Self Esteem Counselling in Hayes

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Monica Balggan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hayes UB3
My aim is to offer you a safe space to explore whatever may be troubling you in confidence. Whether you are facing relationship issues, work problems, low self esteem, stress, anxiety or just feeling unhappy, my role is to neither judge or give advice but to enable you to draw on your inner resources to feel empowered and in control of your lives. In order for therapy to take place, you must feel able to talk openly to the therapist and have a sense of a good enough connection with him or her. That's why, more than my skills and qualification, I trust my ability to reach out to you in distress and begin therapy.
My aim is to offer you a safe space to explore whatever may be troubling you in confidence. Whether you are facing relationship issues, work problems, low self esteem, stress, anxiety or just feeling unhappy, my role is to neither judge or give advice but to enable you to draw on your inner resources to feel empowered and in control of your lives. In order for therapy to take place, you must feel able to talk openly to the therapist and have a sense of a good enough connection with him or her. That's why, more than my skills and qualification, I trust my ability to reach out to you in distress and begin therapy.
020 4538 2888 View 020 4538 2888
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Zaira Mughal
Psychotherapist, MA, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hayes UB4  (Online Only)
Life is challenging and can feel like you’re on a hamster wheel of pressure, ‘have-tos’ and obligations. The more you do, the more the wheel spins, and the faster you descend into overwhelm, stress, anxiety, and burn-out. I can support you to overcome these challenges, as well as relational trauma and abuse, racial trauma, grief, low self-esteem, and life transitions. I offer a compassionate space for us to explore what you have experienced in life, how these experiences shaped you, and how you can make comfortable changes that support you to live a joyful, balanced, inspired, and fulfilling life.
Life is challenging and can feel like you’re on a hamster wheel of pressure, ‘have-tos’ and obligations. The more you do, the more the wheel spins, and the faster you descend into overwhelm, stress, anxiety, and burn-out. I can support you to overcome these challenges, as well as relational trauma and abuse, racial trauma, grief, low self-esteem, and life transitions. I offer a compassionate space for us to explore what you have experienced in life, how these experiences shaped you, and how you can make comfortable changes that support you to live a joyful, balanced, inspired, and fulfilling life.
020 7078 9411 View 020 7078 9411
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Paolo Di Venanzi
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Hayes UB3
Therapy is a process of growth and self-discovery. Through the therapeutic relationship I aim to create a safe space to understand your thoughts and feelings, strengthening your ability to make decisions and gain autonomy in life. I work in partnership with my clients and I believe a relationship of mutual respect and trust is of paramount importance. I have experience in working with clients suffering with anxiety, depression, trauma, panic attacks, stress, relationship difficulties, loss and bereavement and issues with self-esteem. I am interested in working with people from diverse cultural backgrounds and gender identities.
Therapy is a process of growth and self-discovery. Through the therapeutic relationship I aim to create a safe space to understand your thoughts and feelings, strengthening your ability to make decisions and gain autonomy in life. I work in partnership with my clients and I believe a relationship of mutual respect and trust is of paramount importance. I have experience in working with clients suffering with anxiety, depression, trauma, panic attacks, stress, relationship difficulties, loss and bereavement and issues with self-esteem. I am interested in working with people from diverse cultural backgrounds and gender identities.
020 4538 0046 View 020 4538 0046
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Nimi Shallon
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hayes UB3
Psychotherapy offers the opportunity to explore the origins and roots of the difficulties you are experiencing in life today. We will work together to understand and untangle your feelings and behaviours, discovering a better understanding of the lifestyle choices you are making. This process will help you review your way of living, and the choices you are making. You will then have the opportunity to lead a more true and authentic life.
Psychotherapy offers the opportunity to explore the origins and roots of the difficulties you are experiencing in life today. We will work together to understand and untangle your feelings and behaviours, discovering a better understanding of the lifestyle choices you are making. This process will help you review your way of living, and the choices you are making. You will then have the opportunity to lead a more true and authentic life.
020 8016 3495 View 020 8016 3495
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Mehnaz Mahmood
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Hayes UB3
Are you looking for a holistic and humanistic safe space? I am a Counsellor and Psychotherapist who practices full-time. I am also a mindfulness practitioner. I walk along with my clients who want to use their mind and body's self-healing capacity and resources to alleviate trauma and restore natural rhythms. These two modalities allow you to attain presence beyond everyday thoughts and bring awareness to the present moment, alleviating overthinking that causes stress and anxiety. I believe anxiety and stress are caused by fear of the future and thoughts about our past, presence brings you to today.
Are you looking for a holistic and humanistic safe space? I am a Counsellor and Psychotherapist who practices full-time. I am also a mindfulness practitioner. I walk along with my clients who want to use their mind and body's self-healing capacity and resources to alleviate trauma and restore natural rhythms. These two modalities allow you to attain presence beyond everyday thoughts and bring awareness to the present moment, alleviating overthinking that causes stress and anxiety. I believe anxiety and stress are caused by fear of the future and thoughts about our past, presence brings you to today.
020 3974 2957 View 020 3974 2957
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Geeta Sohanpal
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hayes UB4  (Online Only)
Hi, my name is Geeta, and I am a South Asian, Integrative Psychotherapist. I am dedicated to providing a supportive and nurturing environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings. My approach is centred on empathy, warmth, and understanding, ensuring you feel heard and valued. Whether you are dealing with personal challenges, relationship issues, or simply seeking personal growth, I am here to help. In our sessions, you will find a safe, confidential space where you can express yourself freely. Let's talk about what's happening for you, and together, let's work on it.
Hi, my name is Geeta, and I am a South Asian, Integrative Psychotherapist. I am dedicated to providing a supportive and nurturing environment where you can explore your thoughts and feelings. My approach is centred on empathy, warmth, and understanding, ensuring you feel heard and valued. Whether you are dealing with personal challenges, relationship issues, or simply seeking personal growth, I am here to help. In our sessions, you will find a safe, confidential space where you can express yourself freely. Let's talk about what's happening for you, and together, let's work on it.
020 7870 6460 View 020 7870 6460
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Naomi Sherman Counselling & Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hayes UB3
I’m an Integrative Counselling Psychotherapist, with a First Class Bachelor’s degree in Psychology with honours, and a Postgraduate Diploma in Counselling & Psychotherapy, with 3 years delivering clinical counselling & Psychotherapy. I am also a registered member of the British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP).
I’m an Integrative Counselling Psychotherapist, with a First Class Bachelor’s degree in Psychology with honours, and a Postgraduate Diploma in Counselling & Psychotherapy, with 3 years delivering clinical counselling & Psychotherapy. I am also a registered member of the British Association of Counselling & Psychotherapy (BACP).
020 3617 5236 View 020 3617 5236
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Nakita Jangra
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hayes UB3
Whatever may be troubling you, I can help. Our lives are impacted by our history, culture, social circumstances, friendships and a whole host of other factors. These aspects condition us to respond and interact with people and situations in our lives in very particular ways. My work with you would be to understand your life from your unique perspective and help you get in touch with a more resourced part of yourself, which is beyond the psychological and social conditioning, to help you overcome any difficulties or challenges you may be facing.
Whatever may be troubling you, I can help. Our lives are impacted by our history, culture, social circumstances, friendships and a whole host of other factors. These aspects condition us to respond and interact with people and situations in our lives in very particular ways. My work with you would be to understand your life from your unique perspective and help you get in touch with a more resourced part of yourself, which is beyond the psychological and social conditioning, to help you overcome any difficulties or challenges you may be facing.
020 3871 8591 View 020 3871 8591
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Sabrina Khan
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Hayes UB4
Trauma, abuse, PTSD, C-PTSD, ACES (Adverse Childhood Experiences), Relationship issues, Depression, Anxiety, Domestic or Sexual abuse are some of the areas I specialise in. All these issues can impact on your day to day life. I work collaboratively with you during sessions to help focus on how we can use mindfulness and various techniques to manage the here and now while working through and processing your experiences using exposure therapy, inner child work and various techniques I use as an Integrative Therapist. We work at your pace and I help provide a safe space for you to Reflect, Overcome, Strengthen and Empower yourself
Trauma, abuse, PTSD, C-PTSD, ACES (Adverse Childhood Experiences), Relationship issues, Depression, Anxiety, Domestic or Sexual abuse are some of the areas I specialise in. All these issues can impact on your day to day life. I work collaboratively with you during sessions to help focus on how we can use mindfulness and various techniques to manage the here and now while working through and processing your experiences using exposure therapy, inner child work and various techniques I use as an Integrative Therapist. We work at your pace and I help provide a safe space for you to Reflect, Overcome, Strengthen and Empower yourself
07701 371334 View 07701 371334
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Anowra Zahid Hussain
Psychologist, MRes, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Hayes UB3  (Online Only)
I am a Psychologist trained in cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), Cognitive processing therapy (CPT), STAIRS with a background of working with children, youth, and women. As a Muslim woman I believe on an empathetic and non-judgemental attitude is the key where a client can explore his/her inner world for making a positive change. I am flexible in my approach to work with my clients with a positive attitude. Small goals can lead to bigger goals. I help my clients setting up the right goals for themselves. change can begin from inside as well as outside. I work with my clients to make them aware of their potential and strengths
I am a Psychologist trained in cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), Cognitive processing therapy (CPT), STAIRS with a background of working with children, youth, and women. As a Muslim woman I believe on an empathetic and non-judgemental attitude is the key where a client can explore his/her inner world for making a positive change. I am flexible in my approach to work with my clients with a positive attitude. Small goals can lead to bigger goals. I help my clients setting up the right goals for themselves. change can begin from inside as well as outside. I work with my clients to make them aware of their potential and strengths
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Samra Zohaib
Psychologist, MSc, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Hayes UB3  (Online Only)
020 3879 4651 View 020 3879 4651

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duskin2dawn Counselling.co.uk
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
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Are you starting adult hood and finding it overwhelming? Struggling with anxiety, low mood, or negative thoughts which affect you daily? Are you grappling with a recent trauma or loss, unable to make sense of it and feel lost in a sea of confusing emotions Do you battle with self-harm, body image issues or irregular eating habits? I love the privilege of working with young people and can help you process your difficult emotional experiences. My speciality is working with young adults like you, who might be taking your first steps into the professional world or navigating the complexities of various higher educational settings
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Pamela Adeyeba | Find Your Own Unique Voice
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Uxbridge UB10
Do you find yourself not saying or doing what you really want to out of fear for what other people would think? Do you struggle to make decisions, overthink and second guess yourself? Do you struggle to communicate your needs or experience lack of confidence in any area of your life? Do you feel that you have repeat cycles in certain areas of your life and you feel stuck? If so, I can help you work through these. I support you to find your own unique voice, self esteem, overcome long-standing confidence issues and break through those repeat cycles.
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Sheila Ridgley
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Southall UB1
Are you struggling to communicate with your partner, manage arguments, get over a break up or recently discovered an affair? I am experienced in working with couples or individual to help overcome these issues. Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, work related stress, bereavement, or lack of self esteem. I work integratively, which means I use different theoretical models to support my clients.
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Iveta Parravani
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Uxbridge UB10  (Online Only)
Hello, I am Iveta - a qualified psychotherapeutic counsellor. I have considerable experience in working with children, young people and adults. My area of work includes supporting people with mental health issues such as depression, anxiety disorders, self-harm, social and general anxiety, friendship and relationship difficulties, divorce or separation, emotional difficulties, emotional and physical abuse, trauma, bereavement, loss, post traumatic stress disorder, low self-esteem and bullying.
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Dr Aris Tarabi
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Uxbridge UB8  (Online Only)
I work in a safe space where my clients can learn to understand their thought processes and why they feel the way that they do. I then use psychological models, my training and experience to tailor strategies for each individual to help that person to work towards his/her goals for personal change, growth and self-development. My work is goal-oriented and is evidence-based. I employ personalised techniques that enable clients to understand what blocks them from reaching their potential, and then help them to achieve the life that they want for themselves. My experience thus enables me to work flexibly/empathically & ethically sound
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Marta Sadlowska
Counsellor, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Uxbridge UB10
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Olly Hunt
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Uxbridge UB10
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Natasha Khagram
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southall UB1  (Online Only)
I believe we all hold the power to heal ourselves. It takes courage to face our insecurities and discomfort that can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed or confused. You don't have to struggle alone, sometimes we could use a little support. My role as your therapist is to work with your unique process and guide you to reconnect with your own healing energy- So you can start to trust yourself to make the changes you need and achieve your personal goals from a balanced place of clarity and confidence.
I believe we all hold the power to heal ourselves. It takes courage to face our insecurities and discomfort that can leave us feeling stuck, overwhelmed or confused. You don't have to struggle alone, sometimes we could use a little support. My role as your therapist is to work with your unique process and guide you to reconnect with your own healing energy- So you can start to trust yourself to make the changes you need and achieve your personal goals from a balanced place of clarity and confidence.
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Simona Gabriela Bajenaru
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Southall UB1
Have you been entertaining the idea of therapy for some time, or is this an impulse search? Have you asked yourself questions such as: “Why me?”, “Who am I?”, “How did I get here?”, “Is this the rest of my life?”, "Is this really happening to me", "Why does this always happen to me?", “How do I get where I want to be?” Have you or others have labelled yourself as "down", "depressed", "anxious" or "stressed"? Are you worried about feeling a certain way, or not living the life you were meant to live? Do you carry on your shoulders more than you bargained for and feel you can't share with anyone? I am here for you.
Have you been entertaining the idea of therapy for some time, or is this an impulse search? Have you asked yourself questions such as: “Why me?”, “Who am I?”, “How did I get here?”, “Is this the rest of my life?”, "Is this really happening to me", "Why does this always happen to me?", “How do I get where I want to be?” Have you or others have labelled yourself as "down", "depressed", "anxious" or "stressed"? Are you worried about feeling a certain way, or not living the life you were meant to live? Do you carry on your shoulders more than you bargained for and feel you can't share with anyone? I am here for you.
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Self Esteem Counsellors

When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?

When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?

Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?

Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.