Relational Counselling in Bromley

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Ruth Lawson
Psychotherapist, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
I specialise in life changes, transformations and transitions and work with relational trauma.
Hello! I am an experienced and energetic practitioner I experience many clients saying that they don’t believe that their problems are bad enough, that there must be others in need who are suffering more, or that it is indulgent to go for counselling. If you are finding it hard to cope with life, for whatever reason, remember that you deserve to be heard and that your experiences, memories and feelings are real for you. I walk alongside you as you explore your unique life experiences and bring them for healing. I'm a qualified counsellor and coach. I am also UKCP trainee psychotherapist currently working towards accreditation.
I specialise in life changes, transformations and transitions and work with relational trauma.
Hello! I am an experienced and energetic practitioner I experience many clients saying that they don’t believe that their problems are bad enough, that there must be others in need who are suffering more, or that it is indulgent to go for counselling. If you are finding it hard to cope with life, for whatever reason, remember that you deserve to be heard and that your experiences, memories and feelings are real for you. I walk alongside you as you explore your unique life experiences and bring them for healing. I'm a qualified counsellor and coach. I am also UKCP trainee psychotherapist currently working towards accreditation.
07723 502566 View 07723 502566
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Katerina Dafini
Psychotherapist, MA, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
There can be times in life where you might feel like the world is a hard place to navigate, often due to relational difficulties. These could derive from a number of different sources that can range from a change of circumstances to daunting past events. You might feel like you’re overwhelmed by emotions, uncertain of their origins and lacking a strategy to manage them. While therapy cannot alter your current circumstances or erase past traumas, it can empower you to build resilience, helping you navigate and grow through life's struggles. The goal is to guide you towards a more fulfilling and joyful life.
There can be times in life where you might feel like the world is a hard place to navigate, often due to relational difficulties. These could derive from a number of different sources that can range from a change of circumstances to daunting past events. You might feel like you’re overwhelmed by emotions, uncertain of their origins and lacking a strategy to manage them. While therapy cannot alter your current circumstances or erase past traumas, it can empower you to build resilience, helping you navigate and grow through life's struggles. The goal is to guide you towards a more fulfilling and joyful life.
020 3917 4174 View 020 3917 4174
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Rory Howlett
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1  (Online Only)
I am an integratively trained, relational therapist.
Searching online for a therapist can be a daunting prospect. If you have made it this far you have taken a huge step, in acknowledging to yourself that you may need support. I can help you now in taking the next steps towards feeling ‘un-stuck’ and able to move forward with your life. You might be here because something is bothering you or you have experienced a major life event. Maybe a relationship in your life has ended or changed. There are also times when life seems to be going well, but you are still feeling low, depressed or not yourself.
I am an integratively trained, relational therapist.
Searching online for a therapist can be a daunting prospect. If you have made it this far you have taken a huge step, in acknowledging to yourself that you may need support. I can help you now in taking the next steps towards feeling ‘un-stuck’ and able to move forward with your life. You might be here because something is bothering you or you have experienced a major life event. Maybe a relationship in your life has ended or changed. There are also times when life seems to be going well, but you are still feeling low, depressed or not yourself.
020 3838 0691 View 020 3838 0691
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Shirley Kosonikeh Anthony
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
Shame, Loss, Trauma, Anger, Relational Difficulties, Inner Child.
Are you looking for compassion and a listening ear in a confusing time? Maybe you are looking for answers and everyone around you is busy or have their own problems. You might feel lonely and stuck with nowhere to turn. I offer a confidential space where you can share what you are facing in life. You are free to talk about any challenges and situations you are facing in a non-judgmental and empathetic environment. I will support you as you gain understanding on your circumstances and find your own answers towards personal growth, inner strength, and resilience.
Shame, Loss, Trauma, Anger, Relational Difficulties, Inner Child.
Are you looking for compassion and a listening ear in a confusing time? Maybe you are looking for answers and everyone around you is busy or have their own problems. You might feel lonely and stuck with nowhere to turn. I offer a confidential space where you can share what you are facing in life. You are free to talk about any challenges and situations you are facing in a non-judgmental and empathetic environment. I will support you as you gain understanding on your circumstances and find your own answers towards personal growth, inner strength, and resilience.
01689 668216 View 01689 668216
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Keziah Cader
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1  (Online Only)
I am a compassionate and approachable counselling psychotherapist, known for my deep empathy. With over 3 years of experience, my therapeutic practice offers a safe, supportive and confidential haven for self-exploration and growth. My approach is integrative, psychodynamic, relational, and person-centred. I specialise in working with trauma and its impact on our nervous systems, recognising the significance of an intercultural approach, particularly when working with Black and people of colour. My goal is to offer a diverse and culturally rich perspective to help you navigate life's challenges and achieve personal fulfilment.
I am a compassionate and approachable counselling psychotherapist, known for my deep empathy. With over 3 years of experience, my therapeutic practice offers a safe, supportive and confidential haven for self-exploration and growth. My approach is integrative, psychodynamic, relational, and person-centred. I specialise in working with trauma and its impact on our nervous systems, recognising the significance of an intercultural approach, particularly when working with Black and people of colour. My goal is to offer a diverse and culturally rich perspective to help you navigate life's challenges and achieve personal fulfilment.
020 3958 4056 View 020 3958 4056
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Charlotte La Thrope
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
Life can be incredibly tough sometimes and leave us feeling isolated and unable to cope. And whilst sometimes we may have people around us to turn to for support, we may feel that we don’t want to burden them or feel that they won't understand.
Life can be incredibly tough sometimes and leave us feeling isolated and unable to cope. And whilst sometimes we may have people around us to turn to for support, we may feel that we don’t want to burden them or feel that they won't understand.
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Mamta Ward
Counsellor, PNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
Welcome. It can feel difficult to start with counselling, so let me start by saying the work we do will be guided by your own choices and needs. You can express these in a confidential space of emotional safety and we can explore what is happening for you and better understand it. Together we can define and move towards your goals at a pace that suits and feels safe to you. I work with low mood, sadness, anxiety, depression and feelings of being overwhelmed.
Welcome. It can feel difficult to start with counselling, so let me start by saying the work we do will be guided by your own choices and needs. You can express these in a confidential space of emotional safety and we can explore what is happening for you and better understand it. Together we can define and move towards your goals at a pace that suits and feels safe to you. I work with low mood, sadness, anxiety, depression and feelings of being overwhelmed.
07401 206254 View 07401 206254
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Melanie Chesnokov
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Bromley BR1
My approach is person-centred and solution-focused. I hold a warm, inclusive, judgement-free space for deep personal growth. Together we will explore different ways of looking at things while also exploring how you got to where you are to begin with. I want to help you uncover your inner strengths, gain new insights, and hone the skills you need in order to live the life you desire. Not all work is about the past; sometimes the focus is on acquiring practical skills in the here and now to face new challenges. Meeting you where you are, even if you are nervous and unsure, I don’t rely on a “one-size-fits-all” approach to healing.
My approach is person-centred and solution-focused. I hold a warm, inclusive, judgement-free space for deep personal growth. Together we will explore different ways of looking at things while also exploring how you got to where you are to begin with. I want to help you uncover your inner strengths, gain new insights, and hone the skills you need in order to live the life you desire. Not all work is about the past; sometimes the focus is on acquiring practical skills in the here and now to face new challenges. Meeting you where you are, even if you are nervous and unsure, I don’t rely on a “one-size-fits-all” approach to healing.
07522 101363 View 07522 101363
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Dr Divya Patel
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1  (Online Only)
Are you suffering in silence, feeling stuck or unhappy? Struggling with unhealthy patterns that are problematic or having issues with past traumatic events? We all know life can be challenging and often complicated at times. Perhaps you’d like the space to think about you, a chance to heal old or new wounds? I can help by providing a supportive space to explore this with you. I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with HCPC, with 10 years of experience working with individuals experiencing a range of mental health difficulties in both the NHS (inpatient and outpatient services), school setting and charity sectors.
Are you suffering in silence, feeling stuck or unhappy? Struggling with unhealthy patterns that are problematic or having issues with past traumatic events? We all know life can be challenging and often complicated at times. Perhaps you’d like the space to think about you, a chance to heal old or new wounds? I can help by providing a supportive space to explore this with you. I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist, registered with HCPC, with 10 years of experience working with individuals experiencing a range of mental health difficulties in both the NHS (inpatient and outpatient services), school setting and charity sectors.
01689 663156 View 01689 663156
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Dr Kari Carstairs
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
Maybe life has dealt you a blow that has shattered you, or maybe you feel stuck and confused about who you are and what you want in life. Or maybe, you feel full of bad feelings that threaten to overwhelm you – feelings such as sadness, rage, hopelessness, shame, fear and frustration. If so, therapy can help.
Maybe life has dealt you a blow that has shattered you, or maybe you feel stuck and confused about who you are and what you want in life. Or maybe, you feel full of bad feelings that threaten to overwhelm you – feelings such as sadness, rage, hopelessness, shame, fear and frustration. If so, therapy can help.
020 3984 9133 View 020 3984 9133
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Daniele Grainger
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bromley BR1
Do you have a feel anxious, depressed, have low self-esteem / low self confidence or a general feeling that things aren't right? Do you repeat the same behaviour/relationship patterns despite wanting to change? Do you feel stuck, or have difficulty letting go of negative thoughts? Counselling is a unique opportunity to understand how your experiences of the world impact on your life and relationships. If are looking to work through issues like anxiety, depression, trauma, setting healthy boundaries, co-dependency or narcissistic abuse, to improve self-esteem and feel connected to yourself and others, I can help.
Do you have a feel anxious, depressed, have low self-esteem / low self confidence or a general feeling that things aren't right? Do you repeat the same behaviour/relationship patterns despite wanting to change? Do you feel stuck, or have difficulty letting go of negative thoughts? Counselling is a unique opportunity to understand how your experiences of the world impact on your life and relationships. If are looking to work through issues like anxiety, depression, trauma, setting healthy boundaries, co-dependency or narcissistic abuse, to improve self-esteem and feel connected to yourself and others, I can help.
07793 551014 View 07793 551014
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Samantha Merry
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
I help you to navigate complex family dynamics and make sense of difficult life experiences. Psychotherapy for all issues including bereavement, PTSD, complex Trauma, dissociation, menopause, and religious trauma. Maybe you hide parts of yourself from others for fear of being misunderstood. All parts of you are welcome to therapy.  I work well with people who feel awkward, confused or have a hard time identifying how they are feeling. Maybe you feel shame, overwhelm, anxiety or dissociate. Do you have fragmented memories of the past or find yourself losing track of time? I offer a safe space to explore confusing experiences.
I help you to navigate complex family dynamics and make sense of difficult life experiences. Psychotherapy for all issues including bereavement, PTSD, complex Trauma, dissociation, menopause, and religious trauma. Maybe you hide parts of yourself from others for fear of being misunderstood. All parts of you are welcome to therapy.  I work well with people who feel awkward, confused or have a hard time identifying how they are feeling. Maybe you feel shame, overwhelm, anxiety or dissociate. Do you have fragmented memories of the past or find yourself losing track of time? I offer a safe space to explore confusing experiences.
07723 454122 View 07723 454122
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Kay McKenzie
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
I provide a warm and supportive service to client's tailored to their individual requirements using Integrative techniques and my own intuitive approach. I work collaboratively with client's, helping to empower them and facilitating change and understanding as we deal with the issues which bring them to counselling. I strongly believe in the benefits of the therapeutic relationship formed between us and its ability to identify and challenge long held belief systems that may no longer be appropriate, unlearning unhelpful patterns and beliefs while replacing them with healthier and more appropriate versions.
I provide a warm and supportive service to client's tailored to their individual requirements using Integrative techniques and my own intuitive approach. I work collaboratively with client's, helping to empower them and facilitating change and understanding as we deal with the issues which bring them to counselling. I strongly believe in the benefits of the therapeutic relationship formed between us and its ability to identify and challenge long held belief systems that may no longer be appropriate, unlearning unhelpful patterns and beliefs while replacing them with healthier and more appropriate versions.
020 4538 4467 View 020 4538 4467
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Maggie Bell, Counsellor, Hypnotherapist & EMDR
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
BACP Accredited Counsellor, Registered GHR Master Hypnotherapist, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing with Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Internal Parts Therapy. Over 25 years NHS experience; inpatient, outpatient, community and Private Practice. Complimentary telephone consultation to discuss your therapeutic pathway forward. An integrative therapist with multi-modalities; extensive qualifications, specialisms and experience working with you with all issues. More information can be found on my website; an evolution of many many years.
BACP Accredited Counsellor, Registered GHR Master Hypnotherapist, Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing with Neuro-Linguistic Programming and Internal Parts Therapy. Over 25 years NHS experience; inpatient, outpatient, community and Private Practice. Complimentary telephone consultation to discuss your therapeutic pathway forward. An integrative therapist with multi-modalities; extensive qualifications, specialisms and experience working with you with all issues. More information can be found on my website; an evolution of many many years.
020 4538 9918 View 020 4538 9918
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Dr Kerstin Zechner
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bromley BR1  (Online Only)
Hello, and welcome. My name is Kerstin, and I am Counselling Psychologist. I specialise in working with adults who struggle with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, addiction, work-related stress, childhood trauma as well as relationship issues. I'm especially passionate about helping you work through the relationships in your life by making sense of how you relate to yourself and others, supporting you to live a more fulfilled and content life.
Hello, and welcome. My name is Kerstin, and I am Counselling Psychologist. I specialise in working with adults who struggle with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, addiction, work-related stress, childhood trauma as well as relationship issues. I'm especially passionate about helping you work through the relationships in your life by making sense of how you relate to yourself and others, supporting you to live a more fulfilled and content life.
01689 664635 View 01689 664635
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Michelle Harrison-Lee
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR1
Hello, my name is Michelle, As a counsellor and psychotherapist, I am all too aware of just how daunting taking that initial step towards counselling can be. The mere fact that you are reading this now means you are just a phone call away from putting that right. While we sometimes turn to a friend or family member in our hour of need, it is when the problem lies with our nearest and dearest that we should consult with a professional.
Hello, my name is Michelle, As a counsellor and psychotherapist, I am all too aware of just how daunting taking that initial step towards counselling can be. The mere fact that you are reading this now means you are just a phone call away from putting that right. While we sometimes turn to a friend or family member in our hour of need, it is when the problem lies with our nearest and dearest that we should consult with a professional.
07481 345693 View 07481 345693
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Frances Taylor
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bromley BR1
Feel in need of a listening ear? I can help you to explore what's weighing you down. I'm an experienced Counsellor and Supervisor working with clients of all ages - Adults, Children and Adolescents, providing a safe space to talk and offload. I am a trained Bereavement Counsellor, School Counsellor and Addictions Practitioner. I have extensive experience of working with common and complex mental health issues, suicide, complex loss, transitions, anxiety, depression, addictions, problems at school or work, family matters, cultural and disability diversity, faith and dual diagnosis. My own lived experience means I can relate too
Feel in need of a listening ear? I can help you to explore what's weighing you down. I'm an experienced Counsellor and Supervisor working with clients of all ages - Adults, Children and Adolescents, providing a safe space to talk and offload. I am a trained Bereavement Counsellor, School Counsellor and Addictions Practitioner. I have extensive experience of working with common and complex mental health issues, suicide, complex loss, transitions, anxiety, depression, addictions, problems at school or work, family matters, cultural and disability diversity, faith and dual diagnosis. My own lived experience means I can relate too
01959 588885 View 01959 588885
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Natasha Miller
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bromley BR1
The warmest of welcomes to my page. It’s my pleasure to meet you… and however you are feeling right now, that’s welcome too. I don’t know what brought you here, but maybe clarifying what the problem is, how those feelings are, expressing them somehow, can bring some relief and release. Trauma. Depression. Shame. Anxiety. Neurodiversity. Your identities are welcome here. I work with many different theories and techniques, always with the deepest empathic respect for what you are going through. We need all our resources mobilised to work together, supporting you get through this!
The warmest of welcomes to my page. It’s my pleasure to meet you… and however you are feeling right now, that’s welcome too. I don’t know what brought you here, but maybe clarifying what the problem is, how those feelings are, expressing them somehow, can bring some relief and release. Trauma. Depression. Shame. Anxiety. Neurodiversity. Your identities are welcome here. I work with many different theories and techniques, always with the deepest empathic respect for what you are going through. We need all our resources mobilised to work together, supporting you get through this!
01689 661738 View 01689 661738
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Shelley Williams
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
Exploring with you what is happening, and how you are feeling, in the context of your unique life story, I aim to help you develop healthier, more effective ways of coping with life challenges, leading to greater emotional well-being and more fulfilling relationships. This may mean helping you to work through some difficult and painful experiences and feelings. I am mindful of your needs and will be guided by you. I work with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, family and relationship issues, bereavement and trauma. You can listen to me talk further about my approach on my website www.swpsychotherapy.co.uk
Exploring with you what is happening, and how you are feeling, in the context of your unique life story, I aim to help you develop healthier, more effective ways of coping with life challenges, leading to greater emotional well-being and more fulfilling relationships. This may mean helping you to work through some difficult and painful experiences and feelings. I am mindful of your needs and will be guided by you. I work with a broad range of issues including anxiety, depression, family and relationship issues, bereavement and trauma. You can listen to me talk further about my approach on my website www.swpsychotherapy.co.uk
020 4538 3715 View 020 4538 3715
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Wendy Borrett
Psychotherapist, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Bromley BR2
I am a BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor and Accredited Supervisor and provide counselling and supervision to individuals and couples. I have helped people with many issues including: anxiety, stress, phobias, panic attacks, low self esteem, depression, bereavement, sexual abuse, sleep disorders, anger, weight management, smoking and past life regression. I am also a Clinical Hypnotherapist and provide Clinical Hypnotherapy from my private practice in Sidcup, Kent where I have worked as a therapist for 22 years.
I am a BACP Senior Accredited Counsellor and Accredited Supervisor and provide counselling and supervision to individuals and couples. I have helped people with many issues including: anxiety, stress, phobias, panic attacks, low self esteem, depression, bereavement, sexual abuse, sleep disorders, anger, weight management, smoking and past life regression. I am also a Clinical Hypnotherapist and provide Clinical Hypnotherapy from my private practice in Sidcup, Kent where I have worked as a therapist for 22 years.
01322 927706 View 01322 927706
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Relational Counsellors

How does relational therapy work?

Relational therapy was developed by psychologist Jean Miller, whose ideas stressed that having strong connections with others encourages better health and well-being when compared with a lonely existence. Conversely, poor interpersonal relationships do not foster growth and learning. Relational therapy also encourages trust in others and patience with others, along with better communication and less conflict.

Is relational therapy evidence-based?

Relational therapy is not well-studied, and it may not be as effective in treating certain mental health conditions when compared with evidence-based treatments like cognitive behavioural or acceptance and commitment therapy. However, relational therapy uses techniques found in cognitive behavioural therapy as well as psychodynamic therapy, which are both well-studied with empirical research.

How long are people typically in relational therapy?

Clients may see improvement after a few weeks or months of therapy. Like cognitive behavioral therapy, relational therapy can reduce symptoms within 10 to 20 weeks, at 45 to 50 minutes once a week. But like any type of therapy, improvement depends on the person and the severity of the problem.

Does relational therapy work?

While no therapy type will work for everyone, some evidence suggests that this therapy can be effective. Relational therapy can help a person manage problematic relationships as well as the mental health conditions that accompany difficult relationships like depression or anxiety. This therapy type may offer benefits that are hard to measure but can be just as valuable—including feelings of higher self-worth or healthier connections with others.