Self-Harming Counselling in Eastleigh

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Doris Prugel-Bennett
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
You may experience problems in daily functioning, be it difficulties in private, intimate and/or work relationships, engaging in self-harming, symptoms of anxiety and/or depression, or have experienced physical or emotional trauma which continuously and seriously affect your life. Experiences from the past and lack of tools can cause emotional turmoil and stress. Purely being human and experiencing fears of the future can push people to their limits. You might have been given a mental health diagnosis and wish to actively be part of your recovery.
You may experience problems in daily functioning, be it difficulties in private, intimate and/or work relationships, engaging in self-harming, symptoms of anxiety and/or depression, or have experienced physical or emotional trauma which continuously and seriously affect your life. Experiences from the past and lack of tools can cause emotional turmoil and stress. Purely being human and experiencing fears of the future can push people to their limits. You might have been given a mental health diagnosis and wish to actively be part of your recovery.
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Cura Counselling
Psychotherapist, MA, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
I've worked for several years as a therapist, having trained after leaving university in counselling and youth work. I have worked with children, young people and adults & can adapt my working style to the needs of each age group. I offer therapy from the age of 10. I strongly believe in the relationship between client and therapist as well as working hard to ensure that the therapy you receive is according to your needs and the way you feel comfortable working. I can offer a flexible service, offering appointments during the day and evenings. I offer both long and short term therapy.
I've worked for several years as a therapist, having trained after leaving university in counselling and youth work. I have worked with children, young people and adults & can adapt my working style to the needs of each age group. I offer therapy from the age of 10. I strongly believe in the relationship between client and therapist as well as working hard to ensure that the therapy you receive is according to your needs and the way you feel comfortable working. I can offer a flexible service, offering appointments during the day and evenings. I offer both long and short term therapy.
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Mand Harris
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
Are you experiencing the symptoms of anxiety or depression? Or perhaps struggling with other significant events in your life such as bereavement, abuse, menopause or the end of a relationship? These are just a few examples of issues that can affect us in many different ways, leaving us with a range of emotions including a sense of hopelessness, low mood, fear, confusion or just of feeling “stuck.” For some, physical as well as mental health can also be affected. Counselling can help you to explore and gain a different perspective of what may be troubling you or causing emotional distress.
Are you experiencing the symptoms of anxiety or depression? Or perhaps struggling with other significant events in your life such as bereavement, abuse, menopause or the end of a relationship? These are just a few examples of issues that can affect us in many different ways, leaving us with a range of emotions including a sense of hopelessness, low mood, fear, confusion or just of feeling “stuck.” For some, physical as well as mental health can also be affected. Counselling can help you to explore and gain a different perspective of what may be troubling you or causing emotional distress.
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Rachel Sowden
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
Are you looking for someone to talk to, explore your experiences, thoughts and feelings? Have you ever found yourself ruminating about the past, or fearful of the future, causing a feeling of stuckness that is impacting your present? Would you like to have a deeper understanding of self, relationships and patterns that may be arising? I am here to help hold that space for you. I’m of the belief that everyone is born unique with their own individual life experiences; I respect that every person has their own story. I strive to create a safe, secure and confidential space for all my clients, to support you towards inner restoration.
Are you looking for someone to talk to, explore your experiences, thoughts and feelings? Have you ever found yourself ruminating about the past, or fearful of the future, causing a feeling of stuckness that is impacting your present? Would you like to have a deeper understanding of self, relationships and patterns that may be arising? I am here to help hold that space for you. I’m of the belief that everyone is born unique with their own individual life experiences; I respect that every person has their own story. I strive to create a safe, secure and confidential space for all my clients, to support you towards inner restoration.
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Dale Fewings
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastleigh SO50
Hi, and welcome to my profile page. I guess you're here reading this because there is something going on in your life at the moment that you're struggling to deal with. Perhaps you're feeling anxious or depressed and you know you're not you, but need some help finding out why and how to move forward. It could be a work issue, difficulties in a relationship or a lack of confidence or self-esteem. Today's world can be a stressful place to live. The Pandemic, Cost of living and Climate Crisies, may all be having an effect on your mental health. The good news is, you've taken the first and often most difficult step; looking for help.
Hi, and welcome to my profile page. I guess you're here reading this because there is something going on in your life at the moment that you're struggling to deal with. Perhaps you're feeling anxious or depressed and you know you're not you, but need some help finding out why and how to move forward. It could be a work issue, difficulties in a relationship or a lack of confidence or self-esteem. Today's world can be a stressful place to live. The Pandemic, Cost of living and Climate Crisies, may all be having an effect on your mental health. The good news is, you've taken the first and often most difficult step; looking for help.
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Jigsaw Counselling & Coaching
Psychotherapist, PsychD, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO53
Does life sometimes feel like a jigsaw puzzle with pieces not slotting together? I am a great believer that we need to invest in ourselves. When life becomes difficult and those pieces are just not fitting, therapy gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself, make you the priority in an otherwise busy life. I have been through such times and it encouraged me to train as a counsellor then a psychotherapist to help clients with general mental health issues and other life difficulties, such as grief and other losses, addiction, sexuality, relationships, domestic abuse and anger issues.
Does life sometimes feel like a jigsaw puzzle with pieces not slotting together? I am a great believer that we need to invest in ourselves. When life becomes difficult and those pieces are just not fitting, therapy gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself, make you the priority in an otherwise busy life. I have been through such times and it encouraged me to train as a counsellor then a psychotherapist to help clients with general mental health issues and other life difficulties, such as grief and other losses, addiction, sexuality, relationships, domestic abuse and anger issues.
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Sarah Callen (Anchor Counselling)
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eastleigh SO50
Thank you for viewing my profile, I'm Sarah! Feeling lost? Stuck? Anxious? Depressed? Experienced a bereavement or trauma? Lowself-esteem? I aim to provide a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space for you to speak freely. I passionately believe, that having someone who cares and holds hope for you in a safe place, is unique and allows for growth and healing. I'm a fully qualified Humanistic Counsellor and believe that you have the inner resources to thrive. I hope to facilitate you to connect with yourself and desires. I believe that self-awareness provides the tools for us to meet our own needs. Free initial call offered!
Thank you for viewing my profile, I'm Sarah! Feeling lost? Stuck? Anxious? Depressed? Experienced a bereavement or trauma? Lowself-esteem? I aim to provide a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space for you to speak freely. I passionately believe, that having someone who cares and holds hope for you in a safe place, is unique and allows for growth and healing. I'm a fully qualified Humanistic Counsellor and believe that you have the inner resources to thrive. I hope to facilitate you to connect with yourself and desires. I believe that self-awareness provides the tools for us to meet our own needs. Free initial call offered!
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Clare Webber
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I also travel across Hampshire, Southampton, Portsmouth and parts of Dorset to peoples homes. I see myself as a multi-skilled counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, and TA counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
I am a qualified Humanistic Gestalt counsellor; I am based in Eastleigh, where I see clients at my home. I also travel across Hampshire, Southampton, Portsmouth and parts of Dorset to peoples homes. I see myself as a multi-skilled counsellor with further training in different types of counselling, including CBT, Solution-Focused, Person-Centered, and TA counselling. I create a strong therapeutic relationship and use my knowledge to tailor the sessions to meet your needs.
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Community Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO53
Community Counselling is built on foundations of humanistic therapy. We offer counsellors from different counties and varied modalities within the humanistic approaches. Our ethos is to provide high quality service to our clients and operate on a social enterprise system, which applies a strategy to maximise improvements in the well-being of disadvantaged client groups. ​CC aims to provide a non-judgemental, confidential and supportive environment to promote an atmosphere of trust, enabling clients to bring to the session what is important for them.
Community Counselling is built on foundations of humanistic therapy. We offer counsellors from different counties and varied modalities within the humanistic approaches. Our ethos is to provide high quality service to our clients and operate on a social enterprise system, which applies a strategy to maximise improvements in the well-being of disadvantaged client groups. ​CC aims to provide a non-judgemental, confidential and supportive environment to promote an atmosphere of trust, enabling clients to bring to the session what is important for them.
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Jennifer Bufton
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
I have over 10 years counselling experience and trained in advanced Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Gestalt Therapy . I offer counselling to adults and young people from a safe secure counselling room in the Eastleigh area. I am a Lecturer in Counselling and an experienced and qualified Supervisor. I am dynamic in my way of working and non-judgemental. If you are looking for help with anxiety, stress, depression, OCD, loss, bereavement, diagnosis, trauma, or other life challenges, counselling can give you the confidential space and support to explore these issues.
I have over 10 years counselling experience and trained in advanced Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and Gestalt Therapy . I offer counselling to adults and young people from a safe secure counselling room in the Eastleigh area. I am a Lecturer in Counselling and an experienced and qualified Supervisor. I am dynamic in my way of working and non-judgemental. If you are looking for help with anxiety, stress, depression, OCD, loss, bereavement, diagnosis, trauma, or other life challenges, counselling can give you the confidential space and support to explore these issues.
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S Maidment Counselling
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
***Please check your ‘junk’ folder for email replies*** I have experience of helping many people on varying subjects. If you feel like you have a lot on your mind, no one to just listen to you, or are struggling to sleep; Perhaps you want to feel more confident and respected or to get out of the rut you feel you're in; Maybe you're not sure ‘who you are’ or what it means to be happy or are finding work or studying boring or too challenging. Lets work together to find a way forward.
***Please check your ‘junk’ folder for email replies*** I have experience of helping many people on varying subjects. If you feel like you have a lot on your mind, no one to just listen to you, or are struggling to sleep; Perhaps you want to feel more confident and respected or to get out of the rut you feel you're in; Maybe you're not sure ‘who you are’ or what it means to be happy or are finding work or studying boring or too challenging. Lets work together to find a way forward.
023 8272 0911 View 023 8272 0911
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Hannah Pollard Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
Hello and a warm welcome to you… How are you feeling right now? Perhaps a little anxious at taking your first steps to finding a counsellor. That’s completely normal. Well done for getting this far! Life can feel difficult at times but if you are struggling, you don’t have to face your worries alone. I believe that people have the ability to solve their own problems, but can sometimes feel stuck and need some help. My role is not to advise but to help you to see your own situation more clearly. We will work together to find the solutions that are right for you. Counselling could be the best gift you ever give yourself.
Hello and a warm welcome to you… How are you feeling right now? Perhaps a little anxious at taking your first steps to finding a counsellor. That’s completely normal. Well done for getting this far! Life can feel difficult at times but if you are struggling, you don’t have to face your worries alone. I believe that people have the ability to solve their own problems, but can sometimes feel stuck and need some help. My role is not to advise but to help you to see your own situation more clearly. We will work together to find the solutions that are right for you. Counselling could be the best gift you ever give yourself.
023 8235 6789 View 023 8235 6789
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Andy Wareham
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
I specialise in anxiety, depression, addiction, childhood trauma and I'm neuro affirming, with experience of working successfully with a number of neurodivergent clients. I provide a safe, calm, confidential and reflective space for you to explore any difficulties you are experiencing. At the heart of my approach is the belief that together we can create awareness of what is causing your current discomfort. I can then support you in making the changes necessary to help restore greater balance and increased wellbeing. I offer a free 15 minute telephone appointment to help you decide if I'm the right counsellor for you.
I specialise in anxiety, depression, addiction, childhood trauma and I'm neuro affirming, with experience of working successfully with a number of neurodivergent clients. I provide a safe, calm, confidential and reflective space for you to explore any difficulties you are experiencing. At the heart of my approach is the belief that together we can create awareness of what is causing your current discomfort. I can then support you in making the changes necessary to help restore greater balance and increased wellbeing. I offer a free 15 minute telephone appointment to help you decide if I'm the right counsellor for you.
01962 587254 View 01962 587254
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Changing Pages Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO53
My name is Angeline, I am a trained Therapist, Supervisor, EMDR therapist (Course accredited by EMDR Europe), Couples Counsellor and Children's and Young person Therapist. I have many years experience in private practice working with adults, couples and young people. I have worked as a trauma therapist . My approach is tailored to individuals as a Humanistic/Person-centred Therapist, integrating other types of therapy such as CBT.
My name is Angeline, I am a trained Therapist, Supervisor, EMDR therapist (Course accredited by EMDR Europe), Couples Counsellor and Children's and Young person Therapist. I have many years experience in private practice working with adults, couples and young people. I have worked as a trauma therapist . My approach is tailored to individuals as a Humanistic/Person-centred Therapist, integrating other types of therapy such as CBT.
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Pamela Sanderson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
I am a fully qualified person centred therapist with over 15 years experience. I specialise in working with clients suffering from anxiety, depression and stress and take great pleasure in seeing clients make progress. In each session, I apply the core conditions of the person centred approach; empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard. Sessions with me are non-directive and non-judgmental, helping to create a supportive environment where you can share your journey freely. Together, we will work through the challenges you're facing and work towards a place where you can feel at ease with yourself.
I am a fully qualified person centred therapist with over 15 years experience. I specialise in working with clients suffering from anxiety, depression and stress and take great pleasure in seeing clients make progress. In each session, I apply the core conditions of the person centred approach; empathy, congruence and unconditional positive regard. Sessions with me are non-directive and non-judgmental, helping to create a supportive environment where you can share your journey freely. Together, we will work through the challenges you're facing and work towards a place where you can feel at ease with yourself.
01962 587307 View 01962 587307
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Tammy J Rowan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eastleigh SO50  (Online Only)
Hello and welcome! I offer confidential, caring and compassionate counselling to adults who want support, direction or new life skills to cope better. I am a UK registered counsellor and use a Person-Centred approach which means I believe in your ability to make your own choices and in your potential to grow. I work along side you to help you develop your strengths and embrace your challenges. I have helped clients over the past ten years with various issues including: relationships, family conflict, depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, sexuality, stress, self-esteem, neurodiversity and mental health.
Hello and welcome! I offer confidential, caring and compassionate counselling to adults who want support, direction or new life skills to cope better. I am a UK registered counsellor and use a Person-Centred approach which means I believe in your ability to make your own choices and in your potential to grow. I work along side you to help you develop your strengths and embrace your challenges. I have helped clients over the past ten years with various issues including: relationships, family conflict, depression, anxiety, trauma, life transitions, sexuality, stress, self-esteem, neurodiversity and mental health.
01962 589974 View 01962 589974
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Jane Gordon
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastleigh SO50
Life is tough, with situations we never believed we would find ourselves in and despite all our efforts we can end up confused about what to do for the best. The longer our confusion continues the worse we feel about our lives and our ability to make positive decisions and make lasting changes . Its a downward spiral that can make us say and do things we regret but we have no idea how to change it all and take back control . We look to others for guidance because inside we feel powerless and can’t trust our judgement and we have lost our sense of peace and happiness.
Life is tough, with situations we never believed we would find ourselves in and despite all our efforts we can end up confused about what to do for the best. The longer our confusion continues the worse we feel about our lives and our ability to make positive decisions and make lasting changes . Its a downward spiral that can make us say and do things we regret but we have no idea how to change it all and take back control . We look to others for guidance because inside we feel powerless and can’t trust our judgement and we have lost our sense of peace and happiness.
01793 286424 View 01793 286424
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Kingsgate Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
I am an experienced BACP accredited counsellor working in central Winchester offering Face to Face counselling, EMDR, and Pre-Trail Therapy. I also work with Insurance Companies such as BUPA, Vitality, Aviva and AXA. I specialise in Mental Health, Addictions, Trauma, Ptsd ACEs and those with a diagnoises of epilepsy. My approach underpinned by Gestalt therapy which can be integrated with a solution focus approach. This approach also gives us the opportunity to work creatively. Our Historic life difficulties and the presenting current climate has seen many people struggle with their mental health and turn to unhealthy and destructive
I am an experienced BACP accredited counsellor working in central Winchester offering Face to Face counselling, EMDR, and Pre-Trail Therapy. I also work with Insurance Companies such as BUPA, Vitality, Aviva and AXA. I specialise in Mental Health, Addictions, Trauma, Ptsd ACEs and those with a diagnoises of epilepsy. My approach underpinned by Gestalt therapy which can be integrated with a solution focus approach. This approach also gives us the opportunity to work creatively. Our Historic life difficulties and the presenting current climate has seen many people struggle with their mental health and turn to unhealthy and destructive
01962 673480 View 01962 673480
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KvLS Mental Health Support
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastleigh SO50
Welcome to KvLS Mental Health Support! We are dedicated to promoting good mental health and wellbeing for people in the Southampton area and beyond. Situated at Royal Mail House, near Oxford Street in the city centre of Southampton, we provide a range of services and resources to help you overcome mental health challenges and improve your overall quality of life. We aim to inspire you to shape your emotional perspective into a healthy and effective one, enabling you to foster a better understanding of yourself.
Welcome to KvLS Mental Health Support! We are dedicated to promoting good mental health and wellbeing for people in the Southampton area and beyond. Situated at Royal Mail House, near Oxford Street in the city centre of Southampton, we provide a range of services and resources to help you overcome mental health challenges and improve your overall quality of life. We aim to inspire you to shape your emotional perspective into a healthy and effective one, enabling you to foster a better understanding of yourself.
023 9431 1844 View 023 9431 1844
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laura Mearns
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Eastleigh SO50
Hello and welcome. I have many years experience working as a counsellor and I support adults and young people aged 13 and over in the Southampton and Romsey areas. I can help with difficulties such as; anxiety, depression, low mood, self-esteem and relationships. I also specialise in childhood and adult trauma. I offer face to face, online and telephone sessions, depending on what works best for you.
Hello and welcome. I have many years experience working as a counsellor and I support adults and young people aged 13 and over in the Southampton and Romsey areas. I can help with difficulties such as; anxiety, depression, low mood, self-esteem and relationships. I also specialise in childhood and adult trauma. I offer face to face, online and telephone sessions, depending on what works best for you.
023 9200 5357 View 023 9200 5357
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Self-Harming Counsellors

How does therapy for self-harm work?

A person may turn to self-injury so that they can distract themselves from their stress, depression, anxiety, or upsetting circumstances. Therapy can address the cause of an individual’s suffering. A therapist can help a person understand why they may want to self-harm and help the person learn new methods of coping. A person may have poor emotion regulation, and treatment such as cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) is helpful for breaking this behaviour. In addition, treatment such as dialectical behaviour therapy can help a person manage their tolerance of distress.

Which therapies are best for self-harm?

Specific approaches used by professionals include cognitive behavioural, dialectical behaviour, psychodynamic, and mentalisation-based therapies, among others. Cognitive behavioural and dialectical behaviour therapies are common approaches for people who have painful thoughts and past traumas. These therapies help an individual cope with distress, regulate emotions, and manage impulsive urges.

Does the tendency to self-harm mean the person is suicidal?

Having this urge does not mean the individual suffers from suicidal ideation. People who want to self-injure look to distract or alleviate themselves from the pain they are experiencing. People with suicidal tendencies want to end life altogether. However, this does not mean a person with the intent to self-harm will not attempt suicide.

How often and how long are therapy sessions for self-harm?

As with any type of therapy, sessions depend on the individual. Clients may see improvement within 20 sessions, at an average of 50 minutes per session, while others may opt for 20 to 30 sessions over, maybe, a six-month period. People, especially those with co-occurring conditions like depression and anxiety, may need to continue therapy for up to 12 to 18 months.