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Cents and Sensibility: 10 Tips for Helping Your Teen
How to cultivate your teen's finanical independence in college.
Posted August 11, 2023 Reviewed by Ray Parker
Key points
- Craft a comprehensive, college budget with your teen and refer to it often.
- Talk openly and honestly about money with your teen before they go to college, but don't lecture.
- Listen to your teen's concerns about managing money, while offering suggestions, but don't fix it for them.
As your child prepares to embark on their college journey, it's crucial to have open and honest discussions about finances. College is an exciting time, but it can also be a stressful and overwhelming experience, especially when it comes to money.
As a parent, you want to make sure your teen is equipped with the skills and knowledge they need to manage their finances responsibly. These ten tips can help guide your teen toward financial independence and responsibility.
10 Tips to Set Your Kid Up for Financial Success
1. Create a Paying-for-College Budget: Sit down with your teen and establish a clear budget that covers tuition, living expenses, books, and other necessities. This is crucial in ensuring that your child doesn't overspend. Plan for the unexpected, extra supplies, gym membership, etc.
2. Regular Savings: Encourage your teen to save a portion of their allowance or part-time job income every month. This will help them build a solid financial foundation and teach them the importance of saving regularly.
3. Discuss Finances Openly: Be transparent about what you will contribute to college expenses and help them understand the importance of budgeting. It's important to start these conversations early on to avoid any misunderstandings or financial strain in the future.
4. Set Up a Bank Account: Before they leave for college, ensure your teen has a checking account. Don’t set it up for them. Go to the bank together and set it up. This will give them a sense of independence and responsibility when it comes to managing their finances.
5. Talk About Spending Habits: Discuss typical spending habits, such as how much money is reasonable to spend on food and entertainment. This will help them understand the value of money and avoid unnecessary spending.
6. Teach Them About Consequences: Overspending can lead to financial hardships and stress. Prepare for unexpected costs, such as emergencies or unforeseen expenses, and encourage your teen to develop a plan for handling them.
7. Encourage Responsibility: Give your teen responsibility over their finances, such as paying bills and managing a bank account. Even if you pay for their phone, car insurance, etc. let them know how much it is. Let them see the bill. This will help them develop a sense of independence and accountability.
8. Monitor Spending: Regularly monitor your teen’s spending trends and adjust the budget accordingly. Set up a time to do this together. This will help them stay on track and avoid unnecessary debt.
9. Scholarships and Grants: Encourage your teen to apply for scholarships and grants to help offset the cost of college. This can be a great way to reduce financial stress and make college more affordable.
10. Plan: Look beyond college and start talking to your teen about long-term financial planning. This could include saving for retirement, investing in stocks, or other financial planning options.
Preparing your teen for financial independence in college is not an easy task, but it's an essential one. With a little planning, communication, and guidance, you can help your teen build a solid financial foundation that will serve them well throughout their college years and beyond.
Remember, the goal is to equip them with the skills and knowledge they need to manage their finances responsibly. These conversations might be difficult, but they are key to setting your child up for success in college and beyond.
