Gottman Method Therapists in Milton, ON
Trauma/Anxiety Therapy Welcoming New Clients
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T
I use Emotionally Focused therapy, trauma informed care and the Gottman method with clients to help them build better relationship with themselves and others.
Are you struggling with anxiety, challenging relationships, troubling thoughts or feeling stuck in life? Looking for clarity through difficult past or present? Please feel free to reach out. I am a registered psychotherapist, and I believe in empowering my clients with new skills and perspectives so they can grow and realize their own potential. My approach is client centred, and rooted in the idea of cultivating love and kindness for one self. Within the safety of our sessions, together we can examine and work on areas of your life that need kind attention.
I use Emotionally Focused therapy, trauma informed care and the Gottman method with clients to help them build better relationship with themselves and others.
Are you struggling with anxiety, challenging relationships, troubling thoughts or feeling stuck in life? Looking for clarity through difficult past or present? Please feel free to reach out. I am a registered psychotherapist, and I believe in empowering my clients with new skills and perspectives so they can grow and realize their own potential. My approach is client centred, and rooted in the idea of cultivating love and kindness for one self. Within the safety of our sessions, together we can examine and work on areas of your life that need kind attention.
Valley Connections Counselling
Registered Psychotherapist, MEd, RP, CCC
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Milton, ON L0P
We offer CBT, EMDR, IFS, EFT, EFFT, DBT, MBCT, MI, Imago Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
Valley Connections Counselling is an established Psychotherapy practice in Burlington. We began as a solo practitioner nearly 10 years ago in Hamilton, and we have grown to a team of a dozen Registered Psychotherapists and Child Life Specialists, offering services in person and virtually. Our services are often covered by extended health insurance plans. We emphasize the importance of the therapeutic relationship and we provide a warm, non-judgmental, and supportive counselling environment. At Valley, we take care of the whole family - children to teens to adults, providing individual, couples, parenting, and family therapy.
We offer CBT, EMDR, IFS, EFT, EFFT, DBT, MBCT, MI, Imago Therapy, and the Gottman Method.
Valley Connections Counselling is an established Psychotherapy practice in Burlington. We began as a solo practitioner nearly 10 years ago in Hamilton, and we have grown to a team of a dozen Registered Psychotherapists and Child Life Specialists, offering services in person and virtually. Our services are often covered by extended health insurance plans. We emphasize the importance of the therapeutic relationship and we provide a warm, non-judgmental, and supportive counselling environment. At Valley, we take care of the whole family - children to teens to adults, providing individual, couples, parenting, and family therapy.
Compassion guides my use of the Gottman Method for couples counselling and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy.
Adults finding ADHD symptoms are impairing their personal relationships and/or professional role may need new coping strategies. Compassion and curiosity guide my support of young adults (& teens 15 or older) with ADHD, whose impulsivity or poor organizational skills often burdens them with guilt and low self-esteem. If a mood disorder or anxiety is interfering with thriving in your workplace role, together we will develop self-soothing practices for your emotional regulation and occupational success. To nurture clients' bounce-back from trauma or help couples stuck in conflict, I draw upon my clinical training and lived experience.
Compassion guides my use of the Gottman Method for couples counselling and Acceptance & Commitment Therapy.
Adults finding ADHD symptoms are impairing their personal relationships and/or professional role may need new coping strategies. Compassion and curiosity guide my support of young adults (& teens 15 or older) with ADHD, whose impulsivity or poor organizational skills often burdens them with guilt and low self-esteem. If a mood disorder or anxiety is interfering with thriving in your workplace role, together we will develop self-soothing practices for your emotional regulation and occupational success. To nurture clients' bounce-back from trauma or help couples stuck in conflict, I draw upon my clinical training and lived experience.
Abeer Faruqui
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, BSc
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Milton, ON L0P (Online Only)
I specialize in couples therapy and use the research-based Gottman Method.
It's common to feel overwhelmed when you are going through a challenging time. But you don’t have to tackle it alone! Through individual and couples psychotherapy, I provide a non-judgemental, warm and supportive space for you to explore and untangle your thoughts and feelings. Depending on your goals therapy can also provide guidance and teach you life-long skills, such as better communication in your relationships or tools for personal mental wellness.
I specialize in couples therapy and use the research-based Gottman Method.
It's common to feel overwhelmed when you are going through a challenging time. But you don’t have to tackle it alone! Through individual and couples psychotherapy, I provide a non-judgemental, warm and supportive space for you to explore and untangle your thoughts and feelings. Depending on your goals therapy can also provide guidance and teach you life-long skills, such as better communication in your relationships or tools for personal mental wellness.
Amun Kaur-Dhaliwal
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MA
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T
Sometimes the challenges life brings can seem intolerable, leaving you feeling stuck, unable to cope and with a sense that things are falling apart. Perhaps you're seeking greater fulfillment & tired of feeling alone, misunderstood and that no one else could possibly understand you. Hi, my name is Amun (she/her), and I’d be happy to support you whether it be to regulate intense emotions, gain clarity or find balance. My hope is through curiosity, we can arrive at a greater understanding of how you arrived here and gently learn to meet yourself with compassion.
Sometimes the challenges life brings can seem intolerable, leaving you feeling stuck, unable to cope and with a sense that things are falling apart. Perhaps you're seeking greater fulfillment & tired of feeling alone, misunderstood and that no one else could possibly understand you. Hi, my name is Amun (she/her), and I’d be happy to support you whether it be to regulate intense emotions, gain clarity or find balance. My hope is through curiosity, we can arrive at a greater understanding of how you arrived here and gently learn to meet yourself with compassion.
Brenda Kirkconnell
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, , RP, BScN
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T
I am a person centred, trauma informed, culturally sensitive psychotherapist who also worked for over 25 years as a registered nurse supporting individuals and families. I currently have the privilege of helping individuals facing anxiety, low mood, stress, burnout, grief, relationship issues, and difficulties navigating life transitions. I also work with couples who are seeking to overcome their challenges and strengthen their relationships. I am also passionate in supporting parents of young children, parents of teens and emerging adults and parents who find themselves experiencing estrangement with their adult children.
I am a person centred, trauma informed, culturally sensitive psychotherapist who also worked for over 25 years as a registered nurse supporting individuals and families. I currently have the privilege of helping individuals facing anxiety, low mood, stress, burnout, grief, relationship issues, and difficulties navigating life transitions. I also work with couples who are seeking to overcome their challenges and strengthen their relationships. I am also passionate in supporting parents of young children, parents of teens and emerging adults and parents who find themselves experiencing estrangement with their adult children.
Bliss Milton Counselling + Psychotherapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW
Verified Verified
Milton, ON L9T
Are you open to self-exploration and growth, are you seeking support with navigating life's challenges or are you looking for a way to live your life more fully? At Bliss, we specialize in improving the relationship our clients have with themselves and others. We're here to unpack addiction or substance use, anxiety, communication, conflict, depression, grief, life changes, parenting and caregiving, sexual desires and intimacy, stress, trauma, and more. Using anti-oppressive, community driven and evidence-based approaches, you will learn new perspectives, build deeper connections, and find the motivation to embrace change.
Are you open to self-exploration and growth, are you seeking support with navigating life's challenges or are you looking for a way to live your life more fully? At Bliss, we specialize in improving the relationship our clients have with themselves and others. We're here to unpack addiction or substance use, anxiety, communication, conflict, depression, grief, life changes, parenting and caregiving, sexual desires and intimacy, stress, trauma, and more. Using anti-oppressive, community driven and evidence-based approaches, you will learn new perspectives, build deeper connections, and find the motivation to embrace change.
Strength Counselling Services
Counsellor, MEd, RCC, CCC, RSW, RP
Verified Verified
Milton, ON L9T (Online Only)
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
We are an online counselling agency so do not provide services in person. Strength Counselling Services has licensed, experienced therapists who use evidence-based practices, prioritize client needs, and maintain ethical standards. We offer culturally sensitive, affordable services in a supportive environment. We offer a comprehensive goals assessment, regularly assess progress, and collaborate with other professionals. We provide transparency in our fees and for thirteen years now have held a positive reputation of trust, and client success. Lastly, ensuring our clients' privacy and confidentiality are of utmost importance to us.
Fizzah Rizvi
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, MSc, CCTP
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T (Online Only)
Our struggles with life and mental health often make us forget how to offer compassion and kindness to ourselves. While we "demonize" our body's response to seemingly easy "routine" functions, therapy can help us understand & recognize how our experiences have shaped our survival strategies and ways of being. My practice is grounded in my work in community-based mental health programs, as well as lived experience of systemic issues. I draw on EMDR, internal family systems, somatic and anti-oppressive approaches, based on the individual/couple's needs. I have specialized training in working with trauma, abuse and relationships.
Our struggles with life and mental health often make us forget how to offer compassion and kindness to ourselves. While we "demonize" our body's response to seemingly easy "routine" functions, therapy can help us understand & recognize how our experiences have shaped our survival strategies and ways of being. My practice is grounded in my work in community-based mental health programs, as well as lived experience of systemic issues. I draw on EMDR, internal family systems, somatic and anti-oppressive approaches, based on the individual/couple's needs. I have specialized training in working with trauma, abuse and relationships.
Elpizo Counselling Services Inc.
Registered Psychotherapist, MSc, RP, RRT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T
Whether individual, children, couple or family, we never turn away a client that genuinely needs assistance, our aim is for anyone who needs counselling receives it. Our team of culturally diverse experienced Psychotherapists will listen, hear you, and serve you, virtually or in person. We specialize in various types of traumas, acute, complex, developmental, PTSD, and depression, anxiety, marriage, relationship challenges, co-parenting, behavioral issues, family reunification, sexual abuse, domestic violence, borderline personality disorder, employment issues, racial injustice, etc. Call for a free 15-minute consultation.
Whether individual, children, couple or family, we never turn away a client that genuinely needs assistance, our aim is for anyone who needs counselling receives it. Our team of culturally diverse experienced Psychotherapists will listen, hear you, and serve you, virtually or in person. We specialize in various types of traumas, acute, complex, developmental, PTSD, and depression, anxiety, marriage, relationship challenges, co-parenting, behavioral issues, family reunification, sexual abuse, domestic violence, borderline personality disorder, employment issues, racial injustice, etc. Call for a free 15-minute consultation.
Do you feel stuck in struggling with your unprocessed feelings, repeating the same patterns and not being able to move forward? Or maybe you feel helpless as your family is suffering through a crisis or an ongoing challenge. Coping with anxiety, depression, conflict in relationships or past trauma can make you feel resigned to a state of survival. Specializing in trauma, couples counselling, and children’s mental health I can help you reduce stress and conflict and find new meaning in your life and relationships. I also lead a team of diverse therapists and social workers and together we can cater to the needs of the whole family.
Do you feel stuck in struggling with your unprocessed feelings, repeating the same patterns and not being able to move forward? Or maybe you feel helpless as your family is suffering through a crisis or an ongoing challenge. Coping with anxiety, depression, conflict in relationships or past trauma can make you feel resigned to a state of survival. Specializing in trauma, couples counselling, and children’s mental health I can help you reduce stress and conflict and find new meaning in your life and relationships. I also lead a team of diverse therapists and social workers and together we can cater to the needs of the whole family.
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Engaging in psychotherapy is a brave step towards reconciling with one's past, making amends with others, and finding peace with oneself. It's a unique relationship that lays the foundation for healing all other relationships. Psychotherapy, in its core, is a spiritual journey—a pilgrimage into the self. Just as a pilgrim walks from temple to temple, seeking enlightenment, an individual's therapeutic journey may involve multiple therapists. I might be your current one, but perhaps not your first nor your last. Each leg of this journey, with each therapist, requires courage and a faith that transformation is attainable.
Engaging in psychotherapy is a brave step towards reconciling with one's past, making amends with others, and finding peace with oneself. It's a unique relationship that lays the foundation for healing all other relationships. Psychotherapy, in its core, is a spiritual journey—a pilgrimage into the self. Just as a pilgrim walks from temple to temple, seeking enlightenment, an individual's therapeutic journey may involve multiple therapists. I might be your current one, but perhaps not your first nor your last. Each leg of this journey, with each therapist, requires courage and a faith that transformation is attainable.
Clarity is my hope for each person I see, whether we use Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy, Narrative approaches, EMDR, Mindfulness, yoga, polyvagal theory, or creative arts expression. Regardless if your struggle is with depression, anxiety, an eating disorder, or trauma, clarity means a better awareness and understanding of yourself in the current situation. Knowing yourself allows you to make choices best for you, consciously. It can be challenging to unravel and understand all of the often conflicting messages we hear and give ourselves, but it is crucial. This is the work I will support and guide you in.
Clarity is my hope for each person I see, whether we use Cognitive-Behaviour Therapy, Narrative approaches, EMDR, Mindfulness, yoga, polyvagal theory, or creative arts expression. Regardless if your struggle is with depression, anxiety, an eating disorder, or trauma, clarity means a better awareness and understanding of yourself in the current situation. Knowing yourself allows you to make choices best for you, consciously. It can be challenging to unravel and understand all of the often conflicting messages we hear and give ourselves, but it is crucial. This is the work I will support and guide you in.
Truth be told, all of us go through many story lines and create our own unique narratives as we go about our daily lives. We are the authors of our lives. And in therapy, I truly respect that. You will see in our sessions, as you and I work together to build a therapeutic relationship, I will make every effort to help you make sense of your unique experiences and support you on your journey. I have extensively worked with adolescents, adults, and seniors.
Truth be told, all of us go through many story lines and create our own unique narratives as we go about our daily lives. We are the authors of our lives. And in therapy, I truly respect that. You will see in our sessions, as you and I work together to build a therapeutic relationship, I will make every effort to help you make sense of your unique experiences and support you on your journey. I have extensively worked with adolescents, adults, and seniors.
Are you struggling to find your happiness? Are you struggling with racing thoughts, never-ending stress, or low mood that is impacting your ability to engage in life? Are relationships unfulfilling and strained? Are you finally ready to find your inner strength and take control over your emotions and behaviours? We are so excited to help.
Are you struggling to find your happiness? Are you struggling with racing thoughts, never-ending stress, or low mood that is impacting your ability to engage in life? Are relationships unfulfilling and strained? Are you finally ready to find your inner strength and take control over your emotions and behaviours? We are so excited to help.
Are your symptoms of anxiety and trauma from the past coming up in your relationships? You might find yourself falling into the same patterns when you try to work through them on your own. That's why my practice involves guiding individuals and couples as they learn to navigate their triggers and emotions using coping skills. Whether it's managing anger, overcoming depression, challenging phobias, or reducing stress, my skills-based approach is centred on empowering clients to take control of their own well-being. Let's get you equipped with the tools you need to get started on your therapeutic journey!
Are your symptoms of anxiety and trauma from the past coming up in your relationships? You might find yourself falling into the same patterns when you try to work through them on your own. That's why my practice involves guiding individuals and couples as they learn to navigate their triggers and emotions using coping skills. Whether it's managing anger, overcoming depression, challenging phobias, or reducing stress, my skills-based approach is centred on empowering clients to take control of their own well-being. Let's get you equipped with the tools you need to get started on your therapeutic journey!
As a dedicated and empathetic therapist, I am passionate about providing a safe and supportive environment for individuals of all ages to explore their emotions, overcome challenges, and foster meaningful relationships. I help children, teens, adults and couples unlock their full potential, develop coping strategies and cultivate resilience. As a mother of four children I have lots of experience in my personal life and I have extensive training and experience working with different modalities to find the right one for each client to help them process difficult emotions and overcome challenges to live the best life possible.
As a dedicated and empathetic therapist, I am passionate about providing a safe and supportive environment for individuals of all ages to explore their emotions, overcome challenges, and foster meaningful relationships. I help children, teens, adults and couples unlock their full potential, develop coping strategies and cultivate resilience. As a mother of four children I have lots of experience in my personal life and I have extensive training and experience working with different modalities to find the right one for each client to help them process difficult emotions and overcome challenges to live the best life possible.
Kayla Olazabal
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T (Online Only)
Life can be difficult, unpredictable, and very challenging at times, there is no denying this. However, you don't have to go through it alone. Whether you are working through past hurts, carrying the burden of unresolved pain, experiencing relationship difficulties, anxiety, disappointment, hopelessness, fear of the future, shame, loneliness, weariness, dissatisfaction, anger, or feeling unseen and unheard, my hope is to walk alongside you to share in your burdens and to encourage, empower, equip, and support you in achieving your goals and shift from surviving to thriving.
Life can be difficult, unpredictable, and very challenging at times, there is no denying this. However, you don't have to go through it alone. Whether you are working through past hurts, carrying the burden of unresolved pain, experiencing relationship difficulties, anxiety, disappointment, hopelessness, fear of the future, shame, loneliness, weariness, dissatisfaction, anger, or feeling unseen and unheard, my hope is to walk alongside you to share in your burdens and to encourage, empower, equip, and support you in achieving your goals and shift from surviving to thriving.
Life at times may feel like a relentless struggle, filled with sadness, discouragement, and overwhelming despair. As a psychologist, with more than 20 years experience, I can support you to overcome challenges such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, perfectionism, people pleasing, trauma, addiction, eating issues including binge eating, bulimia and anorexia and couples therapy. I utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS), an innovative and transformative therapeutic model for emotional healing of eating disorders, addiction, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties.
Life at times may feel like a relentless struggle, filled with sadness, discouragement, and overwhelming despair. As a psychologist, with more than 20 years experience, I can support you to overcome challenges such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, perfectionism, people pleasing, trauma, addiction, eating issues including binge eating, bulimia and anorexia and couples therapy. I utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS), an innovative and transformative therapeutic model for emotional healing of eating disorders, addiction, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties.
I offer individual, couple and family therapy for a wide range of issues including; divorce/separation, trauma, grief, co-parenting, substance abuse, school refusal, family conflict, eating disorders and mental health (specifically, anxiety and depression). I have assisted many couples and families in improving their relationships with one another, providing them with the ability to communicate, respect and understand each other better using Collaborative Problem Solving and Emotion-focussed therapy.
I offer individual, couple and family therapy for a wide range of issues including; divorce/separation, trauma, grief, co-parenting, substance abuse, school refusal, family conflict, eating disorders and mental health (specifically, anxiety and depression). I have assisted many couples and families in improving their relationships with one another, providing them with the ability to communicate, respect and understand each other better using Collaborative Problem Solving and Emotion-focussed therapy.
Exalted Mind & Wellness Inc.
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP, BA
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T
Our mission at Exalted Mind & Wellness is to support individuals in providing psychological, emotional/mental care to heal and improve your life. The name Aliya, translates to "Exalted" "One who climbs upwards", a meaning that has played an important role throughout my journey. When one struggles with mental health concerns, they often feel down and not like themselves; nor may they view themselves in positive regards, our vision is to empower every individual through to "ascend forward" and strengthen their abilities to overcome their mental health challenges, and to start viewing themselves positively climbing upwards.
Our mission at Exalted Mind & Wellness is to support individuals in providing psychological, emotional/mental care to heal and improve your life. The name Aliya, translates to "Exalted" "One who climbs upwards", a meaning that has played an important role throughout my journey. When one struggles with mental health concerns, they often feel down and not like themselves; nor may they view themselves in positive regards, our vision is to empower every individual through to "ascend forward" and strengthen their abilities to overcome their mental health challenges, and to start viewing themselves positively climbing upwards.
Life experiences past and present can both contribute to underlying mental health issues that decrease the quality of your life. I am here to listen to your story and guide you through the painful parts, overcome challenges and help you reach your goals. I help people piece together their past and work towards a meaningful present. With over 15 years in the field, I bring both life and professional experience to my work. I support people with trauma, grief, anxiety, depression and other mood and emotional disorders. Over the years I have also supported professionals who experience burnout, various trauma and compassion fatigue.
Life experiences past and present can both contribute to underlying mental health issues that decrease the quality of your life. I am here to listen to your story and guide you through the painful parts, overcome challenges and help you reach your goals. I help people piece together their past and work towards a meaningful present. With over 15 years in the field, I bring both life and professional experience to my work. I support people with trauma, grief, anxiety, depression and other mood and emotional disorders. Over the years I have also supported professionals who experience burnout, various trauma and compassion fatigue.
See You Tube "its not about the nail". We're both counsellors because our passion is seeing people empowered to move forward in life by understanding how to find freedom. It's possible in one visit to understand root causes of problems. We can help you to understand and implement boundaries in both personal and professional relationships. If you're tired of how you're reacting to circumstances and want to rise above emotional chaotic thinking then call.
See You Tube "its not about the nail". We're both counsellors because our passion is seeing people empowered to move forward in life by understanding how to find freedom. It's possible in one visit to understand root causes of problems. We can help you to understand and implement boundaries in both personal and professional relationships. If you're tired of how you're reacting to circumstances and want to rise above emotional chaotic thinking then call.
Mamta Bhatt
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MACP, RP (Q), RMT
Verified Verified
Milton, ON L9T
Have you experienced trauma or grief that completely overwhelms your senses in present? Have you isolated yourself from friends and near and dear ones? Does the experience of ongoing abuse in the current relationship results in emotional meltdowns in you? Are you struggling with anger, hatred and resentments? Do you want to live in the present moment with joy, hope and passion? Do you want a life filled with purpose and meaning? Let me assure you that it's possible to overcome hurdles, feel peaceful and connected again! Call me to uncover the possibilities and potential!
Have you experienced trauma or grief that completely overwhelms your senses in present? Have you isolated yourself from friends and near and dear ones? Does the experience of ongoing abuse in the current relationship results in emotional meltdowns in you? Are you struggling with anger, hatred and resentments? Do you want to live in the present moment with joy, hope and passion? Do you want a life filled with purpose and meaning? Let me assure you that it's possible to overcome hurdles, feel peaceful and connected again! Call me to uncover the possibilities and potential!
Accepting New Clients in person and virtually. If your relationships are a struggle – I am the person for you. Any kind of relationship—the one with your partner, the one with your child, the one with your parent, coworker, or boss, and most importantly, the one with yourself! Instead of bringing you joy, your relationships leave you feeling dissatisfied, disconnected, and empty. You struggle to figure out how to remove the hostility and despair you feel. Your thoughts and feelings turn to negativity, and your self-esteem doesn’t hold you up.
Accepting New Clients in person and virtually. If your relationships are a struggle – I am the person for you. Any kind of relationship—the one with your partner, the one with your child, the one with your parent, coworker, or boss, and most importantly, the one with yourself! Instead of bringing you joy, your relationships leave you feeling dissatisfied, disconnected, and empty. You struggle to figure out how to remove the hostility and despair you feel. Your thoughts and feelings turn to negativity, and your self-esteem doesn’t hold you up.
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How does the Gottman method work?
One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.
Is the Gottman method evidence-based?
Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.
How long does the Gottman method take?
The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.
Is the Gottman method effective?
Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.