Male Counselling in Esher, ENG

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Stephen William Slatter
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Esher KT10
The terminology of therapy is often confusing, but the way I work means that: although whatever has brought you to therapy is manifesting itself in your day to day life, behaviours, thoughts and feelings, I believe that it's roots could be in your past, possibly as far back as early childhood. ​Perhaps you are feeling anxious, or are experiencing low mood. Maybe you have experienced a trauma, or are dealing with a lot of stress. You might have suffered a loss, or simply feel that something isn't quite right, and that you need some help and support.
The terminology of therapy is often confusing, but the way I work means that: although whatever has brought you to therapy is manifesting itself in your day to day life, behaviours, thoughts and feelings, I believe that it's roots could be in your past, possibly as far back as early childhood. ​Perhaps you are feeling anxious, or are experiencing low mood. Maybe you have experienced a trauma, or are dealing with a lot of stress. You might have suffered a loss, or simply feel that something isn't quite right, and that you need some help and support.
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Neil Coburn
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
I am a specialist relationship therapist. I work with couples on their relationship challenges. I also work with individuals who are facing relationship difficulties, and on occasions, couples at the end of a relationship. My aim is always to help people to have better conversations with each other and themselves as individuals, to find a fresh start.
I am a specialist relationship therapist. I work with couples on their relationship challenges. I also work with individuals who are facing relationship difficulties, and on occasions, couples at the end of a relationship. My aim is always to help people to have better conversations with each other and themselves as individuals, to find a fresh start.
01372 679976 View 01372 679976
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Lee Martin Mbacp(Sen.accred)Emdr(Accred) Ma Ba(Hons) Pg-Dip
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10  (Online Only)
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
020 3984 8581 View 020 3984 8581
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Andy Schiller
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Hello and welcome to my profile page. I am a UKCP-registered clinical psychotherapist offering short and long-term therapy in Surrey and London. Most of my work is with clients experiencing depression, low mood or anxiety. I understand that the process of therapy may appear daunting and that the first steps take a lot of courage. I also believe we all possess the capacity to make new meaning of our lives and experiences to ease any distress we may experience.
Hello and welcome to my profile page. I am a UKCP-registered clinical psychotherapist offering short and long-term therapy in Surrey and London. Most of my work is with clients experiencing depression, low mood or anxiety. I understand that the process of therapy may appear daunting and that the first steps take a lot of courage. I also believe we all possess the capacity to make new meaning of our lives and experiences to ease any distress we may experience.
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Lee Martin
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10  (Online Only)
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues, undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues, undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
01895 545169 View 01895 545169
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Peter Adrian Buhlmann
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Seeking therapy may feel like a step into the unknown. I believe it is a respite; a place to re-make a connection with yourself. It can be a safe space to bring difficult emotions and to find some understanding and perhaps discover a way to move forward. It is a different experience for everyone. Your unique life will shape how it works.
Seeking therapy may feel like a step into the unknown. I believe it is a respite; a place to re-make a connection with yourself. It can be a safe space to bring difficult emotions and to find some understanding and perhaps discover a way to move forward. It is a different experience for everyone. Your unique life will shape how it works.
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David Abrehart
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
Finding a good match for a therapist can seem daunting. In consulting with me, I seek to offer you the benefits of my many years' experience with a sensitive and respectful approach.  Whether you are struggling with anxiety or low mood, or feel stuck in a difficult situation, or feel you are not fulfilling your potential, or perhaps have an adolescent son or daughter who you are concerned about, I would value hearing from you.
Finding a good match for a therapist can seem daunting. In consulting with me, I seek to offer you the benefits of my many years' experience with a sensitive and respectful approach.  Whether you are struggling with anxiety or low mood, or feel stuck in a difficult situation, or feel you are not fulfilling your potential, or perhaps have an adolescent son or daughter who you are concerned about, I would value hearing from you.
020 3835 5296 View 020 3835 5296
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Daniel Avital
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Esher KT10
I am an experienced psychotherapist and counsellor working with individuals and couples at my Richmond and Weybridge practices. I draw from a range of approaches including CBT, mindfulness, existential psychotherapy and humanistic psychology. My aim is to tailor therapy to your individual needs and work with you to develop the most suitable approach.
I am an experienced psychotherapist and counsellor working with individuals and couples at my Richmond and Weybridge practices. I draw from a range of approaches including CBT, mindfulness, existential psychotherapy and humanistic psychology. My aim is to tailor therapy to your individual needs and work with you to develop the most suitable approach.
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mikethompsoncounselling
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Esher KT10
The world is a very challenging place, particularly now. We never know what will emerge to test our resolve and wellbeing. When those episodes arise, it is often difficult to understand and make sense of what is going on.I offer a safe and confidential space where we can come together in a therapeutic setting to work through matters which are affecting you. Perhaps you are experiencing relationship difficulties, a loss such as bereavement or redundancy or are feeling anxious or depressed. It may be that you are struggling to find a direction in life or have a sense that something isn't right without knowing what it is.
The world is a very challenging place, particularly now. We never know what will emerge to test our resolve and wellbeing. When those episodes arise, it is often difficult to understand and make sense of what is going on.I offer a safe and confidential space where we can come together in a therapeutic setting to work through matters which are affecting you. Perhaps you are experiencing relationship difficulties, a loss such as bereavement or redundancy or are feeling anxious or depressed. It may be that you are struggling to find a direction in life or have a sense that something isn't right without knowing what it is.
020 4538 8723 View 020 4538 8723

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Gary Napier
Counsellor, MA
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7  (Online Only)
Too often, relationships break down because we believe the current situation will not change, and we see the only way forward is to leave. Communication, financial stress, and infidelity, are the leading reasons why couples seek my services for counselling. Both parties within the relationship need to have a voice! Indeed, the need to be 'heard', in a 'safe space', is often the 'game changer' for many couples. In addition, my clients receive relevant exercises and tools, to help them revise their thinking and behaviour, with the view to work towards a harmonious relationship. When appropriate, individual counselling is also offered.
Too often, relationships break down because we believe the current situation will not change, and we see the only way forward is to leave. Communication, financial stress, and infidelity, are the leading reasons why couples seek my services for counselling. Both parties within the relationship need to have a voice! Indeed, the need to be 'heard', in a 'safe space', is often the 'game changer' for many couples. In addition, my clients receive relevant exercises and tools, to help them revise their thinking and behaviour, with the view to work towards a harmonious relationship. When appropriate, individual counselling is also offered.
020 3763 8874 View 020 3763 8874
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Lee Martin Mbacp(Sen Accred) Emdr(Accred) Ma Ba(Hons) Pg-Dip
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Claygate KT10  (Online Only)
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
Hello and Welcome, Life has indeed become complex. Many of us are now struggling with our mental health in ways that are no longer manageable. Our past and present hurts, our unprocessed feelings have risen to the surface. We find ourselves thinking, feeling and acting in ways that do not reflect who we want to be. Some of us have Grief, Trauma or Addiction that we just can’t seem to work through. As a Senior Accredited Psychotherapist with a Master Degree and EMDR Accredited, I've seen thousands come through my door, with various presenting issues and undergo genuine transformation, healing and leave with hope for the future.
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Ian John Stevenson
Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
Woking GU21
My primary goal is to focus on the client, their needs and what they would like to get from therapy. To achieve this, I use techniques from a whole variety of therapeutic modes, adapted and tailored to best meet the client's needs. And while I am a firm believer that change has to come from within, some of my approach is more directive to help my clients find the motivation and resilience to make changes in their life.
My primary goal is to focus on the client, their needs and what they would like to get from therapy. To achieve this, I use techniques from a whole variety of therapeutic modes, adapted and tailored to best meet the client's needs. And while I am a firm believer that change has to come from within, some of my approach is more directive to help my clients find the motivation and resilience to make changes in their life.
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Paul Berry (Mbacp)
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Leatherhead KT24
Get help fast! I see individuals and couples Online using Zoom. Finding the right therapist for you and asking for help can be a daunting task, especially if you are feeling anxious and uncertain.  I have many years of experience with a broad range of problems, including anxiety, depression, panic attacks, ADHD, BPD and relationship issues. I offer short-notice appointments, so you get seen, heard, and helped quickly.  You choose a location and time that works for you.  Online is the fastest and most flexible for short-notice appointments. I can offer help setting up Zoom, you can set it up on your phone, tablet, laptop or PC.
Get help fast! I see individuals and couples Online using Zoom. Finding the right therapist for you and asking for help can be a daunting task, especially if you are feeling anxious and uncertain.  I have many years of experience with a broad range of problems, including anxiety, depression, panic attacks, ADHD, BPD and relationship issues. I offer short-notice appointments, so you get seen, heard, and helped quickly.  You choose a location and time that works for you.  Online is the fastest and most flexible for short-notice appointments. I can offer help setting up Zoom, you can set it up on your phone, tablet, laptop or PC.
01283 372631 View 01283 372631
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Sandbanks Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Virginia Water GU25  (Online Only)
We understand that every situation is unique. Every person is unique. We tailor our therapy to each individual. Check out our website www.sandbankspsychotherapy.com
We understand that every situation is unique. Every person is unique. We tailor our therapy to each individual. Check out our website www.sandbankspsychotherapy.com
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Alexander Filmer-Lorch
Psychotherapist, BACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
As an integrative clinical psychotherapist, I offer a personalised approach to support individuals in their journey toward healing and self-discovery. By integrating various therapeutic modalities, I tailor my interventions to meet the unique needs of each client. Clients who come to me are often grappling with complex life issues, including unresolved emotions, past traumas, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and a sense of disconnection. They seek a safe space to explore their innermost thoughts and feelings without judgment, aiming to gain deeper self-understanding and clarity about their place in the world.
As an integrative clinical psychotherapist, I offer a personalised approach to support individuals in their journey toward healing and self-discovery. By integrating various therapeutic modalities, I tailor my interventions to meet the unique needs of each client. Clients who come to me are often grappling with complex life issues, including unresolved emotions, past traumas, anxiety, depression, relationship challenges, and a sense of disconnection. They seek a safe space to explore their innermost thoughts and feelings without judgment, aiming to gain deeper self-understanding and clarity about their place in the world.
020 3985 7614 View 020 3985 7614
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Dr Fabio Massaro
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7
I am a warm and friendly Clinical Psychologist with specialist experience in complex mental health difficulties in adolescents and adults (such as, anxiety, self-harm, low mood, trauma-related problems, low self-esteem, and social isolation). Over the past 11 years I have worked in a number of NHS and non-NHS settings including, child and adolescent generic and specialist services (CAMHS) and adult community and inpatient services, providing specialist assessments and evidence-based treatment to neurotypical and neurodivergent individuals who were at risk.
I am a warm and friendly Clinical Psychologist with specialist experience in complex mental health difficulties in adolescents and adults (such as, anxiety, self-harm, low mood, trauma-related problems, low self-esteem, and social isolation). Over the past 11 years I have worked in a number of NHS and non-NHS settings including, child and adolescent generic and specialist services (CAMHS) and adult community and inpatient services, providing specialist assessments and evidence-based treatment to neurotypical and neurodivergent individuals who were at risk.
07774 721107 View 07774 721107
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Daniel James Thomas-Wallis
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Weybridge KT13
Hello. I’m Daniel, and I specialize in crafting personalized psychotherapy treatment plans to address each client's unique mental health struggles and personal growth objectives. Whether you’re feeling directionless, held back by past traumas, or experiencing strained relationships, I am committed to supporting you on your healing journey. Together, we will explore the root causes of your pain, uncover your purpose, and work toward profound healing and lasting personal growth.
Hello. I’m Daniel, and I specialize in crafting personalized psychotherapy treatment plans to address each client's unique mental health struggles and personal growth objectives. Whether you’re feeling directionless, held back by past traumas, or experiencing strained relationships, I am committed to supporting you on your healing journey. Together, we will explore the root causes of your pain, uncover your purpose, and work toward profound healing and lasting personal growth.
01276 543708 View 01276 543708
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Clinton Raminhos
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Epsom KT18
Living with difficult thoughts, feelings, and experiences can drain our energy and affect the quality of our lives and relationships. We all need support from time to time, and talking with a therapist in a confidential and supportive setting can help us understand ourselves better and consider what we would like to change in our lives or relationships. I work with individuals, people in relationships (couples/relationship counselling) and people who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community.
Living with difficult thoughts, feelings, and experiences can drain our energy and affect the quality of our lives and relationships. We all need support from time to time, and talking with a therapist in a confidential and supportive setting can help us understand ourselves better and consider what we would like to change in our lives or relationships. I work with individuals, people in relationships (couples/relationship counselling) and people who identify as part of the LGBTQ+ community.
07931 390147 View 07931 390147
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Dominik Czekman
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Kingston upon Thames KT1  (Online Only)
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). As an integrative therapist, I utilise a range of techniques from various theoretical models, tailored to your individual needs. I have experience providing short term and long term therapy for adults, children and young adults from various backgrounds and cultures and my expertise can help support those with a variety of concerns.
I am a qualified Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist and a registered member of the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). As an integrative therapist, I utilise a range of techniques from various theoretical models, tailored to your individual needs. I have experience providing short term and long term therapy for adults, children and young adults from various backgrounds and cultures and my expertise can help support those with a variety of concerns.
0121 728 2348 View 0121 728 2348
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Martin Barry Ollington
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sutton SM1
Welcome to my counselling and psychotherapy private practice. I work in 2 practices - Wallington and Eastbourne surrey. Online, around the UK and internationally. www.zoomcounsellor.com www.integrativecounsellor.com
Welcome to my counselling and psychotherapy private practice. I work in 2 practices - Wallington and Eastbourne surrey. Online, around the UK and internationally. www.zoomcounsellor.com www.integrativecounsellor.com
01798 309993 View 01798 309993

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Male Counsellors

As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?

There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.

How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?

Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?

Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.

Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?

Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.