Transgender Counselling in Lancing

Photo of Margaret Louden-Gray Yarlett, MBACP, Counsellor
Margaret Louden-Gray Yarlett
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Lancing BN15
Are you waking up every day filled with hopelessness and dread? Have you had your life devastated by a recent event that came out of the blue or perhaps you are caught in a toxic relationship with no escape and can't plan for your future? No matter how painful the experience, I am happy to listen to you and together we will find a way to resolve your troubles. I have a wide expanse of life experience and I will offer you a nonjudgmental, down-to-earth approach to any situation. There is no subject I can not listen to and I will always do my utmost to support your needs.
Are you waking up every day filled with hopelessness and dread? Have you had your life devastated by a recent event that came out of the blue or perhaps you are caught in a toxic relationship with no escape and can't plan for your future? No matter how painful the experience, I am happy to listen to you and together we will find a way to resolve your troubles. I have a wide expanse of life experience and I will offer you a nonjudgmental, down-to-earth approach to any situation. There is no subject I can not listen to and I will always do my utmost to support your needs.
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Photo of Rob Rhodes-Kubiak, PhD, MBACP, Counsellor
Rob Rhodes-Kubiak
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP
Verified Verified
Lancing BN15
Whatever you are struggling with, whatever is on your mind, whatever is causing you difficulty - I am here to help. Whether it be relationship issues, mental health, stress, work or family - or indeed something else - please contact me and we can talk it through. I have experience, training and qualifications in working with many different people and different issues. Counselling with me will provide you with the space to talk, share, and work through your difficulties and the possible solutions together.
Whatever you are struggling with, whatever is on your mind, whatever is causing you difficulty - I am here to help. Whether it be relationship issues, mental health, stress, work or family - or indeed something else - please contact me and we can talk it through. I have experience, training and qualifications in working with many different people and different issues. Counselling with me will provide you with the space to talk, share, and work through your difficulties and the possible solutions together.
01903 947228 View 01903 947228
Photo of Malcolm David Bateup - MB Counselling, PsychD, MNCPS Acc., Psychotherapist
MB Counselling
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Lancing BN15
Hello I am Malcolm Bateup from MB Counselling Services. I provide both 1.1 and couples counselling using an integrative approach that enables individuals and couples to move forward from being stuck by difficult and complex experiences that have happened out of their control in their lives. Due to the pandemic after carrying out a covid risk assessment I have made an ethical decision to provide specialist video link to enable everyone to feel safe rather than my treatment room. If you would like to find out more I can be contacted through Www.mbc-relationships.co.uk &www.mbcounselling-sussex.com and 07443507711 Take care Malcolm
Hello I am Malcolm Bateup from MB Counselling Services. I provide both 1.1 and couples counselling using an integrative approach that enables individuals and couples to move forward from being stuck by difficult and complex experiences that have happened out of their control in their lives. Due to the pandemic after carrying out a covid risk assessment I have made an ethical decision to provide specialist video link to enable everyone to feel safe rather than my treatment room. If you would like to find out more I can be contacted through Www.mbc-relationships.co.uk &www.mbcounselling-sussex.com and 07443507711 Take care Malcolm
01903 680461 View 01903 680461
Photo of Cat Page, MBACP, Counsellor
Cat Page
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancing BN15
Hello, I’m Cat (she/they), and I’m a humanistic counselling therapist. Contacting a counsellor can be scary, I know, I’ve been there too. I would like to offer a warm welcome to you, just as you are right now. There are many reasons why people seek counselling. Perhaps you are feeling different or disconnected from other people and the world around you. Maybe you feel like you don’t fit in, you’re lonely, or you find relationships difficult or confusing. Sometimes as humans we get stuck, anxious or depressed and need some support through difficult times.
Hello, I’m Cat (she/they), and I’m a humanistic counselling therapist. Contacting a counsellor can be scary, I know, I’ve been there too. I would like to offer a warm welcome to you, just as you are right now. There are many reasons why people seek counselling. Perhaps you are feeling different or disconnected from other people and the world around you. Maybe you feel like you don’t fit in, you’re lonely, or you find relationships difficult or confusing. Sometimes as humans we get stuck, anxious or depressed and need some support through difficult times.
01273 092904 View 01273 092904
Photo of Roz Merrick, MBACP, Counsellor
Roz Merrick
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Lancing BN15
Hi! I am Roz (she/her). I work face to face and online. You may be seeking counselling due to feeling anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, angry, confused, lonely, or ‘stuck’; have unresolved childhood issues or have received a mental health diagnosis. Talking with friends or family you may feel unheard or given unhelpful advice. In therapy, I aim for you to feel safe to explore whatever life issues or challenges you are facing. I follow your lead and work in the way most appropriate to you, helping to provide clarity, address concerns, or work towards the improved self-esteem, empowerment, change or self-acceptance you desire.
Hi! I am Roz (she/her). I work face to face and online. You may be seeking counselling due to feeling anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, angry, confused, lonely, or ‘stuck’; have unresolved childhood issues or have received a mental health diagnosis. Talking with friends or family you may feel unheard or given unhelpful advice. In therapy, I aim for you to feel safe to explore whatever life issues or challenges you are facing. I follow your lead and work in the way most appropriate to you, helping to provide clarity, address concerns, or work towards the improved self-esteem, empowerment, change or self-acceptance you desire.
01903 964770 View 01903 964770
Photo of Rebekah Golds-Jones - Stepping Stones Counselling and Psychotherapy Ltd, MSc, MUKCP, Psychotherapist
Stepping Stones Counselling and Psychotherapy Ltd
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Lancing BN15
Stepping Stones was founded in 2017 by Rebekah, who has over 25 years of experience in working with people experiencing mental health difficulties within the NHS, initially as a Registered Nurse and later as a Psychotherapist, seeing people from a wide variety of contexts and with a mix of different issues and challenges. The team has grown significantly over the years and is now a well renowned service which is a recognised training placement for Counsellors. As a low-cost service, clients are mainly seen by carefully selected Placement Counsellors who are working under the supervision of In-House Supervisors.
Stepping Stones was founded in 2017 by Rebekah, who has over 25 years of experience in working with people experiencing mental health difficulties within the NHS, initially as a Registered Nurse and later as a Psychotherapist, seeing people from a wide variety of contexts and with a mix of different issues and challenges. The team has grown significantly over the years and is now a well renowned service which is a recognised training placement for Counsellors. As a low-cost service, clients are mainly seen by carefully selected Placement Counsellors who are working under the supervision of In-House Supervisors.
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Photo of Susanne Barthelmes, MA, MBACP, Counsellor
Susanne Barthelmes
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Lancing BN15
I offer in-person, online and phone counselling in a warm, non-judgemental, and accepting atmosphere, where you can explore what’s going on, and find your way forward. At some stage in our lives we may hit a low point or crisis. Depression, anxiety, traumatic experiences, separation, bereavement, illness, self-esteem, relationship, identity, and work-related issues, or other profound life challenges can leave us feeling sad, distraught, helpless, or hopeless. Counselling offers you confidential and safe space to talk. Meet me for a free initial 30min chat before deciding. Note: I don't work with couples or children.
I offer in-person, online and phone counselling in a warm, non-judgemental, and accepting atmosphere, where you can explore what’s going on, and find your way forward. At some stage in our lives we may hit a low point or crisis. Depression, anxiety, traumatic experiences, separation, bereavement, illness, self-esteem, relationship, identity, and work-related issues, or other profound life challenges can leave us feeling sad, distraught, helpless, or hopeless. Counselling offers you confidential and safe space to talk. Meet me for a free initial 30min chat before deciding. Note: I don't work with couples or children.
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Photo of Esme Monir Campbell, MBACP Accred, Counsellor
Esme Monir Campbell
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
Sometimes we are in distress or crisis. Maybe our behaviours confuse us or those around us. We may find it hard to be authentically ourselves, or have confusing and conflicting desires or feelings. We might be struggling with acceptance of things we cannot change, or struggling with self-acceptance. Maybe we are experiencing issues in our important relationships, or simply want to understand ourselves better. Perhaps we are just struggling with feeling down and/or overwhelmed. Therapy can be a helpful space to start with all of this. By providing a safe environment to explore the things that bother us, or that matter to us most.
Sometimes we are in distress or crisis. Maybe our behaviours confuse us or those around us. We may find it hard to be authentically ourselves, or have confusing and conflicting desires or feelings. We might be struggling with acceptance of things we cannot change, or struggling with self-acceptance. Maybe we are experiencing issues in our important relationships, or simply want to understand ourselves better. Perhaps we are just struggling with feeling down and/or overwhelmed. Therapy can be a helpful space to start with all of this. By providing a safe environment to explore the things that bother us, or that matter to us most.
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Photo of Shameem Slow, MBACP Accred, Psychotherapist
Shameem Slow
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
I have a specialist interest in working with people who have suffered or are suffering abuse. Abuse can happen to anyone, any gender any age any type such as physical, emotional, sexual and even financial. I will create a safe environment where it is warm and non judgemental. I will be open and genuine so we are able to work towards growth, change and your full potential. We can do this by talking, or creatively by art or a sand tray, which can bridge what is going on in the unconscious to the conscious to then become aware of what may be holding us back.
I have a specialist interest in working with people who have suffered or are suffering abuse. Abuse can happen to anyone, any gender any age any type such as physical, emotional, sexual and even financial. I will create a safe environment where it is warm and non judgemental. I will be open and genuine so we are able to work towards growth, change and your full potential. We can do this by talking, or creatively by art or a sand tray, which can bridge what is going on in the unconscious to the conscious to then become aware of what may be holding us back.
01903 947009 View 01903 947009
Photo of Jaye Donnellan, MBACP Accred, Psychotherapist
Jaye Donnellan
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Worthing BN11
Hello, I’m Jaye, a Humanistic and Integrative therapist, accredited member of the BACP and clinical supervisor experienced in working with domestic abuse and sexual violence, relationship difficulties, childhood/ developmental trauma and abuse, sexuality and gender identity, stress, anxiety, depression and self-esteem. It can feel like a huge step reaching out for support when you’re finding it difficult to make sense of who you are, or the world around you. If you are struggling to move forward from your experiences I can walk beside you, helping you feel less alone or fearful.
Hello, I’m Jaye, a Humanistic and Integrative therapist, accredited member of the BACP and clinical supervisor experienced in working with domestic abuse and sexual violence, relationship difficulties, childhood/ developmental trauma and abuse, sexuality and gender identity, stress, anxiety, depression and self-esteem. It can feel like a huge step reaching out for support when you’re finding it difficult to make sense of who you are, or the world around you. If you are struggling to move forward from your experiences I can walk beside you, helping you feel less alone or fearful.
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Photo of Dr John Burns, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Dr John Burns
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
I am a warm and compassionate Consultant Clinical Psychologist registered with the British Psychological Society, Health and Care Professions Council, and the British Association of Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies.
 I have over 15 years experience in the NHS and have worked in various positions and different contexts, working with adults and young people. My most recent post was as a Consultant Clinical Psychologist working across three prisons in Surrey. I have extensive experience of providing psychological therapy, draw on the latest evidence, and tailor the therapy to your current needs and presenting difficulties.
I am a warm and compassionate Consultant Clinical Psychologist registered with the British Psychological Society, Health and Care Professions Council, and the British Association of Behavioural and Cognitive Psychotherapies.
 I have over 15 years experience in the NHS and have worked in various positions and different contexts, working with adults and young people. My most recent post was as a Consultant Clinical Psychologist working across three prisons in Surrey. I have extensive experience of providing psychological therapy, draw on the latest evidence, and tailor the therapy to your current needs and presenting difficulties.
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Photo of Tanya Nielson, MBACP Snr. Accred, Psychotherapist
Tanya Nielson
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
Not accepting new clients
Counselling and Psychotherapy can be a space to explore current or past concerns, desires and hopes. You may be wanting to get to grips with an aspect of yourself that keeps tripping you up or is holding you back in some way. You may be struggling with current losses, relationship difficulties, adversity, or have a sense of longing that you cannot make sense of. You may have experienced a sense of low self-esteem/ self-worth due to early experiences of being misunderstood or unaccepted for who you are or have experienced neglectful parenting or trauma or simply need a space in your life to figure something out.
Counselling and Psychotherapy can be a space to explore current or past concerns, desires and hopes. You may be wanting to get to grips with an aspect of yourself that keeps tripping you up or is holding you back in some way. You may be struggling with current losses, relationship difficulties, adversity, or have a sense of longing that you cannot make sense of. You may have experienced a sense of low self-esteem/ self-worth due to early experiences of being misunderstood or unaccepted for who you are or have experienced neglectful parenting or trauma or simply need a space in your life to figure something out.
01273 917443 View 01273 917443
Photo of Abigail Oatway, MBACP, Counsellor
Abigail Oatway
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Worthing BN14
Waitlist for new clients
Working from a shepherds hut, in a peaceful, rural location, I offer both short term and long term counselling. People come to counselling for many reasons, allowing yourself some time and space to talk can help you understand the causes of your unhappiness, distress, anxiety or feelings of disconnection. Being able to link feelings to your patterns of behaviour or ways of relating with others, can help you make sense of certain aspects of your life. Counselling can empower you by helping you make sense of what is happening, deal with painful thoughts, and enable you to make the changes you need to move forward.
Working from a shepherds hut, in a peaceful, rural location, I offer both short term and long term counselling. People come to counselling for many reasons, allowing yourself some time and space to talk can help you understand the causes of your unhappiness, distress, anxiety or feelings of disconnection. Being able to link feelings to your patterns of behaviour or ways of relating with others, can help you make sense of certain aspects of your life. Counselling can empower you by helping you make sense of what is happening, deal with painful thoughts, and enable you to make the changes you need to move forward.
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Photo of Gizele Lebon, DCounsPsych, MBACP, Counsellor
Gizele Lebon
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sompting BN15
Welcome I’m Gizele, I am a qualified integrative counsellor and a registered member of the British Association for counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer one-to-one support to children, young people and adults. I have a wide range of life experience of working with individuals focusing on emotional wellbeing.
Welcome I’m Gizele, I am a qualified integrative counsellor and a registered member of the British Association for counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer one-to-one support to children, young people and adults. I have a wide range of life experience of working with individuals focusing on emotional wellbeing.
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Photo of Mila Wilson, MA, HCPC-Art Therap., Psychotherapist
Mila Wilson
Psychotherapist, MA, HCPC-Art Therap.
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
Whether you are dealing with life transitions, emotional challenges, or simply longing for a space to explore and express your inner world, I can offer a refreshing and insightful path to self discovery and understanding through art therapy. Art therapy uses art making, alongside talking, to enrich communication and to provide another way for emotions to be processed. Art making can enable you to explore feelings that may be too difficult to put into words.
Whether you are dealing with life transitions, emotional challenges, or simply longing for a space to explore and express your inner world, I can offer a refreshing and insightful path to self discovery and understanding through art therapy. Art therapy uses art making, alongside talking, to enrich communication and to provide another way for emotions to be processed. Art making can enable you to explore feelings that may be too difficult to put into words.
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Iain McNulty-Ringshaw
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Shoreham-by-Sea BN43
Hello! My name is Iain and I work as a counsellor on line and in person across Sussex in multiple locations. I have experience of working with all age groups including teens, young adults and mature clients. I am an integrative humanistic counsellor, with the ability (and experience) to pull on other modalities to support the journey of my clients whom I work with in a relaxed, non-judgemental and confidential environment. It is very much us the working together as a team. I have a strong belief in the long-term benefits of counselling and therapy and having experienced my own positive, personal journey.
Hello! My name is Iain and I work as a counsellor on line and in person across Sussex in multiple locations. I have experience of working with all age groups including teens, young adults and mature clients. I am an integrative humanistic counsellor, with the ability (and experience) to pull on other modalities to support the journey of my clients whom I work with in a relaxed, non-judgemental and confidential environment. It is very much us the working together as a team. I have a strong belief in the long-term benefits of counselling and therapy and having experienced my own positive, personal journey.
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Photo of Barbora Koblizkova, COSRT General, Psychotherapist
Barbora Koblizkova
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
I am here to help you understand and address the psychological, emotional, and interpersonal difficulties that bring sexual and intimacy issues. Areas of focus may include: Impact of sexual trauma, rape, sexual abuse or assault; anxiety around sexuality, relationships and intimacy; relationship and communication problems; sex – porn addictions; difficulties with arousal or orgasm (premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction); vaginismus, Endometriosis, Dyspareunia (pain during sex); Loss of desire; Working through the issues that come with a cancer diagnosis.
I am here to help you understand and address the psychological, emotional, and interpersonal difficulties that bring sexual and intimacy issues. Areas of focus may include: Impact of sexual trauma, rape, sexual abuse or assault; anxiety around sexuality, relationships and intimacy; relationship and communication problems; sex – porn addictions; difficulties with arousal or orgasm (premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction); vaginismus, Endometriosis, Dyspareunia (pain during sex); Loss of desire; Working through the issues that come with a cancer diagnosis.
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Photo of Jules Haley, MBACP, Counsellor
Jules Haley
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
I’m a queer person-centred therapist and clinical supervisor offering long or short term, individual and couples/ relationship counselling online and in Worthing/Brighton. I use the pronouns ‘she/they’. I work with adults (18+) who have a range of life experiences including trauma/abuse, chronic illness, alcohol issues, sexual health, sexuality and gender. I work with people from a range of cultural backgrounds including queer, poly and and kink communities, neurodiversity, asexuality, and people who identify or questioning across the gender spectrum. I am committed to providing an inclusive, safe and confidential space.
I’m a queer person-centred therapist and clinical supervisor offering long or short term, individual and couples/ relationship counselling online and in Worthing/Brighton. I use the pronouns ‘she/they’. I work with adults (18+) who have a range of life experiences including trauma/abuse, chronic illness, alcohol issues, sexual health, sexuality and gender. I work with people from a range of cultural backgrounds including queer, poly and and kink communities, neurodiversity, asexuality, and people who identify or questioning across the gender spectrum. I am committed to providing an inclusive, safe and confidential space.
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Photo of Natalie Salter, MBACP, Counsellor
Natalie Salter
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
Counselling is a space solely for you. Your experience of life is unique to you, no one knows how it feels to be you. It may feel difficult to get through each day carrying around how you really feel, whilst being who you have to be. Worries may build up over time and the heaviness never seems to get any lighter. A counselling relationship is unlike any other relationship you may experience with family and friends because it is all about you and there are no expectations on how you need to be. Through our therapeutic relationship we shall explore your thoughts and feelings together, so you may take control of your life.
Counselling is a space solely for you. Your experience of life is unique to you, no one knows how it feels to be you. It may feel difficult to get through each day carrying around how you really feel, whilst being who you have to be. Worries may build up over time and the heaviness never seems to get any lighter. A counselling relationship is unlike any other relationship you may experience with family and friends because it is all about you and there are no expectations on how you need to be. Through our therapeutic relationship we shall explore your thoughts and feelings together, so you may take control of your life.
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Photo of Hazel Joy Mullin, MBACP, Counsellor
Hazel Joy Mullin
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Worthing BN11
Hello, my name is Hazel (She/Her). Do you have something in your life that you want to stop, change or overcome? Many clients have come to work with me because I have experience in working with depression, anxiety, addictions, questioning sexuality and gender, and also relationship work including non-monogamy. I am a compassionate counsellor grounded in the person-centred approach, which believes that each person is unique, and has the resources within us to find the best way forward during difficult circumstances. I offer short or long-term sessions, either in person at my practice Worthing or Goring, or online or by telephone.
Hello, my name is Hazel (She/Her). Do you have something in your life that you want to stop, change or overcome? Many clients have come to work with me because I have experience in working with depression, anxiety, addictions, questioning sexuality and gender, and also relationship work including non-monogamy. I am a compassionate counsellor grounded in the person-centred approach, which believes that each person is unique, and has the resources within us to find the best way forward during difficult circumstances. I offer short or long-term sessions, either in person at my practice Worthing or Goring, or online or by telephone.
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Transgender Counsellors

As a gender-diverse individual, why might I want to see a therapist who is also gender diverse?

A trans or gender-diverse client may want to see a therapist who is also trans or gender diverse because the client may feel safer sharing their experiences and more confident that the therapist will understand, validate, and support them. But trans or gender-diverse clients can also benefit from therapy with cisgender therapists; this is a personal decision based on the connection between the client and the therapist, and if that connection is strong, therapy will be successful.

What if I cannot find a therapist who shares my gender identity?

Therapy can still be effective if a therapist does not share a client’s gender identity; a large body of research indicates that the most important factor in successful therapy is the therapeutic alliance. A therapist can also be interviewed for sensitivity and competence on gender identity and expression to ensure they possess appropriate knowledge and skills. Many therapists have excellent training and extensive experience working with gender-diverse clients, and that expertise can be invaluable despite a therapist not sharing the same firsthand experiences.

How can I recognise a good therapist for working with gender-diverse clients?

An experienced therapist should be able to help clients explore their gender identity and expression, alleviate discomfort related to their gender identity, treat mental health challenges and trauma, address existing relationships and communication with family members and loved ones, and determine the next steps pertaining to nonmedical or medical gender-affirming interventions. To recognise a good therapist, clients can ask about these topics and explore their comfort and connection with the clinician.

How might I inquire about a therapist’s experience working with transgender clients?

Clients should feel comfortable asking therapists directly about their experience working with transgender or gender-diverse clientele. For example, clients may ask about the therapist’s training and education with regard to gender identity, how many trans clients they’ve worked with in the past, and what sorts of matters were discussed. You may wish to inquire how a therapist specifically supports the needs of transgender clients or clients questioning their gender identity. A good clinician who is nonetheless not the right fit for you is often happy to make referrals to others based on the concerns you articulate in a preliminary conversation.