Male Counselling in Chislehurst, ENG
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Have you found your therapist just yet? It can seem daunting to some with so many to choose from, how do you select correctly? In order to work successfully on your issues its really important to get a good connection with your therapist. Studies tell us that this can lead to better outcomes. Imagine trying to build a relationship and form trust if you do not get along with that person, its probably not going to end well so trust your gut instinct when you reach out, try having a telephone call or video call, monitor how you feel.
Have you found your therapist just yet? It can seem daunting to some with so many to choose from, how do you select correctly? In order to work successfully on your issues its really important to get a good connection with your therapist. Studies tell us that this can lead to better outcomes. Imagine trying to build a relationship and form trust if you do not get along with that person, its probably not going to end well so trust your gut instinct when you reach out, try having a telephone call or video call, monitor how you feel.
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Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
Sarah is a successful paralegal in the City who struggled with shameful feelings and self-disgust most of her life. Typically as Christmas was approaching and lots of parties invitations started to arrive on her desk, she would surrender into procrastination and self-criticism, in order to avoid a situation she felt likely to fail, supported by an exaggerated set of predictions about social embarrassment or other social disasters. Sarah struggles to improve her confidence and esteem - in spite of a successful academic and professional life. Her efforts are genuine but exhausting and she often is trapped by episodes of depression.
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Seeking therapy can be a big decision. I do however believe that the issues prompting you to seek help, have the potential to enable you to move into a new level of self-understanding. That's where my experience and training can really begin to help you. We will explore what's going on for you. How it's impacting you and being to piece together a pathway of awareness and tools to help you move forward in a healthy and more balanced way. I am experienced in help clients with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Addictions, Relationship issues amongst other things.
Seeking therapy can be a big decision. I do however believe that the issues prompting you to seek help, have the potential to enable you to move into a new level of self-understanding. That's where my experience and training can really begin to help you. We will explore what's going on for you. How it's impacting you and being to piece together a pathway of awareness and tools to help you move forward in a healthy and more balanced way. I am experienced in help clients with Anxiety, Depression, Grief, Addictions, Relationship issues amongst other things.
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Welcome to my profile. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy or a position you have been in before, it can be a bit daunting contacting someone new and unknown. To help with this, allow me to introduce myself. My name is Lewis Gains, an experienced therapist who offers you a safe space to speak about whatever it is you wish to bring. You may have specific goals in mind, or you may wish to simply speak and see how things go. What is important is that you have made this step to get to here.
Welcome to my profile. Whether this is your first time seeking therapy or a position you have been in before, it can be a bit daunting contacting someone new and unknown. To help with this, allow me to introduce myself. My name is Lewis Gains, an experienced therapist who offers you a safe space to speak about whatever it is you wish to bring. You may have specific goals in mind, or you may wish to simply speak and see how things go. What is important is that you have made this step to get to here.
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Jack Williamson - Individual & Couples Therapist.
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chislehurst BR7
Hello there! I'm Jack Williamson, a compassionate and dedicated therapist, working with individuals, groups, and couples specializing in individual well-being and fostering healthy relationships with oneself and others. With a wealth of experience, my passion lies in helping individuals & couples navigate life's challenges, empowering them to find fulfillment & discover their true potential. I believe in the power of a supportive authentic therapeutic relationship. In my practice, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences freely.
Hello there! I'm Jack Williamson, a compassionate and dedicated therapist, working with individuals, groups, and couples specializing in individual well-being and fostering healthy relationships with oneself and others. With a wealth of experience, my passion lies in helping individuals & couples navigate life's challenges, empowering them to find fulfillment & discover their true potential. I believe in the power of a supportive authentic therapeutic relationship. In my practice, I provide a safe, non-judgmental space where clients can explore their emotions, thoughts, and experiences freely.
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My focus is to create a safe non-judgmental and confidential space for individuals to explore engage and understand there healing journey. I have over 20 years experience working with Trauma Anxiety and Addictions. I believe trust is paramount and I work with understanding and empathy, always respecting the importance of the therapeutic relationship. I work with integrity and always within the BACP ethical framework supporting you to feel safe. I also work with per and post detox and rehabilitation centre individual.
My focus is to create a safe non-judgmental and confidential space for individuals to explore engage and understand there healing journey. I have over 20 years experience working with Trauma Anxiety and Addictions. I believe trust is paramount and I work with understanding and empathy, always respecting the importance of the therapeutic relationship. I work with integrity and always within the BACP ethical framework supporting you to feel safe. I also work with per and post detox and rehabilitation centre individual.
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Chris Rudyard: IFS Lv3, EMDR, Somatic Therapies +
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bromley BR2
Need something different to CBT and regular talk therapy? 24hr Self Booking via my website. 19 years experience, and extensive additional training. 50 min & 1.5 hour sessions. Informed by neuroscience, therapies I use are deep, non-shaming, far-reaching, and work with you - not against you. I help to facilitate an immersive, and expansive experience to help you heal from what has a hold over you, even when you're not sure what that is. When you see me, we work collaboratively and organically, so you can recover, and feel the better you.
Need something different to CBT and regular talk therapy? 24hr Self Booking via my website. 19 years experience, and extensive additional training. 50 min & 1.5 hour sessions. Informed by neuroscience, therapies I use are deep, non-shaming, far-reaching, and work with you - not against you. I help to facilitate an immersive, and expansive experience to help you heal from what has a hold over you, even when you're not sure what that is. When you see me, we work collaboratively and organically, so you can recover, and feel the better you.
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Hello, my name is Tom, and my aim is to offer you a supportive and kind space to experience change, healing and to help you explore whatever it is you are going through. Much of my work supports clients with depression, anxiety, relationships, connection, identity, self-esteem, existential thoughts and the search for meaning. You might also be going through life changes, looking to explore yourself or understand, challenge & change behaviours. I work with all adults and specialise in working with queer communities & those who are neurodivergent. These will be your sessions and I aim to help you work towards whatever goals you have.
Hello, my name is Tom, and my aim is to offer you a supportive and kind space to experience change, healing and to help you explore whatever it is you are going through. Much of my work supports clients with depression, anxiety, relationships, connection, identity, self-esteem, existential thoughts and the search for meaning. You might also be going through life changes, looking to explore yourself or understand, challenge & change behaviours. I work with all adults and specialise in working with queer communities & those who are neurodivergent. These will be your sessions and I aim to help you work towards whatever goals you have.
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Welcome, my name is Michele. I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist - I help individuals and couples with their emotional health. I have private sector experience as a counsellor and psychotherapist. My focus involves abuse, depression and narcissistic personality disorder, and the specific problems encountered by men, transgender people and women. An initial assessment meeting allows you to see if you feel comfortable with me, discuss what concerns you, ask questions, clarify confidentiality, and determine if therapy could assist you.
Welcome, my name is Michele. I'm a registered counsellor and psychotherapist - I help individuals and couples with their emotional health. I have private sector experience as a counsellor and psychotherapist. My focus involves abuse, depression and narcissistic personality disorder, and the specific problems encountered by men, transgender people and women. An initial assessment meeting allows you to see if you feel comfortable with me, discuss what concerns you, ask questions, clarify confidentiality, and determine if therapy could assist you.
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I work with many talking therapy techniques, depending on what suits the client best. With each I am person centred and combine use hypnosis, when appropriate, to enhance the therapeutic journey and help the client to see their true self and realise they have all they need to overcome the barriers that are present in their life. I work with my clients in a safe, non judgemental and confidential environment.
I work with many talking therapy techniques, depending on what suits the client best. With each I am person centred and combine use hypnosis, when appropriate, to enhance the therapeutic journey and help the client to see their true self and realise they have all they need to overcome the barriers that are present in their life. I work with my clients in a safe, non judgemental and confidential environment.
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BACP registered & qualified Therapist-Coach (Personal Consultant). Blending integrative Counselling with Coaching for an ability to explore, discover and grow. My approach is rooted in collaboration, compassion and non-judgement for a supportive environment. I offer my service in helping you to overcome challenges with discovery to gain harmony within yourself and an ability to use what’s discovered for helping you look into the future and changing things within a structured approach. Helping you into understanding yourself, supporting you in gaining alternatives that could lead into expanding your own views to a more positive life
BACP registered & qualified Therapist-Coach (Personal Consultant). Blending integrative Counselling with Coaching for an ability to explore, discover and grow. My approach is rooted in collaboration, compassion and non-judgement for a supportive environment. I offer my service in helping you to overcome challenges with discovery to gain harmony within yourself and an ability to use what’s discovered for helping you look into the future and changing things within a structured approach. Helping you into understanding yourself, supporting you in gaining alternatives that could lead into expanding your own views to a more positive life
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Hi, I'm Luke and I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist. Reaching out for support can sometimes require a lot of courage as society often teaches us that we should be able to deal with our own problems. The reality is that we, as humans, thrive when we are able to give care and support to others as well as receive this for ourselves. It is my belief that therapy shouldn't just be just for those who are at crisis point or struggling deeply with their mental wellbeing. Therapy is for anyone who needs a safe space to talk through any experiences in their lives and find ways to live alongside the pain and anxiety that this can create.
Hi, I'm Luke and I am a qualified Clinical Psychologist. Reaching out for support can sometimes require a lot of courage as society often teaches us that we should be able to deal with our own problems. The reality is that we, as humans, thrive when we are able to give care and support to others as well as receive this for ourselves. It is my belief that therapy shouldn't just be just for those who are at crisis point or struggling deeply with their mental wellbeing. Therapy is for anyone who needs a safe space to talk through any experiences in their lives and find ways to live alongside the pain and anxiety that this can create.
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Sometimes life gets really hard - complicated, confusing and painful. You're feeling anxious, down or depressed and you can't work out why. Maybe you do know why, but you've never felt able to speak about the reasons with anyone. The pace of modern life or past experiences can often make you feel that you have to try and deal with your difficulties by yourself, by sweeping them under the carpet or putting on a brave face. Perhaps it has seemed that if you just keep going, one day you’d wake up and your problems will have disappeared - but they haven't. So now you've decided to try something new, to seek some help.
Sometimes life gets really hard - complicated, confusing and painful. You're feeling anxious, down or depressed and you can't work out why. Maybe you do know why, but you've never felt able to speak about the reasons with anyone. The pace of modern life or past experiences can often make you feel that you have to try and deal with your difficulties by yourself, by sweeping them under the carpet or putting on a brave face. Perhaps it has seemed that if you just keep going, one day you’d wake up and your problems will have disappeared - but they haven't. So now you've decided to try something new, to seek some help.
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I am a psychotherapist qualified to Master level(s) in both psychodynamic counselling (MA) and cognitive behavioural therapy (MSc). How I work with you will be dependent on your needs and goals for counselling. We will identify this together during an assessment where I will aim to understand more about you, the challenges you have experienced and the particular issues you are struggling with. Our therapeutic relationship will be central to the healing that is possible for you in counselling. It will be a space where you will be 'heard' with empathy and without judgement and where the profound work of insight and change can occur.
I am a psychotherapist qualified to Master level(s) in both psychodynamic counselling (MA) and cognitive behavioural therapy (MSc). How I work with you will be dependent on your needs and goals for counselling. We will identify this together during an assessment where I will aim to understand more about you, the challenges you have experienced and the particular issues you are struggling with. Our therapeutic relationship will be central to the healing that is possible for you in counselling. It will be a space where you will be 'heard' with empathy and without judgement and where the profound work of insight and change can occur.
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I am an integrative psychotherapist who can help with addictions, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and life changes. I will help you to make sense of life choices and to develop clearer thinking about your future decisions. I attune my way of working to the needs of my clients and adopt the most effective tools and techniques. You will benefit from clearer thinking and greater insight from working with me. I encourage my clients to bring about behavioural change in their lives by helping them to manifest positive qualities and stepping out of comfort zones.
I am an integrative psychotherapist who can help with addictions, anxiety, depression, relationship issues and life changes. I will help you to make sense of life choices and to develop clearer thinking about your future decisions. I attune my way of working to the needs of my clients and adopt the most effective tools and techniques. You will benefit from clearer thinking and greater insight from working with me. I encourage my clients to bring about behavioural change in their lives by helping them to manifest positive qualities and stepping out of comfort zones.
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Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
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Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
Do you always feel anxious? Do you feel low or hopeless? Are you repeating the same negative patterns without knowing why? Do you have a hard time saying what you need? I can help. I provide a safe, non-judgemental space where you can explore whatever your worries might be so that you can work through your issues like anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, feeling lost or stuck, so that you can make healthy changes and lead a happier life.
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Hi, I'm Piran. I offer counselling and therapy to a variety of people with different concerns. It could be that you want to explore more about who you are, what matters to you, or how you relate to others. Perhaps you are finding life challenging in some way and want to understand where to go from here. I have experience working with individuals from a wide variety of backgrounds, each with their own different experiences and concerns.
Hi, I'm Piran. I offer counselling and therapy to a variety of people with different concerns. It could be that you want to explore more about who you are, what matters to you, or how you relate to others. Perhaps you are finding life challenging in some way and want to understand where to go from here. I have experience working with individuals from a wide variety of backgrounds, each with their own different experiences and concerns.
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Searching online for a therapist can be a daunting prospect. If you have made it this far you have taken a huge step, in acknowledging to yourself that you may need support. I can help you now in taking the next steps towards feeling ‘un-stuck’ and able to move forward with your life. You might be here because something is bothering you or you have experienced a major life event. Maybe a relationship in your life has ended or changed. There are also times when life seems to be going well, but you are still feeling low, depressed or not yourself.
Searching online for a therapist can be a daunting prospect. If you have made it this far you have taken a huge step, in acknowledging to yourself that you may need support. I can help you now in taking the next steps towards feeling ‘un-stuck’ and able to move forward with your life. You might be here because something is bothering you or you have experienced a major life event. Maybe a relationship in your life has ended or changed. There are also times when life seems to be going well, but you are still feeling low, depressed or not yourself.
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You might feel as though you are losing control. That life is delivering more than you can handle or you feel broken beyond repair. It's not unusual to experience feelings like these. It can be difficult to manage them or to believe that things will ever change. Perhaps you are dissatisfied with personal relationships or in your job. I offer a safe and confidential space to explore, reflect and grapple with the issues that impact upon your life. For more information about the service I provide or to book online please click the website link or visit www.cherryorchardtherapy.com
You might feel as though you are losing control. That life is delivering more than you can handle or you feel broken beyond repair. It's not unusual to experience feelings like these. It can be difficult to manage them or to believe that things will ever change. Perhaps you are dissatisfied with personal relationships or in your job. I offer a safe and confidential space to explore, reflect and grapple with the issues that impact upon your life. For more information about the service I provide or to book online please click the website link or visit www.cherryorchardtherapy.com
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Male Counsellors
As a man, why might I want to see a male therapist?
There are many reasons a man might wish to work with a male therapist, including a degree of shared identity, which may help client and therapist connect to each other and allow for a more free-flowing discussion of issues that can be deeply personal. Some men may feel more comfortable talking to a male therapist about relationship concerns, the pressures they feel around the roles society and family place on men, career or job challenges, self-esteem, or anger problems. For some men who have not had a male role models in their lives, a good male therapist may be especially helpful.
How can I find out about a therapist’s experience treating men?
Individuals looking for treatment should feel comfortable directly asking a therapist about their history treating men overall and the issues that arise in therapy with men. A good therapist will be happy to discuss such matters as well as their educational background, approach to treatment, and how they think they can aid a prospective client. Prospective clients should also ask what the expectation is for treatment, and what the fee structure is, and whether and which insurance plans are accepted.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist of the same gender?
Therapy is not gender-specific, but some men as well as women feel more comfortable opening up about their experiences and history with a male therapist. An individual may feel that they have to explain less background information and be on the same page more quickly, particularly when discussing gender-specific challenges, in the case of male clients. Some women have prior negative experiences with women that predispose them to prefer working with a male in therapy. That said, a good clinician can transcend most if not all gender concerns. Ultimately, the most important factor in therapy is the connection and trust the client is able to build with the practitioner.
Would a male therapist have specific training in treating men?
Generally, no. There are no certifications for treating men specifically, but there are continuing education classes that therapists may take that focus on treating men as a group. There are many therapists who focus on men and male issues in their treatment and therefore have experience and expertise in this domain.