Men's Issues Counselling in Chislehurst

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Jason Constant
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Seeking therapy can be a big decision. I do however believe that the issues prompting you to seek help, have the potential to enable you to move into a new level of self-understanding. That's where my experience and training can really begin to help you. We will explore what's going on for you. How it's impacting you and being to piece together a pathway of awareness and tools to help you move forward in a healthy and more balanced way. I am experienced in help clients with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Addictions, Relationship issues amongst other things.
Seeking therapy can be a big decision. I do however believe that the issues prompting you to seek help, have the potential to enable you to move into a new level of self-understanding. That's where my experience and training can really begin to help you. We will explore what's going on for you. How it's impacting you and being to piece together a pathway of awareness and tools to help you move forward in a healthy and more balanced way. I am experienced in help clients with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Addictions, Relationship issues amongst other things.
020 3667 9639 View 020 3667 9639
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Maria Marchant
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
I am an Accredited BACP Therapist & Supervisor. If you are considering how therapy can support you through challenging life events, I can support you by offering a safe & confidential space in which you can begin to examine what may feel impossible right now to resolve by yourself; without fear of being judged and experience, perhaps for the first time, a real feeling of being heard. I work by helping you to explore your thoughts, emotions & life story so far, with the aim of both of us understanding & together making sense of the difficulties you are experiencing. Together, we will then seek a way of moving forward positively.
I am an Accredited BACP Therapist & Supervisor. If you are considering how therapy can support you through challenging life events, I can support you by offering a safe & confidential space in which you can begin to examine what may feel impossible right now to resolve by yourself; without fear of being judged and experience, perhaps for the first time, a real feeling of being heard. I work by helping you to explore your thoughts, emotions & life story so far, with the aim of both of us understanding & together making sense of the difficulties you are experiencing. Together, we will then seek a way of moving forward positively.
07476 551643 View 07476 551643
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NeuroAffective-CBT
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Waitlist for new clients
Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
07479 276083 View 07479 276083
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Victoria Crowther
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Do you worry about tomorrow? Modern life can feel overwhelming and the way forward uncertain. You might feel anxious all the time, burnt-out or struggle to sleep, as your mind races in circles. Perhaps you are recovering from past or accumulative trauma? All the while, your relationships with loved ones, colleagues and even yourself is suffering. Counselling offers you the opportunity to understand and relieve your symptoms and also improve self-esteem. I understand that having therapy can also feel uncomfortable or even self-indulgent.
Do you worry about tomorrow? Modern life can feel overwhelming and the way forward uncertain. You might feel anxious all the time, burnt-out or struggle to sleep, as your mind races in circles. Perhaps you are recovering from past or accumulative trauma? All the while, your relationships with loved ones, colleagues and even yourself is suffering. Counselling offers you the opportunity to understand and relieve your symptoms and also improve self-esteem. I understand that having therapy can also feel uncomfortable or even self-indulgent.
020 3984 9862 View 020 3984 9862
Sally Scofield
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chislehurst BR7
Do you always feel anxious or overwhelmed? Are you feeling unheard or misunderstood? Are you repeating negative patterns in your life but do not know why? I offer a confidential, non judgement, safe therapeutic environment to work through the curve balls that life can sometimes throw at us, leaving us unable to move forward. We will work together to explore and process the challenges and emotions you are facing all at your own pace in your own time. I am passionate about supporting people to help make sense of their lives, relationships and understanding who they are.
Do you always feel anxious or overwhelmed? Are you feeling unheard or misunderstood? Are you repeating negative patterns in your life but do not know why? I offer a confidential, non judgement, safe therapeutic environment to work through the curve balls that life can sometimes throw at us, leaving us unable to move forward. We will work together to explore and process the challenges and emotions you are facing all at your own pace in your own time. I am passionate about supporting people to help make sense of their lives, relationships and understanding who they are.
020 4538 5746 View 020 4538 5746
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Jack Williamson - Individual & Couples Therapist.
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chislehurst BR7
Life fucking sucks sometimes. Especially when faced with challenging relationships in your professional, personal, and romantic lives. Or when historical trauma decides to rear its ugly head unannounced. You may end up feeling anxious or depressed, questioning your life and your future, wondering why no one understands you, or what's going on with you. Please know you're not alone, and that in therapy we can work together on these issues and more, to help you navigate lifes various challenges as they arise.
Life fucking sucks sometimes. Especially when faced with challenging relationships in your professional, personal, and romantic lives. Or when historical trauma decides to rear its ugly head unannounced. You may end up feeling anxious or depressed, questioning your life and your future, wondering why no one understands you, or what's going on with you. Please know you're not alone, and that in therapy we can work together on these issues and more, to help you navigate lifes various challenges as they arise.
020 3835 4378 View 020 3835 4378
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Debbie Fletcher
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Are you feeling that now is the right time to to take the next step in changing your life? As a BACP Registered Counsellor with over 20yrs experience, I provide sensitive, confidential counselling to individuals of all ages and couples who are experiencing problems in their relationship that are difficult to resolve. My ethos as a therapist is one of empathic collaboration, to help on your path towards clarity and change. Together we can make links and see patterns enabling you to resolve the issues that are affecting your emotional well being and find practical steps to empower you to move forward. I look forward to meeting you.
Are you feeling that now is the right time to to take the next step in changing your life? As a BACP Registered Counsellor with over 20yrs experience, I provide sensitive, confidential counselling to individuals of all ages and couples who are experiencing problems in their relationship that are difficult to resolve. My ethos as a therapist is one of empathic collaboration, to help on your path towards clarity and change. Together we can make links and see patterns enabling you to resolve the issues that are affecting your emotional well being and find practical steps to empower you to move forward. I look forward to meeting you.
07492 885540 View 07492 885540
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Maggie Bell, Counsellor, Hypnotherapist & EMDR
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
BACP Accredited Counsellor, Registered GHR Master Hypnotherapist, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing with Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Internal Parts Therapy. Over 25 years NHS experience; inpatient, outpatient, community and Private Practice. Complimentary telephone consultation to discuss your therapeutic pathway forward. An integrative therapist with multi-modalities; extensive qualifications, specialisms and experience working with you with all issues. More information can be found on my website; an evolution of many many years.
BACP Accredited Counsellor, Registered GHR Master Hypnotherapist, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing with Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Internal Parts Therapy. Over 25 years NHS experience; inpatient, outpatient, community and Private Practice. Complimentary telephone consultation to discuss your therapeutic pathway forward. An integrative therapist with multi-modalities; extensive qualifications, specialisms and experience working with you with all issues. More information can be found on my website; an evolution of many many years.
020 4538 9918 View 020 4538 9918
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Gerald Andrew Buchanan
Counsellor, DCounsPsych, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chislehurst BR7
My focus is to create a safe non-judgmental and confidential space for individuals to explore engage and understand there healing journey. I have over 20 years experience working with Trauma Anxiety and Addictions. I believe trust is paramount and I work with understanding and empathy, always respecting the importance of the therapeutic relationship. I work with integrity and always within the BACP ethical framework supporting you to feel safe. I also work with per and post detox and rehabilitation centre individual.
My focus is to create a safe non-judgmental and confidential space for individuals to explore engage and understand there healing journey. I have over 20 years experience working with Trauma Anxiety and Addictions. I believe trust is paramount and I work with understanding and empathy, always respecting the importance of the therapeutic relationship. I work with integrity and always within the BACP ethical framework supporting you to feel safe. I also work with per and post detox and rehabilitation centre individual.
020 8106 0697 View 020 8106 0697
Ronak Motlagh
Counsellor, MA, BACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Counselling provides a safe and confidential space in which you can explore whatever is troubling you. Our first meeting will help me to make an initial assessment of your situation and will also give you an opportunity to gain a sense of whether you feel comfortable with me in order for us to work together. This session will additionally give you an opportunity to explore what you would like to gain from counselling and give us a chance to establish whether you would like to commit to a short-term or potentially an open-ended basis. This will ultimately be your decision and can naturally change over the course of therapy.
Counselling provides a safe and confidential space in which you can explore whatever is troubling you. Our first meeting will help me to make an initial assessment of your situation and will also give you an opportunity to gain a sense of whether you feel comfortable with me in order for us to work together. This session will additionally give you an opportunity to explore what you would like to gain from counselling and give us a chance to establish whether you would like to commit to a short-term or potentially an open-ended basis. This will ultimately be your decision and can naturally change over the course of therapy.
020 3031 1236 View 020 3031 1236
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Garry Michael Brennan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7  (Online Only)
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
Starting therapy can be a daunting experience and so my aim is to help you feel at ease by working in a straightforward, empathic and down to earth way in order to help you overcome the obstacles that are stopping you from leading a meaningful and authentic life. I am an active person-centred counsellor who will work hard alongside you in order to help you understand the roots of your difficulties. I am an experienced counsellor who has particular experience around trauma and attachment issues due to my long experience in working in the world of adoption as both a social worker and therapist
07723 562533 View 07723 562533
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Carolyne Croker
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
When life feels out of focus it's good to talk. My name's Carolyne and I'm a trained integrative counsellor. I can support you to restore your self-confidence, work through your issues and help you recognise you matter too! Everyone’s unique as are our experiences. Something that is overwhelming or difficult to process for you may not be the same for those around you and that’s ok. I’m here to help you unpick what is going on for you in a safe, non-judgemental and confidential environment. So, rather than ignoring the elephant in the room, lets invite it in and talk.
When life feels out of focus it's good to talk. My name's Carolyne and I'm a trained integrative counsellor. I can support you to restore your self-confidence, work through your issues and help you recognise you matter too! Everyone’s unique as are our experiences. Something that is overwhelming or difficult to process for you may not be the same for those around you and that’s ok. I’m here to help you unpick what is going on for you in a safe, non-judgemental and confidential environment. So, rather than ignoring the elephant in the room, lets invite it in and talk.
01959 581644 View 01959 581644
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Irena Trnka De Benedictis
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7  (Online Only)
I work on line providing a friendly and confidential service. I believe on line work is successful, efficient and encourages free and intimate communication. No need to travel. I value and offer face to face sessions when permitted. I have 15 years of experience in both psychotherapy dealing with complex problems and counselling offering help with day to day difficulties. I can help with anxiety, stress and depression as well as lack of purpose and feelings of meaninglessness. I assist with family and relationship difficulties and conflicts, including providing couples counselling. 3 key words: kindness, diversity and compassion.
I work on line providing a friendly and confidential service. I believe on line work is successful, efficient and encourages free and intimate communication. No need to travel. I value and offer face to face sessions when permitted. I have 15 years of experience in both psychotherapy dealing with complex problems and counselling offering help with day to day difficulties. I can help with anxiety, stress and depression as well as lack of purpose and feelings of meaninglessness. I assist with family and relationship difficulties and conflicts, including providing couples counselling. 3 key words: kindness, diversity and compassion.
020 4538 5381 View 020 4538 5381
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Lucy Lee
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
A warm hello, I’m Lucy and I offer a safe and confidential space to talk and be heard without judgement. Perhaps you’ve never had the space in your day-to-day to process difficult events or relationships in your life or you are struggling day to day with anxiety or depression and can’t work through it alone? Do you have so many difficult thoughts you’re left confused and exhausted. I am here to offer you the space to work through things at your pace, together, enabling greater self-awareness, self-compassion and understanding of self.
A warm hello, I’m Lucy and I offer a safe and confidential space to talk and be heard without judgement. Perhaps you’ve never had the space in your day-to-day to process difficult events or relationships in your life or you are struggling day to day with anxiety or depression and can’t work through it alone? Do you have so many difficult thoughts you’re left confused and exhausted. I am here to offer you the space to work through things at your pace, together, enabling greater self-awareness, self-compassion and understanding of self.
020 4538 2901 View 020 4538 2901
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Amanda Katharine Dalsan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
Do you need space and time to talk? If so, I am here to offer you the time and space to explore your worries and concerns in a confidential and safe environment. In a busy world full of judgements and rules, I can offer you a space where your thoughts and worries will be heard, acknowledged and respected. I can provide you with a place where you will not feel judged and where you can feel free to express your deepest concerns. I can appreciate that making the first step can be incredibly challenging. If you have not experienced any counselling or psychotherapy before it is understandable that you may be nervous about what to expect.
07411 278341 View 07411 278341
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Your Time and Space
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chislehurst BR7
I am an integrative counsellor and senior psychological therapist with over 8000 hours of clinical practice. I offer a range of therapeutic resources to support adults, adolescents, children and families when they are struggling to resolve psychological issues. I am a qualified in EMDR and Trauma-focused CBT, working with Autism and ADHD, amongst other therapies and have considerable training and experience managing traumatic presentations stemming from adverse life experiences and also specialise in treating the psychological effects of serious or terminal illness.
I am an integrative counsellor and senior psychological therapist with over 8000 hours of clinical practice. I offer a range of therapeutic resources to support adults, adolescents, children and families when they are struggling to resolve psychological issues. I am a qualified in EMDR and Trauma-focused CBT, working with Autism and ADHD, amongst other therapies and have considerable training and experience managing traumatic presentations stemming from adverse life experiences and also specialise in treating the psychological effects of serious or terminal illness.
07723 452091 View 07723 452091

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David Yiu
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bromley BR1
Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
020 3910 6179 View 020 3910 6179
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Jamie Start
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sidcup DA14
I am a BACP Registered counsellor, who works an integrative manner which means I can adapt how I work to meet your needs. That may be Person Centered Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy or CBT. I offer face to face counselling sessions, however I also offer telephone and Video conference counselling, if this is your preference. I provide both short and long term counselling and believe that the therapeutic relationship between the counsellor and the client is of upmost importance. The therapeutic relationship is based on trust and confidentiality and I aim to provide a safe and warm environment in which you can explore your thoughts.
I am a BACP Registered counsellor, who works an integrative manner which means I can adapt how I work to meet your needs. That may be Person Centered Therapy Psychodynamic Therapy or CBT. I offer face to face counselling sessions, however I also offer telephone and Video conference counselling, if this is your preference. I provide both short and long term counselling and believe that the therapeutic relationship between the counsellor and the client is of upmost importance. The therapeutic relationship is based on trust and confidentiality and I aim to provide a safe and warm environment in which you can explore your thoughts.
020 3835 2488 View 020 3835 2488
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Jonathan Wright
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sidcup DA14
Hi! I'm Jonathan. Together we can look at and work through what's bothering you - this might include feelings of depression, anxiety and/or panic, or issues with how you're thinking and what you're doing. Maybe you're struggling with other aspects of your life, past or present (or worrying about the future). 'Big stuff' or 'small stuff', it's all ok to bring up and may also include include feeling overwhelmed or lost, self-esteem issues, guilt, relationship problems, trauma, sexual abuse, loss and grief, heath concerns and existential worries.
Hi! I'm Jonathan. Together we can look at and work through what's bothering you - this might include feelings of depression, anxiety and/or panic, or issues with how you're thinking and what you're doing. Maybe you're struggling with other aspects of your life, past or present (or worrying about the future). 'Big stuff' or 'small stuff', it's all ok to bring up and may also include include feeling overwhelmed or lost, self-esteem issues, guilt, relationship problems, trauma, sexual abuse, loss and grief, heath concerns and existential worries.
01959 588880 View 01959 588880
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Lisa Hitchen
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
London SE9
I am an experienced and accredited counsellor working with people of all backgrounds. I offer a safe listening space for clients to speak freely about whatever is troubling them. I work in an integrative way bringing in different approaches based on the individual needs of each person. This includes creative techniques, person centred and CBT approaches. I offer short and long term sessions in Lewisham plus telephone and online counselling to individuals and couples. Recently I qualified as an EMDR therapist and offer this to clients with disturbing memories or trauma that want to let go of the past (see my website for details).
I am an experienced and accredited counsellor working with people of all backgrounds. I offer a safe listening space for clients to speak freely about whatever is troubling them. I work in an integrative way bringing in different approaches based on the individual needs of each person. This includes creative techniques, person centred and CBT approaches. I offer short and long term sessions in Lewisham plus telephone and online counselling to individuals and couples. Recently I qualified as an EMDR therapist and offer this to clients with disturbing memories or trauma that want to let go of the past (see my website for details).
020 8106 2070 View 020 8106 2070

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Men's Issues Counsellors

Is therapy for men different than it is for women?

Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.

How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

How can men prepare for therapy?

Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.

What should men know about the process of therapy?

One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.