help when they encounter a problem in living and struggle to find a way through confusion and emotional suffering. Talking things trough helps. As a therapist, my primary concern is to create a warm and respectful relationship that would provide support as well as encourage you to express your feelings and reflect upon what is going on for you. Rather than being a neutral observer, I seek to involve myself in your effort to deal with your distress.
01748 901328 View 01748 901328
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Dagmar Salamonova-Clark
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North West London, London NW1  (Online Only)
I am an experienced therapist with 6 years experience in the NHS and 15 years of clinical practice. I have been privileged to work with hundreds of clients from various walks of life. From teenagers to elderly, and with people across the whole socio-economic spectrum. I am a passionate advocate for wellbeing and a life rich with meaning. Yes we can overcome adversities enriched by transformation and growth. My approach which both; places my clients at the heart of what I do, yet challenges them at the key moments to promote a change.
I am an experienced therapist with 6 years experience in the NHS and 15 years of clinical practice. I have been privileged to work with hundreds of clients from various walks of life. From teenagers to elderly, and with people across the whole socio-economic spectrum. I am a passionate advocate for wellbeing and a life rich with meaning. Yes we can overcome adversities enriched by transformation and growth. My approach which both; places my clients at the heart of what I do, yet challenges them at the key moments to promote a change.
01273 092762 View 01273 092762

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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.