Codependency Therapists in Oakville, ON

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Natalie Sullivan - Anxiety And Relationship Difficulties
Registered Psychotherapist, BSCN, MACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6M
I have additional training in relationship issues and codependency, people pleasing, and perfectionism.
Hi! I am a registered psychotherapist with a background in community health nursing and have worked with many people from different communities in my career. I know from personal experience that relationships and life transitions are not easy - I can help you work through the hard times and deal with challenging relationships. I am a very good listener and work hard to help people learn about themselves and find ways to manage anxiety, stress, depression or just the feeling of being "off". I can also help you figure out patterns in your relationships that are causing anger, sadness, a sense of emptiness, or guilt.
I have additional training in relationship issues and codependency, people pleasing, and perfectionism.
Hi! I am a registered psychotherapist with a background in community health nursing and have worked with many people from different communities in my career. I know from personal experience that relationships and life transitions are not easy - I can help you work through the hard times and deal with challenging relationships. I am a very good listener and work hard to help people learn about themselves and find ways to manage anxiety, stress, depression or just the feeling of being "off". I can also help you figure out patterns in your relationships that are causing anger, sadness, a sense of emptiness, or guilt.
(226) 457-3580 View (226) 457-3580
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Tracey Nguyen at True Health Counselling
MN, RN
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
Do you walk on eggshells or do you live to please others for fear of making others upset? The reason you can’t seem to heal your chronic stress & depression, health and finances in your relationship, isn't because you haven't already tried talk therapy and various healing modalities; it’s because of a dysregulated nervous system and codependency from long-term narcissistic abuse with an angry person. You need to break free and heal from this within, untangle the confusion in your mind, gain clarity and be your sovereign and most authentic self, where you validate and approve of your core self. Feel safe and confident to be you.
Do you walk on eggshells or do you live to please others for fear of making others upset? The reason you can’t seem to heal your chronic stress & depression, health and finances in your relationship, isn't because you haven't already tried talk therapy and various healing modalities; it’s because of a dysregulated nervous system and codependency from long-term narcissistic abuse with an angry person. You need to break free and heal from this within, untangle the confusion in your mind, gain clarity and be your sovereign and most authentic self, where you validate and approve of your core self. Feel safe and confident to be you.
(647) 250-1569 View (647) 250-1569
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Alison Buchan
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6J  (Online Only)
Living a balanced, meaningful life with a grounded sense of self and loving connections can be a difficult thing to achieve and maintain. Yet these things can change the way we experience and negotiate our world. Therapy can help create a clearer understanding of obstacles and how to overcome them in order to live the life we want. For over 15 years Alison has had the privilege of providing support to a wide range of clients in the areas of trauma, relationships, addictions, depression, anxiety, codependency, grief/loss, family-of-origin issues and abuse.
Living a balanced, meaningful life with a grounded sense of self and loving connections can be a difficult thing to achieve and maintain. Yet these things can change the way we experience and negotiate our world. Therapy can help create a clearer understanding of obstacles and how to overcome them in order to live the life we want. For over 15 years Alison has had the privilege of providing support to a wide range of clients in the areas of trauma, relationships, addictions, depression, anxiety, codependency, grief/loss, family-of-origin issues and abuse.
(289) 802-2313 View (289) 802-2313
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Shahnaz Jafarzadeh
Registered Social Worker, MEd, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H
I am a Registered Social Worker with extensive training and experience working with sexual abuse survivors, intimate partner violence survivors, and first responders. I work with teens (16+), adults and couples and am trained in a variety of therapeutic treatment modalities. I am skilled in the treatment of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), anxiety, panic attack, depression, anger management, parenting, relationship Issue and family issue. I have extensive work experience working with clients struggling with codependency, self-esteem, self-confidence, emotional dis-regulation , behavioural issues and family conflict issues.
I am a Registered Social Worker with extensive training and experience working with sexual abuse survivors, intimate partner violence survivors, and first responders. I work with teens (16+), adults and couples and am trained in a variety of therapeutic treatment modalities. I am skilled in the treatment of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), anxiety, panic attack, depression, anger management, parenting, relationship Issue and family issue. I have extensive work experience working with clients struggling with codependency, self-esteem, self-confidence, emotional dis-regulation , behavioural issues and family conflict issues.
(289) 301-8306 View (289) 301-8306
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Anumeet Sandhu
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H
You will learn to break negative patterns, set boundaries, regulate your emotions, codependency, and explore the future of your relationships.
Do you feel trapped in a cycle of strained relationship? You feel like people in your life are pushing your triggers and it is causing you more distress than bringing you peace. This type of anxiety, anger, stress, sadness can take a toll on you. No matter what you are doing, you end up feeling like the bad person every single time. You feel like you are not enough in the relationship and you feel like you are the only one wanting this relationship to work. When there is past trauma or the other person is not willing to work with you, healing and moving forward becomes harder. We start wondering if we are the problem.
You will learn to break negative patterns, set boundaries, regulate your emotions, codependency, and explore the future of your relationships.
Do you feel trapped in a cycle of strained relationship? You feel like people in your life are pushing your triggers and it is causing you more distress than bringing you peace. This type of anxiety, anger, stress, sadness can take a toll on you. No matter what you are doing, you end up feeling like the bad person every single time. You feel like you are not enough in the relationship and you feel like you are the only one wanting this relationship to work. When there is past trauma or the other person is not willing to work with you, healing and moving forward becomes harder. We start wondering if we are the problem.
(289) 272-0814 View (289) 272-0814
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Abloom Therapy: ADHD, Autism, Relationships
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, CYC, SSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6M  (Online Only)
I am trauma informed and specialize in ADHD, autism, education and learning disabilities, anxiety, depression, stress, eating disorders, pregnancy, prenatal, postpartum, LGBTQ+, peer relationships, codependency, parenting, and more.
Hi, my name is Chrissy Gallo - RP (Qualifying), MACP, CYC, SSW. Sometimes, our experiences can leave us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and dysregulated. These emotions can impact our relationships with others and our relationships with ourselves. I encourage therapeutic growth by nurturing the inner child, making peace with the inner critic, and reconnecting clients with their authentic sense of self. I value the healing impact of our parts being seen, heard, validated, and accepted. I use Internal Family Systems (IFS), Person-Centered, Self-Compassion, Existential, Narrative, Strength-based, Attachment-based, & Polyvagal Theory.
I am trauma informed and specialize in ADHD, autism, education and learning disabilities, anxiety, depression, stress, eating disorders, pregnancy, prenatal, postpartum, LGBTQ+, peer relationships, codependency, parenting, and more.
Hi, my name is Chrissy Gallo - RP (Qualifying), MACP, CYC, SSW. Sometimes, our experiences can leave us feeling anxious, overwhelmed, and dysregulated. These emotions can impact our relationships with others and our relationships with ourselves. I encourage therapeutic growth by nurturing the inner child, making peace with the inner critic, and reconnecting clients with their authentic sense of self. I value the healing impact of our parts being seen, heard, validated, and accepted. I use Internal Family Systems (IFS), Person-Centered, Self-Compassion, Existential, Narrative, Strength-based, Attachment-based, & Polyvagal Theory.
(365) 809-1784 View (365) 809-1784
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Leigh C Clarke
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6J
Hi, thank you for visiting my page. I believe the therapeutic relationship must be built on trust and connection in order to be effective. In my practice I offer a safe, inclusive, non judgemental environment. I encourage emotional exploration and expression and I am here for you, to listen and facilitate with compassion. My hope for our work together, is you will move forward in a meaningful way and find strength and new tools to take with you. The foundation of my practice has been built on spirituality, mindfulness and emotionally focused therapy-attachment science. I also work with somatic inquiry and energy therapies.
Hi, thank you for visiting my page. I believe the therapeutic relationship must be built on trust and connection in order to be effective. In my practice I offer a safe, inclusive, non judgemental environment. I encourage emotional exploration and expression and I am here for you, to listen and facilitate with compassion. My hope for our work together, is you will move forward in a meaningful way and find strength and new tools to take with you. The foundation of my practice has been built on spirituality, mindfulness and emotionally focused therapy-attachment science. I also work with somatic inquiry and energy therapies.
(289) 206-8408 View (289) 206-8408
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Brandi May
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6M
Are you finding it difficult to connect in your relationships? Does it seem like anger, sadness dominate your life? Do you feel stuck in a cycle? It isn't uncommon to feel overwhelmed by the burdens of life, with stress and anxiety becoming frequent companions. Finding a way out of this pattern can seem daunting, but you don't have to do it alone. By utilizing a diverse range of evidence-based approaches such as DBT, CBT, EFT, and mindfulness, my aim is to provide you with a compassionate space to explore your inner strengths, challenges and goals for your future.
Are you finding it difficult to connect in your relationships? Does it seem like anger, sadness dominate your life? Do you feel stuck in a cycle? It isn't uncommon to feel overwhelmed by the burdens of life, with stress and anxiety becoming frequent companions. Finding a way out of this pattern can seem daunting, but you don't have to do it alone. By utilizing a diverse range of evidence-based approaches such as DBT, CBT, EFT, and mindfulness, my aim is to provide you with a compassionate space to explore your inner strengths, challenges and goals for your future.
(548) 483-6287 View (548) 483-6287
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Affordable Sessions With Sara Pulins
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MA , (Cand)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
Whether you feel stuck, angry, hopeless or anxious, I believe change is possible. Often the distressing or traumatizing things in our lives are made worse by isolation. Having someone who is remembering that you are doing the best that you can at every moment and sees your strengths can lead to shifts in painful feelings. This can also help you change how you see yourself. I will listen to you and support you with whatever feelings, thoughts or circumstances you find troubling.
Whether you feel stuck, angry, hopeless or anxious, I believe change is possible. Often the distressing or traumatizing things in our lives are made worse by isolation. Having someone who is remembering that you are doing the best that you can at every moment and sees your strengths can lead to shifts in painful feelings. This can also help you change how you see yourself. I will listen to you and support you with whatever feelings, thoughts or circumstances you find troubling.
(647) 797-0703 View (647) 797-0703
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Kalyna Scherbluk
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BA, MACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6L
Are you struggling to feel valued and understood in your relationships? Do feelings of anxiety and self-doubt often cloud your ability to fulfil your responsibilities with confidence, and engage in relationships with ease and authenticity? You deserve to recognize your own worth and engage in roles and relationships that uplift and support you. My goal is to help you uncover your inherent value and navigate your roles and relationships with confidence and clarity.
Are you struggling to feel valued and understood in your relationships? Do feelings of anxiety and self-doubt often cloud your ability to fulfil your responsibilities with confidence, and engage in relationships with ease and authenticity? You deserve to recognize your own worth and engage in roles and relationships that uplift and support you. My goal is to help you uncover your inherent value and navigate your roles and relationships with confidence and clarity.
(289) 210-8645 View (289) 210-8645
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Maddi Rundle Wellness
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, BA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
Here to help you move from a constricted place of judgement and self-criticism to an open place of self-love and compassion. Emotional upsets affect everyone and although you may feel overwhelmed, stuck, or fearful, I want you to know that it's possible to confront and manage life's challenges. It's possible to thrive and you don't have to do this alone. I am collaborative, empathetic and intuitive in my work with clients. The focus is always client-centered so the work will be unique to you.
Here to help you move from a constricted place of judgement and self-criticism to an open place of self-love and compassion. Emotional upsets affect everyone and although you may feel overwhelmed, stuck, or fearful, I want you to know that it's possible to confront and manage life's challenges. It's possible to thrive and you don't have to do this alone. I am collaborative, empathetic and intuitive in my work with clients. The focus is always client-centered so the work will be unique to you.
(249) 802-8477 View (249) 802-8477
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Narcissistic Abuse - Attachment - Anxiety
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP(Q), MACP, BEd, BA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
Do you struggle with recovering from narcissistic abuse? Maybe it's a partner or parent that affects your current relationships, day to day life, or overall trust? Do you feel isolated, broken, embarrassed, hoping that things will change? Do you put other people's needs before your own? If so you likely feel overwhelmed, lost, and hurt by your partner, previous partner, or parent. You're probably wondering if things can possibly get better. If you're currently in a relationship with a narcissist or are recovering from narcissistic abuse, anxiety, depression, or trauma, you’re not alone, and I'm here to help you.
Do you struggle with recovering from narcissistic abuse? Maybe it's a partner or parent that affects your current relationships, day to day life, or overall trust? Do you feel isolated, broken, embarrassed, hoping that things will change? Do you put other people's needs before your own? If so you likely feel overwhelmed, lost, and hurt by your partner, previous partner, or parent. You're probably wondering if things can possibly get better. If you're currently in a relationship with a narcissist or are recovering from narcissistic abuse, anxiety, depression, or trauma, you’re not alone, and I'm here to help you.
(365) 600-5073 View (365) 600-5073
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Elaine Jahshan
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, RP(Q)
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6J
Therapy can serve as a pathway to transform personal hardships into new perspectives on growth. Regardless of the obstacles and issues, working together offers an opportunity for individual development, healing and helping individuals navigate life's challenges and achieve their personal goals. My therapeutic approach is rooted in a non-judgmental collaboration, I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship to foster meaningful change.
Therapy can serve as a pathway to transform personal hardships into new perspectives on growth. Regardless of the obstacles and issues, working together offers an opportunity for individual development, healing and helping individuals navigate life's challenges and achieve their personal goals. My therapeutic approach is rooted in a non-judgmental collaboration, I believe in the power of the therapeutic relationship to foster meaningful change.
(289) 206-5272 View (289) 206-5272
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Jill Ivany
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP, BA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H
Are you feeling unmotivated, stuck or alone? Maybe you’re feeling anxious and irritable in relationships. Has your stressed increased since the pandemic? Together, in therapy, we will find new ways to manage and cope with your symptoms, while working to resolve them. Seeking therapy is challenging, and I commend you on taking this first step. If you have already started your healing journey, I welcome the opportunity to collaborate.
Are you feeling unmotivated, stuck or alone? Maybe you’re feeling anxious and irritable in relationships. Has your stressed increased since the pandemic? Together, in therapy, we will find new ways to manage and cope with your symptoms, while working to resolve them. Seeking therapy is challenging, and I commend you on taking this first step. If you have already started your healing journey, I welcome the opportunity to collaborate.
(289) 807-0438 View (289) 807-0438
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Suzanne Dumais
Marriage & Family Therapist, BA, BEd, MDiv, RMFT, RP
Verified Verified
Oakville, ON L6J
Life is a journey, like every great journey it has its certainties and uncertainties. As a registered marriage and family therapist I am trained in systemic, relationships and psychotherapy. I believe that throughout life we exist in many type of relationships, that directly or indirectly impact our well beings. Research and theory have shown that mental illness and family issues are best treated in the context of relationships. My therapeutic approach to counseling is non judgmental, kind, graceful, understanding and I value my clients input in the session. I use Gottman Method Couple Therapy in my work.
Life is a journey, like every great journey it has its certainties and uncertainties. As a registered marriage and family therapist I am trained in systemic, relationships and psychotherapy. I believe that throughout life we exist in many type of relationships, that directly or indirectly impact our well beings. Research and theory have shown that mental illness and family issues are best treated in the context of relationships. My therapeutic approach to counseling is non judgmental, kind, graceful, understanding and I value my clients input in the session. I use Gottman Method Couple Therapy in my work.
(855) 953-0572 View (855) 953-0572
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Lise Fitzsimmons
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6K
I'm looking forward to meeting you, and I recognize how difficult it can be to create change in our lives. We may feel pain or discomfort when experiencing loss, anxiety, trauma, or substance abuse, and it may be challenging to do this alone. Having experienced many difficult life events, such as divorce, death of a spouse, and being a mom of 3 adult children, I sought therapy to get me through the challenges I was experiencing. I know the pain that accompanies major life transitions and how overwhelming life can be when you feel like you have no control or support.
I'm looking forward to meeting you, and I recognize how difficult it can be to create change in our lives. We may feel pain or discomfort when experiencing loss, anxiety, trauma, or substance abuse, and it may be challenging to do this alone. Having experienced many difficult life events, such as divorce, death of a spouse, and being a mom of 3 adult children, I sought therapy to get me through the challenges I was experiencing. I know the pain that accompanies major life transitions and how overwhelming life can be when you feel like you have no control or support.
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Charo Villa
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6M
I'm passionate about working with people who are willing to create movement and change in their lives; change that will promote a healthy and well-balanced lifestyle. I believe that we are all able to improve our relationships - both with ourselves and with others. By successfully working towards reaching our goals and by trusting ourselves, we learn to listen to our inner guidance. Whether you are facing anxiety, stress, challenging relationships, sexuality issues, trauma, grief & loss, addiction, anger, shame, a difficult life transition or crisis, depression, or simply want guidance to improve an area of your life.
I'm passionate about working with people who are willing to create movement and change in their lives; change that will promote a healthy and well-balanced lifestyle. I believe that we are all able to improve our relationships - both with ourselves and with others. By successfully working towards reaching our goals and by trusting ourselves, we learn to listen to our inner guidance. Whether you are facing anxiety, stress, challenging relationships, sexuality issues, trauma, grief & loss, addiction, anger, shame, a difficult life transition or crisis, depression, or simply want guidance to improve an area of your life.
(855) 729-3757 View (855) 729-3757
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Shauna Lynn Switzer
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MCP, RP, C Hyp
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H
At times, many of us contend with emotions and suffering that are overwhelmingly painful, disheartening and difficult to bear, often as a result of unique stressors and events. I work with adults, adolescents, families and step-families using Emotionally Focused Therapy, EMDR, interpersonal psychotherapy, and DBT/CBT within neuroscience and attachment frameworks. I encouraged clients to access inner strengths and free their capacity for growth. Whether you or a family member experience depression, anxiety, marital distress or difficulties with peers, you deserve support in a confidential, accepting, safe and caring environment.
At times, many of us contend with emotions and suffering that are overwhelmingly painful, disheartening and difficult to bear, often as a result of unique stressors and events. I work with adults, adolescents, families and step-families using Emotionally Focused Therapy, EMDR, interpersonal psychotherapy, and DBT/CBT within neuroscience and attachment frameworks. I encouraged clients to access inner strengths and free their capacity for growth. Whether you or a family member experience depression, anxiety, marital distress or difficulties with peers, you deserve support in a confidential, accepting, safe and caring environment.
(905) 920-7063 View (905) 920-7063
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Therapy Bee Inc. Grief & Trauma Therapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6H  (Online Only)
Welcome to Therapy Bee Inc., where your journey toward healing and wellness begins. We are dedicated to providing compassionate and professional therapy services to individuals coping with grief and trauma. Our experienced therapists are here to be your companions on this path, offering support, understanding, and guidance every step of the way. Our mission is to foster a safe and nurturing environment where clients can explore their feelings, heal from their past, and reclaim their lives. We believe in the power of therapeutic relationships and personalized care to help you navigate your unique healing journey.
Welcome to Therapy Bee Inc., where your journey toward healing and wellness begins. We are dedicated to providing compassionate and professional therapy services to individuals coping with grief and trauma. Our experienced therapists are here to be your companions on this path, offering support, understanding, and guidance every step of the way. Our mission is to foster a safe and nurturing environment where clients can explore their feelings, heal from their past, and reclaim their lives. We believe in the power of therapeutic relationships and personalized care to help you navigate your unique healing journey.
(289) 273-2587 View (289) 273-2587
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Pam Blanchard
Life, Coach, MBCT, ADR
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Oakville, ON L6J
I guide people through powerful life transitions and support them through the process of self-discovery and rebirth. Self-awareness is essential to overcoming life's obstacles. But there's often a catch isn't there. The story you tell yourself, it seems to have an agenda of its own. (I'm not good enough, someone's always achieving more than me. Why do I have to do all the work?) So how do you move beyond your current thinking? What has actually happened to warrant your thinking? What's been the core pattern in your relationships till now, and what happens when you challenge that pattern? Pause.... and sit with these questions.
I guide people through powerful life transitions and support them through the process of self-discovery and rebirth. Self-awareness is essential to overcoming life's obstacles. But there's often a catch isn't there. The story you tell yourself, it seems to have an agenda of its own. (I'm not good enough, someone's always achieving more than me. Why do I have to do all the work?) So how do you move beyond your current thinking? What has actually happened to warrant your thinking? What's been the core pattern in your relationships till now, and what happens when you challenge that pattern? Pause.... and sit with these questions.
(289) 207-6772 View (289) 207-6772
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Codependency Counsellors

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.