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Where Does Responsibility Come From?
Understanding the interface of the internal and external.
Posted March 11, 2024 Reviewed by Davia Sills
Key points
- Both individual and corporate responsibility are crucial.
- Some people see responsibility as a burden instead of an opportunity for growth.
- These five keys to developing responsibility can help someone become the creator of their own fate.
Responsibility in the age of victimhood
The evolution of human thought, ethics, and societal structures has continually shaped our understanding of responsibility in various contexts throughout history.
In the 17th and 18th centuries, thinkers like Immanuel Kant and Jean-Jacques Rousseau explored ideas of individual responsibility and moral autonomy, reinforcing the idea of personal responsibility for one’s actions. The Industrial Revolution brought about significant social and economic changes. It led to discussions about corporate responsibility, workers’ rights, and the impact of industrialization on society.
In the modern era, the concept of responsibility has expanded to include global issues, such as environmental responsibility. Concepts like sustainability and corporate social responsibility have gained prominence as societies grapple with complex global challenges. The concept of responsibility evolves to meet the shifting demands of society.
Responsibility: Stress or freedom?
Throughout history, many people have associated responsibility with the weight of expectations and obligations in their personal and professional lives. Consequently, this negative perception led to stress, anxiety, and resistance to taking on responsibilities. In contemporary times, as we deepen our spiritual understanding and society places greater emphasis on our inner lives, personal development, and engagement in spiritual and self-improvement practices, we are arriving at a novel perspective on responsibility.
“Shifting from perceiving responsibility as a burden to viewing it as a tool for self-empowerment is the key to achieving anything you want in life. Full responsibility is being the creator of your reality,” says Nina Verkoeyen, a former psychologist and the founder of Meta Spirituality, a modern spiritual movement that challenges conventional thinking by asserting that we are not merely observers of our lives but the very architects of our reality.
“Total responsibility means taking full ownership of our thoughts, emotions, actions, and outcomes. It means refraining from blaming external factors, circumstances, or other people for our challenges or misfortunes. Instead, it encourages us to recognize that, as creators of our reality, we have the power to change it.”
In the Golden Age of Victimhood, this is a powerful and much-needed message. In my book Falling to Grace: The Art and Science of Redemption, I outline the steps needed to recover from massive blows to your identity and soul. And the key one is acceptance of a situation and your responsibility to acknowledge both your role in the creation of the situation and as the only one who can move forward and adapt.
“You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.” — Jim Rohn
This radical idea challenges us to shift our mindset from victimhood to creatorhood. It invites us to acknowledge that every circumstance, every relationship, and every experience in our lives is a product of our own creation, whether consciously or unconsciously.
Martin Seligman’s work on learned helplessness showed us that we can learn resilience, or the lack thereof. Are we taught helplessness or resilience?
“In order to succeed, people need a sense of self-efficacy, to struggle together with resilience to meet the inevitable obstacles and inequities of life.” — Albert Bandura
Becoming the creator of our own universe
The idea that we are the creator of our own universe is not a statement of arrogance but an affirmation of our inherent creative potential. It teaches us that we are not victims of fate but the masters of our destiny. When we fully grasp the concept of total responsibility, we tap into our divine essence and take on the mentality of a creator.
The five keys to total responsibility are:
1. Acknowledge our creative power.
Understanding that our thoughts, beliefs, and intentions shape our reality is the first step toward total responsibility. We become conscious creators when we recognize our role in every aspect of our lives.
2. Embrace accountability.
Total responsibility requires us to accept the consequences of our choices, both positive and negative. It is a call to be accountable for our actions and decisions.
3. Release blame and victimhood.
We let go of the habit of blaming others or external circumstances for our problems. There is no question that terrible things happen to people, but we cannot let that lead us to helplessness. Instead, we focus on how we can transform our circumstances through our own actions and mindset.
4. Cultivate mindfulness.
Mindfulness practices, such as meditation and self-reflection, play a crucial role in adopting the creator’s mentality. They help us become more aware of our thoughts and emotions, allowing us to direct our creative energy consciously.
5. Empower ourselves.
When we accept total responsibility, we empower ourselves to make deliberate choices and create the life we desire. We no longer feel helpless in the face of challenges but see them as opportunities for growth and transformation.
Total responsibility is not just a lofty concept but a practical approach to living a more fulfilling and empowered life. It challenges us to recognize our divine nature and embrace the role of creators in our own existence. By taking full responsibility for our thoughts, actions, and the world we create, we unleash our inner creator and become masters of our lives.
