Gottman Method Therapists in Niagara on the Lake, ON

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Olivia Fabiani
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Niagara on the Lake, ON L0S
My practice includes The Gottman Method, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Collaborative Problem Solving, Emotion Focused Family Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy.
Living through a worldwide pandemic has put a significant strain on our health and wellbeing. Individuals, partners, and family units have experienced an overwhelming sense of loss and burnout. The burdens of life can feel heavy, but taking care of your health and wellbeing should not be overlooked. I utilize a client-entered approach, and work collaboratively with you, to identify areas in your life that you wish to improve.
My practice includes The Gottman Method, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Collaborative Problem Solving, Emotion Focused Family Therapy and Solution Focused Therapy.
Living through a worldwide pandemic has put a significant strain on our health and wellbeing. Individuals, partners, and family units have experienced an overwhelming sense of loss and burnout. The burdens of life can feel heavy, but taking care of your health and wellbeing should not be overlooked. I utilize a client-entered approach, and work collaboratively with you, to identify areas in your life that you wish to improve.
(289) 276-1914 View (289) 276-1914
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Niagara on the Lake Counselling
Registered Social Worker, MSW RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Niagara on the Lake, ON L0S
Using a contemporary and highly personalized approach to therapy, the Therapists at Niagara on the Lake Counselling offer individuals – across the lifecycle – a safe, respectful and inclusive space where they are supported and heard.
Using a contemporary and highly personalized approach to therapy, the Therapists at Niagara on the Lake Counselling offer individuals – across the lifecycle – a safe, respectful and inclusive space where they are supported and heard.
(289) 806-5365 View (289) 806-5365
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The Dot Canada
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, MSW
Verified Verified
Niagara on the Lake, ON L0S  (Online Only)
If you're feeling disconnected, distracted, and detached from your life, it may be time to look at why. Why can't I connect, why am I not able to just "get over" my past, or why does it all feel so meaningless? Maybe there are other questions, like “what am I doing with my life” or “who do I want to be?”. It’s okay to take time that's just for you, to look at your life and see both the big picture and explore the often overlooked details. With the right support, you can feel more present, connected, and in control of your life.
If you're feeling disconnected, distracted, and detached from your life, it may be time to look at why. Why can't I connect, why am I not able to just "get over" my past, or why does it all feel so meaningless? Maybe there are other questions, like “what am I doing with my life” or “who do I want to be?”. It’s okay to take time that's just for you, to look at your life and see both the big picture and explore the often overlooked details. With the right support, you can feel more present, connected, and in control of your life.
(249) 488-1297 View (249) 488-1297
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Yasaman Sadrikoupaei
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Niagara on the Lake, ON L0S  (Online Only)
In order to feel safe and in control, you may have learned certain survival and coping strategies to keep you grounded. Perhaps you are a child of immigrants, struggling to exist between two cultures. Or maybe you were afraid to disappoint others and taught yourself to never have any needs or boundaries. These behaviours, while understandable, may no longer serve you in the ways that you need. Together, we can explore and unpack your life experiences, offer understanding and validation to the shutdown parts of you, and learn to take up space and exist in our world. Psychotherapy can promote healing, resiliency and self-empowerment
In order to feel safe and in control, you may have learned certain survival and coping strategies to keep you grounded. Perhaps you are a child of immigrants, struggling to exist between two cultures. Or maybe you were afraid to disappoint others and taught yourself to never have any needs or boundaries. These behaviours, while understandable, may no longer serve you in the ways that you need. Together, we can explore and unpack your life experiences, offer understanding and validation to the shutdown parts of you, and learn to take up space and exist in our world. Psychotherapy can promote healing, resiliency and self-empowerment
(289) 903-1261 View (289) 903-1261
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Become Wellness ~ Nicole Loughlin
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Niagara on the Lake, ON L0S
I am currently accepting new clients. I may be the right fit for you if the following reminds you of yourself. You’ve struggled with not feeling good enough for as long as you can remember. This has impacted your relationships and often leaves you feeling anxious and insecure. You tell yourself you should feel happy, but you don't. You’re confused, feeling lost and like you don't even know what you want or who you are. You’ve been trying to get better for some time. You've picked up books, followed how-to's, listened to podcasts and so on. And so far… nothing has worked.
I am currently accepting new clients. I may be the right fit for you if the following reminds you of yourself. You’ve struggled with not feeling good enough for as long as you can remember. This has impacted your relationships and often leaves you feeling anxious and insecure. You tell yourself you should feel happy, but you don't. You’re confused, feeling lost and like you don't even know what you want or who you are. You’ve been trying to get better for some time. You've picked up books, followed how-to's, listened to podcasts and so on. And so far… nothing has worked.
(289) 206-6832 View (289) 206-6832
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Abma Counselling Group
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Niagara on the Lake, ON L0S
You're seeking change but feel stuck. Whether it's the weight of trauma, the tangle of relationships, or the grip of anxiety, you're looking for a Niagara-based therapist who truly gets you and can guide you towards the life you've always wanted.
You're seeking change but feel stuck. Whether it's the weight of trauma, the tangle of relationships, or the grip of anxiety, you're looking for a Niagara-based therapist who truly gets you and can guide you towards the life you've always wanted.
(905) 321-0550 View (905) 321-0550
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Mindful Footsteps Counselling
Registered Social Worker, BA, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Niagara on the Lake, ON L0S
Welcome! Thanks for taking the first step in your healing journey! Are you ready to invest in yourself and build better coping skills for navigating life easier? Are you wanting to decrease stress and anxiety? Build skills for managing ADHD? Navigate parenting a toddler or child easier? I enjoy working with female-identifying youth, adults and mothers who are committed to therapy. My promise to you is that you will achieve your results quicker in therapy by maintaining motivation and completing homework tasks assigned.
Welcome! Thanks for taking the first step in your healing journey! Are you ready to invest in yourself and build better coping skills for navigating life easier? Are you wanting to decrease stress and anxiety? Build skills for managing ADHD? Navigate parenting a toddler or child easier? I enjoy working with female-identifying youth, adults and mothers who are committed to therapy. My promise to you is that you will achieve your results quicker in therapy by maintaining motivation and completing homework tasks assigned.
(289) 210-5935 View (289) 210-5935

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Coretta Rego
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, CCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Welland, ON L3B  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck ? Have you worked hard and done all the right things but life has not turned out the way you had expected? Perhaps the relationship that you invested your emotional energy in was unsuccessful? Or you find yourself in a career that while financially lucrative is burning you out. Maybe you look at your life and are disappointed. If you are unhappy in your relationships, career or life direction, you are not alone. But you do not have to stay in a place that makes you unhappy. Change is possible!
Are you feeling stuck ? Have you worked hard and done all the right things but life has not turned out the way you had expected? Perhaps the relationship that you invested your emotional energy in was unsuccessful? Or you find yourself in a career that while financially lucrative is burning you out. Maybe you look at your life and are disappointed. If you are unhappy in your relationships, career or life direction, you are not alone. But you do not have to stay in a place that makes you unhappy. Change is possible!
(289) 207-7986 View (289) 207-7986
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Emily Barrett
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Saint Catharines, ON L2T
On the surface, you are the one who has it all together, but you know deep down that something has to change. You feel burnt out from constantly accommodating other people, and ignoring your own needs. You feel anxious, overwhelmed, and exhausted from keeping your emotions bottled up. You are tired of trying so hard and getting so little in return. Feelings of unworthiness, shame, and fear are holding you back from becoming the kind of person you have always wanted to be.
On the surface, you are the one who has it all together, but you know deep down that something has to change. You feel burnt out from constantly accommodating other people, and ignoring your own needs. You feel anxious, overwhelmed, and exhausted from keeping your emotions bottled up. You are tired of trying so hard and getting so little in return. Feelings of unworthiness, shame, and fear are holding you back from becoming the kind of person you have always wanted to be.
(289) 207-8010 View (289) 207-8010
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Wilson Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, BTh, MDiv, RP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Saint Catharines, ON L2R  (Online Only)
You may feel stuck and ready for change, there’s a reason you are searching this website. I am confident that the time to explore change is now. Whether you have been stuck in a negative cycle, or you have some emotional fine-tuning to do, we can journey through this together. I would be privileged and humbled to be able to hold space and hope for what you’re going through. Let’s chat.
You may feel stuck and ready for change, there’s a reason you are searching this website. I am confident that the time to explore change is now. Whether you have been stuck in a negative cycle, or you have some emotional fine-tuning to do, we can journey through this together. I would be privileged and humbled to be able to hold space and hope for what you’re going through. Let’s chat.
(289) 205-3887 View (289) 205-3887
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Lakshmi Mupparthi
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
Saint Catharines, ON L2R
Life can throw uncertainties & challenges leaving us to cope with traumatic events, relationship struggles, uncomfortable thoughts & grief. We can choose to be identified by our resilience rather than our distress from these challenges. Therapy is a wonderful tool to access our inner natural resilience. Seeking therapy is courageous & I am pleased to accompany you through your journey.
Life can throw uncertainties & challenges leaving us to cope with traumatic events, relationship struggles, uncomfortable thoughts & grief. We can choose to be identified by our resilience rather than our distress from these challenges. Therapy is a wonderful tool to access our inner natural resilience. Seeking therapy is courageous & I am pleased to accompany you through your journey.
(289) 536-4952 View (289) 536-4952
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Bridging the Synapse Psychotherapy (M.Morningstar)
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MA, MAds
Verified Verified
Niagara Falls, ON L2H
I practice from a internal family systems framework (IFS informed), often employing modalities from dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). I approach therapy with a neuropsychological and attachment lens which is a crucial part of the healing process because it promotes healthy lived experiences, relationships and also prompts us through our journey to get our lives back on track.
I practice from a internal family systems framework (IFS informed), often employing modalities from dialectical behavior therapy (DBT). I approach therapy with a neuropsychological and attachment lens which is a crucial part of the healing process because it promotes healthy lived experiences, relationships and also prompts us through our journey to get our lives back on track.
(289) 274-9601 View (289) 274-9601
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Rochelle Tyme
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
Saint Catharines, ON L2P  (Online Only)
Anxiety, depression and relationship (family) issues don't have to take over your life anymore. Perhaps now is the time to have someone walk alongside you to process life's difficulties. Are you tired of going through the daily to-do's without really enjoying your life? Are you caught up in people pleasing or struggling internally while trying to keep a smile on your face? Maybe you are experiencing burnout and every aspect of your life is suffering because of it.
Anxiety, depression and relationship (family) issues don't have to take over your life anymore. Perhaps now is the time to have someone walk alongside you to process life's difficulties. Are you tired of going through the daily to-do's without really enjoying your life? Are you caught up in people pleasing or struggling internally while trying to keep a smile on your face? Maybe you are experiencing burnout and every aspect of your life is suffering because of it.
(365) 656-0804 View (365) 656-0804
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Breanne Griffin
Registered Psychotherapist, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Catharines, ON L2R
Life is messy and you may be feeling like you have lost what brings you happiness, or you aren't sure how to meet your own needs anymore. You may feel lonely and like you have no one to talk to about your inner experience which isn't matching the you the world sees. You don’t have to struggle alone. I will meet you where you are at and we will work together to create a plan that meets your unique needs. You are capable of learning new ways of coping with the right support. Together we will take steps toward living a fuller, more emotionally healthy life.
Life is messy and you may be feeling like you have lost what brings you happiness, or you aren't sure how to meet your own needs anymore. You may feel lonely and like you have no one to talk to about your inner experience which isn't matching the you the world sees. You don’t have to struggle alone. I will meet you where you are at and we will work together to create a plan that meets your unique needs. You are capable of learning new ways of coping with the right support. Together we will take steps toward living a fuller, more emotionally healthy life.
(289) 210-6253 View (289) 210-6253
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Jennifer Mary Heaton
Registered Psychotherapist, MScEd, OCT, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
Saint Catharines, ON L2R
I help distressed couples with ineffective communication styles combined with sexual desire discrepancy achieve renewed intimacy by talking openly about sex at their comfort level and provide tools and exercises to help develop new and more effective communication patterns and sexual intimacy. I support couples/singles who identify with alternative relationships and sexual lifestyles, including roleplaying, BDSM, D/S, kink, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), open relationships, swinging, polyamory, pansexuality, and asexuality.
I help distressed couples with ineffective communication styles combined with sexual desire discrepancy achieve renewed intimacy by talking openly about sex at their comfort level and provide tools and exercises to help develop new and more effective communication patterns and sexual intimacy. I support couples/singles who identify with alternative relationships and sexual lifestyles, including roleplaying, BDSM, D/S, kink, ethical non-monogamy (ENM), open relationships, swinging, polyamory, pansexuality, and asexuality.
(289) 301-8383 View (289) 301-8383
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Linda Jeffries
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saint Catharines, ON L2R
Are there times when the "ways of coping" have stop working and thoughts and feelings do not make sense anymore? Do you find yourself looking around confused about what is going on and how you got there? Whether it is a lifelong story or a recent one that is causing you discomfort I will provide pathways for clarity and effective strategies to help you move forward at your own pace and comfort level. Together we will establish the most effective tools for your "Tool Box" to navigate your life and empower you to define and achieve life goals for yourself.
Are there times when the "ways of coping" have stop working and thoughts and feelings do not make sense anymore? Do you find yourself looking around confused about what is going on and how you got there? Whether it is a lifelong story or a recent one that is causing you discomfort I will provide pathways for clarity and effective strategies to help you move forward at your own pace and comfort level. Together we will establish the most effective tools for your "Tool Box" to navigate your life and empower you to define and achieve life goals for yourself.
(855) 854-4003 View (855) 854-4003
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Couples and Family Therapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW, DSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Fonthill, ON L0S
Feeling like you've lost your conncetion with your partner or your confidence in yourself after having children? Lack of sleep, added stresses and demands, and lack of free time can put a strain on a relationship, make you feel like you're not doing enough, not doing a good enough job or that you wish you could do more things for yourself. If you're feeling like this, you're not alone. This is so common after having kids and there are ways to help! As a mom of 2, I can relate to a lot of the feelings above and I would love to help you on this journey to have a fulfilling relationship and life.
Feeling like you've lost your conncetion with your partner or your confidence in yourself after having children? Lack of sleep, added stresses and demands, and lack of free time can put a strain on a relationship, make you feel like you're not doing enough, not doing a good enough job or that you wish you could do more things for yourself. If you're feeling like this, you're not alone. This is so common after having kids and there are ways to help! As a mom of 2, I can relate to a lot of the feelings above and I would love to help you on this journey to have a fulfilling relationship and life.
(289) 301-9149 View (289) 301-9149
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Zameena Hussain
Registered Social Worker, BA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Saint Catharines, ON L2T  (Online Only)
Do you find yourself becoming overwhelmed with stress in your life? Are you looking to connect with a therapist who is understanding, nonjudgemental, and highly skilled? Whether it is due to relationships, work, school, or other demands in life, most people turn to therapy because something in their life is not working and they are seeking help to make changes. Whether it is to maintain more meaningful relationships, to heal from past trauma or manage mental health symptoms, therapy can provide a safe space to explore vulnerable thoughts and feelings with a qualified professional.
Do you find yourself becoming overwhelmed with stress in your life? Are you looking to connect with a therapist who is understanding, nonjudgemental, and highly skilled? Whether it is due to relationships, work, school, or other demands in life, most people turn to therapy because something in their life is not working and they are seeking help to make changes. Whether it is to maintain more meaningful relationships, to heal from past trauma or manage mental health symptoms, therapy can provide a safe space to explore vulnerable thoughts and feelings with a qualified professional.
(365) 804-0315 View (365) 804-0315
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Helene Wiens Counselling Services
Registered Psychotherapist, MSc, RP, CP, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Niagara Falls, ON L2G  (Online Only)
Life can be challenging to manage at times, and difficult to bear all on one’s own. Reaching out for help is the healthiest approach to working through some of life’s complexities. Therapy offers an objective listening ear, another’s perspective, and coping strategies that will assist you to process difficult relationships, workplace situations, traumatic events, and complex emotions.
Life can be challenging to manage at times, and difficult to bear all on one’s own. Reaching out for help is the healthiest approach to working through some of life’s complexities. Therapy offers an objective listening ear, another’s perspective, and coping strategies that will assist you to process difficult relationships, workplace situations, traumatic events, and complex emotions.
(289) 806-5085 View (289) 806-5085
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Aleena Wilton - Psychotherapy In Niagara
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Saint Catharines, ON L2R
When life becomes overwhelming or if we’ve struggled to manage our mental health for awhile, finding a skilled therapist that we can really connect with is an important step towards healing. Whether you’re feeling anxious, down, angry, stressed, are grieving, struggling with a trauma, or experiencing parenting or relationship challenges, I’d like to work together with you to find ways to reach your goals.
When life becomes overwhelming or if we’ve struggled to manage our mental health for awhile, finding a skilled therapist that we can really connect with is an important step towards healing. Whether you’re feeling anxious, down, angry, stressed, are grieving, struggling with a trauma, or experiencing parenting or relationship challenges, I’d like to work together with you to find ways to reach your goals.
(289) 806-3692 View (289) 806-3692
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Tracy Van Oosten
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
Saint Catharines, ON L2R
I work from the firmly rooted belief that all people make sense. From this lens, I believe all of our parts and patterns have a purpose and that more often than not this purpose is to protect us. But why do these ways of protecting ourselves sometimes feel like they are doing the opposite? Together we will bring curiosity and compassion towards this question while adapting new perspectives and reorganizing patterns within yourself, your nervous system and your relationships.
I work from the firmly rooted belief that all people make sense. From this lens, I believe all of our parts and patterns have a purpose and that more often than not this purpose is to protect us. But why do these ways of protecting ourselves sometimes feel like they are doing the opposite? Together we will bring curiosity and compassion towards this question while adapting new perspectives and reorganizing patterns within yourself, your nervous system and your relationships.
(289) 274-7035 View (289) 274-7035
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April Ma
Registered Social Worker, RSW, MSW
Verified Verified
Niagara Falls, ON L2H
(289) 903-1423 View (289) 903-1423
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Nyssa Laing
Registered Psychotherapist, MCAP, BHSc, RP(Q)
Verified Verified
Saint Catharines, ON L2R
Not accepting new clients
The primary focus of my practice is helping emergency responders and anyone who feels disconnected from themselves, others, and the world around them. Whether this is due to trauma, anxiety, depression, or life challenges, I use a holistic, integrated approach that is tailored to each client. Along with talk therapies, I am trained in EMDR, Internal Family Systems, and Forest Therapy. I am also certified to administer Direct Neurofeedback. My priority is to create a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space for you to gain awareness and understanding of yourself and life experiences.
The primary focus of my practice is helping emergency responders and anyone who feels disconnected from themselves, others, and the world around them. Whether this is due to trauma, anxiety, depression, or life challenges, I use a holistic, integrated approach that is tailored to each client. Along with talk therapies, I am trained in EMDR, Internal Family Systems, and Forest Therapy. I am also certified to administer Direct Neurofeedback. My priority is to create a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space for you to gain awareness and understanding of yourself and life experiences.
(289) 275-4096 View (289) 275-4096
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Holly Keus
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying)
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fonthill, ON L0S
Not accepting new clients
I am a (Qualifying) Registered Psychotherapist. My focus is on person centered therapy approaches such as narrative therapy, strength based and emotion focused therapies. I am passionate about supporting women navigating the healthcare system at such a vulnerable time such as perinatal, pregnancy, and postpartum. I prioritize radical acceptance and a strong therapeutic relationship. My passion is to support children, teens, adults, families and I look forward to providing support and confidence to help you through struggles and to achieve your goals.
I am a (Qualifying) Registered Psychotherapist. My focus is on person centered therapy approaches such as narrative therapy, strength based and emotion focused therapies. I am passionate about supporting women navigating the healthcare system at such a vulnerable time such as perinatal, pregnancy, and postpartum. I prioritize radical acceptance and a strong therapeutic relationship. My passion is to support children, teens, adults, families and I look forward to providing support and confidence to help you through struggles and to achieve your goals.
(289) 203-0611 View (289) 203-0611

Online Therapists

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Jen Doyle
Registered Social Worker, BSW, MSW, RSW, DSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambridge, ON N1S
Mood regulation, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationships, grief, life transitions are all things that weigh on us. As a private clinician, I make it my goal to help my clients find their inner strength to overcome those challenges that life throws at them and offer them hope in living their life the way they see fit. Adopting approaches such as CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS and the Gottman Method I hope to assist clients in breaking down barriers and delve into the challenges that are preventing them from moving forward.
Mood regulation, stress, anxiety, depression, trauma, relationships, grief, life transitions are all things that weigh on us. As a private clinician, I make it my goal to help my clients find their inner strength to overcome those challenges that life throws at them and offer them hope in living their life the way they see fit. Adopting approaches such as CBT, DBT, ACT, IFS and the Gottman Method I hope to assist clients in breaking down barriers and delve into the challenges that are preventing them from moving forward.
(226) 786-0434 View (226) 786-0434

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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.