Sexual Abuse Counselling in Chislehurst

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Sally Edwards
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and trauma therapist located in Orpington, Kent, UK. I work in-person at my private practice and also work online with all over the UK and abroad. I specialise in the impacts of trauma and PTSD, from events such as childhood neglect, sexual abuse, assault, domestic violence, accidents, serious illness, workplace trauma and financial trauma. But I work with clients with many other life challenges and emotional difficulties, such as depression, anxiety, stress and overwhelm, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, life transitions, disordered eating and body image issues.
I am a fully qualified psychotherapist and trauma therapist located in Orpington, Kent, UK. I work in-person at my private practice and also work online with all over the UK and abroad. I specialise in the impacts of trauma and PTSD, from events such as childhood neglect, sexual abuse, assault, domestic violence, accidents, serious illness, workplace trauma and financial trauma. But I work with clients with many other life challenges and emotional difficulties, such as depression, anxiety, stress and overwhelm, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, life transitions, disordered eating and body image issues.
01689 661192 View 01689 661192
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Carolyne Croker
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
I have supported clients going through bereavement and loss, suffering with anxiety and panic attacks; depression; low self-esteem; self-worth issues; and with survivors of domestic abuses including sexual abuse (male and female) and trauma.
When life feels out of focus it's good to talk. My name's Carolyne and I'm a trained integrative counsellor. I can support you to restore your self-confidence, work through your issues and help you recognise you matter too! Everyone’s unique as are our experiences. Something that is overwhelming or difficult to process for you may not be the same for those around you and that’s ok. I’m here to help you unpick what is going on for you in a safe, non-judgemental and confidential environment. So, rather than ignoring the elephant in the room, lets invite it in and talk.
I have supported clients going through bereavement and loss, suffering with anxiety and panic attacks; depression; low self-esteem; self-worth issues; and with survivors of domestic abuses including sexual abuse (male and female) and trauma.
When life feels out of focus it's good to talk. My name's Carolyne and I'm a trained integrative counsellor. I can support you to restore your self-confidence, work through your issues and help you recognise you matter too! Everyone’s unique as are our experiences. Something that is overwhelming or difficult to process for you may not be the same for those around you and that’s ok. I’m here to help you unpick what is going on for you in a safe, non-judgemental and confidential environment. So, rather than ignoring the elephant in the room, lets invite it in and talk.
01959 581644 View 01959 581644
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Garry Michael Brennan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7  (Online Only)
I specialise in the area of adoption but I cover a range of issues such as loss, bereavement, relationship problems, anxiety, stress, depression, domestic violence, sexuality and identity issues and sexual abuse.
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
I specialise in the area of adoption but I cover a range of issues such as loss, bereavement, relationship problems, anxiety, stress, depression, domestic violence, sexuality and identity issues and sexual abuse.
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
07723 562533 View 07723 562533
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Samantha Merry
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
I help you to navigate complex family dynamics and make sense of difficult life experiences. Psychotherapy for all issues including bereavement, PTSD, complex Trauma, dissociation, menopause, and religious trauma. Maybe you hide parts of yourself from others for fear of being misunderstood. All parts of you are welcome to therapy.  I work well with people who feel awkward, confused or have a hard time identifying how they are feeling. Maybe you feel shame, overwhelm, anxiety or dissociate. Do you have fragmented memories of the past or find yourself losing track of time? I offer a safe space to explore confusing experiences.
I help you to navigate complex family dynamics and make sense of difficult life experiences. Psychotherapy for all issues including bereavement, PTSD, complex Trauma, dissociation, menopause, and religious trauma. Maybe you hide parts of yourself from others for fear of being misunderstood. All parts of you are welcome to therapy.  I work well with people who feel awkward, confused or have a hard time identifying how they are feeling. Maybe you feel shame, overwhelm, anxiety or dissociate. Do you have fragmented memories of the past or find yourself losing track of time? I offer a safe space to explore confusing experiences.
07723 454122 View 07723 454122
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Bola Ogundeji
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chislehurst BR7
People struggle to talk frankly about their sexual lives and relationships. Although difficulties arising from sex and relationships are much more prevalent than most people think, only a few people can still share their struggles with others. Therefore, psychosexual and relationship therapy and psychotherapy offer a unique and confidential space to have those conversations with me, which means you can reach out for support in these areas regardless of your sexual preferences and relationship experiences.
People struggle to talk frankly about their sexual lives and relationships. Although difficulties arising from sex and relationships are much more prevalent than most people think, only a few people can still share their struggles with others. Therefore, psychosexual and relationship therapy and psychotherapy offer a unique and confidential space to have those conversations with me, which means you can reach out for support in these areas regardless of your sexual preferences and relationship experiences.
020 4538 3521 View 020 4538 3521
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NeuroAffective-CBT
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
07479 276083 View 07479 276083
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Jason Constant
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Seeking therapy can be a big decision. I do however believe that the issues prompting you to seek help, have the potential to enable you to move into a new level of self-understanding. That's where my experience and training can really begin to help you. We will explore what's going on for you. How it's impacting you and being to piece together a pathway of awareness and tools to help you move forward in a healthy and more balanced way. I am experienced in help clients with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Addictions, Relationship issues amongst other things.
Seeking therapy can be a big decision. I do however believe that the issues prompting you to seek help, have the potential to enable you to move into a new level of self-understanding. That's where my experience and training can really begin to help you. We will explore what's going on for you. How it's impacting you and being to piece together a pathway of awareness and tools to help you move forward in a healthy and more balanced way. I am experienced in help clients with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Addictions, Relationship issues amongst other things.
020 3667 9639 View 020 3667 9639
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Charlie O'Brien
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chislehurst BR7
Hello, warm welcome. I am Charlie and I specialise in working with women who have lived through an abusive relationship and are ready to process and heal the trauma. I have lived experience of domestic abuse and understand that even many years later, the experiences can live on in the body and the mind, leading to anxiety, depression, low self-worth, relationship issues and various physical ailments. I understand that this can leave you feeling hopeless, but I am here to tell you there IS hope.
Hello, warm welcome. I am Charlie and I specialise in working with women who have lived through an abusive relationship and are ready to process and heal the trauma. I have lived experience of domestic abuse and understand that even many years later, the experiences can live on in the body and the mind, leading to anxiety, depression, low self-worth, relationship issues and various physical ailments. I understand that this can leave you feeling hopeless, but I am here to tell you there IS hope.
020 7870 3262 View 020 7870 3262
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Victoria Crowther
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Do you worry about tomorrow? Modern life can feel overwhelming and the way forward uncertain. You might feel anxious all the time, burnt-out or struggle to sleep, as your mind races in circles. Perhaps you are recovering from past or accumulative trauma? All the while, your relationships with loved ones, colleagues and even yourself is suffering. Counselling offers you the opportunity to understand and relieve your symptoms and also improve self-esteem. I understand that having therapy can also feel uncomfortable or even self-indulgent.
Do you worry about tomorrow? Modern life can feel overwhelming and the way forward uncertain. You might feel anxious all the time, burnt-out or struggle to sleep, as your mind races in circles. Perhaps you are recovering from past or accumulative trauma? All the while, your relationships with loved ones, colleagues and even yourself is suffering. Counselling offers you the opportunity to understand and relieve your symptoms and also improve self-esteem. I understand that having therapy can also feel uncomfortable or even self-indulgent.
020 3984 9862 View 020 3984 9862
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Emma Carey
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
As a counsellor, I practice in a pluralistic way which means I draw upon different theoretical approaches when I work with you as an individual – after all, there is only one of you in the world! My aim is to attune to your individual needs and I strive to work in an authentic down to earth way that is interactive and collaborative. Counselling can be daunting so I will work with you at your pace, offering you a space that is non-judgemental, respectful and confidential. Everyone is different, but having a space to talk and actually be heard can be extremely powerful and healing; leading to a greater understanding of yourself.
As a counsellor, I practice in a pluralistic way which means I draw upon different theoretical approaches when I work with you as an individual – after all, there is only one of you in the world! My aim is to attune to your individual needs and I strive to work in an authentic down to earth way that is interactive and collaborative. Counselling can be daunting so I will work with you at your pace, offering you a space that is non-judgemental, respectful and confidential. Everyone is different, but having a space to talk and actually be heard can be extremely powerful and healing; leading to a greater understanding of yourself.
020 4538 8313 View 020 4538 8313
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Dr Jayne Corson
Psychologist, HCPC - Forensic Psych.
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7  (Online Only)
Dr Corson holds a limited therapeutic caseload. She adopts a trauma-informed approach to treatment and recognises that there are a number of factors associated with improving recovery, such as recognising individual differences, ethnicity, values, cultural and life experiences. She works with individuals presenting with a range of psychological difficulties such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, OCD, personality disorder, attachment difficulties, identity, addiction/substance misuse, self-harming behaviours, relationship difficulties, and anger management/emotional dysregulation, bereavement, stress and other concerns.
Dr Corson holds a limited therapeutic caseload. She adopts a trauma-informed approach to treatment and recognises that there are a number of factors associated with improving recovery, such as recognising individual differences, ethnicity, values, cultural and life experiences. She works with individuals presenting with a range of psychological difficulties such as PTSD, anxiety, depression, OCD, personality disorder, attachment difficulties, identity, addiction/substance misuse, self-harming behaviours, relationship difficulties, and anger management/emotional dysregulation, bereavement, stress and other concerns.
020 3640 6706 View 020 3640 6706
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Lewis Gains
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7  (Online Only)
Welcome to my profile. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy or a position you have been in before, it can be a bit daunting contacting someone new and unknown. To help with this, allow me to introduce myself. My name is Lewis Gains, an experienced therapist who offers you a safe space to speak about whatever it is you wish to bring. You may have specific goals in mind, or you may wish to simply speak and see how things go. What is important is that you have made this step to get to here.
Welcome to my profile. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy or a position you have been in before, it can be a bit daunting contacting someone new and unknown. To help with this, allow me to introduce myself. My name is Lewis Gains, an experienced therapist who offers you a safe space to speak about whatever it is you wish to bring. You may have specific goals in mind, or you may wish to simply speak and see how things go. What is important is that you have made this step to get to here.
020 3667 0764 View 020 3667 0764
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Debbie Fletcher
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Are you feeling that now is the right time to to take the next step in changing your life? As a BACP Registered Counsellor with over 20yrs experience, I provide sensitive, confidential counselling to individuals of all ages and couples who are experiencing problems in their relationship that are difficult to resolve. My ethos as a therapist is one of empathic collaboration, to help on your path towards clarity and change. Together we can make links and see patterns enabling you to resolve the issues that are affecting your emotional well being and find practical steps to empower you to move forward. I look forward to meeting you.
Are you feeling that now is the right time to to take the next step in changing your life? As a BACP Registered Counsellor with over 20yrs experience, I provide sensitive, confidential counselling to individuals of all ages and couples who are experiencing problems in their relationship that are difficult to resolve. My ethos as a therapist is one of empathic collaboration, to help on your path towards clarity and change. Together we can make links and see patterns enabling you to resolve the issues that are affecting your emotional well being and find practical steps to empower you to move forward. I look forward to meeting you.
07492 885540 View 07492 885540
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Olivia Djouadi
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7  (Online Only)
Your life can start to go in a new direction from the resources gained in therapy. I have been working over a decade as a UKCP psychotherapist in helping people to begin again or improve where they are in life. My experience assists those with dissociation, trauma, stress, adoption and situations that have a negative affect on life. I can help you take the steps to a new you. It can feel lonely sitting with a feelings that remain present. I have lived in 8 countries so know moving is not simple and can leave difficult feelings. I am also trained to give the SCID-D assessment for a psychological diagnosis in dissociative disorders.
Your life can start to go in a new direction from the resources gained in therapy. I have been working over a decade as a UKCP psychotherapist in helping people to begin again or improve where they are in life. My experience assists those with dissociation, trauma, stress, adoption and situations that have a negative affect on life. I can help you take the steps to a new you. It can feel lonely sitting with a feelings that remain present. I have lived in 8 countries so know moving is not simple and can leave difficult feelings. I am also trained to give the SCID-D assessment for a psychological diagnosis in dissociative disorders.
020 3984 9310 View 020 3984 9310
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Gerald Andrew Buchanan
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chislehurst BR7
My focus is to create a safe non-judgmental and confidential space for individuals to explore engage and understand there healing journey. I have over 20 years experience working with Trauma Anxiety and Addictions. I believe trust is paramount and I work with understanding and empathy, always respecting the importance of the therapeutic relationship. I work with integrity and always within the BACP ethical framework supporting you to feel safe. I also work with per and post detox and rehabilitation centre individual.
My focus is to create a safe non-judgmental and confidential space for individuals to explore engage and understand there healing journey. I have over 20 years experience working with Trauma Anxiety and Addictions. I believe trust is paramount and I work with understanding and empathy, always respecting the importance of the therapeutic relationship. I work with integrity and always within the BACP ethical framework supporting you to feel safe. I also work with per and post detox and rehabilitation centre individual.
020 8106 0697 View 020 8106 0697
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Tara Toole
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Let’s face it - life can be tough! Do you feel low/depressed, anxious, or perhaps lacking in self-esteem and confidence? Or maybe you are just feeling generally overwhelmed? Having a space where you can truly be yourself without fear of judgement can be a life changing experience. I am a dedicated and compassionate counsellor, committed to providing a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and concerns and where you can feel heard, no matter what you may bring to session.
Let’s face it - life can be tough! Do you feel low/depressed, anxious, or perhaps lacking in self-esteem and confidence? Or maybe you are just feeling generally overwhelmed? Having a space where you can truly be yourself without fear of judgement can be a life changing experience. I am a dedicated and compassionate counsellor, committed to providing a safe and supportive space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, and concerns and where you can feel heard, no matter what you may bring to session.
020 4538 6053 View 020 4538 6053
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Simone Sheikh
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7  (Online Only)
People usually seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. This can lead to feeling stuck or creating unhelpful behaviour patterns to cope which present them from living life to their full potential. We often feel confused, anxious, depressed, emotionally numb or trapped in our past without clear goals in life or clear identity. I can offer you a safe space to explore better internal understanding which promotes self awareness, personal growth and inner peace which enables you to feel full of hope and clarity to achieve personal success.
People usually seek therapy because they have reached a crisis point in their life and are struggling to cope alone. This can lead to feeling stuck or creating unhelpful behaviour patterns to cope which present them from living life to their full potential. We often feel confused, anxious, depressed, emotionally numb or trapped in our past without clear goals in life or clear identity. I can offer you a safe space to explore better internal understanding which promotes self awareness, personal growth and inner peace which enables you to feel full of hope and clarity to achieve personal success.
07480 533783 View 07480 533783
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Claire Golding
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
I consider myself to be highly empathic, intuitive and compassionate, I try to fully understand what my client is experiencing and feeling. My aim as your counsellor is to give you a "safe" space to talk openly and honestly with out fear of judgement. I specialise in bereavement and loss, I'm confident working with clients who have depression or low moods, and anxiety. I have had specific training to work with client's who self harm, suffer with addiction and those who have suicidal thoughts or intrusive thoughts.
I consider myself to be highly empathic, intuitive and compassionate, I try to fully understand what my client is experiencing and feeling. My aim as your counsellor is to give you a "safe" space to talk openly and honestly with out fear of judgement. I specialise in bereavement and loss, I'm confident working with clients who have depression or low moods, and anxiety. I have had specific training to work with client's who self harm, suffer with addiction and those who have suicidal thoughts or intrusive thoughts.
020 3984 9222 View 020 3984 9222
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Jane Sandra Oakley
Psychotherapist, MSc, BPC
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
I trained as a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with the Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust. I have 20 years of experience working in the Public Sector with young people and adults with a range of emotional and mental health needs. I currently work in the NHS as a Highly Specialised Psychotherapist and have my own Private Practice. Please check out my website horse4thought.co.uk - Psychodynamic, Equine Facilitated Therapy, and EMDR. I welcome people from all cultures and backgrounds. I work with adults and young people experiencing trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and negative cycles of behaviour that they are stuck in.
I trained as a Psychodynamic Psychotherapist with the Tavistock and Portman NHS Trust. I have 20 years of experience working in the Public Sector with young people and adults with a range of emotional and mental health needs. I currently work in the NHS as a Highly Specialised Psychotherapist and have my own Private Practice. Please check out my website horse4thought.co.uk - Psychodynamic, Equine Facilitated Therapy, and EMDR. I welcome people from all cultures and backgrounds. I work with adults and young people experiencing trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship issues, and negative cycles of behaviour that they are stuck in.
01959 581646 View 01959 581646
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Dr Kari Carstairs
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Maybe life has dealt you a blow that has shattered you, or maybe you feel stuck and confused about who you are and what you want in life. Or maybe, you feel full of bad feelings that threaten to overwhelm you – feelings such as sadness, rage, hopelessness, shame, fear and frustration. If so, therapy can help.
Maybe life has dealt you a blow that has shattered you, or maybe you feel stuck and confused about who you are and what you want in life. Or maybe, you feel full of bad feelings that threaten to overwhelm you – feelings such as sadness, rage, hopelessness, shame, fear and frustration. If so, therapy can help.
020 3984 9133 View 020 3984 9133
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Sexual Abuse Counsellors

How do therapists treat sexual abuse?

A good therapist will be nonjudgmental and possibly demonstrate active listening, repeating back what the client says to show that they have understood. These skills allow people to feel comfortable discussing their traumatic experiences openly. Some important treatment goals are to restore a sense of safety and to rebuild confidence. In addition to working one-on-one with the patient, a therapist might bring in supportive family members to assist the client.

Do you have to talk extensively about sexual abuse in therapy?

Survivors frequently find it difficult to describe what happened to them out loud. They can even still be in a state of denial if the sexual abuse occurred recently. It is important for survivors to acknowledge that what happened isn’t their fault and to challenge and reappraise any unhealthy feelings or thoughts as they arise. Art therapy and play therapy are useful non-verbal means of communication for some survivors.

How long does treatment for sexual abuse take?

Recovery from sexual abuse can be a long and difficult process. Some survivors are able to move on naturally on their own, given time, while others require the guidance of a trained therapist. Therapy needs vary and can range from a few sessions to months or even years. Healing from sexual abuse takes time, and everyone’s journey will look a little different.

Can trauma symptoms caused by sexual abuse come back after treatment?

As occurs in many cases of trauma, survivors of sexual abuse may experience PTSD-like symptoms long after the abuse has ceased or after an initial round of treatment has occurred. In such a case, there is evidence that prolonged exposure therapy is a useful treatment for survivors, and may be more efficacious than supportive counseling alone. While triggers may continue to cause distress, the idea is that, with time and repeated exposure, their power will fade, allowing survivors to move on with their lives.