LGBTQ+ Affirming Counsellors in Grays, ENG

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Laurent Rowland
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grays RM20  (Online Only)
I am a MBACP Registered Counsellor with over 4 years of experience in working with individuals, and groups of all ages, sexual orientations and cultural backgrounds. I am based in London and dependent on your presenting issues/needs will draw on cognitive, psychodynamic, attachment, and relational theories and concepts, to provide either short-term-focused counselling/therapy or longer-term in-depth psychotherapy. Most of us, will at some point, and for various reasons, experience emotional, psychological challenges which can impact and limit the quality of our lives. Lets us work together in finding new directions for you.
I am a MBACP Registered Counsellor with over 4 years of experience in working with individuals, and groups of all ages, sexual orientations and cultural backgrounds. I am based in London and dependent on your presenting issues/needs will draw on cognitive, psychodynamic, attachment, and relational theories and concepts, to provide either short-term-focused counselling/therapy or longer-term in-depth psychotherapy. Most of us, will at some point, and for various reasons, experience emotional, psychological challenges which can impact and limit the quality of our lives. Lets us work together in finding new directions for you.
020 4538 9037 View 020 4538 9037
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Dawn Nielsen
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Grays RM16
Hello, I’ve worked as an integrative counsellor for 15 years, the last 12 being for the NHS. Whilst I currently work with children and young people and their mental health I have also worked in adult organisations such as Mind, Domestic abuse and bereavement services. I feel passionately about mental health and I am always amazed by individuals strength to go on a journey to make the changes that lead to emotional fulfilment and the life clients want. Together we can explore the areas that cause anxiety, distress and low mood and explore unhelpful behaviours and distorted thinking. I look forward to going on this journey with you.
Hello, I’ve worked as an integrative counsellor for 15 years, the last 12 being for the NHS. Whilst I currently work with children and young people and their mental health I have also worked in adult organisations such as Mind, Domestic abuse and bereavement services. I feel passionately about mental health and I am always amazed by individuals strength to go on a journey to make the changes that lead to emotional fulfilment and the life clients want. Together we can explore the areas that cause anxiety, distress and low mood and explore unhelpful behaviours and distorted thinking. I look forward to going on this journey with you.
01375 803690 View 01375 803690
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Trudi Jane Stock
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Grays RM16
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
Are your anxieties holding you back from living the life you want? Are you exhausted and lacking confidence? Maybe you would like to feel more in control and confident in yourself. I work with people like you and together we aim to make positive changes so that you can start to feel more in control of your life. If you are struggling to understand your thoughts feelings and behaviours then counselling can help you deal with these issues and help to manage the impact on your mental health and allow you the space to explore your emotions.
01375 351988 View 01375 351988
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Julia Kay Counselling and Mentoring
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grays RM17
Are you struggling with life's challenges; have your challenges become overwhelming and unmanageable. Seeking support is a sign of strength and resilience. Do you want to take back control, together we can explore and understand your emotions, thoughts and behaviours. I provide an individualised approach to understanding your emotions and gain an awareness into your difficulties rooted in psychoanalytic, person centred and existential approach amongst many. At the core of my practice is the belief that healing comes from enriching the relationship with self. Various fears, traumas and worries impact the dynamic with self
Are you struggling with life's challenges; have your challenges become overwhelming and unmanageable. Seeking support is a sign of strength and resilience. Do you want to take back control, together we can explore and understand your emotions, thoughts and behaviours. I provide an individualised approach to understanding your emotions and gain an awareness into your difficulties rooted in psychoanalytic, person centred and existential approach amongst many. At the core of my practice is the belief that healing comes from enriching the relationship with self. Various fears, traumas and worries impact the dynamic with self
07460 368405 View 07460 368405
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Karen Tottman-Napier
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Grays RM17
Life can be difficult, and counselling can help explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist. I have over 18 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families, children, young people and adults up to any age. I completed my placement hours at St Luke's Hospice and also volunteered after I qualified. I feel I use my skills to help you explore your difficult times to help you understand your situation. I offer counselling, short term or long term. I have worked with many different issues such as depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts and difficulties with relationship issues.
Life can be difficult, and counselling can help explore your thoughts and feelings. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist. I have over 18 years of experience working with individuals, couples and families, children, young people and adults up to any age. I completed my placement hours at St Luke's Hospice and also volunteered after I qualified. I feel I use my skills to help you explore your difficult times to help you understand your situation. I offer counselling, short term or long term. I have worked with many different issues such as depression, anxiety, suicidal thoughts and difficulties with relationship issues.
01268 214451 View 01268 214451
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Helen Stephens
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grays RM17
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor. This means I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
If you’re struggling with anxiety, depression, low self esteem, relationships with others, feeling isolated or alone in relationships, feeling never ‘good enough’ or battling with addiction this could be due to your attachment pattern. How we view ourself in relation to others and the world around us affects us in everyday life. I am a qualified BA (hons) Integrative Counsellor. This means I draw from different theories such as Humanistic, CBT and Psychodynamic including attachment, which enables me to tailor every session specifically for each individual. I have many years experience working for the NHS and in private practice.
01375 807166 View 01375 807166
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Dr Jayne Griffiths
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grays RM16
I am a Clinical Psychologist and I help people with anxiety to get back to living a full life. Do you feel anxious and have that background feeling of dread all of the time (general anxiety)? Feel anxious and overthink all of your interactions (social anxiety)? Feel overwhelmed and are struggling at work, or find yourself working long hours trying to manage it all (work related stress)? Feel terrified of having a panic attack? Can't stop worrying about becoming unwell or dying (health anxiety)? I can support you to get your life back on track.
I am a Clinical Psychologist and I help people with anxiety to get back to living a full life. Do you feel anxious and have that background feeling of dread all of the time (general anxiety)? Feel anxious and overthink all of your interactions (social anxiety)? Feel overwhelmed and are struggling at work, or find yourself working long hours trying to manage it all (work related stress)? Feel terrified of having a panic attack? Can't stop worrying about becoming unwell or dying (health anxiety)? I can support you to get your life back on track.
01708 983349 View 01708 983349
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Karen Eves
Psychotherapist, MA, BPC
Verified Verified
Grays RM16
Child, Adolescent and Family Psychodynamic Psychotherapist; fully qualified. I have been working with children, young people, and families for 20+ yrs. The young people I have worked with have faced a wide range of emotional, social, or psychological challenges. My experience includes depression/mood difficulties, anxiety/panic issues (OCD), school refusal or social withdrawal, self-injury, substance misuse, impulsivity, defiance, eating disorders, trauma/loss, sexual identity, body dysphoria, and neuro-diversity. Families use psychodynamic approaches when seeking in-depth therapy to achieve long-term change.
Child, Adolescent and Family Psychodynamic Psychotherapist; fully qualified. I have been working with children, young people, and families for 20+ yrs. The young people I have worked with have faced a wide range of emotional, social, or psychological challenges. My experience includes depression/mood difficulties, anxiety/panic issues (OCD), school refusal or social withdrawal, self-injury, substance misuse, impulsivity, defiance, eating disorders, trauma/loss, sexual identity, body dysphoria, and neuro-diversity. Families use psychodynamic approaches when seeking in-depth therapy to achieve long-term change.
01702 908315 View 01702 908315

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Philip Kemp Mbacp
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hornchurch RM11
Are you feeling low? Anxious? Questioning your worth for others and yourself? Feeling isolated irrespective of your social and community connections? You are not alone. Whilst battling these internal conflicts can leave you feeling alienated, and somewhat of a black sheep, my experiences, both professionally and personally, suggest that these are universal of human living. I have worked with a range of such experiences, including depression, suicide ideation, domestic violence, racial identity and various LGBTQ+ issues, including gender identity and expression and sexuality.
Are you feeling low? Anxious? Questioning your worth for others and yourself? Feeling isolated irrespective of your social and community connections? You are not alone. Whilst battling these internal conflicts can leave you feeling alienated, and somewhat of a black sheep, my experiences, both professionally and personally, suggest that these are universal of human living. I have worked with a range of such experiences, including depression, suicide ideation, domestic violence, racial identity and various LGBTQ+ issues, including gender identity and expression and sexuality.
01277 674133 View 01277 674133
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Angela Pixner
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eynsford DA4
I have experience in working with a wide variety of presenting issues including (but not limited to) stress, anxiety, confidence issues, relationship difficulties to name a few, with particular areas of experience and interest including working with grief and loss, LGBTQ+ related matters and working with neurodiversity (both diagnosed and suspected).
We are all unique in our experiences and as a result we all think, feel and behave differently. As part of my role as a counsellor I will always work to understand your unique perspective and how you see the world (and why that is). I will provide a safe space for us to work together, at your pace, to explore any issues you might be facing in your life.
I have experience in working with a wide variety of presenting issues including (but not limited to) stress, anxiety, confidence issues, relationship difficulties to name a few, with particular areas of experience and interest including working with grief and loss, LGBTQ+ related matters and working with neurodiversity (both diagnosed and suspected).
We are all unique in our experiences and as a result we all think, feel and behave differently. As part of my role as a counsellor I will always work to understand your unique perspective and how you see the world (and why that is). I will provide a safe space for us to work together, at your pace, to explore any issues you might be facing in your life.
01732 443321 View 01732 443321
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Michele Lamonaca
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
London SE28
Welcome, my name is Michele. I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist - I help individuals and couples with their emotional health. I have private sector experience as a counsellor and psychotherapist. My focus involves abuse, depression and narcissistic personality disorder, and the specific problems encountered by men, transgender people and women. An initial assessment meeting allows you to see if you feel comfortable with me, discuss what concerns you, ask questions, clarify confidentiality, and determine if therapy could assist you.
Welcome, my name is Michele. I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist - I help individuals and couples with their emotional health. I have private sector experience as a counsellor and psychotherapist. My focus involves abuse, depression and narcissistic personality disorder, and the specific problems encountered by men, transgender people and women. An initial assessment meeting allows you to see if you feel comfortable with me, discuss what concerns you, ask questions, clarify confidentiality, and determine if therapy could assist you.
07723 423681 View 07723 423681
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Emily Turner
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bexley DA5
I'm Emily (she/her), a qualified counsellor and play therapist. I am a registered member of the BACP and accredited member of PTUK. I am currently offering counselling sessions to adults and adolescents (aged 12+). In my counselling practice I have worked with a range of clients. I have a particular passion for working with young people, and I value and listen to their stories and experiences unique to their generation. Through both my counselling and play therapy roles, I have worked with a considerable number of care experienced clients. As well as this, a large number of my clients have been neurodivergent and LGBTQ+.
I'm Emily (she/her), a qualified counsellor and play therapist. I am a registered member of the BACP and accredited member of PTUK. I am currently offering counselling sessions to adults and adolescents (aged 12+). In my counselling practice I have worked with a range of clients. I have a particular passion for working with young people, and I value and listen to their stories and experiences unique to their generation. Through both my counselling and play therapy roles, I have worked with a considerable number of care experienced clients. As well as this, a large number of my clients have been neurodivergent and LGBTQ+.
020 4572 1345 View 020 4572 1345
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Oliver John Whitefield
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
London SE2
Issues I work with include, but are not limited to: Anxiety, Assertiveness, Bereavement, Depression, Existential Issues, Identity Issues, Phobia, LGBTQ+ Issues and Low Self-esteem.
Sometimes life’s challenges can feel like too much to handle alone. At those times it can help to have someone professional to talk to in confidence - I offer an understanding, supportive space in which we can work through lifes challenges together. My approach to psychotherapy is both affirming and challenging; supporting you to feel valued and heard whilst enabling you to move past avoidance and fear.
Issues I work with include, but are not limited to: Anxiety, Assertiveness, Bereavement, Depression, Existential Issues, Identity Issues, Phobia, LGBTQ+ Issues and Low Self-esteem.
Sometimes life’s challenges can feel like too much to handle alone. At those times it can help to have someone professional to talk to in confidence - I offer an understanding, supportive space in which we can work through lifes challenges together. My approach to psychotherapy is both affirming and challenging; supporting you to feel valued and heard whilst enabling you to move past avoidance and fear.
01582 377991 View 01582 377991
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Hu Clarke - LifeTrain
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Romford RM1
I am committed to providing individual and relationship therapy and/or group support in a safe and non-biased environment, where clients can feel free to be open and share any puzzles or dilemma in their lives, knowing that they will be supported to unpack, explore and formulate an understanding, with action(s) for moving things forward. My work is either on an open-ended basis or for an agreed time period, with the ultimate aim to enable clients to enhance and enrich their life, so that they can live a more fulfilled and satisfying one.
I am committed to providing individual and relationship therapy and/or group support in a safe and non-biased environment, where clients can feel free to be open and share any puzzles or dilemma in their lives, knowing that they will be supported to unpack, explore and formulate an understanding, with action(s) for moving things forward. My work is either on an open-ended basis or for an agreed time period, with the ultimate aim to enable clients to enhance and enrich their life, so that they can live a more fulfilled and satisfying one.
01708 987256 View 01708 987256
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Jemma Wilkinson
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Longfield DA3
Everyone's life experience is unique and important and often this can create questions in our minds on how these influence our life and choices now. These may be questions from childhood, trauma based, gender or sexuality questioning, anxiety, loss or a neurodiversity. You may feel that the day-to-day is simply overwhelming or tainted by those life experiences. Sometimes, when those hard times flow into our every day life it may feel that you are unable to be happy, think clearly or feel able to cope. In the safety of your own home (or a space that works for you) we can explore and process this together.
Everyone's life experience is unique and important and often this can create questions in our minds on how these influence our life and choices now. These may be questions from childhood, trauma based, gender or sexuality questioning, anxiety, loss or a neurodiversity. You may feel that the day-to-day is simply overwhelming or tainted by those life experiences. Sometimes, when those hard times flow into our every day life it may feel that you are unable to be happy, think clearly or feel able to cope. In the safety of your own home (or a space that works for you) we can explore and process this together.
07480 736198 View 07480 736198
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Hasan Kurtarici
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Sidcup DA15
Hello, I’m Hasan, a Transactional Analysis (TA) therapist and a registered NCPS counsellor. I offer online therapy throughout the UK and in-person sessions in the Bexleyheath area. I’m particularly dedicated to supporting the Deaf community and individuals with hearing loss, creating a space where you can feel fully understood and cared for. I work with people navigating stress, anxiety, and depression, and I’m especially passionate about exploring issues around identity, including culture, race, and sexuality. I aim to provide a space where you feel safe to express yourself and explore what matters most to you.
Hello, I’m Hasan, a Transactional Analysis (TA) therapist and a registered NCPS counsellor. I offer online therapy throughout the UK and in-person sessions in the Bexleyheath area. I’m particularly dedicated to supporting the Deaf community and individuals with hearing loss, creating a space where you can feel fully understood and cared for. I work with people navigating stress, anxiety, and depression, and I’m especially passionate about exploring issues around identity, including culture, race, and sexuality. I aim to provide a space where you feel safe to express yourself and explore what matters most to you.
020 7046 0181 View 020 7046 0181
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ACT CBT online Clinical Psychologist Dr Phil Lurie
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
London SE2  (Online Only)
Therapy can be a daunting but enriching experience, and I hope that I can help you improve your well-being! I pride myself on making sessions affordable, informative, practical, reflective, challenging, and life-affirming. I will also give you ideas and exercises for in-between sessions, which is where a lot of the change happens. I am integral and compassionate and only offer strategies and new ways of thinking that I would welcome for myself. And I will also include more 'existential' questions about your values, purpose, joy, creativity and connections in your life. Please contact me to organise an initial assessment session.
Therapy can be a daunting but enriching experience, and I hope that I can help you improve your well-being! I pride myself on making sessions affordable, informative, practical, reflective, challenging, and life-affirming. I will also give you ideas and exercises for in-between sessions, which is where a lot of the change happens. I am integral and compassionate and only offer strategies and new ways of thinking that I would welcome for myself. And I will also include more 'existential' questions about your values, purpose, joy, creativity and connections in your life. Please contact me to organise an initial assessment session.
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David Stockwell
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Greenhithe DA9
At times we may experience difficult emotions which we struggle to control. We may know why, or it may be a mystery to us. Wrestling with these feelings may give rise to anxiety or feeling withdrawn and low. We may also have long-standing difficulties, stemming from past experiences, that constrain our lives and compromise our relationships. Abuse, bullying and neglect can have a deep and lasting impact on our emotional wellbeing. These emotional difficulties can affect many aspects of life including sexuality, relationships, family, work, diet and physical health.
At times we may experience difficult emotions which we struggle to control. We may know why, or it may be a mystery to us. Wrestling with these feelings may give rise to anxiety or feeling withdrawn and low. We may also have long-standing difficulties, stemming from past experiences, that constrain our lives and compromise our relationships. Abuse, bullying and neglect can have a deep and lasting impact on our emotional wellbeing. These emotional difficulties can affect many aspects of life including sexuality, relationships, family, work, diet and physical health.
07480 782387 View 07480 782387
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Mark Uchiha-James
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Romford RM1  (Online Only)
We committed to offering quality, low-cost counselling and psychotherapy remotely (online). AYCCP adheres to the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) Ethical Framework and guidelines. Here at AYCCP you can receive weekly therapy for 50-minutes a session. Sessions will be on the same day and time each week.
We committed to offering quality, low-cost counselling and psychotherapy remotely (online). AYCCP adheres to the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP) Ethical Framework and guidelines. Here at AYCCP you can receive weekly therapy for 50-minutes a session. Sessions will be on the same day and time each week.
01375 803711 View 01375 803711
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Sex and Relationship Therapy with Jacqueline Jones
Psychotherapist, MA, COSRT General
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Romford RM1
Problems with intimate relationships, sex, porn addiction, fetish or kink? Have you been thinking about couples therapy? Does sex feel addictive, painful, boring or give you anxiety? Maybe it isn't as satisfying as it was or as good as it could be? I offer practical, highly specialist help for relationships and individuals. I am able to offer a tailored, unique programme using my expert knowledge and research. Why not access support and book a free phone call with me?
Problems with intimate relationships, sex, porn addiction, fetish or kink? Have you been thinking about couples therapy? Does sex feel addictive, painful, boring or give you anxiety? Maybe it isn't as satisfying as it was or as good as it could be? I offer practical, highly specialist help for relationships and individuals. I am able to offer a tailored, unique programme using my expert knowledge and research. Why not access support and book a free phone call with me?
020 3909 9848 View 020 3909 9848

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LGBTQ+ Counsellors

Do LGBTQ-affirmative therapists receive special training?

Yes. Many therapists who practice LGBTQ-affirmative therapy have completed specialised training, either during their degree programme or as continuing education, to learn the core principles of affirmative therapy and how to best support their LGBTQ clients; some have received certifications in LGBTQ-affirmative therapy. Prospective clients should inquire as to a clinician’s background and training to ensure a good fit.

Why might I want to see an LGBTQ-affirming or LGBTQ-friendly therapist?

Queer and gender-non-conforming individuals frequently experience bias and marginalisation in day-to-day life. Working with a therapist who understands these unique challenges, as well as accepts and affirms their identity, can help LGBTQ clients feel safe and supported during therapy—allowing them to better navigate their relationships, mental health, and anything else that they wish to explore during therapy. It is important to note that many therapists can be effective in their work with LGBTQ+ individuals, even in the absence of specific training or background knowledge. The most important component in therapy is the alliance between therapist and client, and this alliance can exist between individuals with very different backgrounds.

How can I find an LGBTQ-friendly therapist?

You may wish to inquire about a therapist’s expertise with your specific challenges or concerns—depression, for example, or relationship strife—as well as their past experiences treating LGBTQ+ clients. Prospective clients may also ask whether a therapist has obtained additional training and/or certification in LGBTQ-affirmative techniques.

How can I inquire about a therapist’s experience with LGBTQ issues?

Prospective clients should feel empowered to directly ask therapists whether they have received training or been certified in LGBTQ-affirming therapy; competent therapists will be happy to explain their educational background and preferred approach(es) to help a client find the best match for them. Clients may also wish to ask how a therapist has treated clients with their particular challenges in the past and what they expect treatment to look like.

Are all the therapists listed in the LGBTQ directory themselves members of the LGBTQ community?

While therapists may choose to disclose their sexual orientation or gender identity in their profiles, the LGBTQ directory features not only those who have shared this information but also those who assert specialised training or experience in providing support to queer individuals, couples or families.