Infidelity Therapists in Oakville, ON

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Amber Dalsin
Psychologist, MSc, CPsych
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
I help couples overcome conflict to create strong and harmonious relationships. As a Certified Gottman Therapist, I help couples quiet the conflict in their relationship. What were once heart-breaking conversations the couple did not know how to fix, turn into dialogue around making the relationship better, repairing old hurts, and deepening emotional connection. Whether the conflict stems from poor communication and emotional distance, to trauma, affairs, infertility, or substance use problems, the evidence based treatments can help couples communicate openly and find solutions, or decide it is time to move on.
I help couples overcome conflict to create strong and harmonious relationships. As a Certified Gottman Therapist, I help couples quiet the conflict in their relationship. What were once heart-breaking conversations the couple did not know how to fix, turn into dialogue around making the relationship better, repairing old hurts, and deepening emotional connection. Whether the conflict stems from poor communication and emotional distance, to trauma, affairs, infertility, or substance use problems, the evidence based treatments can help couples communicate openly and find solutions, or decide it is time to move on.
(647) 957-9941 View (647) 957-9941
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Basil Joseph
Registered Psychotherapist, MEd, RP, RMFT
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6K
If you or someone in your life is facing emotional or relationship difficulties, I will be able to help. For the past 25 years I have worked in a variety of community and mental health settings, helping clients with a wide range of issues including stress, depression, anxiety, trauma, addictions, relationship-family conflicts, infidelity, anger management, and in coping with difficult life transitions.
If you or someone in your life is facing emotional or relationship difficulties, I will be able to help. For the past 25 years I have worked in a variety of community and mental health settings, helping clients with a wide range of issues including stress, depression, anxiety, trauma, addictions, relationship-family conflicts, infidelity, anger management, and in coping with difficult life transitions.
(647) 697-4434 View (647) 697-4434
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First Step Men's Therapy
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, ASAT, EMDR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6J  (Online Only)
Our specializations include: sex therapy, sexual addiction, alcohol use, substance misuse, ADHD, anger management, anxiety, infidelity, divorce, depression, men's issues, grief, parenting, and couples counselling.
Are you feeling disconnected to yourself, loved ones, or society? Do you question whether you are a good father, son, or partner? Do you feel angry, stuck, overwhelmed, powerless, guilty, or "not normal". Many men struggle with their mental health without seeking help or reaching out for support. Often, this struggle may lead to addiction, anxiety, depression, shame, guilt, suicidal ideation, poor relationships, grief, low self-esteem, or low self-worth. First Step Men's Therapy offers a safe, warm, and inviting space for men to heal, learn, and grow. Book a free consultation today. No waitlist - Click the "website" button to start!
Our specializations include: sex therapy, sexual addiction, alcohol use, substance misuse, ADHD, anger management, anxiety, infidelity, divorce, depression, men's issues, grief, parenting, and couples counselling.
Are you feeling disconnected to yourself, loved ones, or society? Do you question whether you are a good father, son, or partner? Do you feel angry, stuck, overwhelmed, powerless, guilty, or "not normal". Many men struggle with their mental health without seeking help or reaching out for support. Often, this struggle may lead to addiction, anxiety, depression, shame, guilt, suicidal ideation, poor relationships, grief, low self-esteem, or low self-worth. First Step Men's Therapy offers a safe, warm, and inviting space for men to heal, learn, and grow. Book a free consultation today. No waitlist - Click the "website" button to start!
(289) 814-9978 View (289) 814-9978
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Karen Bollum
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6K  (Online Only)
I specialize in couples & family counselling, parenting, separation and divorce, infidelity, loss, anxiety, self-esteem, perfectionism, and more.
We all find life to be a challenge sometimes. Are you struggling with romantic, family, or parenting relationships? Do you not feel understood or heard by your friends and family? Do you have difficulty at work, or with self-esteem and confidence? I am here to help you with all of these issues. My goal is to create a welcoming environment where you can feel comfortable to share your thoughts and feelings. I know it can be hard to make the first step, but I promise you that seeking help is worth it.
I specialize in couples & family counselling, parenting, separation and divorce, infidelity, loss, anxiety, self-esteem, perfectionism, and more.
We all find life to be a challenge sometimes. Are you struggling with romantic, family, or parenting relationships? Do you not feel understood or heard by your friends and family? Do you have difficulty at work, or with self-esteem and confidence? I am here to help you with all of these issues. My goal is to create a welcoming environment where you can feel comfortable to share your thoughts and feelings. I know it can be hard to make the first step, but I promise you that seeking help is worth it.
(289) 312-1761 View (289) 312-1761
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Suzanne Dumais
Marriage & Family Therapist, BA, BEd, MDiv, RMFT, RP
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6J
I specialize in: Couples Therapy, Premarital or Enrichment Counselling, Parenting issues, Affairs, Sexual Addiction, Pornography, Divorce Recovery, Blended Families, Physical and Emotional Intimacy issues.
Life is a journey, like every great journey it has its certainties and uncertainties. As a registered marriage and family therapist I am trained in systemic, relationships and psychotherapy. I believe that throughout life we exist in many type of relationships, that directly or indirectly impact our well beings. Research and theory have shown that mental illness and family issues are best treated in the context of relationships. My therapeutic approach to counseling is non judgmental, kind, graceful, understanding and I value my clients input in the session. I use Gottman Method Couple Therapy in my work.
I specialize in: Couples Therapy, Premarital or Enrichment Counselling, Parenting issues, Affairs, Sexual Addiction, Pornography, Divorce Recovery, Blended Families, Physical and Emotional Intimacy issues.
Life is a journey, like every great journey it has its certainties and uncertainties. As a registered marriage and family therapist I am trained in systemic, relationships and psychotherapy. I believe that throughout life we exist in many type of relationships, that directly or indirectly impact our well beings. Research and theory have shown that mental illness and family issues are best treated in the context of relationships. My therapeutic approach to counseling is non judgmental, kind, graceful, understanding and I value my clients input in the session. I use Gottman Method Couple Therapy in my work.
(855) 953-0572 View (855) 953-0572
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Tupak Psychotherapy Oakville
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA Hons, MEd
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6K
In-person and Walk&Talk in Oakville. Relationships can seem complicated. Do you feel overwhelmed or at a lack of words when trying to communicate with your partner, parents, or children? Is it difficult for you to communicate or recognize your needs or to set boundaries in personal or professional relationships? Therapy can help to discover yourself and to work through relationship challenges including practical matters such as conflicting ideas, balancing different expectations, and reconnecting, as well as deeper rooted issues originating form relationship trauma including adverse childhood experiences, infidelity, or abuse.
In-person and Walk&Talk in Oakville. Relationships can seem complicated. Do you feel overwhelmed or at a lack of words when trying to communicate with your partner, parents, or children? Is it difficult for you to communicate or recognize your needs or to set boundaries in personal or professional relationships? Therapy can help to discover yourself and to work through relationship challenges including practical matters such as conflicting ideas, balancing different expectations, and reconnecting, as well as deeper rooted issues originating form relationship trauma including adverse childhood experiences, infidelity, or abuse.
(289) 805-6219 View (289) 805-6219
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First Step Men's Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW , RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6J  (Online Only)
Our specialities are: addiction, men's issues, career guidance, grief, video game addiction, gambling, substance use, ADHD, sexual addiction, infidelity, anger management, anxiety, depression, stress, and chronic pain.
Most men come to me feeling stuck, broken, disconnected, lost, or feeling lonely. Perhaps you have struggled with a mental concern for a while and are looking for change. For others, you may just want to better understand why you do the things you do. You may know you want to work on things, but are afraid to take the first step. It doesn't have to be this way! I work with men who are looking to develop healthier relationships with themselves and others. First Step Men's Therapy offers men across Ontario a safe, supportive, and healing space to learn, heal, and grow. Book a free 20-minute consultation today to get started.
Our specialities are: addiction, men's issues, career guidance, grief, video game addiction, gambling, substance use, ADHD, sexual addiction, infidelity, anger management, anxiety, depression, stress, and chronic pain.
Most men come to me feeling stuck, broken, disconnected, lost, or feeling lonely. Perhaps you have struggled with a mental concern for a while and are looking for change. For others, you may just want to better understand why you do the things you do. You may know you want to work on things, but are afraid to take the first step. It doesn't have to be this way! I work with men who are looking to develop healthier relationships with themselves and others. First Step Men's Therapy offers men across Ontario a safe, supportive, and healing space to learn, heal, and grow. Book a free 20-minute consultation today to get started.
(437) 500-6227 View (437) 500-6227
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Couples Therapist -Sherriden Brown
Registered Psychotherapist, CCC, MA
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6J
If you find yourself thinking 'my partner doesn't care', 'I do so much but it's never enough', or 'I just can't get it right', then I can help. I provide targeted therapy to couples struggling with challenges such as infidelity, emotional distance, neurodivergence, not feeling like a priority, difficulties communicating, anger, and intimacy challenges. Perhaps conflict is more frequent and you find yourselves getting caught in the same cycle over and again. Nothing seems to help and you are considering separation. I have helped countless straight and same sex couples heal from the pain and rebuild meaningful intimacy and connection.
If you find yourself thinking 'my partner doesn't care', 'I do so much but it's never enough', or 'I just can't get it right', then I can help. I provide targeted therapy to couples struggling with challenges such as infidelity, emotional distance, neurodivergence, not feeling like a priority, difficulties communicating, anger, and intimacy challenges. Perhaps conflict is more frequent and you find yourselves getting caught in the same cycle over and again. Nothing seems to help and you are considering separation. I have helped countless straight and same sex couples heal from the pain and rebuild meaningful intimacy and connection.
(289) 276-7423 View (289) 276-7423
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Path To Empowerment
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6M
Separation & divorce is not something you considered when you and your partner were planning your lives together. Unfortunately divorce is common and is an incredibly painful process which you can't typically prepare for. It can generate intense emotions such as anger, confusion, betrayal, loneliness, & hopelessness. Even if you know it's the right decision, you will likely be experiencing grief over what you had hoped your relationship would be. Co-parenting is another level to manage. This process can make you question who you are, and what your life will look like moving forward.
Separation & divorce is not something you considered when you and your partner were planning your lives together. Unfortunately divorce is common and is an incredibly painful process which you can't typically prepare for. It can generate intense emotions such as anger, confusion, betrayal, loneliness, & hopelessness. Even if you know it's the right decision, you will likely be experiencing grief over what you had hoped your relationship would be. Co-parenting is another level to manage. This process can make you question who you are, and what your life will look like moving forward.
(289) 216-7089 View (289) 216-7089
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Esra Magsoud
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6L  (Online Only)
I particularily enjoy supporting kids in regulating their emotions as well as couples with relationship issues, infidelity & meditation.
I provide individual, couples & family therapy to children, youth & adults. Deciding to seek therapy is an important step forward & I look forward to supporting you on your journey of personal growth. Whether you desire to make strides in your emotional, personal, social, or mental health, I will facilitate positive changes to improve your quality of life. I believe that safely & openly exploring your emotions in a positive & helpful environment is crucial. We will collaboratively create treatment plans & goals together, according to your unique needs, preferences & values. I apply an intersectional lens to promote cultural safety.
I particularily enjoy supporting kids in regulating their emotions as well as couples with relationship issues, infidelity & meditation.
I provide individual, couples & family therapy to children, youth & adults. Deciding to seek therapy is an important step forward & I look forward to supporting you on your journey of personal growth. Whether you desire to make strides in your emotional, personal, social, or mental health, I will facilitate positive changes to improve your quality of life. I believe that safely & openly exploring your emotions in a positive & helpful environment is crucial. We will collaboratively create treatment plans & goals together, according to your unique needs, preferences & values. I apply an intersectional lens to promote cultural safety.
(289) 802-0948 View (289) 802-0948
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Keleigh Anderson
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, CCAC, CCPS
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
(*Please note, I am only offering virtual sessions at this time.*) My ideal client is looking for new ways to navigate life. If you're looking for ways to create a life you love, that's my jam. Stress reduction, anxiety management, addiction, betrayal recovery.....little changes to our day to day thinking lead to massive, positive change. I offer a free 15 minute phone consultation to see if we're a good fit. Book here: https://oab.owlpractice.ca/keleigh/booking It's easy & free!
(*Please note, I am only offering virtual sessions at this time.*) My ideal client is looking for new ways to navigate life. If you're looking for ways to create a life you love, that's my jam. Stress reduction, anxiety management, addiction, betrayal recovery.....little changes to our day to day thinking lead to massive, positive change. I offer a free 15 minute phone consultation to see if we're a good fit. Book here: https://oab.owlpractice.ca/keleigh/booking It's easy & free!
(289) 207-6694 View (289) 207-6694
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Janice Walfall
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, RSSW
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6H
I work mostly with women whose issues are anxiety, depression, boundaries, parenting, relationship conflicts, infidelity, separation/divorce, trauma, PTSD, church hurt/harmful spiritual experiences and those whose faith is vital to their lives.
Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Have you had a shocking event that now impedes your daily functioning? Whether you are in crisis, or want to heal past wounds, reduce stress or navigate a difficult relationship, I am here to help you on that journey to gain perspective, process your emotions, get relief from the hurt and find the root cause so you can experience the change you long for. As a Registered Psychotherapist, I value providing a safe and welcoming space, to help you connect with your authentic self, move forward with hope, wholeness and to thrive. I strive to embody a compassionate, collaborative and curious stance.
I work mostly with women whose issues are anxiety, depression, boundaries, parenting, relationship conflicts, infidelity, separation/divorce, trauma, PTSD, church hurt/harmful spiritual experiences and those whose faith is vital to their lives.
Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed? Have you had a shocking event that now impedes your daily functioning? Whether you are in crisis, or want to heal past wounds, reduce stress or navigate a difficult relationship, I am here to help you on that journey to gain perspective, process your emotions, get relief from the hurt and find the root cause so you can experience the change you long for. As a Registered Psychotherapist, I value providing a safe and welcoming space, to help you connect with your authentic self, move forward with hope, wholeness and to thrive. I strive to embody a compassionate, collaborative and curious stance.
(647) 554-7577 View (647) 554-7577
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Couple And Individual Therapy Marianne Duffy
Pre-Licensed Professional, BA, MACP, RP(Q)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H
Take a deep breath—you've already taken the first step by considering therapy. I know life can feel like a whirlwind sometimes, especially when it comes to relationships with ourself and others and figuring out our place in the world. It's like we're all navigating this maze of emotions and experiences, trying to make sense of it all. I want you to know that you're not alone in feeling overwhelmed by everything. I've been there too, grappling with the same questions about my own behaviour, my connections with others, and where I fit in this big, sometimes overwhelming, world. That's why I approach therapy in a way that's deeply
Take a deep breath—you've already taken the first step by considering therapy. I know life can feel like a whirlwind sometimes, especially when it comes to relationships with ourself and others and figuring out our place in the world. It's like we're all navigating this maze of emotions and experiences, trying to make sense of it all. I want you to know that you're not alone in feeling overwhelmed by everything. I've been there too, grappling with the same questions about my own behaviour, my connections with others, and where I fit in this big, sometimes overwhelming, world. That's why I approach therapy in a way that's deeply
(289) 812-8258 View (289) 812-8258
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Paul Lucas
Counsellor
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H
Are you sleeping on the couch still? Have you guys been fighting all weekend again? Living like roommates? Lack of connection gets old and scary, doesn't it? Or maybe you just experienced the unimaginable - your partner has cheated on you! You don't know what to do, where to go or even what you want. Perhaps there's kids that you have to think of or maybe finances that are so connected together that even the thoughts of breaking up is too much.
Are you sleeping on the couch still? Have you guys been fighting all weekend again? Living like roommates? Lack of connection gets old and scary, doesn't it? Or maybe you just experienced the unimaginable - your partner has cheated on you! You don't know what to do, where to go or even what you want. Perhaps there's kids that you have to think of or maybe finances that are so connected together that even the thoughts of breaking up is too much.
(289) 302-3553 View (289) 302-3553
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Couples and Relationship Therapy Roots in Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6J
Are you and your partner(s) struggling to manage conflict or communicate effectively? Are you hoping to deepen your connection or work through life transitions together? Are you navigating a shift in relationship dynamics? Relationships can be difficult to navigate as we all shift and change through time, sometimes it takes a little extra work to shift and change together. At Roots in Wellness, we will support you through whatever shifts are occurring your relationship(s) to help you find common ground in order to move forward positively.
Are you and your partner(s) struggling to manage conflict or communicate effectively? Are you hoping to deepen your connection or work through life transitions together? Are you navigating a shift in relationship dynamics? Relationships can be difficult to navigate as we all shift and change through time, sometimes it takes a little extra work to shift and change together. At Roots in Wellness, we will support you through whatever shifts are occurring your relationship(s) to help you find common ground in order to move forward positively.
(289) 275-9342 View (289) 275-9342
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Leanna Bissell: Pause Ponder Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, BA
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6L
Are you concerned that you might be having issues in any of the following areas?: Addictions (alcohol, drugs, social media, sex), ADHD (poor time management, disorganized thoughts), Trauma (PTSD, C-PTSD), Anxiety (social anxiety, worry and rumination), Depression (low mood, low motivation, fatigue, poor concentration, postpartum), Acquired brain injury, Body dissatisfaction (dieting/restricting, chronic eating, emotional eating) , Borderline Personality Disorder, Impulse Control and Managing urges.
Are you concerned that you might be having issues in any of the following areas?: Addictions (alcohol, drugs, social media, sex), ADHD (poor time management, disorganized thoughts), Trauma (PTSD, C-PTSD), Anxiety (social anxiety, worry and rumination), Depression (low mood, low motivation, fatigue, poor concentration, postpartum), Acquired brain injury, Body dissatisfaction (dieting/restricting, chronic eating, emotional eating) , Borderline Personality Disorder, Impulse Control and Managing urges.
(289) 271-0754 View (289) 271-0754
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Nigar Yunus
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP , CRPO
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H
Intuitive, empathic, and understanding, I am a Registered Psychotherapist. I truly believe a good therapist is curious, loves to hear stories, compassionate and a problem solver. My aim is to help individuals, couples and families find comfort from emotional distress, and help them with the building blocks to construct the lives they want. Since I co-founded FeelBetterNow Psychotherapy & Counselling, my team and I have provided support to people from different religions, cultures and lifestyles struggling with a variety of mental health issues.
Intuitive, empathic, and understanding, I am a Registered Psychotherapist. I truly believe a good therapist is curious, loves to hear stories, compassionate and a problem solver. My aim is to help individuals, couples and families find comfort from emotional distress, and help them with the building blocks to construct the lives they want. Since I co-founded FeelBetterNow Psychotherapy & Counselling, my team and I have provided support to people from different religions, cultures and lifestyles struggling with a variety of mental health issues.
(289) 274-3790 View (289) 274-3790
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Hina Mirza
Counsellor, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6J
My aim is to create a warm and supportive environment where clients are enabled to seek positive change and growth. My practice is rooted in the fundamental principles of adaptability, by giving clients the necessary tools to navigate their unique challenges while framing treatment planning with cultural sensitivity, religious values and an awareness of individual needs.
My aim is to create a warm and supportive environment where clients are enabled to seek positive change and growth. My practice is rooted in the fundamental principles of adaptability, by giving clients the necessary tools to navigate their unique challenges while framing treatment planning with cultural sensitivity, religious values and an awareness of individual needs.
(647) 930-1114 View (647) 930-1114
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Colleen O'Grady
Registered Social Worker, BA, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6K
Waitlist for new clients
Accepting New Clients! Life has a way of throwing us curveballs leaving us feeling overwhelmed and questioning our direction. I am passionate about helping adults make changes in their lives to reduce suffering and increase joy and happiness. I take a compassionate, trauma informed approach and specialize in supporting adults struggling with anxiety, depression, managing stress, emotion regulation, compassion fatigue, relationship issues, sexuality, and navigating life transitions. You can expect a kind, supportive, flexible, and non-judgmental experience. I look forward to supporting you on your journey to wellness!
Accepting New Clients! Life has a way of throwing us curveballs leaving us feeling overwhelmed and questioning our direction. I am passionate about helping adults make changes in their lives to reduce suffering and increase joy and happiness. I take a compassionate, trauma informed approach and specialize in supporting adults struggling with anxiety, depression, managing stress, emotion regulation, compassion fatigue, relationship issues, sexuality, and navigating life transitions. You can expect a kind, supportive, flexible, and non-judgmental experience. I look forward to supporting you on your journey to wellness!
(289) 273-3032 View (289) 273-3032
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Lisa Davis
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6L  (Online Only)
Asking for support is a courageous first step in managing your mental health & wellness. It is easy to get stuck in unhelpful thought patterns that do not serve us. The good news is, we have more control over our thoughts and feelings than it may seem. You can learn to take charge of your behaviour with the right tools & techniques, to live a more fulfilled & happy life. I will work collaboratively with you to help set achievable goals that support empowerment, capacity building & resiliency. I believe in the importance of a strong therapeutic alliance where you feel safe to share so we can have relaxed & authentic conversations.
Asking for support is a courageous first step in managing your mental health & wellness. It is easy to get stuck in unhelpful thought patterns that do not serve us. The good news is, we have more control over our thoughts and feelings than it may seem. You can learn to take charge of your behaviour with the right tools & techniques, to live a more fulfilled & happy life. I will work collaboratively with you to help set achievable goals that support empowerment, capacity building & resiliency. I believe in the importance of a strong therapeutic alliance where you feel safe to share so we can have relaxed & authentic conversations.
(365) 398-5085 View (365) 398-5085

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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.