Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counselling in Feltham
Esther Benson
Counsellor, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Feltham TW14 (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Our consciousness is like a small candle in vast darkness; we must not let it go out. Sometimes when we are faced with life challenges, our mind falters like a candle in the wind; we are confused, sad, angry, or agitated, and at times like this we need listening ears to listen to us and help us decipher our experiences to make sense of what is causing these emotional reactions and pain. Sometimes, confusion and contamination of our minds can be brought about by broken relationships, job loss, bereavement, mental illness, toxic relations, racism, oppression, wrong religious beliefs, divorce and cultural influences to mention a few.
Our consciousness is like a small candle in vast darkness; we must not let it go out. Sometimes when we are faced with life challenges, our mind falters like a candle in the wind; we are confused, sad, angry, or agitated, and at times like this we need listening ears to listen to us and help us decipher our experiences to make sense of what is causing these emotional reactions and pain. Sometimes, confusion and contamination of our minds can be brought about by broken relationships, job loss, bereavement, mental illness, toxic relations, racism, oppression, wrong religious beliefs, divorce and cultural influences to mention a few.
Hello I'm Tony and I am a registered member of the BACP, working with men, women and young adults. I am trained as an integrative counsellor which enables me to use various types of therapy appropriate to my clients experiences and issues.
Hello I'm Tony and I am a registered member of the BACP, working with men, women and young adults. I am trained as an integrative counsellor which enables me to use various types of therapy appropriate to my clients experiences and issues.
Hello, I'm Mel , an experienced Psychotherapist and Counsellor working with children, teenagers and adults. My specialism is working with teenagers and young people. I help people struggling with anxiety, depression, panic disorder, anger management, social anxiety, suicidal thoughts and feeling sad. I am an Integrative Counsellor, where I draw upon many approaches to suit my clients including: Play Therapy, Trauma Focused, Person Centred, Psychodynamic, Gestalt and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy( CBT) . It takes courage to reach out and ask for support. So , it's important to find a counsellor who you feel comfortable with.
Hello, I'm Mel , an experienced Psychotherapist and Counsellor working with children, teenagers and adults. My specialism is working with teenagers and young people. I help people struggling with anxiety, depression, panic disorder, anger management, social anxiety, suicidal thoughts and feeling sad. I am an Integrative Counsellor, where I draw upon many approaches to suit my clients including: Play Therapy, Trauma Focused, Person Centred, Psychodynamic, Gestalt and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy( CBT) . It takes courage to reach out and ask for support. So , it's important to find a counsellor who you feel comfortable with.
I understand that seeking therapy can be both comforting and daunting, but it can also be liberating and I commend individuals who reach out for help. Our pain can often be a message that there is something amiss in our lives, and I believe it is important that we listen to that message. Whether you are dealing with a difficult time in your life and need help managing the emotions and thoughts, I aim to assist individuals to better understand the relationship between their feelings and thoughts and explore ways to change maladaptive patterns.
I understand that seeking therapy can be both comforting and daunting, but it can also be liberating and I commend individuals who reach out for help. Our pain can often be a message that there is something amiss in our lives, and I believe it is important that we listen to that message. Whether you are dealing with a difficult time in your life and need help managing the emotions and thoughts, I aim to assist individuals to better understand the relationship between their feelings and thoughts and explore ways to change maladaptive patterns.
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My specialist area is narcissistic trauma recovery work and I have helped many people to go through this incredibly difficult process .
I am a BACP Accredited Humanistic Counsellor (BSc (Hons), Metanoia Institute, London) working with teenagers and adults. I am a relational therapist and I believe that it is the trusting relationship between myself and my clients that is the vehicle of therapeutic change. I work in both long and short term contracts.
My specialist area is narcissistic trauma recovery work and I have helped many people to go through this incredibly difficult process .
I am a BACP Accredited Humanistic Counsellor (BSc (Hons), Metanoia Institute, London) working with teenagers and adults. I am a relational therapist and I believe that it is the trusting relationship between myself and my clients that is the vehicle of therapeutic change. I work in both long and short term contracts.
Hello there. I'm Zoe, a dedicated therapist specialising in trauma, ADHD, BPD/EUPD and narcissistic abuse. With profound empathy and extensive experience, I provide a safe and compassionate space for healing and recovery. My aim is to provide high quality therapy to all of my clients, with a deep appreciation for the uniqueness of each individual's experiences. For some, a therapist is a companion through the challenges of daily life, while others might be looking to face challenges of the past. If you're in search of unwavering guidance and support, free from judgment, I encourage you to reach out.
Hello there. I'm Zoe, a dedicated therapist specialising in trauma, ADHD, BPD/EUPD and narcissistic abuse. With profound empathy and extensive experience, I provide a safe and compassionate space for healing and recovery. My aim is to provide high quality therapy to all of my clients, with a deep appreciation for the uniqueness of each individual's experiences. For some, a therapist is a companion through the challenges of daily life, while others might be looking to face challenges of the past. If you're in search of unwavering guidance and support, free from judgment, I encourage you to reach out.
Over the years, I have gained extensive experience working with toxic and abusive relationships particularly with a narcissistic partner/parent/friendship.
I have been in private practice for over 10 years. I gained extensive experience working in various setting such as Rape and Sexual Abuse centre in Guildford, GP surgery and a Drug and Alcohol charity. Working in these settings increased my knowledge and understanding with working with a variety of mental health issues around trauma, depression, anxiety and addictions. I have a particular interest in working with abuse (childhood, emotional and physical) and issues around relationship difficulties particularly toxic relationships. I offer both long and short term therapy depending on your specific needs.
Over the years, I have gained extensive experience working with toxic and abusive relationships particularly with a narcissistic partner/parent/friendship.
I have been in private practice for over 10 years. I gained extensive experience working in various setting such as Rape and Sexual Abuse centre in Guildford, GP surgery and a Drug and Alcohol charity. Working in these settings increased my knowledge and understanding with working with a variety of mental health issues around trauma, depression, anxiety and addictions. I have a particular interest in working with abuse (childhood, emotional and physical) and issues around relationship difficulties particularly toxic relationships. I offer both long and short term therapy depending on your specific needs.
I help people with a broad range of difficulties, and have particular experience in relationship problems, anxiety, trauma, CPTSD, dissociation, bereavement, terminal or chronic illnesses, addictions, infertility, the effects on clients of the narcissistic and borderline behaviours of others, and adult ADHD. By reflecting and exploring difficult and troubling feelings and experiences I can help guide you through to a place where you can decide what to accept and what to change in order to move forwards in a more knowing manner.
I help people with a broad range of difficulties, and have particular experience in relationship problems, anxiety, trauma, CPTSD, dissociation, bereavement, terminal or chronic illnesses, addictions, infertility, the effects on clients of the narcissistic and borderline behaviours of others, and adult ADHD. By reflecting and exploring difficult and troubling feelings and experiences I can help guide you through to a place where you can decide what to accept and what to change in order to move forwards in a more knowing manner.
I have additional diplomas in;•PTSD,•BPD•Attachment Theory•ACES & CPDs in •Understanding Trauma•Suicide• Work Stress , Fatigue & Burnout•Cutting & Self Harm•Mindfulness •Bipolar, • NPD •ODDisorders & Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships.
Hiya I am a fully qualified counsellor with experience of working with adults & young people from aged 13 yrs. I offer a FREE 15 minute call. I support with a range of complexities such as;•Attachment•Separation&Social Anxiety, Family Reactions to MH •Anxiety, Depression & High-Functioning Depression •Bereavement & Loss •Trauma & Childhood Trauma & Abuse •Domestic Abuse •Racial identity,• Conn Betw Subs Use & Mental Illness •Disability Discrimination •Low Self Esteem & Low Self Worth •Pers & Narcissistic Pers Disorder •Dissociative Disorder & PTSD •ODD & ADHD. I believe that we all have the right 2 speak & be heard in a safe space.
I have additional diplomas in;•PTSD,•BPD•Attachment Theory•ACES & CPDs in •Understanding Trauma•Suicide• Work Stress , Fatigue & Burnout•Cutting & Self Harm•Mindfulness •Bipolar, • NPD •ODDisorders & Setting Healthy Boundaries in Relationships.
Hiya I am a fully qualified counsellor with experience of working with adults & young people from aged 13 yrs. I offer a FREE 15 minute call. I support with a range of complexities such as;•Attachment•Separation&Social Anxiety, Family Reactions to MH •Anxiety, Depression & High-Functioning Depression •Bereavement & Loss •Trauma & Childhood Trauma & Abuse •Domestic Abuse •Racial identity,• Conn Betw Subs Use & Mental Illness •Disability Discrimination •Low Self Esteem & Low Self Worth •Pers & Narcissistic Pers Disorder •Dissociative Disorder & PTSD •ODD & ADHD. I believe that we all have the right 2 speak & be heard in a safe space.
I’m a psychodynamic psychotherapist since 2002. I worked with narcissistic personality disorder, depression and anxiety, eating disorder, trauma and pre-menopausal and menopausal issues. My focus is always patient oriented, holistic and deeply respectful of the individual personality. After a free initial consultation to understand what your goals and expectations are from yourself and the therapy, I will propose you a plan to work towards the improvement of your actual conditions
I’m a psychodynamic psychotherapist since 2002. I worked with narcissistic personality disorder, depression and anxiety, eating disorder, trauma and pre-menopausal and menopausal issues. My focus is always patient oriented, holistic and deeply respectful of the individual personality. After a free initial consultation to understand what your goals and expectations are from yourself and the therapy, I will propose you a plan to work towards the improvement of your actual conditions
I specialise in working with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) otherwise known as Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (EUPD). Depression, Anxiety and survivors and Victims of Narcissistic Relationships.
I specialise in working with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) otherwise known as Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder (EUPD). Depression, Anxiety and survivors and Victims of Narcissistic Relationships.
Tired of NHS waiting lists? Get in touch with me today and begin your therapy journey. I am a qualified psychotherapist with experience in private practice, specialist charities and in the NHS. I believe therapy should be a collaborative experience and I regularly check in to ensure the therapy is working for you. I have experience working with a diverse presentation of difficulties and whatever is troubling you, I can offer a safe and reflective space for you to explore your difficulties and experiences. I want to work with you to help you meet your therapeutic goals and move towards being the person you want to be.
Tired of NHS waiting lists? Get in touch with me today and begin your therapy journey. I am a qualified psychotherapist with experience in private practice, specialist charities and in the NHS. I believe therapy should be a collaborative experience and I regularly check in to ensure the therapy is working for you. I have experience working with a diverse presentation of difficulties and whatever is troubling you, I can offer a safe and reflective space for you to explore your difficulties and experiences. I want to work with you to help you meet your therapeutic goals and move towards being the person you want to be.
Brenda Denise Clarke-Wills Bsc (Hons) Psych (Open)
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
London W14 (Online Only)
I can help with: abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience and the capacity to be with unbearable feelings; personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns that are holding you back, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
I can help with: abuse, anxiety, bereavement, cultural issues, depression, loss, post-traumatic stress, relationships (couples), trauma, low mood, sense of self, self-esteem and confidence. Also, developing resilience and the capacity to be with unbearable feelings; personal growth and transformation; healing from trauma and emotional hurts; overcoming stress, burnout; anxiety; overcoming negative life patterns that are holding you back, developing healthy boundaries; stopping the intergenerational transmission of negative emotional patterns, combating negative relationship dynamics; connecting more deeply with your inner self, etc.
Ruth Ann Harpur
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Worcester Park KT4 (Online Only)
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
The focus in my private practice is on difficult relationships be that in the workplace, with friends or romantic relationships. I work with individuals and couples who are in or have been in relationships where there is control, excessive criticism, contempt or betrayal. I work with people who have tended to be more harmed by and those who have caused harm in their relationships. I help people develop a sense of compassion for themselves, building a sense of strength to advocate for their own needs in a constructive way so as to develop genuine, lasting intimacy with others.
Are you baffled by your relationship with a narcissist? Are you exhausted by the mind games, gaslighting, and deceit? Have your friends grown tired of hearing you talk about the same issues? Don't worry, you're not alone. Narcissists are notoriously difficult personalities. They're sly, conniving, and incredibly devious. Until you've experienced their abuse, it's hard to understand. This often leads to victims feeling increasingly isolated, which exacerbates the narcissist's control and creates fertile ground for further abuse. It's no wonder such relationships compromise your sanity.
Are you baffled by your relationship with a narcissist? Are you exhausted by the mind games, gaslighting, and deceit? Have your friends grown tired of hearing you talk about the same issues? Don't worry, you're not alone. Narcissists are notoriously difficult personalities. They're sly, conniving, and incredibly devious. Until you've experienced their abuse, it's hard to understand. This often leads to victims feeling increasingly isolated, which exacerbates the narcissist's control and creates fertile ground for further abuse. It's no wonder such relationships compromise your sanity.
You may be struggling with overwhelming emotions and have various ways of coping, which are not helping. It might be because of a current relationship or difficult relationships in the past. You may have suffered childhood abuse or been bullied at school. Perhaps you are struggling to cope with work pressures and are experiencing stress and anxiety. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support and empower you in that journey.
You may be struggling with overwhelming emotions and have various ways of coping, which are not helping. It might be because of a current relationship or difficult relationships in the past. You may have suffered childhood abuse or been bullied at school. Perhaps you are struggling to cope with work pressures and are experiencing stress and anxiety. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support and empower you in that journey.
My ideal client feels stuck—whether in their personal life, career, or relationships. They may be dealing with stress, anxiety, OCD, depression, or navigating family or couples dynamics. Some are professionals seeking balance or relief from overwhelming demands. They want practical, evidence-based solutions to move forward, find peace, and develop self-compassion. Their goals are feeling healthy, achieving growth, self-awareness, and balance, seeking transformation beyond coping. I love guiding clients through their journey, helping them find clarity and sustainable change as they thrive personally and professionally. Panta-rei.
My ideal client feels stuck—whether in their personal life, career, or relationships. They may be dealing with stress, anxiety, OCD, depression, or navigating family or couples dynamics. Some are professionals seeking balance or relief from overwhelming demands. They want practical, evidence-based solutions to move forward, find peace, and develop self-compassion. Their goals are feeling healthy, achieving growth, self-awareness, and balance, seeking transformation beyond coping. I love guiding clients through their journey, helping them find clarity and sustainable change as they thrive personally and professionally. Panta-rei.
I have been working as a therapist for five years, working with a diverse client base and range of presenting issues including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties and more. I have extensive experience working with Black and Asian clients, as well as with those identifying as LGBTQIA+ and/or neurodiverse.
I have been working as a therapist for five years, working with a diverse client base and range of presenting issues including depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties and more. I have extensive experience working with Black and Asian clients, as well as with those identifying as LGBTQIA+ and/or neurodiverse.
I am an experienced psychotherapist, drawing on a range of psychological and creative theories to try and meet your specific concern and needs. When you engage in psychotherapy or counselling with me, I listen carefully to you, to help you make sense of and gain a deeper insight into your problems. I believe we are all unique and need different things at different times in our lives, and in you setting the pace of our work together. I see psychotherapy as a creative process, facilitating finding new ways of expanding, growing and adapting to present life or circumstances.
I am an experienced psychotherapist, drawing on a range of psychological and creative theories to try and meet your specific concern and needs. When you engage in psychotherapy or counselling with me, I listen carefully to you, to help you make sense of and gain a deeper insight into your problems. I believe we are all unique and need different things at different times in our lives, and in you setting the pace of our work together. I see psychotherapy as a creative process, facilitating finding new ways of expanding, growing and adapting to present life or circumstances.
I am an experienced UKCP registered psychotherapist and Relational Transactional Analyst. I offer a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space for individuals and couples to explore a range of issues. I work alongside couples to help them reconnect and rebuild their relationship, especially when communication and trust have broken down; where there is conflict or where the partners are struggling with painful and difficult life events. I see individuals who may be struggling to find the right partner or who seem to be unable to maintain their relationships.
I am an experienced UKCP registered psychotherapist and Relational Transactional Analyst. I offer a safe, supportive and non-judgmental space for individuals and couples to explore a range of issues. I work alongside couples to help them reconnect and rebuild their relationship, especially when communication and trust have broken down; where there is conflict or where the partners are struggling with painful and difficult life events. I see individuals who may be struggling to find the right partner or who seem to be unable to maintain their relationships.
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Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors
What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?
Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.
How do therapists treat NPD?
By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.
Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?
Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.
How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?
It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.