Self Esteem Counselling in Chilworth

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Karen Marolia
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Chilworth SO16
If you are reading this it is likely that you are considering therapy. Seeking support when life is presenting challenges can be quite daunting and you may have some worries about sharing your feelings. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgmental environment for you to be heard, where I believe the relationship between us is the key to supporting you in your journey. Perhaps experiences from your past or in the present are impacting how you live your daily life or maybe you’re feeling anxious, stressed or generally unhappy and would like to make some changes.
If you are reading this it is likely that you are considering therapy. Seeking support when life is presenting challenges can be quite daunting and you may have some worries about sharing your feelings. I offer a safe, confidential and non-judgmental environment for you to be heard, where I believe the relationship between us is the key to supporting you in your journey. Perhaps experiences from your past or in the present are impacting how you live your daily life or maybe you’re feeling anxious, stressed or generally unhappy and would like to make some changes.
023 8214 8561 View 023 8214 8561
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Hannah Regan
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chilworth GU4
In an ever-changing and uncertain world, counselling is an opportunity to take stock and reflect on how life feels for you. No matter what your concern might be, I can give you a safe place to explore your unique take on life. Difficult thoughts and feelings can be listened to respectfully and without fear of being judged. Whether you're feeling anxious, unfulfilled or unable to cope - you don't have to face your struggle alone. Talking things through can lighten the emotional load, restore perspective and bring positive change.
In an ever-changing and uncertain world, counselling is an opportunity to take stock and reflect on how life feels for you. No matter what your concern might be, I can give you a safe place to explore your unique take on life. Difficult thoughts and feelings can be listened to respectfully and without fear of being judged. Whether you're feeling anxious, unfulfilled or unable to cope - you don't have to face your struggle alone. Talking things through can lighten the emotional load, restore perspective and bring positive change.
07478 062455 View 07478 062455
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Sophie Bice
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chilworth GU4
Throughout life we all experience times of uncertainty, but now more than ever it might feel hard to navigate the challenges thrown at you in this uncertain world. Whatever your concerns, I can offer you a safe, respectful space in which to voice and explore difficult thoughts and emotions without fear of judgement. Whether you have a specific concern such as anxiety, depression, panic, grief, or relationship issues, or a more general feeling of dissatisfaction, discontentment or unease, you do not have to struggle alone. Talking with a counsellor can offer restorative insight & perspective and help bring about positive change.
Throughout life we all experience times of uncertainty, but now more than ever it might feel hard to navigate the challenges thrown at you in this uncertain world. Whatever your concerns, I can offer you a safe, respectful space in which to voice and explore difficult thoughts and emotions without fear of judgement. Whether you have a specific concern such as anxiety, depression, panic, grief, or relationship issues, or a more general feeling of dissatisfaction, discontentment or unease, you do not have to struggle alone. Talking with a counsellor can offer restorative insight & perspective and help bring about positive change.
07411 277378 View 07411 277378
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Kelly Thomas
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Chilworth GU4
I am a fully qualified and insured counsellor and psychotherapist registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. For over a decade I have worked with people that have experienced a variety of difficulties for which they have sought support such as depression, anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder. I have extensive experience working with relationship difficulties such as struggling to come to terms with the end of a relationship, affairs/betrayals, separation/divorce, relationship recovery, fear of change and domestic abuse in all forms including, emotional, physical and sexual.
I am a fully qualified and insured counsellor and psychotherapist registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. For over a decade I have worked with people that have experienced a variety of difficulties for which they have sought support such as depression, anxiety and post traumatic stress disorder. I have extensive experience working with relationship difficulties such as struggling to come to terms with the end of a relationship, affairs/betrayals, separation/divorce, relationship recovery, fear of change and domestic abuse in all forms including, emotional, physical and sexual.
01252 942763 View 01252 942763
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Hannah Maguire
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Chilworth SO16
My aim as a CBT therapist is to help clients who may be struggling with life challenges and develop a shared formulation that is individualised, that brings awareness to and understanding how your difficulties may have developed and are being maintained. This acts as a “roadmap” for our therapeutic understanding and intervention and will be covered in the initial assessment session(s). We will agree on how many sessions to meet for (usually six to 24, depending on the duration and complexity/severity) and help you work towards your set goals and values.
My aim as a CBT therapist is to help clients who may be struggling with life challenges and develop a shared formulation that is individualised, that brings awareness to and understanding how your difficulties may have developed and are being maintained. This acts as a “roadmap” for our therapeutic understanding and intervention and will be covered in the initial assessment session(s). We will agree on how many sessions to meet for (usually six to 24, depending on the duration and complexity/severity) and help you work towards your set goals and values.
07449 493168 View 07449 493168

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Nicky Barrie
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
Hi, I’m Nicky, I provide counselling for individuals aged 11 and above, on a short or long-term basis. Life often presents challenges that can leave us feeling overwhelmed or lost. This could be from the weight of anxiety, low self-esteem, self-harm, friendship issues, exam stress, relationship challenges with family and friends, and bereavement. I specialise in helping individuals navigate these storms, offering a path towards a better understanding of themselves, their feelings, and their unique struggles
Hi, I’m Nicky, I provide counselling for individuals aged 11 and above, on a short or long-term basis. Life often presents challenges that can leave us feeling overwhelmed or lost. This could be from the weight of anxiety, low self-esteem, self-harm, friendship issues, exam stress, relationship challenges with family and friends, and bereavement. I specialise in helping individuals navigate these storms, offering a path towards a better understanding of themselves, their feelings, and their unique struggles
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Jenny Hunter-Phillips
MA
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
When things are challenging, asking for help can be one of the hardest yet bravest things you can do. I'm Jenny and my role is to make the process as easy as possible for you, by offering a warm and supportive environment from which you can explore the challenges that you are facing, the symptoms that you are struggling with, and the causes of these issues. Anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, depression, habits or fears do not define you; they can be temporary problems that you can learn to solve, with the right support in place. My approach to therapy allows you to find a way forward as quickly as possible.
When things are challenging, asking for help can be one of the hardest yet bravest things you can do. I'm Jenny and my role is to make the process as easy as possible for you, by offering a warm and supportive environment from which you can explore the challenges that you are facing, the symptoms that you are struggling with, and the causes of these issues. Anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, depression, habits or fears do not define you; they can be temporary problems that you can learn to solve, with the right support in place. My approach to therapy allows you to find a way forward as quickly as possible.
01730 771474 View 01730 771474
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Claude Distefano
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
I have 15 years experience treating low mood and depression, various anxiety disorders (e.g. agoraphobia, general anxiety, excessive worry, panic, social anxiety, OCD, phobias, health anxiety), and single-case PTSD. Among other issues, I also help clients work through irritability, anger, shame, guilt, procrastination, stress, perfectionism, low self-esteem, bereavement, loneliness, and the impact of long-term health conditions. Sessions are held in-person in Farnham, Surrey or online by video.
I have 15 years experience treating low mood and depression, various anxiety disorders (e.g. agoraphobia, general anxiety, excessive worry, panic, social anxiety, OCD, phobias, health anxiety), and single-case PTSD. Among other issues, I also help clients work through irritability, anger, shame, guilt, procrastination, stress, perfectionism, low self-esteem, bereavement, loneliness, and the impact of long-term health conditions. Sessions are held in-person in Farnham, Surrey or online by video.
01252 986178 View 01252 986178
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Donna Morgan
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Guildford GU5
Welcome to my profile. I am delighted that you have taken the time to visit. I offer counselling services both online and face-to-face to address a range of issues such as stress, low self-esteem, anxiety, panic attacks and social anxiety. Anxiety is a common reason why people seek therapeutic support. If you are struggling with anxiety, I can help you manage your symptoms and transform your relationship with anxiety. Together, we will identify the most effective evidence-based interventions, such as CBT, EMDR, NLP and TFT.
Welcome to my profile. I am delighted that you have taken the time to visit. I offer counselling services both online and face-to-face to address a range of issues such as stress, low self-esteem, anxiety, panic attacks and social anxiety. Anxiety is a common reason why people seek therapeutic support. If you are struggling with anxiety, I can help you manage your symptoms and transform your relationship with anxiety. Together, we will identify the most effective evidence-based interventions, such as CBT, EMDR, NLP and TFT.
07401 310736 View 07401 310736
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David Campbell
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
My name is David and I offer outcome based therapy for complex based issues like depression, anxiety, addiction, and relationship challenges whether that is at home or work. We can only truly move past them by understanding where they originate from and deal with them as they present in your current life. This may involve looking at past experiences and the emotions associated with them in a compassionate, empathic, non-judgmental, curious way, creating the right conditions for you to get to the source of your problem and see how certain triggers from the past directly inform how you think, feel, and behave in the present moment.
My name is David and I offer outcome based therapy for complex based issues like depression, anxiety, addiction, and relationship challenges whether that is at home or work. We can only truly move past them by understanding where they originate from and deal with them as they present in your current life. This may involve looking at past experiences and the emotions associated with them in a compassionate, empathic, non-judgmental, curious way, creating the right conditions for you to get to the source of your problem and see how certain triggers from the past directly inform how you think, feel, and behave in the present moment.
01372 664327 View 01372 664327
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Woking Counselling Support, Couples + Individuals
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
If you have problems. being able to look at what is happening with someone neutral can be life-changing. Where there are difficulties with self-esteem, confidence or self-worth, then taking time to make sense of it all, know your priorities and trust yourself more can really help. There are also ways of shifting overwhelming anxiety and depression. In partner relationships, communication is often an issue and finding alternatives and healthier ways to resolve conflict can turn things around.
If you have problems. being able to look at what is happening with someone neutral can be life-changing. Where there are difficulties with self-esteem, confidence or self-worth, then taking time to make sense of it all, know your priorities and trust yourself more can really help. There are also ways of shifting overwhelming anxiety and depression. In partner relationships, communication is often an issue and finding alternatives and healthier ways to resolve conflict can turn things around.
01276 748032 View 01276 748032
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Paul Alistair Byford
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
Paul has a wealth of experience of psychological intervention having worked in various multi-disciplinary work settings including NHS IAPT services (Improving Access to Psychological Therapies). Alcohol and Drug misuse services, renowned private residential rehabs and prison. He has also had a successful private practice in Harley Street and in the Home Counties and now works from Guildford and Godalming in Surrey. Paul will use various contemporary research and evidence based therapeutic models including CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), MET (Motivational Enhancement Therapy) and Humanistic Person Centred Therapy to help facilitate change and help people with various issues to live more balanced lives.
Paul has a wealth of experience of psychological intervention having worked in various multi-disciplinary work settings including NHS IAPT services (Improving Access to Psychological Therapies). Alcohol and Drug misuse services, renowned private residential rehabs and prison. He has also had a successful private practice in Harley Street and in the Home Counties and now works from Guildford and Godalming in Surrey. Paul will use various contemporary research and evidence based therapeutic models including CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy), MET (Motivational Enhancement Therapy) and Humanistic Person Centred Therapy to help facilitate change and help people with various issues to live more balanced lives.
07480 486605 View 07480 486605
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Maria Bessant
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
Hi and a very warm welcome. I'm Maria, a Humanistic Counsellor offering evening face to face, online, or telephone sessions for 16+ and Adults. I have experience working with a number of issues such as; anxiety, depression, grief, sexual abuse, as well as working with lack of confidence and self esteem. Whatever brings you to counselling let me help you find a way to take control, to help you stop feeling overwhelmed and help you to feel more able to cope with whatever life throws your way, supporting you to discovering your own way forward.
Hi and a very warm welcome. I'm Maria, a Humanistic Counsellor offering evening face to face, online, or telephone sessions for 16+ and Adults. I have experience working with a number of issues such as; anxiety, depression, grief, sexual abuse, as well as working with lack of confidence and self esteem. Whatever brings you to counselling let me help you find a way to take control, to help you stop feeling overwhelmed and help you to feel more able to cope with whatever life throws your way, supporting you to discovering your own way forward.
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Stacey Medalyer
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
I am a qualified and experienced Humanistic counsellor and psychotherapist, based in Godalming, Surrey, working with adults of all ages and backgrounds. I also work with young people and children aged 5 - 18. I can offer you a safe, confidential, comfortable and welcoming environment where you can express your feelings, attitudes and beliefs openly and freely without fear of judgement. We will work together, at your pace, exploring your emotions, worries and experiences. I will be there alongside you, as you move your life in a direction that is right for you. ​
I am a qualified and experienced Humanistic counsellor and psychotherapist, based in Godalming, Surrey, working with adults of all ages and backgrounds. I also work with young people and children aged 5 - 18. I can offer you a safe, confidential, comfortable and welcoming environment where you can express your feelings, attitudes and beliefs openly and freely without fear of judgement. We will work together, at your pace, exploring your emotions, worries and experiences. I will be there alongside you, as you move your life in a direction that is right for you. ​
07973 185495 View 07973 185495
Photo of Kay Parkinson - Place2Talk Counselling, MBACP, Counsellor
Kay Parkinson - Place2Talk Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
Life can be messy it rarely turns out exactly as we hope or plan. Perhaps relationship or work-life difficulties are causing you emotional pain and mental suffering. Maybe you have been signed off from work, college or university with anxiety or stress, or you’re simply not able to enjoy the ‘sunshine‘ moments of life. Counselling can help you navigate the difficulties that are causing your emotional & mental suffering & provide support as you work towards building a more fulfilled & contented life. Shame is a common theme associated with low self-esteem, however, working together we can reduce its impact to improve your well-being.
Life can be messy it rarely turns out exactly as we hope or plan. Perhaps relationship or work-life difficulties are causing you emotional pain and mental suffering. Maybe you have been signed off from work, college or university with anxiety or stress, or you’re simply not able to enjoy the ‘sunshine‘ moments of life. Counselling can help you navigate the difficulties that are causing your emotional & mental suffering & provide support as you work towards building a more fulfilled & contented life. Shame is a common theme associated with low self-esteem, however, working together we can reduce its impact to improve your well-being.
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Jenny Perkel
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
I have been practising as a clinical psychologist for 28 years. I offer online psychotherapy (with occasional face-to-face appointments) to anyone struggling with their lives in different ways. Problems might include depression, stress, anxiety, panic attacks, medical conditions, disabilities, trauma of all kinds, relationship difficulties, sleep disturbances, eating disorders, neurodiversity (including ADHD and ASD), emotional dysregulation, low self-esteem, and problems associated with infancy, childhood, adolescence and pregnancy.
I have been practising as a clinical psychologist for 28 years. I offer online psychotherapy (with occasional face-to-face appointments) to anyone struggling with their lives in different ways. Problems might include depression, stress, anxiety, panic attacks, medical conditions, disabilities, trauma of all kinds, relationship difficulties, sleep disturbances, eating disorders, neurodiversity (including ADHD and ASD), emotional dysregulation, low self-esteem, and problems associated with infancy, childhood, adolescence and pregnancy.
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Photo of Anna Chainska, MA, BACP, Counsellor
Anna Chainska
Counsellor, MA, BACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
Somatic therapy combined with psychodynamic counselling is an incredibly powerful and fast-acting approach to healing anxiety, stress, depression, low self-esteem, and even chronic illnesses. This combination addresses both the mind and body simultaneously, offering a truly transformative experience. While our thinking mind holds onto events, traumas, and stories, it is the body that stores emotions—especially negative ones—which can become trapped in our organs. These stored emotions can manifest physically, causing sensations such as panic attacks, anxiety, or a deep sense of tension and unease.
Somatic therapy combined with psychodynamic counselling is an incredibly powerful and fast-acting approach to healing anxiety, stress, depression, low self-esteem, and even chronic illnesses. This combination addresses both the mind and body simultaneously, offering a truly transformative experience. While our thinking mind holds onto events, traumas, and stories, it is the body that stores emotions—especially negative ones—which can become trapped in our organs. These stored emotions can manifest physically, causing sensations such as panic attacks, anxiety, or a deep sense of tension and unease.
01923 920459 View 01923 920459
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Dr Miriam Mavia-Zajac
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Guildford GU1
I am a Highly Specialist Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with the BPS & accredited by the HCPC. With more than 23 years of experience, I bring a diverse knowledge base & toolbox of skills & strategies that I draw from; to help tailor sessions to suit my client’s personality & struggles. I deliver bespoke therapy and work at my client's pace. I have a special interest in neurodivergence (ASD & ADHD) and am an accredited assessor.
I am a Highly Specialist Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with the BPS & accredited by the HCPC. With more than 23 years of experience, I bring a diverse knowledge base & toolbox of skills & strategies that I draw from; to help tailor sessions to suit my client’s personality & struggles. I deliver bespoke therapy and work at my client's pace. I have a special interest in neurodivergence (ASD & ADHD) and am an accredited assessor.
01483 694982 View 01483 694982
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Marzena Steels
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Guildford GU2
Whatever you are feeling now, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Life can be tricky sometimes and you may think that people can't understand you because of what you are going through. Sometimes you need someone to listen to you, to help you to understand what is actually happening. I can help you to walk through this journey, to find a way to a safe place which respects your values and beliefs. You can talk about any issues that bother you and explore your emotions without judgment. I have 19 years of training and experience in a broad range of topics in psychotherapy counselling and educational therapy.
Whatever you are feeling now, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. Life can be tricky sometimes and you may think that people can't understand you because of what you are going through. Sometimes you need someone to listen to you, to help you to understand what is actually happening. I can help you to walk through this journey, to find a way to a safe place which respects your values and beliefs. You can talk about any issues that bother you and explore your emotions without judgment. I have 19 years of training and experience in a broad range of topics in psychotherapy counselling and educational therapy.
01252 986481 View 01252 986481
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Dr Emilia Szmigielska
Psychologist, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Guildford GU2
I can help with various difficulties such as anxiety, depression, self-harm, addictions, low self-esteem, ADHD, narcissistic abuse, panic attacks, OCD, trauma, bereavement, PTSD, anger management, social anxiety, relationship issues, sexuality, disordered eating, body image, body appreciation, parenthood, abortion, career change, lack of motivation and many others. As an integrative therapist I use various therapeutic techniques such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness-Based Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT),
I can help with various difficulties such as anxiety, depression, self-harm, addictions, low self-esteem, ADHD, narcissistic abuse, panic attacks, OCD, trauma, bereavement, PTSD, anger management, social anxiety, relationship issues, sexuality, disordered eating, body image, body appreciation, parenthood, abortion, career change, lack of motivation and many others. As an integrative therapist I use various therapeutic techniques such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mindfulness-Based Therapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT),
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Self Esteem Counsellors

When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?

When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?

Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?

Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.